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Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by Skillsnigeria: 12:20pm On Apr 01, 2022
The lord will deliver you
Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by Worldlegend(m): 12:21pm On Apr 01, 2022
Kipling:
Pm good people of naira land. I really need help.

I'm in my early twenties and I'm very addicted to pornography and masturbation. My own level of addiction is so severe that when I see people here complaining of being addicted I just laugh.

I started since 2017 and I have been masturbating since then even when I didn't have a mobile to satisfy my addiction, I borrow just so I'll be alright.

Right now, I just finished masturbating about three times in a row since yesterday, even after today I vowed never to masturbate again, went to my history to clear off porn pages. I mistakenly clicked on one and I masturbated again. I really need help all round, when I mean help I mean actual help.

Your suggestions and insults are welcomed. I deserve them.

How often do you masturbate in a week on a regular basis..

I a solution for you

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Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by Achiever1010: 12:22pm On Apr 01, 2022
Phillipians 4:13
Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by uniqueuser(m): 12:23pm On Apr 01, 2022
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Download this as either video or audio... I guarantee you you'll change if you wish to just find time and listen to this message
Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by CalmElder(m): 12:24pm On Apr 01, 2022
Juliet751:
A sex therapist can also determine whether your mastrubation habits are truly problematic.





You lots always advising people to see therapists for one issue or the other.
Have you seen therapists in your life?
For this naija?
Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by tonididdy(m): 12:24pm On Apr 01, 2022
Guy get a gf or enjoy yourself.



... You nor Kee person!
Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by NoContract(m): 12:25pm On Apr 01, 2022
ADepresedpotato:
The truth is tomorrow or next tomorrow u'll masturbate again and u'll feel sad and dejected and vow not to watch porn again but actually u'll still masturbate again and feel sad and dejected again. This is the cycle of a chronic addicted masturbator pass through every day.
To break this cycle is easy, don't feel bad or sad after masturbating, embraced it as part of Ur lifestyle and instead enjoy it until the principle of "See Finish" comes into play when pornography no longer gives u the satisfaction u need.

This one dey too...but e dey waste time.
Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by inforesource: 12:25pm On Apr 01, 2022
Kipling:
Pm good people of naira land. I really need help.

I'm in my early twenties and I'm very addicted to pornography and masturbation. My own level of addiction is so severe that when I see people here complaining of being addicted I just laugh.

I started since 2017 and I have been masturbating since then even when I didn't have a mobile to satisfy my addiction, I borrow just so I'll be alright.

Right now, I just finished masturbating about three times in a row since yesterday, even after today I vowed never to masturbate again, went to my history to clear off porn pages. I mistakenly clicked on one and I masturbated again. I really need help all round, when I mean help I mean actual help.

Your suggestions and insults are welcomed. I deserve them.

I will be sincere with you. You have been possessed with a powerful spirit of pornography. It usually comes in through your eyes and then take possession of your mind and finally your emotions.

Solutions:
Read scripture, The Holy Bible regularly. You may be still falling to this once in a while but don't stop reading your Bible. To add to this, discipline yourself in what you watch and listen to. Go to True Bible Church. I bet you, in a matter of time, it will be over.

JESUS LOVES YOU!!!!

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Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by Najdorf: 12:29pm On Apr 01, 2022
Lots of useless advice here that don't really give you an actionable plan. Blaming spirits and what not or telling you to simply stop porn/masturbation. I question to those people is do you understand what an addiction is? Is simply telling someone addicted to marijuana to stop gonna do anything?

First thing you need to do is understand why you are doing this. Are you using it to handle stress, do you have a serious problem with lust, do you simply have too much time on your hands and little to do? Find the root of your addiction.

Secondly, make your decision. Do you want porn and masturbation to be a part of your life? If yes, ride on but if no, you have to understand why you are actually taking it out of your life. Without any concrete reason for wanting to defeat an addiction you will keep relapsing.

Begin to read and understand why porn and masturbation is bad for you, there are many books and articles on the topic you can find online including a whole community called "NoFap" which you can find them on Reddit. Join the community, hear other people's stories, see the advice people give and ask any questions that bother you.

I'll go a bit into the process of actually breaking the addiction but I'll leave the rest for you since I assume you're serious about turning a new leaf in your life.

You have to know your triggers and stay away from them. Instagram? YouTube? Certain shows? Whatever it may be, you need to cut it out completely. You daily schedule should have as little idle and alone time as possible, you should always be working.

Lastly, I heard this some time ago when listening to Jordan Peterson. Make a list of all you can achieve in next five years if you actually straightened your life out, now make a list describing the state your life will be in the next five years if you continue with your current habits. Compare the two and let that serve as a motivation. During your journey there will be relapses but it's important to never give up and keep striving to be a better person.

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Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by enebelid9(m): 12:30pm On Apr 01, 2022
Stay away from lonely places.... If possible always be with someone.

Don't pay too much attention to your phone

Kipling:

I've tried that with little or no result
Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by Foxykevo(m): 12:30pm On Apr 01, 2022
Kipling:
Pm good people of naira land. I really need help.

I'm in my early twenties and I'm very addicted to pornography and masturbation. My own level of addiction is so severe that when I see people here complaining of being addicted I just laugh.

I started since 2017 and I have been masturbating since then even when I didn't have a mobile to satisfy my addiction, I borrow just so I'll be alright.

Right now, I just finished masturbating about three times in a row since yesterday, even after today I vowed never to masturbate again, went to my history to clear off porn pages. I mistakenly clicked on one and I masturbated again. I really need help all round, when I mean help I mean actual help.

Your suggestions and insults are welcomed. I deserve them.



Guy good afternoon I really understand your pains...if you can chat me up..I will tell you what do. 08068219364
Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by herbert2017: 12:30pm On Apr 01, 2022
This may sound bad to you,I recommend you go for deliverance,then discipline yourself,by Fasting and prayers,stay away from porn,stay in the company of people.
Pls sir,u must go for proper deliverance.
What u are going through is that Abaddon,the gods of sexual pollution has taken over your destiny. The earlier the better.
Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by Vivian16: 12:30pm On Apr 01, 2022
Read all the psalms from psalm 1 to psalm 150, psalms are powerful prayers for deliverance read like 5 chapters everyday before the months runs out you must have read the whole psalms and you will never remain the same, it is the holy spirit that delivers people not by your own strength.
Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by nkwachii(m): 12:31pm On Apr 01, 2022
onyenatruchi:
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cheesy
Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by nuel001: 12:31pm On Apr 01, 2022
Here are few tips to consider:

1. Stop isolating yourself. Loneliness is a trigger. Try to be in the company of loved ones.

2. Find something to do to keep yourself busy. What I mean is, get a side hustle, learn a skill...just anything that will help concentrate your energy elsewhere.

3. Get a confidant and open up to him/her about your condition. Please let that person be someone who's matured emotionally, that wouldn't judge you. Your religious leader, best friend, girlfriend or boyfriend, or a lived one fall in this category. Ask the person to help monitor your improvement, and be honest enough to tell them whenever you default.

4. Everything good requires determination, sacrifice and faith.

5. Never rule out the place of God. Become prayerful.

Best wishes.
Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by nsesam(m): 12:34pm On Apr 01, 2022
Avoid quiet places, pls try to stay with ppl most times
Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by nuel001: 12:34pm On Apr 01, 2022
Vivian16:
Read all the psalms from psalm 1 to psalm 150, psalms are powerful prayers for deliverance read like 5 chapters everyday before the months runs out you must have read the whole psalms and you will never remain the same, it is the holy spirit that delivers people not by your own strength.


Interesting.
Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by Nobody: 12:37pm On Apr 01, 2022
just get yourself a partner and thank me later
Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by ChiefSweetus: 12:38pm On Apr 01, 2022
Kipling:
Pm good people of naira land. I really need help.

I'm in my early twenties and I'm very addicted to pornography and masturbation. My own level of addiction is so severe that when I see people here complaining of being addicted I just laugh.

I started since 2017 and I have been masturbating since then even when I didn't have a mobile to satisfy my addiction, I borrow just so I'll be alright.

Right now, I just finished masturbating about three times in a row since yesterday, even after today I vowed never to masturbate again, went to my history to clear off porn pages. I mistakenly clicked on one and I masturbated again. I really need help all round, when I mean help I mean actual help.

Your suggestions and insults are welcomed. I deserve them.
grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by Ogbonnaa(m): 12:40pm On Apr 01, 2022
onyenatruchi:
Because of masturbation i stopped buying cucumber from market women lipsrsealed Whenever i want to buy cucumber, my spirit always tell me not to buy lipsrsealed That the cucumber is already used lipsrsealed Whenever i go to the market, ladies will be telling me to come and buy cucumber lipsrsealed I always tell them "back to sender"lipsrsealed Ladies of nowadays, after over using Cucumber lipsrsealed They will wash it and be selling it in the market lipsrsealed I no buy again lipsrsealed
lol, you know these ladies Wella and what they do with cucumber grin grin
Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by truthCoder: 12:41pm On Apr 01, 2022
Kipling:

Please give me tips on how to do that
I'd pay for that

Get a sexy girlfriend.

Make love.

Use protection to prevent pregnancy.

Whenever you get aroused, call her to come around. Wait for her. Dont masturbate before she arrives.

Have enough sex when she arrives.

With time, the period from her coming till when she arrives gradually weans you off.

You are still young and agile. This could be the reason. Dont feel regret.

When i was younger and gold circle condom pack still had 4 sachets, once i open a pack, i must finish it before she leaves. Now, even the 3 sachets is too much.

Dont feel too bad.

But above all, be safe. Don’t destroy your future with i unprotected sex with strangers.

There are girls who know their HIV status and are still into runs.
Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by sliksusan: 12:44pm On Apr 01, 2022
Kipling:

How do I stop?
Even after I vow not to just by seeing a lady I'll be aroused


if you wanted to stop porn watch first try to have girlfriend which both of you living together if your girlfriend live with you it is very hard for you to watch porn or masturbate because anytime you feel to make love as your girlfriend she around you them you can do whatever you wanted with your girlfriend them you forget about porn or masturbate

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Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by AfroAgroPower: 12:46pm On Apr 01, 2022
AfroAgroPower:


Firstly, I want to thank God Almighty for The Opportunity of Self Consciousness and Realization of You wanting to TRULY Stop the Act of Masturbation.

I want to thank God for also providing this topic in the front page as an opportunity to discuss about "Masturbation" which is an important subject matter in this era of digitalization.



Yesternight, I had prepared some topics to create as Threads on The Subject Matter of Masturbation as You can observe in the screenshot below.



So, I praise The Holy Spirit for inspiring me before hand on this subject matter.


I already understand that God Almighty is ready to Help as Many People Who are Genuinely ready to Stop.






........



Now, let's get started with How You Can EASILY Stop Masturbation Today and Quickly.


If you want to easily stop masturbating, The Fact is that You have To Understand The Purpose/Origination of MASTURBATION.

Without Knowing This, you can't solve your Addiction Problem.

Simply because; When The Purpose of A Thing is Not Known, Abuse of it is not Undeniable.




Now, Since you are out here to outcry your Masturbation Addiction, I'm sure you are already experiencing by yourself the negative effect it is having on your life already.



So, your problem is already half solved.



What is remaining of you is to Completely Replace This Addiction with another TREASURE because No Matter How Much You Decide To Quit Masturbating without Replacing Your Entire Mindset/Faculty of Thoughts with another TREASURE, You will Always Find Yourself going back to it.



So here are my points:


I'll help you understand The Origin/Purpose of Masturbation.


I'll help you understand reasons why you should Quit Masturbating.

I'll help you replace your ADDICTION with the Right TREASURE.


I'll give you real life stories and personal convictions about Masturbation.

I'll carry you on a 14 days and 3 Months Exercise as They will be necessary to helping you abstain Completely from Masturbation.





You may need to write to me personally on WhatsApp or We discuss about the problem on phone if you like.


@kipling, let's ride.

1) I'll help you understand The Origin/Purpose of Masturbation.


I do not know if you believe in The Story of God and Satan. However; what I want you to Truly know is that " We do not wrestle against Flesh and Blood, but Powers and Principalities in High Places." (Ephesians 6:12).


Now; it is important for you to know that there is a Spiritual Power behind Masturbation.


And This Spiritual Power is The Power that Negates The Total Plan of God Almighty for Man and Woman on Earth.

What is This Plan of God for Man and Woman on Earth ?

Genesis 2:21 explains this subtly:


"so the LORD God caused a deep sleep to overshadow the man. When the man was asleep, he removed one of the man's ribs and closed up the flesh where it had been."

From The Scripture above, It is God's Plan that You have A Woman to have Sex with Anytime You want to. This was the reason He Formed Woman out of Man's Ribs.


God understood that Men needed Sexual Mates to Procreate.


Now; You have to Understand That it is The Devil's Agenda to Disrupt God's Plan for His Purpose for Man and Woman.



The Devil Utilizes "Masturbation" as His Tool to ensure that You Defile Your Body which is supposed to be The Temple of God.

So, When You Masturbate, You come short of The Glory of God.


Thereby You become Weak and Ashamed to Relate and Speak with God.





I'm sure you must have observed the negative consequences Masturbating must have caused you in terms of Your Wealth, Health and Sexual Life.


Sex is 90% Spiritual and 10% Physical.

Masturbation is same.



Sex with Your Wife should provide you Comfort, Upliftment, Satisfaction and Confidence to Becoming Your Best Version.


Proverbs 18:22 says:

"Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, And obtaineth favor of Jehovah. ... He that finds a good wife finds a good thing, and receives the will of LORD JEHOVAH"



So, You see that it is God's Purpose and WILL for you to get Married to Your WIFE. And it is Your Responsibility to FIND Your WIFE Yourself; because when You do; You receive Favor for being Your Best Version from God Almighty because it is His WILL that We Multiply.


The Devil wanting to Always Go Against God's WILL for You is Why He has Choked Your Spirit with The Affliction of Masturbation.


So, you see - The reason you have always wanted to stop masturbating but you findit difficult to do so is because Your Spirit has been Afflicted with The DESIRE To Always Masturbate which will Prevent You from Finding Your WIFE (Sexual and Reproductive Energy) needed for You to Grow in Great Wealth and Health as You Obtaineth Favor from God Almighty.






So, Practically- Your First Assignment is to Find Yourself a WIFE of Your Own.



Which is Sweeter ?

Masturbating or Having Good Sex with Your WIFE ?


With this mentality, you'll see that you need to start killing the Spirit of Masturbation.



MASTURBATION causes Setbacks and Poverty for People. I'm sure you will be able to attest to this too.

So, now - I'm sure you now know The Origin of Masturbation.

It is a Tool Used by The Devil to Limit The Potentials of Man on Earth.

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Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by Nonywendy(m): 12:49pm On Apr 01, 2022
Kipling:

How do I stop?
Even after I vow not to just by seeing a lady I'll be aroused
sell ur browsing fone. Buy Nokia torch light phone. That's first step
Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by Fourwinds: 12:49pm On Apr 01, 2022
Juliet751:
Stop watching porn.

No he must contue to watch porn.. He must see Toto whether real or pictorial
Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by ttbaba(m): 12:51pm On Apr 01, 2022
Zionzoom:
be thinking about money, I swear you won't even think of masturbating, that's what helped me to stop masturbation
that can't stop it especially if the guy is financially ok undecided
Zionzoom:
be thinking about money, I swear you won't even think of masturbating, that's what helped me to stop masturbation
that can't stop it especially if the guy is financially ok
Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by Macdo222: 12:54pm On Apr 01, 2022
Take it to God in prayers
Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by Westernequinox: 12:55pm On Apr 01, 2022
addiction is a spirit and you need to deal with it from a place of God's mercy, you need to reach out to someone asap, the devil is on your case. Just ask Jesus to have mercy in you
Kipling:
Pm good people of naira land. I really need help.

I'm in my early twenties and I'm very addicted to pornography and masturbation. My own level of addiction is so severe that when I see people here complaining of being addicted I just laugh.

I started since 2017 and I have been masturbating since then even when I didn't have a mobile to satisfy my addiction, I borrow just so I'll be alright.

Right now, I just finished masturbating about three times in a row since yesterday, even after today I vowed never to masturbate again, went to my history to clear off porn pages. I mistakenly clicked on one and I masturbated again. I really need help all round, when I mean help I mean actual help.

Your suggestions and insults are welcomed. I deserve them.
Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by Guderian(m): 12:56pm On Apr 01, 2022
SkengRay:
Get a Girlfriend bro

And start fornicating abi. CRAP
It is the same as masturbation better for him to get a wife
Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by kendological(m): 12:56pm On Apr 01, 2022
Themainboy22:
The way you type, it seems you are always idle and probably have no job. I'll advise you sell your phone and buy nokia torch (or any small phone that has no internet connection), use the remaining and invest in something that will keep your mind busy.
You think porn is compulsory to masturbate? A good masturbator will do it with just imagination.
Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by Olam09(m): 12:57pm On Apr 01, 2022
Kipling:
Pm good people of naira land. I really need help.

I'm in my early twenties and I'm very addicted to pornography and masturbation. My own level of addiction is so severe that when I see people here complaining of being addicted I just laugh.

I started since 2017 and I have been masturbating since then even when I didn't have a mobile to satisfy my addiction, I borrow just so I'll be alright.

Right now, I just finished masturbating about three times in a row since yesterday, even after today I vowed never to masturbate again, went to my history to clear off porn pages. I mistakenly clicked on one and I masturbated again. I really need help all round, when I mean help I mean actual help.

Your suggestions and insults are welcomed. I deserve them.

Sha dey eat well well.. imagine you loosing nutrients 3 times a day. grin
Re: Help! My Masturbation Addiction Level Is Out Of This World by Jennifer89(f): 12:57pm On Apr 01, 2022
Kipling:

Please give me tips on how to do that
I'd pay for that


It seems you have nothing doing. If you're busy you won't have time to massage your Piipii through out the day

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