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SeaTrade:
I no marry am because her taste and wants pass wetin her income can cater for,so definitely the cost of that taste and desire will be heaped on me if I make the mistake of marrying her,and I am not that person that'll sacrifice my wants for another's.
There's no way a Nigerian doctor or pharmacist practicing here that isn't some kind of badass specialist or own a practice income will supercede mine,no fucking way!
Now you STFU.

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Shalaye master, you no marry her because fear catch you and because of your insecurities which you always show here. She had a steady income, was earning higher and better than you,also from a wealthy family. You are a trader with a struggling buizness and dwindling funds of late, from a broken family background. You were no match for her, who are you deceiving? Nonsense and ingredients man with inferiority complex

Toplap:
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Shalaye master, you no marry her because fear catch you and because of your insecurities which you always show here. She had a steady income, was earning higher and better than you,also from a wealthy family. You are a trader with a struggling buizness and dwindling funds of late, from a broken family background. You were no match for her, who are you deceiving? Nonsense and ingredients man with inferiority complex

I am a trader,yes.Never denied that,but trading get levels.
Wealthy family means nothing to me,the people that own me made so much for that to make me intimidated.
Dwindling funds or struggling business of late? Something dey do you for head
I never see where person with struggling business or dwindling resources dey expand operations ooo.
Aunty rest,at the end of the day every man knows who he'll marry,so save your rants for those that care.

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Toplap:


Okay sir. I will rest but shey you see as e dey be when person troll you or open mouth waaa to say anything, like you are very good at doing here. You are always talking trash about Nigerian women, the mama wey born you and you are always praising no be Nigerian woman? You think only she is capable of good qualities? Make una dey get sense small. You care about the rants, if you didn't care you for no answer me

I don't mind trolling ooo,it doesn't bother me like it use to.
I never trash talk anybody that didn't have it coming.If you make a funny case,I give a funny reply.
My mom is a Nigerian woman,she showed me the heights women(even without education) can get to without ranting and blaming society for their personal failures.
No noise or blame game,she just assessed her reality, put in the work for over 30years,changed the fortune of her family and lineage,reason her offsprings and the generation after will never see what she saw in a tiny little village in anambra during Biafra War.
I have no issues with women like her,infact I do sing their praises when I find them. They are always hard to find.
Take yourself for instance ,why are you here this morning trying to bicker me into submission on a fine morning like this when you should be out there doing things that will make you less dependent on the men you claim to hate their ways so much?Isn't this behaviour unwise to you?
Women like my mom won't have this time,she left the house latest 7am and focuses so much for the rest of the day.
But look at you,here,helpless,bickering with a guy that has life all figured?come on,you can do better.
It's always the worthless ones I give reality checks when I'm in the mood.
I'm replying you not cos I care,I'm home today,not doing anything,you are keeping me entertained since I ain't in the mood for a good whiskey,smoke and fruits.

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Toplap:
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Gosh you talk too much for a man, learn discretion and stop your uncouth loud mouthedness, where you are always trying hard to show off that you are rich. Truly rich and wealthy people no dey make noise like you abeg and we all know what they say about empty vessels (like you) they make the loudest noise.

Your weak attempt at blackmail and mind games won't change my reality.
But I am rich nau ,what can you and what you think of me do about it?
I talk too much like you say?okay.But then reality still stands .
You don't believe me?okay .Reality still stands.
So I think you should come of your delusions and accept that what you think of me don't really matter.
But you on the other hand getting triggered and frustrated about things that shouldn't matter to you if you were okay with yourself tells a lot about you.
It's natural with people dealing with one sort of frustration or the other,
All I can tell you is WORK.

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SeaTrade:
Your weak attempt at blackmail and mind games won't change my reality.
But I am rich nau ,what can you and what you think of me do about it?
I talk too much like you say?okay.But then reality still stands .
You don't believe me?okay .Reality still stands.
So I think you should come of your delusions and accept that what you think of me don't really matter.
But you on the other hand getting triggered and frustrated about things that shouldn't matter to you if you were okay with yourself tells a lot about you.
It's natural with people dealing with one sort of frustration or the other,
All I can tell you is WORK.

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Basket mouth I don hear. You too rest

.......And with all this achievements your father still left your mother in the middle of the night with just a travelling bag to marry a fat woman without education, the man even prefers to stay in a single room apartment with his wife and four children than going home to your "perfect" mother.

SeaTrade:
I don't mind trolling ooo,it doesn't bother me like it use to.
I never trash talk anybody that didn't have it coming.If you make a funny case,I give a funny reply.
My mom is a Nigerian woman,she showed me the heights women(even without education) can get to without ranting and blaming society for their personal failures.
No noise or blame game,she just assessed her reality, put in the work for over 30years,changed the fortune of her family and lineage,reason her offsprings and the generation after will never see what she saw in a tiny little village in anambra during Biafra War.
I have no issues with women like her,infact I do sing their praises when I find them. They are always hard to find.
Take yourself for instance ,why are you here this morning trying to bicker me into submission on a fine morning like this when you should be out there doing things that will make you less dependent on the men you claim to hate their ways so much?Isn't this behaviour unwise to you?
Women like my mom won't have this time,she left the house latest 7am and focuses so much for the rest of the day.
But look at you,here,helpless,bickering with a guy that has life all figured?come on,you can do better.
It's always the worthless ones I give reality checks when I'm in the mood.
I'm replying you not cos I care,I'm home today,not doing anything,you are keeping me entertained since I ain't in the mood for a good whiskey,smoke and fruits.

Mstick:
.......And with all this achievements your father still left your mother in the middle of the night with just a travelling bag to marry a fat woman without education, the man even prefers to stay in a single room apartment with his wife and six children than going home to your "perfect" mother.

For real? Hahaha This is the type of thing you are talking about in your main post about Nigerian men. No wonder the trader has many issues and is full of bile and bitterness,confirmed product of a broken home. His anger and bitterness should be at his father not nairaland women he doesn't know jack about

My post is about Nigerian WOMEN, and I come here this morning to see "men" bickering, I am not surprised!

Toplap:


For real? This is the type of thing you are talking about in your main post about Nigerian men. No wonder the trader has many issues and is full of bile and bitterness,confirmed product of a broken home. His anger and bitterness should be at his father not nairaland women he doesn't know jack about

Yes his father left his perfect rich mother for a woman earning 50k a month, guess who he blames?.......the woman! Not his Randy father that left his wife with SEVEN children to go and start a new family.

He can change his moniker a hundred times but you will always know who he's. It's always "I am a rich alcohol dealer,ship on the sea, I met a rich girl, my mother's rich with 10 Mercedes Benz, my sisters have masters degree with 5 Mercedes Benz each but in all this Nigerian women are useless except my mom and sisters".

Acidosis:
Funny how people still believe some "grass-2-grace" celebrity stories online.

If Yul, a son to a famous Nigerian actor, could be broke during his undergraduate years, so what then should we and many other Nigerian students say?

Yul definitely wasn't where he wanted to be at the time he got married. That's not the definition of being broke.

If Yul's dream of becoming Nigeria's president gets actualized tomorrow, he will come out again with stories about how his second wife agreed to marry him when he had "nothing."

Yul was never broke and Yul's 1st wife did not marry into a broke family.

God bless you. What m still asking is.. How did the first wife help him become made? Pete son for no first fit poor, except he wasn't serious. The first wife saw the future.. So,all these noise by oloshos ,no hold water. If you like get backup. The two go still use and dump you,when they discover your stupidity.

Eya and the wife is a beautiful woman.

Acidosis:
Funny how people still believe some "grass-2-grace" celebrity stories online.

If Yul, a son to a famous Nigerian actor, could be broke during his undergraduate years, so what then should we and many other Nigerian students say?

Yul definitely wasn't where he wanted to be at the time he got married. That's not the definition of being broke.

If Yul's dream of becoming Nigeria's president gets actualized tomorrow, he will come out again with stories about how his second wife agreed to marry him when he had "nothing."

Yul was never broke and Yul's 1st wife did not marry into a broke family.

He was broke in essence his father's money is not his and back then he has no fame attached to his name apart from that of his father but today he is a brand of his own

What actually took this guy out to another one is what I can't figure out because even the after-four is still better than the after-one woman.

MadamVanessa:



YUL informed his wife about his decision to take another wife, the wife is just a jealous person that doesn't want to share his man with any woman. For the fact that Yul wife commented on the post " God will judge you people" doesn't mean that the husband didn't informed her of his intention to take another wife, maybe she didn't agree, and majority of women wouldn't have subscribed to it.

Now u an all see a woman that reasons with logic and not emotions...thumbs up

dominique:


Nollywood actors were far from rich during Pete Edochie's era. He was famous alright but stupendously rich? Far from it. He may not even be earning up to 200k per movie at that point in time. Yul is one of his five or six kiddy, you think Pete was submitting his less than 200k paycheck in the hands of one of his youngest kids? Even if he was so rich when he married his wife, does that justify what he did to her?

You men think women's feelings are not to be considered then go ahead and expect loyalty and submission for the women you disregard so much. Thank God eyes don dey open, you people will continue to wail about how today's women no longer want to suffer like your mothers. In fact you never start to dey wail

From your write up ,you assumed he was earning less than 200k ,in the same write up you are affirming he is earning 200k .
Women and manipulation.
As long as women insist broke men deserve no pussy, those same women does not have any right to dictate to a rich man how many wives to get. Get the Bleep outa here

Nansense write up

dominique:


Nollywood actors were far from rich during Pete Edochie's era. He was famous alright but stupendously rich? Far from it. He may not even be earning up to 200k per movie at that point in time. Yul is one of his five or six kiddy, you think Pete was submitting his less than 200k paycheck in the hands of one of his youngest kids? Even if he was so rich when he married his wife, does that justify what he did to her?

You men think women's feelings are not to be considered then go ahead and expect loyalty and submission for the women you disregard so much. Thank God eyes don dey open, you people will continue to wail about how today's women no longer want to suffer like your mothers. In fact you never start to dey wail

Don't say what u dont know... Pete was a very rich man from the 90s

My anger is that the first wife is still prettier than the second wife even after giving birth to four grown up kids.


That second wife must have used either juju or money or both to tie Yul down.


See her oversized breast that is only sexy when on clothe, Yul you be mumu, why didn't you go for Destiny Etiko or that Yoruba Actress young daughter or even Regina Askia's daughter.



I am so disappointed in Yul, the second wife look so overbloated and ugly

ImaIma1:
Ladies should not be attacked or branded for marrying rich. Let everyone marry who they want,because if you marry rich or broke, who will mess you up will still do it regardless of if you suffered in poverty with them or not.

So all these guys that are always trying to "golddigger-shame" ladies who choose rich guys should just rest. Because they are not more eligible bachelors nor would they make better husbands than the rich guys just because they are broke.

Because some guys make it seem like they can love better and be better husbands. Then you hear things like "what if that guy suddenly loses his wealth"? The question should be what is they themselves never get rich?

Rich or poor marry your choice regardless of the background noise.

If you like write full epistle.

The fact remains all women have an expiration date.

I don't know what is wife did to him o! But is bad is bad.

qtguru:
Eya and the wife is a beautiful woman.

Would an ugly wife have deserved May's fate?

MadamVanessa:



YUL informed his wife about his decision to take another wife, the wife is just a jealous person that doesn't want to share his man with any woman. For the fact that Yul wife commented on the post " God will judge you people" doesn't mean that the husband didn't informed her of his intention to take another wife, maybe she didn't agree, and majority of women wouldn't have subscribed to it.

No offense intended, but i don't want to believe you are lady
never!

Thought you and your ilk are always saying only actresses are financially buoyant in Nollywood but that's besides the point. YUL has said his wife was loyal to him, his brothers stand by her but Internet warriors like yourself are too busy exulting the serial adulterer. Please imagine your dad pulling this weird stunt on you at 16 and imagine how his actions will hurt the family. I feel for Mrs Yul the most but it's just a wake up call for her : Do you and be responsible for your own mental health.

Acidosis:
Funny how people still believe some "grass-2-grace" celebrity stories online.

If Yul, a son to a famous Nigerian actor, could be broke during his undergraduate years, so what then should we and many other Nigerian students say?

Yul definitely wasn't where he wanted to be at the time he got married. That's not the definition of being broke.

If Yul's dream of becoming Nigeria's president gets actualized tomorrow, he will come out again with stories about how his second wife agreed to marry him when he had "nothing."

Yul was never broke and Yul's 1st wife did not marry into a broke family.

Yup my man you opened way for Us cos I'm getting a second wife.If u can so can we.Dude we go see for ogbe.Only real men do wat you did .I'm coming out next gee

Kriss216:
97.432% of men married to Nigerian girls are suffering. Forget the social media fake smile. They're all living in self denial.

No sane man will abandon a good woman or treat her bad.

Dear men, don't let your wife stop you from finding the love of your life.

If you are suffering, why not man up and call it quits... Dissolve the marriage and move on!

Why hide around the other women??! Why the cowardice?!? That's not the African way!

The African way is to inform your partner that you are getting a second wife, even invite her to the wedding... If it doesn't sit well with her, she ships out, leaving the house for you and your new wife!

If Yul's wife had done this same thing, you would not have said many women are suffering in their marriages!

No need for misguided misogyny! Call a spade a spade! Yul messed up! Simple!!!

Since I read this news my chest has been paining me

Kingcalls:


Don't say what u dont know... Pete was a very rich man from the 90s

..... And who told you that? You guys should stop saying what you don't know.

Since you know him so much. Can you tell us where he lived then and his present abode?

But the second wife got all the properties

Mstick:
We all woke up to the news that Yul Edochie married a second wife and I've seen numerous takes especially from Nigerian men about how it's within his rights to do so. Of course polygamy is not and has never been a crime in Africa but is that really what polygamy is? Does the first wife at least get a heads up in such a situation?

May Edochie said she found out on Monday that her husband got married on Sunday, that is pure and sheer wickedness. A woman spends 17 years of her life with you, gives you four children and I am sure she has contributed financially, morally and in other ways to build the home and Yul Edochie didn't even have the decency to tell this same woman about his plans.

Men always talk about how the women of this days aren't loyal like their mothers LOL! Things like this and more that women see everyday and you still expect loyalty?!

My advice to every married woman, engaged woman and women in general. You see that man you're doing struggle love with, have a backup plan my dear, I repeat don't TRUST THE LOYALTY OF A BROKE MAN. Get a job, save money, don't have children that you cannot comfortably take care of alone, surround yourself with your family, don't fight your family EVER because when shît hits the fan they're the ones that will protect and fight for you.

African women, Black women, Nigerian women please and please stop aiding struggle love, go out there and work for your own money, it's better you struggle alone, than carrying a baby on your back while wondering what you would cook when you get home.

Work for your own money, stop shrinking yourselves, if a man says he wouldn't marry you because you've a car or a house it's not a lose but a gain.

Well this second wife carry something ooo yul wants to go for something bigger but then him messed up by not informing his first wife of his sexcapades on the Monday the announcement the first wife got to know meaning yul secretly dated this lady and did trad secretly why coming open on social media that is very wrong, well what do I know yul has been irresponsible from day one even the early marriage he had with his first young wife may was because he got the girl pregnant out of wedlock and the father being an honourable well respected elderstate man had to make sure yul married may even when yul had nothing tangible to do to earn a living the father Pete edochie sponsored his marriage to his first wife and the woman stayed with yul through all these I think even yul himself will not be proud of the action he took not even his mother and father Pete edochie will be proud of their son's irresponsibility same mistake he made the first time on early marriage is same mistake he made again by getting an actress pregnant