descarado:

It doesn't belong to the mother.
Most fathers properties were mostly generational properties but still rightfully go to the wives after the death of their husbands.

When husbands put children's names on the will, we cry marginalisation and unfair treatment.

What we should rather be arguing about is how to make the old man not sell.

DMerciful:
This son is trying to follow precedence. Many women who will properties do so to their children and men naturally will be too ashamed to be dragging properties so they just ignore but may hate the women for it.

This son that looks in one direction, if the mother acquired debts, would he be dragging it with the Dad?

ChristineC:

the law is there for a reason and your ignorance is never a panacea for morality.

pocohantas:


Whose precedence? That of his fellow men. Because I am sure even the people from his mother’s side dragging it with him are also men. Rather than face the main issue, your gender’s innate greed on landed properties and earthly possession- you decided to face the innocent woman that is obviously dead. OP’s sisters are alive and no mention of them.

Why do you people fight yourselves and the whole world?!

smasher1:


if he claims he has two properties and his own money, I don't know why he is ready to die because of inherited properties. even those without anything don't fight over land.

Kobojunkie:
Marriage, according to Genesis 2 vs 24 is simply an agreement between a man and woman to become husband and wife(marriage). The very same husband and wife on whom the curse in Genesis 3 vs 16 is placed on by God..
Implicated are the very same husband and wife(one) that is a marriage.

God didn't place that curse on single women or single men, but on men and women in marriage(husband and wife) .I.e. on marriage itself..

effort1:
He should sue his father to court?

The way you are attacking men here, is like your father taped you and you are taking it out on all men.

PeaceJoyLove:

The property you acquired yourself is different from the one your father handed over to you, not to talk of the one your father inlaw handed over to your wife. And you want to start dragging that with your son?

If you change the name on the property your father gave you to your wife, then, it is all over na. But I am sure it will never happen.


You no well at all. How can a man in his right sense think like this? Chai! Many Nigerian men are pus...sies.

Are you really sure you are ok? In fact, I am sure the property you talked about was not from your pocket. Chai. And you still dey talk?

Is this one a man? Na puss...y be this one.

Werey dey disguise telling a lie he bought a property and put his wife's name there. Werey. Lol. People like you would buy a land in a ghetto for peanut and put her name, so you can acquire the one her papa handed to her in Banana Island. Na werey you be. You no get standard at all.

Very irritating. I spit on pus...sy men like you.

ChuksHills:
What on earth will make you to drag properties with your father when he is still alive. The properties is it not still you that will inherit it when he is no more. Assuming your father was your mother that died and left the properties will you drag it with your mom. Leave your father alone and stop dragging properties with him and wait for him to issue it to you. As for him wanting to sell the properties give him reasons as an adult not to sell it. Note this thing you are doing to your father will like your son to do it to you. please stop your desperation

fuck419:


Do you mean the guy is a bastard?

nencounter10:
This will be my last post on this to you.

You can only register something that has taken place for national record purposes and to get a formal document to show people without having to resort to a court that that thing has occurred. If you don't have a formal proof you may miss such benefits unless the court comes to your rescue.

That something was not registered does not mean it never occurred..

DMerciful:
The op should work out the property sharing with his Dad among all the children and the Dad equally. He can decide to share his part of the properties.

Kobojunkie:
Is his father a god that can't be sued or something?

The way I attack men? Are you certain you are not high on some dirty stuff there? Is the Op not a man?

DMerciful:
The guy said a hard truth! When mem die, they leave their properties for the wife(wives) and children but women with properties tends to leave it for the children alone.

Lekan239:
you know what girls like you who thinks everything is a competition,end up marrying men who will later kill them in the future.

GraciousGod190:
As much as I hate bringing this here, I need advice on ways to go about this..is it right for a father to drag his wife wealth with his son, knowing fully well, the son is now a grown man.

My mom left us with lot of properties she acquired as inheritance from her father and mother side, been the only surviving child, while she was still around some relatives wanted to grab some of it...claiming she's a woman...but seeing she had a grown up son which was me they had to maintain and stay on their lane... besides my mom was never the sluggish type.

Now, my dad is trying to drag this property with me, saying he wants to sell some of the land without even informing me... he his claiming some of house rents and lavishing it on frivolities anyhow.

Yes he's my father, he trained me up to this stage that I am, but by right I thought Those properties are mine already.since it's inheritance that's supposed to be passed down to her offsprings.....if am wrong please someone should tell me.

DMerciful:
The Op is a product of the father and mother so saying their marriage is invalid makes his birth technically invalid. Without his father, he won't be in existence

DMerciful:
You're not making sense and you know it. You just wanna argue as usual

effort1:
You see this.as an opportunity to attack the father through the son since the issue is about a woman's property

GraciousGod190:
Note: I own my own personal house, I build with my money..am not a small boy...so those abusing am fighting over parental inheritance are getting it wrong

GraciousGod190:
As much as I hate bringing this here, I need advice on ways to go about this..is it right for a father to drag his wife wealth with his son, knowing fully well, the son is now a grown man.

My mom left us with lot of properties she acquired as inheritance from her father and mother side, been the only surviving child, while she was still around some relatives wanted to grab some of it...claiming she's a woman...but seeing she had a grown up son which was me they had to maintain and stay on their lane... besides my mom was never the sluggish type.

Now, my dad is trying to drag this property with me, saying he wants to sell some of the land without even informing me... he his claiming some of house rents and lavishing it on frivolities anyhow.

Yes he's my father, he trained me up to this stage that I am, but by right I thought Those properties are mine already.since it's inheritance that's supposed to be passed down to her offsprings.....if am wrong please someone should tell me.

Mindlog:


In Nigeria, between a widow with 4 children and a widower with 5 children....who is more likely to remarry and have more children?

Women with properties tend to leave for their children as a means of security for them knowing that after her death, the husband is more likely to bring a new woman into the family who would also want to have kids for the man.

Is it rational to expect such a woman to feel comfortable with the thought that after her demise,the husband would use proceeds from her properties to maintain his new wife and the children from his second marriage which at most times her own children would be deprived of what should basically be theirs?

GraciousGod190:
no will

pocohantas:


Why would the father want to sell it? I don’t like when people sell family inheritance. Maybe it is just my head messing with me, but I feel they are legacy that should be passed on. Some would even sell it with their parents’ grave inside. I don’t like it abeg.

GraciousGod190:
As much as I hate bringing this here, I need advice on ways to go about this..is it right for a father to drag his wife wealth with his son, knowing fully well, the son is now a grown man.

My mom left us with lot of properties she acquired as inheritance from her father and mother side, been the only surviving child, while she was still around some relatives wanted to grab some of it...claiming she's a woman...but seeing she had a grown up son which was me they had to maintain and stay on their lane... besides my mom was never the sluggish type.

Now, my dad is trying to drag this property with me, saying he wants to sell some of the land without even informing me... he his claiming some of house rents and lavishing it on frivolities anyhow.

Yes he's my father, he trained me up to this stage that I am, but by right I thought Those properties are mine already.since it's inheritance that's supposed to be passed down to her offsprings.....if am wrong please someone should tell me.

blasterman:



You sef OP are greedy just like ur father

Unless stated specifically by law it should be ur fathers to be a guardian and he can decide to pass it on to you.

LEts assume reverse was the case and it was ur dad land will you be dragging land with ur mom?

Na ppl like you dey kill their papa becos of land ..OLE

Kobojunkie:
Abeg Waka pass if you have nothing meaningful to say here!