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Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by pocohantas(f): 4:33pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
DMerciful: Just like his wife parents trained her and still left properties that he has been collecting rent on and now wants to sell. He shouldn’t sell his wife’s greatest inheritance to her kids. Since his own inheritance was to train them . 1 Like |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Nobody: 4:34pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
GraciousGod190:Bros, do not mind them. The problem is that there is poverty in their lives. Something is wrong with your father's finance. He is going to hate you, but you know what? Do not let him. Do not let him sell the properties. If you do...you dont deserve them. It means that the men in your mother's house also deserve a share from it. I am sorry...your father no get shame. Wan dey drag wetin his father inlaw get? E no get shame at all. Na poverty dey your papa life. |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by wirinet(m): 4:35pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
exnovio: Are you aware that the property was inherited from the wife's father? So you mean the wife's father's property should pass unto her husband and then pass it unto another woman when he remarries. 1 Like |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by KiNg0G: 4:35pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Mariangeles:op ignore this notable troll kobojunkie |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by ChuksHills(m): 4:36pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
PeaceJoyLove: You are a very stupid girl. You lack understanding go back and read the post. Idiot that doesn't have brain. Fish head. |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by InvertedHammer: 4:38pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
GraciousGod190:/ Do you have any documents to prove that the houses/lands in question were bequeathed to you by your mother? If not, the lands/houses rightfully belong to your dad--the surviving spouse. / |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Kobojunkie: 4:38pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
DMerciful:Are you certain I am the fool in this case? In the same context of Genesis 3 vs 16 - 22, we see that God cursed pregnancy/childbirth - every child born is of the curse-, man and even man's lifespan, but for some reason... you crazy lot cannot seem to accept that God cursed marriage. It is almost like you dingbats think marriage is some sort of sacred thing God could not curse even with Him cursing man.. I really don't get how you folks reason these things at all. |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by DMerciful(m): 4:38pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Why did she not will it to them then if she doesn't want the husband to touch it? Who says the son cannot will his share of these properties to his children? If the op wasnt born, the mother would still have inherited those properties. Everybody should get a share and do what they want with it. The op is selfish and ungrateful pocohantas: |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Nobody: 4:40pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
exnovio:Hahahha. Which curse can come out of a poor man? A man that has already been cursed. Is poverty not a curse? Hahahaha. You better keep quiet there. Person wey suppose to go for deliverance to remove curse from his body wan curse? You sef...you better pray for poverty to be far away from you...person wey get this kin mentality is cursed already. What on earth willl make a man to drag his father-inlaw properties with his son? Na POVERTY!!! Poverty must die oooo! Amen!!! |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by effort1: 4:40pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Stop spreading the negativity you brought from your home to people here. |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by pocohantas(f): 4:40pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
DMerciful: Thankfully the OP was born and he alone knows the backstory. The mother is late and the father who isn’t suffering a kidney or heart failure requiring millions for surgery, already wants to start selling her properties. In fact, he shouldn’t allow the dad sell even bucket. 1 Like |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Mariangeles(f): 4:40pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
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Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by moshino(m): 4:42pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
GraciousGod190: It all belongs to your father, he's your mother's next of kin. You are the one dragging it with him. You mentioned that you're a grown man now, so do the needful, go and work hard n smart to build your own wealth like a man. |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Nobody: 4:43pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
DMerciful:Poverty die die die...poverty die. Man wey dey drag his father inlaw properties with his son....na poverty. Poverty die die die...poverty die. Na bad luck...poverty die. The person is already unfortunate....poverty die. You sef wey dey talk rubbish out...poverty must die in your life. Poverty die. After that poverty has left you...and you come to your sense, you will see how stu.pid you are to dey support a man to drag properties his son's grandpa (the man's inlaw) left for him. Poverty....die! |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by nencounter10: 4:43pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
abbey621: Even if the are not registered, the court will still recognise it. BTW apart from a court the certificate issued during church marriage and Niqqah is not recognised in most paces. Until you register a marriage at a marriage registry, it is not yet registered. A marriage is deemed to be registered only and only of it is registered with the government. Those certificate issued during religious marriage just help to proof that a marriage has occurred. That certificate can then be used as a basis for registering the marriage with the government. One more thing, church and mosque marriage are not traditional marriages, they are regious marriages. There are three types of marriages on Nigeria: court, religious, and traditional. Any of these three is valid, but each still need to be registered. Kobojunkie note the above. |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Chiadi87: 4:44pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Sir on whatsoever reason you have to fight your father over your mom's properties like you claim is totally wrong. As long he is married to your mother and they had intercourse to give birth to you before you grown up to know anything called property he is entitled to those properties. |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by MtDave55: 4:44pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
If I understand the poster well he is trying to stop how father from squandering what the mum inherited from her family. The OP havw jos own house built with his own money, but he want to protect his mother legacy and I see nothing wrong in doing such that. If the Poster maternal grand father and mother behave in the manner the father is doing, I don't think the property will be available for the poster mother to inherit not to talk of the father laying claim to it. The father might have cogent reasons for wanting to take over the property but whatever it is he is supposed to reason things with his only surviving child who is also the heir to whatever he have... |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Nobody: 4:45pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
moshino:Poverty die die die...poverty die. Na bad luck dey make a man to want his farher inlaw's properties...poverty die. Na real curse....poverty die. And you that is supporting the man...na poverty dey your life. Enter your room...and start deliverance. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NwV1VX7cCZc Sing Olamide's song to remove poverty from your life. Poverty die...die...die... Goodluck! |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by DMerciful(m): 4:47pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Now lets assume the mother left debts instead of assets, who would pay? Poverty is nowhere near me.....i am in a very good place. PeaceJoyLove: |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by DMerciful(m): 4:48pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
He would have to kill his father because legally, he can't stop him. pocohantas: |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by CSTRR: 4:48pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
wirinet:Well, that is what happens when a man inherits properties too. It passes to his wife. The only reason why this one is strange is that usually the surviving parent keeps it for the children. But normally, it belongs to the surviving parent to do as he or she pleases. Many women have squandered their late husband's wealth on new boyfriends. It's their right. The same applies to the man in this case too. |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Nobody: 4:48pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
ChuksHills: Chuck hill...hmmm. Poverty dey your life and you still get sharp mouth. Hmmmm. You dont know your name is ChuckGutter. Poverty don common you from on top hill and drop you for gutter na. If not, why would you think of acquiring your father inlaw's properties. Haaaa! Poverty must die. Poverty must die ooooo. Enter deliverance room fast. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NwV1VX7cCZc |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Bbbw: 4:51pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Go work for yours |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Nobody: 4:51pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
DMerciful:DMerciful... Call on the mercy of God to remove poverty in your life. Na poverty a dey see na. The boy said his mom left properties...and poverty changed am to debts for you. Na poverty ooooo. Poverty must die in your life. Poverty die die die...poverty die. You better run for deliverance. Call for the mercy of God. God is merciful. |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Nobody: 4:52pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
GraciousGod190: Don't be a Fucckin simp fight for it right ....you don't need any yeye advice stand up your a man not a pussy ...na everything you go carry come here put your old in order |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by The5DME(m): 4:52pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
PeaceJoyLove:Good day sir. Please, I sent you an email sir, please respond. |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Dbarrzx: 4:52pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
How u wan dey fight ur papa over his wife property. They owned it together except your mum willed them to you. |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by KiNg0G: 4:53pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Bbbw:you need to reboot your blunt brain, op said he owns 2 house already?..... which work you go give am... because am sure he wants to build more. ewu |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Maobichek: 4:55pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: There is no harm in trying ok but the OP's position and the manner he conveyed the whole stroy shows "entitlement mentality" and as such he would find it difficult to consider his dad. |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by DMerciful(m): 4:57pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Now run along, you've been noticed. PeaceJoyLove: |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Mindlog: 4:57pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
DMerciful: Mention someone you know who would not die someday? How is she punishing the man by securing the future of the kids they had together? Are you not aware in many places in Nigeria how when a man dies, his family of birth swoops in to grab whatever they can not minding his nuclear family or how the properties they are swooping on came about? In one of my earlier posts where I narrated how a woman before her death willed the 4 flats apartments in Lagos which she inherited from her father to the 3 daughters she had with her husband who had 2 other children outside while they were still married. If she wasn't smart enough by now, you and I know that the baby mama would have been upgraded to a wife and would be forming landlady ontop property whey she no know the history and would claim that her son being the man's only male child should be the rightful heir to the property and would go to any length to achieve that. 2 Likes |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by cococandy(f): 4:59pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Since it’s inheritance, it belongs to you. If it were earned during the marriage, it belongs to your dad and by extension you. |
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