ImaIma1:


And so do men sweety. You were not created to love forever either.

If you are going to say something, please let it be sensible at least. Don't comment for the sake of commenting.

Klass99:


He has given us (women) a lot of food for thought. Me, I just can't get over the fact that he wasn't in love with May but had 4 kids with her. Why not stop after a boy and a girl?

The lack of a male child is not even the issue. If all his kids with May were female, I may reason that the quest for a male child drove his actions.

I know a woman who married as a virgin, at some point in her marriage she was treating herself for gonorrhea and she never cheated in that marriage. Her hubby cheated and infected her with it.

It's like our feelings and well being truly do not matter to Naija men once they marry you. Marriage to a Nigerian man is becoming less and less attractive, with the kind of stories you hear online and offline.

That is not to say men of other nationalities are any better, but kai our men are something else, extremely selfish and insensitive.

nenyewrites:


Same here. Been shocked on his recent posts.

Kriss216:
97.432% of men married to Nigerian girls are suffering. Forget the social media fake smile. They're all living in self denial.

No sane man will abandon a good woman or treat her bad.

Dear men, don't let your wife stop you from finding the love of your life.

cococandy:

Apples and oranges.

He said it specifically that he had nothing sustainable when they married. And she agreed to manage. That means they were struggling. Okay?

Richy4:


I believed that he loved the first wife.. I will never doubt it but he doesn't respect her.. Love and respect are two different things... If he respects her, he will put her feelings into consideration before jumping into bed with another woman..

Honestly, marriage is not a rosy affairs especially when one is the type that honours contract..... When u vow that it's her till death, then self control should be the key and saving grace... It's only God and body discipline that makes one achieve self-control..

In this Yul situation,I dislike it when people act like it wasn't a big deal considering the generation we are in today.. A lot of people don't practice polygamy anymore, and it insults my sensibility when they start quoting scriptures to justify that... We should ask ourselves how many centuries ago was this practice...

I still believe that there are lots of good Nigerian men out there who still love their wife and can do anything for them.. I still believe that blanket approach that men doesn't care much to an isolated situation like these, is not the key...

Yul made his decision and that to me is a one man decision... There are billions of men who will never dream of doing what he did.. one woman is more than enough for me thank you.. not to talk of adding her kind at home..Mba!!..Thank you...
The question I would have loved to ask is, what's their living situation at the moment? Has the 2nd wife moved in or is she still maintaining her old house.. this is just double wahala Yul honestly

Saintmary:



You need to put this your post on a large billboard and loud it very well so that the sufferhead 'virtuous women' with coconut head will see.


But no, they will chose to continue wasting themselves away over men who don't really give a flying toss about their future and well-being.



What matters most is our actions in real life though, not our noise on social media.

Danniedpastor:



Bro, the movie industry is richer than you think.
In those days men like Pete, Nkem owoh were rated as the richest in the industry because the were earning in Millions.


Pete Edoche bought cars for each of his children as graduation gifts.

Kriss216:

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Thanks man. I appreciate

dominique:


Nollywood actors were far from rich during Pete Edochie's era. He was famous alright but stupendously rich? Far from it. He may not even be earning up to 200k per movie at that point in time. Yul is one of his five or six kiddy, you think Pete was submitting his less than 200k paycheck in the hands of one of his youngest kids? Even if he was so rich when he married his wife, does that justify what he did to her?

You men think women's feelings are not to be considered then go ahead and expect loyalty and submission for the women you disregard so much. Thank God eyes don dey open, you people will continue to wail about how today's women no longer want to suffer like your mothers. In fact you never start to dey wail

ImaIma1:


Your comment gave me a lot to think about especially the bolded.

A woman will "keep herself" till marriage only to be dragged in potopoto by one virgin-entitled selfish man.

Toplap:
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More nonsense and ingredients. Where did you learn English from? Your English is horrible rubbish.

ImaIma1:


A learning point should be...have your own money and be comfortable. Don't be completely dependent and at the mercy of any man.

descarado:

Peter edochie was an average white collar man back in the days. Yul that his dad paid the dowry for him?


You know nothing about that family so zip it.

And yes, charity begins at home. Yul is from anambra. Anambra people frown on polygamy. Anambra is mostly Catholic. You are nothing if your local church don't recognise you.

Since you know too much, I will ask you to do your research on the owner of whiz oil.
Clue, he was once a billionaire. Has multiple wives and how he ended.

Biglittlelois:



100%.

franchasofficia:
My anger is that the first wife is still prettier than the second wife even after giving birth to four grown up kids.


That second wife must have used either juju or money or both to tie Yul down.


See her oversized breast that is only sexy when on clothe, Yul you be mumu, why didn't you go for Destiny Etiko or that Yoruba Actress young daughter or even Regina Askia's daughter.



I am so disappointed in Yul, the second wife look so overbloated and ugly

Acidosis:



I'll really like you to bookmark this thread 'cos the same Yul will come back again in two decades to hype the second wife about how she stuck with him in 2022 when he had "nothing".

I hope my aim is clear now? Please bookmark the page and save us the stress of having to type the same thing repeatedly.

shizzle1:


What's wrong in a guy giving his fellow nigga little change for kola thou?

Don't be vain

Gloriagee:
The bookmarking section was about actresses having more sources of income according to you, so in future don't come back to tag them prostitutes.

I'm not a Yul apologist and don't care wat he says and will most likely care even less in 2 decades. I'm way more busier charting my own path. My point remains Yul's actions stink not only because his wife stuck with him before his dad made it but because he has disrespected her and his marital vows and it stinks even much more because his wife started life with him and is committed to him. Well Madonna once sang, you will only see wat your eyes want to see. Odabo

Mstick:
We all woke up to the news that Yul Edochie married a second wife and I've seen numerous takes especially from Nigerian men about how it's within his rights to do so. Of course polygamy is not and has never been a crime in Africa but is that really what polygamy is? Does the first wife at least get a heads up in such a situation?

May Edochie said she found out on Monday that her husband got married on Sunday, that is pure and sheer wickedness. A woman spends 17 years of her life with you, gives you four children and I am sure she has contributed financially, morally and in other ways to build the home and Yul Edochie didn't even have the decency to tell this same woman about his plans.

Men always talk about how the women of this days aren't loyal like their mothers LOL! Things like this and more that women see everyday and you still expect loyalty?!

My advice to every married woman, engaged woman and women in general. You see that man you're doing struggle love with, have a backup plan my dear, I repeat don't TRUST THE LOYALTY OF A BROKE MAN. Get a job, save money, don't have children that you cannot comfortably take care of alone, surround yourself with your family, don't fight your family EVER because when shît hits the fan they're the ones that will protect and fight for you.

African women, Black women, Nigerian women please and please stop aiding struggle love, go out there and work for your own money, it's better you struggle alone, than carrying a baby on your back while wondering what you would cook when you get home.

Work for your own money, stop shrinking yourselves, if a man says he wouldn't marry you because you've a car or a house it's not a lose but a gain.

MadamVanessa:



YUL informed his wife about his decision to take a second wife. The wife is just a jealous person that doesn't want to share his man with any woman, and she's very right to be.

For the fact that Yul first wife commented on the post " God will judge you people" doesn't mean that the husband didn't informed her of his intention to take a second wife, she didn't just agree to it and majority of women would do the same including me.

Again, why are emotional women blaming Yul on this and said nothing about the woman that sleep with Yul even when she knew that Yul was married. Our women failed to see the evil of the second wife who rush and opened her legs for Yul to pounce just to spoil another woman's home.

You'll be very stupid and useless if you blame Yul Edochie on this and never said anything about the second wife who sleeps with someone's husband unapologetically just to bring him disunity into someone's once peaceful home.


Truly women are their own greatest enemy.

shizzle1:


What's wrong in a guy giving his fellow nigga little change for kola thou?

Don't be vain

Btw, Men support men, unlike your women supporting women pretentious slogan by knacking another woman's husband and getting pregnant just to snatch her hubby from her

ImaIma1:


And nobody came into this world with the thought of being poor; chosen specially to be struggling.

It's nobody's business if a girl prefers to marry into money, just like it's nobody's business if she decides to marry a guy that is not rich.

What if she knows the source and it's genuine? Will you be ok with that? Or you think every rich or comfortable is into something shady?

You don't pity girls who go into marriage with rich men and something happens along the line. But you'll pity them if they married a broke guy and something happens down the line, right?

Some girls will.suffer with a broke guy while some would rather go for a rich guy. Know this and know peace.

Davesaves:
wait!! you mean some of your fellow women take marriage as a poverty alleviation scheme..?

Acidosis:



Good. We can condemn Yul's actions without trying to make ladies who are "really suffering" with their decent husbands look like f00ls for upholding their vows. Odabo.

dominique:


Nollywood actors were far from rich during Pete Edochie's era. He was famous alright but stupendously rich? Far from it. He may not even be earning up to 200k per movie at that point in time. Yul is one of his five or six kiddy, you think Pete was submitting his less than 200k paycheck in the hands of one of his youngest kids? Even if he was so rich when he married his wife, does that justify what he did to her?

You men think women's feelings are not to be considered then go ahead and expect loyalty and submission for the women you disregard so much. Thank God eyes don dey open, you people will continue to wail about how today's women no longer want to suffer like your mothers. In fact you never start to dey wail

Saintmary:



I no send anybody, if they like, let them list names as long as Third Mainland Bridge.



I will do whatever is best for me.