bnadam21:
marriage na scam, aswearugod, I will rather just be fxcking around, get a baby mama than to have a leech I keep at home who only give p*ssy as her only marital contributions.

ObamaMessi:
Guy, for how long will i continue to school you in this forum? The verb that imediately succeeds the plural pronoun(you) is also plural regardless whether the "you" is refering to a single person.

When it's in simple present, would you say "you is"? Reason it.

DarkPheonix:


The problem is people when in in love tends to over do things, and which isn't supposed to be so. For me my principle is simple, I give back the same energy I am getting from someone. If am crazy about you, I expect you to also be crazy about me, if i support you I expect the same, and once I am not getting the same energy I am investing I bounce, that way I don't lose my self.

rickpat:
MARRIAGE WILL ALWAYS BE HELL WHEN ONE PARTY THINKS HE OR SHE IS SMARTER THAN THE OTHER....once one is the mugu and the other the wise .. Marriage don scatter.....

people do have great marriages...maybe they should always come out to teach people how it works for them...NOT ONLY THE PEOPLE COMING OUT TO SAY THE NEGATIVES OR ILL TREATMENT FROM THEIR SPOUSE...


BOTH MAN AND WOMEN GO THROUGH ALOT WHEN IN TERRIBLE MARRIAGE...

placeofallure:


My marriage is over a decade now. We're very happy together despite our challenges, which you may not believe it, are numerous just like everyone's. I always say marry your friend. He wasn't the most educated or richest among the suitors I had then. Was he even rich? I've never been about money in my life. I believe in making my own money. You know, make money together and spend it together. I married him because we're both comfortable with each other. We're friends, gist partners, Tom and Jerry!

Most people are not sincere. They always have ulterior motives when choosing who to settle for. Those things are transient, they don't last. They fade into oblivion. Life happens to us all. After this, they can't cope and start running from pillar to post.

I won't relegate the God factor too. I always look for a God-fearing man and thank God I found one. The fear of God will not allow you to do some things even more than the love or respect you have for your partner.

Love is good in a marriage but it's never enough. Be submissive if you are the woman. The man, respect your wife and be ready to go any length for her. Be kind, be understanding, be tolerant, be moderate, be fair and firm.

If marriages are bad, the society suffers it. That's the genesis of our problem in Nigeria. Families are in disarray. Too many people grew up in toxicity, the polity is heated up, brimming like a volcano about to erupt. It doesn't always have to be like this. It doesn't. Did you read the story of a 7-year-old boy who broke into a home to steal in Ibadan? He broke the lock, ransacked the house, stole 2 phones and some money. Damn! That's the kind of picture I'm trying to paint.

PENNYSWAP:
End point , try make money before going into marriage ..... don’t say I didn’t tell you.

If you have money, you can get a baby mama

You focus and channel your youth hustle on your kid

If a woman is doing like this now, wetin she go do when you both get old


Make money brothers
Make money brothers
Make money brothers
Cuz e get why


Both men and women should make money , Creat something for your self before going into marriage ....

Love will fade a way but mutual respect for each other will keep the marriage


No body either man or woman wants a liability especially ladies , they detest liability of a man

BoredBerry:
You sound stupid... It's almost as if your mother was a disappoint... Don't project...

BoredBerry:


Lol! Atleast we now know...

1. Your mother is gutter-trash your father refused to marry...

In your words, she is a wicked, selfish, heartless and parasitic street dog...

Ouch!

2. You were born out of wedlock...

I pity you... No wonder you're so miserable...

***

Keep your secrets... Una say no...

You're here humilating yourself and your messed up family for likes from your fellow idiots...

rickpat:
you really said alot...and I appreciate your input....I agree with you totally.....I so much love the friendship part.....smiles....reminds me of someone (story for another day)....God bless richly....God bless your husband....may that wealth that you both with enjoy together locate you.....I love to hear things like these because it seems that it's only the "bad" marriages people love to project

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Women go through worse...
Just that most women don't talk about it..

Think4Myself:


Stfu unemployed dumb bitchh

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Think4Myself:


What did you even think you did ? You can't relate cos you're either unemployed or still in junior secondary school

Stallionhorse:
I have a baby mama with a 2year old girl.. I have peace of mind and happiness cause I know if I had married her I would be thinking of suicide by now.. I just pay my child support 50k monthly and move on.. This year im planning on my daughter moving with my mom to Canada so I can breath well.. I'm so done with women, I can only have baby mama unless I'm marrying a girl outside Nigeria.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Pls go get a life and stop trolling..you have more than enough problem disturbing ya life..

Think4Myself:


Me or you who is actually the troll here, you've been on nairaland for less than 6 months and have already spent 25% of your time here. For context you spent 25% of 2022 being a nuisance responding to every single thread on here acting like you got no future ambitions.


I ask again frenandezisback , me or you who is the troll ?

FERNANDEZISBACK:

At least ain't t quoting people and calling them a b**tch..ain't wailing about me having problems in reality...you have a life and you are insulting me huh?

As I said go solve ya issues..

Think4Myself:


I'm not the type of person to insult people anyhow, but for me to insult you, just know you're doing something wrong

That's all I'll say

placeofallure:


Thank you and a resounding Aaaaaamen to your prayers. Wish you the same and more.

Nasri100:


Even dating sef na scam. I have explored and deduced everything. You are always on the losing side when you commit to a woman. It’s self depreciating.

Just be single and enjoy your life. Have a baby mama. Die happy. Just don’t leash anybody

Nonexisting:
These are the same men that go about screaming married life is beautiful. See them saying keep me anonymous and sharing horrible stories. One of the mumus even said he loved his wife dearly but that she would be the last person to call even on his sick bed. What a simp. I will keep repeating it everywhere. I have sworn never to put a leash on the wicked, selfish, heartless and parasitic street dogs called Nigeria girls. Never, not in this life time. When I want children, I will explore every available option in existence today, thank God financing it won't be a problem anymore. There are many ways to kill a rat.

Ndibuna:

Only a foolish man even thinks the money alone can keep a woman, she will still cheat on you with the gatekeeper

ObamaMessi:
FERNANDEZISBACK is a mode.

Acidbath:
I like what I am reading. Except for some useless fish head footmats and male apologists, it seems Nigerian women are the only ones that keep the males on their feet to be providers as instructed by God.

That is why when these males go abroad, the females there appreciate their generosity as compared to their own males whom they have failed woefully to raise that way.

You must perform your duties and when you buy a gift, it shouldn't be in your name....that's manipulation not generosity.

ogkrakkid:

Na dem dey waka with flat ass dey Bleep all this simp moderators seun carry full here. Piss on ya all disguised hookup bugs.