Always pray fervently at midnight against all forms and spirit of lust

Optimistic4life:
I'm trying hard to live a life free from sin and sexual immorality and I am doing pretty well but of recent, my hormones/body have been raging and I am finding it difficult to cope.

It's 18months I have been separated and there is no getting back together.

Were you ever in my situation, how did you overcome without involving in sex/masturbation?

I just need some words of encouragement.

Its really not easy and it has become some sort of distraction.

The reason I do not want to have a male friend is because of my fear for God.

Kobojunkie:
If God is really who you claim to want to please by your choice, then you want to make sure you have the right information to help you on your path. According to Jesus Christ, the one who is God's New Covenant and Law in the Kingdom of God, what is sin is not what you refer to as sexual immorality- fornication, masturbation, homosexuality etc. - instead sin is the lust in your heart towards another - Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28 - those fantasies and longings for sex are what constitute sin in the Kingdom of God. If so everyone

So while you claim you have not physically engaged in what is sexually immoral activities in the 18 months period, that all means nothing when you consider that the sin is that committed in your mind/heart and not the physical activity itself.

If so everyone is a sinner then ,una go the write rubbish.There’s a difference between temptation and sin,you can be tempted,and not sin.Jesus was tempted to the point that he cried and wished he didn’t want to die,Apostle Paul said if you can’t control your passion then marry,There must be passion in your flesh that will burn but self control will come to play which is the gift of the spirit.The bible said when lust is fully mature it gives birth to sin,sin to death.Jesus made that statement to prove to man that man needs help and needs to come the end of himself and thereby cry out for a saviour who is Jesus.

Lepon02:


Olofo ni e!

Na ur babe?

Optimistic4life:


So the thought of sex coming through my mind has already made me a sinner?

Don't mind this animal try and remarry if you can't go back to beg your husband even if he was wrong, in marriages you lent to forgive one another.

WatchYourSix:


It’s becos u watch p0rn, sex containing movies, sexy music videos, you also read sex stories....

The mind na garbage in garbage out...when you sleep, it doesn’t....your mind has a link to your hormones...

Bro ehn, even if you do not watch porn, almost everything online, twitter is seductive

Kobojunkie:
Please try not to muddle this up as it is easy to. According to Jesus Christ, God's very own Law given to those of us who wish to eventually make it into God's Heaven, you sin the moment you lust in your heart after a one you are not married to - Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28. That is the point when one is said to become a sinner against God, not when one engages in any of the physical acts.

Can you just calm down please and don't turn the scripture upsidedown.

How exactly do one lust on another person?
It's clearly when you see the person and the immoral thought protrudes your mind. After all you see who you lust towards by seeing.

The lady speaking here is only reacting to nature, forget you not that she's was married before, hence she knows what sex is all about.

I do understand that her body needs what she was enjoying for sometime but no more available legitimately the way she used to have it.

Hey, don't compound her woes with this condemnation crap you putting up here.

Dear OP,
It's normal you feel how you feeling, just take your bath in the next situation. Afterwards, get busy with something and before you know it, you are back to normal. Don't let any Mr God's media aide condemn you when God himself haven't.

Hmmmmm it's not easy ooo madam the Lord is your strength but I think you should try to reconcile with your husband I think that's the best.

Men are scum! Men are scum!! Yes we all know but our burette is all you need for survival and vice versa. Please just pray to God to send the anointed burette and give marriage a second thought

AutoChick4U:
Eunuch experience sex? Pls give back this phone to d real owner abeg

Achorise:
If so everyone is a sinner then ,una go the write rubbish.There’s a difference between temptation and sin,you can be tempted,and not sin.Jesus was tempted to the point that he cried and wished he didn’t want to die,Apostle Paul said if you can’t control your passion then marry,There must be passion in your flesh that will burn but self control will come to play which is the gift of the spirit.The bible said when lust is fully mature it gives birth to sin,sin to death.Jesus made that statement to prove to man that man needs help and needs to come the end of himself and thereby cry out for a saviour who is Jesus.

I even wonder how people quickly decide for God. For example, I man that wake up in the morning and found his cork hard, does it mean he was thinking about sex in his sleep or should I say dream? All this God's media aide diegwu.

dont go back to ashawo again please..... take care of that fatherless baby.. you were one of those girls that used to follow men coz of money.. this is one of the result

Arizoner:
why did god allow us to have sexual feelings if he doesn't like sin?

Why did God give you brain?? to invent good things abi?? but does he want you to create bombs to kill others...

Everything has its use...Misuse Always sets in
immediately man rejects the God’ provision (I.e the spirit of God) ...

Bible said when God’s spirit left Saul... an evil spirit entered him....he never tried to repent till he died..

There is not void... darkness automatically comes when light goes off... if don’t embrace Gods law...there will be no control to the level of sin you will commit..

I'm trying hard to live a life free from sin and sexual immorality and I am doing pretty well but of recent, my hormones/body have been raging and I am finding it difficult to cope.

It's 18months I have been separated and there is no getting back together.

Were you ever in my situation, how did you overcome without involving in sex/masturbation?

I just need some words of encouragement.

Its really not easy and it has become some sort of distraction.

The reason I do not want to have a male friend is because of my fear for God.


FEW QUESTIONS PLEASE : WERE YOU RIGHTFULLY MARRIED TO THIS MAN,IF YES THEN ITS VERY POSSIBLE FOR GOD TO REUNITE YOU BOTH. IF NO, FORGET ABOUT IT THAT MAN IS NOT YOUR HUSBAND. SISTER I WILL TELL YOU THE TRUTH,IF YOU GO INTO FORNICATION/ADULTERY OR MASTURBATION HONESTLY YOU WILL REGRET IT. THE HEDGES WILL BE BROKEN AND THE SERPENT WILL BITE eccl 10:8, PEOPLE WILL TELL YOU IT DOESN'T MATTER JUST FOR YOU TO GO AHEAD AND OFFEND GOD. REMEMBER 1Cor 6:19 FEAR GOD AND FLEE FROM SIN,THE ONLY SOLUTION IS ENGAGE IN FASTING AND PRAYER,TELL GOD TO KILL THAT DESIRE FOR EVIL. ALSO PRAY TO GOD TO REUNITE YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND. YOU'RE BLESSED!

Hmmm,thank God for you.Something may have necessitated your separation from your spouse. Your write up revealed you're a Christian. If indeed you want to make heaven at last,pls and pls reconcile with your husband, God hate divorce. Then on your being alone at the moment, l was once in your shoes for 5years having lost my wife of 26 years. So l can tell the temptations and the urged to go against God.First,ask God to give you the grace then,get engaged seriously with God's work and avoid unguided relationship with opposite sex.The lord is able to restore all things. Nothing is impossible with God.

SugarGirl44:


Satanic kee you there.
Holier than thou mofo.

Don't infect others with your depravity simple.

Please change your diet and thank me later.

Get a cucumber

mario2k:
I'm trying hard to live a life free from sin and sexual immorality and I am doing pretty well but of recent, my hormones/body have been raging and I am finding it difficult to cope.

It's 18months I have been separated and there is no getting back together.

Were you ever in my situation, how did you overcome without involving in sex/masturbation?

I just need some words of encouragement.

Its really not easy and it has become some sort of distraction.

The reason I do not want to have a male friend is because of my fear for God.


FEW QUESTIONS PLEASE : WERE YOU RIGHTFULLY MARRIED TO THIS MAN,IF YES THEN ITS VERY POSSIBLE FOR GOD TO REUNITE YOU BOTH. IF NO, FORGET ABOUT IT THAT MAN IS NOT YOUR HUSBAND. SISTER I WILL TELL YOU THE TRUTH,IF YOU GO INTO FORNICATION/ADULTERY OR MASTURBATION HONESTLY YOU WILL REGRET IT. THE HEDGES WILL BE BROKEN AND THE SERPENT WILL BITE eccl 10:8, PEOPLE WILL TELL YOU IT DOESN'T MATTER JUST FOR YOU TO GO AHEAD AND OFFEND GOD. REMEMBER 1Cor 6:19 FEAR GOD AND FLEE FROM SIN,THE ONLY SOLUTION IS ENGAGE IN FASTING AND PRAYER,TELL GOD TO KILL THAT DESIRE FOR EVIL. ALSO PRAY TO GOD TO REUNITE YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND. YOU'RE BLESSED!

Thank you ooo belle sweet me for this godly counsel

Born2conquer:

Bro ehn, even if you do not watch porn, almost everything online, twitter is seductive

Go on one month holiday of twitter, instagram, p0rn... you go see the difference.

HOW TO AVOID SEX AS A SINGLE MOTHER[center][/center]


Thank you for your request for advise, You are very correct, it is actually difficult to stay without sex as single mum especially if you have engaged in it in the past with your husband. Is normal, even most anointed Men of God do actually confirmed that. Especially the sincere and truthful one. Since you have made up your mind to shun immorality and keep your body pure before God which is the greatest.

Following Steps can help you:

1. Guide your mind: Your mind is the target point from Satan. All sexual immoralities begin from the mind before it manifests physically. Stop exposing your eyes to sexual attracting and stimulating things, such as films, pictures, people, this is the starting point.

2. Replace any sexual thought with scripture. Anytime the desire comes, locate a scripture that talk about holiness, purity or hell, this will immediate kills the thought

3. Buy and watch consistently biblical film or listen to holiness preacher. You can get from Youtube. Remember every thought comes as a seed which eventually produces and faith comes by hearing, and hearing of the word of God.

4. Don't be too friendly and close contact with opposite sex especially the immoral one: This is because women response to contact or touch. now, your mind is already weak that is while you have the desire, too much close contact with opposite sex will ignite the fire more and you will not even know when you fall into it. Any close contact with opposite sex in private places whether office or shop, you will be the first to pull the pant down. So avoid the temptation.

5. Finally when you want to sleep while waiting for sleep, play Christian songs with your phone in your bed. This also help in averting maturbation desire, loness stimulates maturbation too. So it is better you charge your spirit with spiritual songs that keep your mind peaceful and connect with Holy Spirit before sleep take over.

I believe with these steps, Holy Spirit gives you the strength, I know is not easy but this is best time to approve to God that you indeed fear Him and I believe the bless is too much to count, in term of divine health, businesses and even meeting a the right man. Please Please if you cant cope, quickly get marry if your ex-husband can't reconcile again which I know it is possible if forgiveness is in place.

Optimistic4life:


This option is definitely not in the picture at all.

He said I am free to remarry if I want but we aren't divorced and also remarrying isn't a day's affair nor a joke.

Sister, I thought your separated meant you were only living together. It's serious because if you are a real Follower of Jesus, and strictly want to please Him then remarriage is not possible At All except your ex is Dead (which I believe he is not).

Pastors and christians don't take Jesus' words seriously that's why they don't think of marriage long-term Before deciding to tie the knot: cos divorce and remarriage are Considered to be rather cheap.

Please, see these:

Matt.5.31 - "Furthermore it has been said, "Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.'

Matt.5.32 - But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery.

Matt.19.8 - He said to them, "Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so.

Matt.19.9 - And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery."

Matt.19.10 - His disciples said to Him, "If such is the case of the man with his wife, it is better not to marry."

1Cor.7.39 - A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.

May Jesus bless you

Rehdasignature1:


I even wonder how people quickly decide for God. For example, I man that wake up in the morning and found his cork hard, does it mean he was thinking about sex in his sleep or should I say dream? All this God's media aide diegwu.

I wonder at them sometimes

Na u go tire

You have been severally advised to ignore what that kobo fellow is spilling here.

He is having fun at your expense.

He is not a Christian but a Bible peruser.

Didnt you notice that he keeps sticking to the same two scriptures.

He is trying to make you condemn yourself which is against the Revelation of Christ.

Be guided

Optimistic4life:


So the thought of sex coming through my mind has already made me a sinner?

Arizoner:
is it a sin to lust after your church member?

Lust is different from love. You can love your church member, but do not become lustful. Lust is sin, regardless of whom you lust after.

Optimistic4life:
I'm trying hard to live a life free from sin and sexual immorality and I am doing pretty well but of recent, my hormones/body have been raging and I am finding it difficult to cope.

It's 18months I have been separated and there is no getting back together.

Were you ever in my situation, how did you overcome without involving in sex/masturbation?

I just need some words of encouragement.

Its really not easy and it has become some sort of distraction.

The reason I do not want to have a male friend is because of my fear for God.

Where in the Bible does it say masturbation is a sin? When you fear a God to the point that you can't touch yourself to feel good, that's mental slavery

Many at times, when someone is not in this case it may not be able to give right insight and respond in the right manner. You see many things contribute to the hormonal responses we receive in our system and If you've not been able to effectively study yourself personally especially through the help of the Spirit it will just be a mere struggle instead of being a life.

Since you fear the Lord I will encourage that you keep fellowship with the Holy Spirit, so that he can reveal what's plans are to you and show you help to this impending situations.

Every man will talk based on his/her opinion but there is just one person you will be answerable to at all time and that is God. Connect to him via is spirit.

If you need more help for instructional things to do we can connect.

Be helped sis

Optimistic4life:
I'm trying hard to live a life free from sin and sexual immorality and I am doing pretty well but of recent, my hormones/body have been raging and I am finding it difficult to cope.

It's 18months I have been separated and there is no getting back together.

Were you ever in my situation, how did you overcome without involving in sex/masturbation?

I just need some words of encouragement.

Its really not easy and it has become some sort of distraction.

The reason I do not want to have a male friend because of my fear for God.

Either you go back to your husband and settle the dispute or starve yourself since u have the fear for God. Let me tell you straight up ma..80% of men out there just want to see the color of your panties. To find real love again nowadays go hard oo unless u meet a man that is not with his wife again and he is looking for another wife. Aside that ! You can survive it I believe. Aftr the death of my dad, my mum didn't remarry..And she's surviving.

Turn to Jesus.

Accept Him into hour life.

Attend a Bible believing Church.

Join NSPPD Prayers by Pst. Jerry Eze on YouTube-- Monday to Friday at 7:00am daily.

Many people are testifying.

Come to Jesus with your problems.

God bless you.

Ninisun:




Please buy a Love Machine for sustainance okay, since you don't want to do the real one. Conji causes waist pain and mental instability, everything go just dey vex you. Please stop suffering yourself ooo.

Man is the epitome of God's creation because he was designed to operate in same manner with God.

People here keep telling you that thoughts cannot be controlled.

That is nonsense.

Thoughts can be replaced. What it takes is self discipline.

The Body can be brought under subjection by the Spoken Word especially those released under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit.

If all those monks in Tibet can go decades without a desire for sex then why can't others.

It's just harder for us because we surround ourselves with things that provoke sexual urges and those fellows don't.

Let me stop here as although I have much more to say, I don't have the time to say it.

Optimistic4life:


So the thought of sex coming through my mind has already made me a sinner?

Kobojunkie:
1. You are no longer married to him so it would be sin.
2. What is sin is the lust in your heart that usually comes before or during the acts themselves.

3. There is nothing natural about those desires or you would be born lusting from your very birth. You develop these desires over time and as such can also chose to control them rather than allow them control you.

I think we all know what is meant by sexual lust and that is what Jesus Christ said is sin.

You are wrongly dividing the Bible sir.

What are all these?

Someone joined by marriage covenant to another is still joined until death separates them, regardless of if they go to court to obtain divorce papers. Marriage covenant is spiritual, you think mere mentioning the word divorce or going to a physical court ends it all?
Why is it that Bible calls it a sin when a spouse divorces his or her partner and marries another except in the case of death or adultery? Which Bible are you reading??

Secondly, Paul said marry if you are burning and can't contain it (control yourself). The burning is not the sin, but gratifying the burning unlawfully and/or engaging in lust to satisfy the yearning.

Hormones actions are normal, containing them is possible without sinning, but if you can't, simply marry.

Please desist from giving counsel of what you are not sure of.

Thanks.