Oyiboman69:
girl wen you see wen una young, spend money until like urgent 2k,give belle,papa and mama say carry your cross,you go marry am,suffered together, born children for hard condition, d money wen u surpose take enjoy, u use am buy pammpers,. then all of a sudden, your wife inherited properties and you were both together before her unfortunate demise. tell me,if the father had own some properties the later died,hope this same son will also lay claim to it. This guy has some properties already and why can't he leave these ones for his dad to at least enjoy before he died. What I notice about him is how his presence scared the family members away when his mother was alive and which he now arrogated the properties to himself. What I want to ask him is that... is he going to challenge his father in court?.

Sometimes I wonder wetin I dey struggle, depriving myself of some good things just to take care of children....

baby124:

With the level of madness you displayed here. Sure banker Na for dustbin dem born you throw at. I no sure you know anybody wey like you. You suppose do the world a favor and take your medicine go sleep.

Maobichek:
Court process can take 20 years hence it's not the best option; let them sit down and talk about it, let them reach a compromise on the properties, court is not the best option, thank you.

KiNg0G:

if your daughter married in the future and after her demise, her husband decides to sell the inheritance you left her and just to flex anyhow without minding your grandchildren u go like am?

some of you need sense refill

Kobojunkie:
do not try to use ojoro here. Oo. Recall say we get plenty geniuses for this our community so. Na we invent everything Even the DSM wey you dey use diagnose us.

pocohantas:


This is not about women loving their husbands except you have comprehension issues which wouldn’t be farfetched. The OP is a man, dragging land with his father- also a man. How then is the innocent woman to blame that two supposedly logical beings can’t agree? My dear, use your head.

DMerciful:
The guy said a hard truth! When mem die, they leave their properties for the wife(wives) and children but women with properties tends to leave it for the children alone.

baby124:

It belongs to his mother. These are properties her parents gave her and she owned outside of the marriage. It is the mothers inheritance.

GraciousGod190:


How?

Really

I don't agree at all

If I wasn't born, do you think those property would be accessible to him?
Because he married my mother.
It would have been passed down to the closest relative of my mother kindreds

Kobojunkie:
Get yourself a good lawyer and stand your ground. Don't allow any of the effort your mother made to ensure the property ended up in your hands go to waste.

GraciousGod190:

When issues like this are raised, people like you who don't have anything meaningful to contribute other than to abuse will start creeping out from your swampy holes... like bush rats in mangrove deserts.

For your info, I own 2 apartments already... personal I build with my money...not everyone is as lazy as your father.

descarado:

It doesn't belong to the mother.
Most fathers properties were mostly generational properties but still rightfully go to the wives after the death of their husbands.

When husbands put children's names on the will, we cry marginalisation and unfair treatment.

What we should rather be arguing about is how to make the old man not sell.

simpleseyi:


Just the same way you are fighting your father for properties, you are also fighting anybody that has s contrary opinion to your prodigality

bjprodint1:
Op said,his mom left"us"with a lot of properties.he never said his mom left him with d properties.he should just go and calmly talk 2 his dad instead of attracting curse on himself.plenty people don die because of land matter.

Kobojunkie:
Any marriage done according to legal and constitution provisions is registered. So, if the marriage is unregistered, it means it no enter. Simple.

I know of one such myself.

KiNg0G:
junkie agbeg go sleep, nor be only you dey read this thread

your comments dey disturb people

pocohantas:


What is the hard truth there? Did anyone stop men from partaking in their late wives properties? Because I am yet to see any woman’s family go fight the man. It is even his son fighting him. So what hard truth are you sharing here?

Mindlog:


Why should a property inherited by a woman from her father be registered in the name of the man she is married to, what happened to her own name?

pocohantas:


Of course you wouldn’t read the OP well because you want to blame the mother- A WOMAN.

Lekan239:
did you know the first Landed property I bought was registered in the name of my wife up till today. Be wise and choose your words wisely

Kobojunkie:
You know this is another angle the OP could look into. If the marriage between his father and mother were never in fact registered, maybe OP could use that to his benefit. What do you think?