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Re: I'm Scared To Ask Her For Sex by Chizzychinny: 8:21am On Aug 20, 2022
As you wan off that pant so, don't forget CD
Re: I'm Scared To Ask Her For Sex by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 9:47am On Aug 20, 2022
Reallife17:
why una dey teach my guy bad thing? grin
grin

Nah . E go actually help am get over the anxiety wey wan finish am because of kpekus
Re: I'm Scared To Ask Her For Sex by Peacefulgold(m): 10:01am On Aug 20, 2022
If you really need advice ,tell us who the girl is first ,we don't even know if it's your cousin that is in your house and you are looking for who will give you liver to nack your cousin ,abi how girl go just dey your house like dat
Re: I'm Scared To Ask Her For Sex by Uchesis: 1:21pm On Aug 20, 2022
Jolene201:
All these uniben bad boys sef lol.
Seems you like us
Re: I'm Scared To Ask Her For Sex by codeigniter(m): 2:30pm On Aug 20, 2022
Premiumwriter:
Don't mind the guys insulting you. There is a first time for everything.

Honestly, no one was born perfect. All of us learned via trial and errors. You probably didn't start these things early in life hence the reason.

But that's not important now.

One thing you need to understand is time. Time is very critical in this situation.

She has been with you for three days now. You haven't made any move. Making a move now will be a 50/50 chance for rejection/acceptance.

But don't fear for rejection at this point because what is even worst is not making any move at all.

She'll never ever see you as a man again. If she left you without you making any moves especially when that's the reason why she's there (which most likely is)

Plus she may cøck block you later in future. When her friends talk about you, she will probably snare and retort that "you are not really a man"

So not making any move is a lot worst than any rejection you may be fearing right now.

With that now out of the way, let see how you can move now.

If she's still around, try sitting close to her.

If you guys have been jovial or it has been a little quiet between you guys, then make you move quick and sudden.

Sit down close to her or at the edge of your cushion and drag her towards you.

Pull her hands or lift her and bring her body onto your own.

See her level of resistance.

If she fights it, just try talking to her that you just want to cuddle her.

Most girls will do you shakara and say no cuddling but if you continue insisting most will submit especially if they come knack.

She will act surprise because you've not made any move, so it's probably not on the list for her again.

Be

Or wait until you guys are on the bed and drag her close to you.

Once you cuddle her, always attack the breast first. It's their weak point.

Always let your hand wander on her breast slowly. Don't put your hands directly under her shirt or bra at first.

Just rub the breast slowly with her clothes on.

She probably won't respond at first. Just continue and then put your hands under her clothes, then under her bra to touch the real thing.

From there you are free to do anything.

By the way, not all Nigerian girls will let you kiss them from the onset.

Most won't let you. Reason why I always suggest indirect. So it's a bad idea trying to start everything with a kiss. Always a bad idea. Na inside film e De work.

And please don't ask her directly for sex. And more importantly, her resistance is not no.

For reference, one of my girl took me almost 30 minutes before she responded.

She'd let me touch her anywhere and all that but she said no sex. Had to work on her until she couldn't resist anymore.

Later got to find out that she was engaged, hence the long delay.

Odogwu u bad

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Re: I'm Scared To Ask Her For Sex by Cravemore: 3:06pm On Aug 20, 2022
This man drop wetin we wan hear??

6 days now u never still accomplish mission

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Re: I'm Scared To Ask Her For Sex by jospepper(m): 5:28pm On Aug 20, 2022
Guys make una carry okada come this side https://www.nairaland.com/7289880/experience-after-got-advice-nairaland the guy don drop the update.
Re: I'm Scared To Ask Her For Sex by Nobody: 8:43pm On Aug 20, 2022
Thank you.. smiley smiley
Joeev:
Girl, you're more man than most men here. I salute you!
Re: I'm Scared To Ask Her For Sex by Jolene201(f): 9:51pm On Aug 20, 2022
Uchesis:

Seems you like us
Not really..
I'm just remembering my school people, doesn't mean I like some of their activities
Re: I'm Scared To Ask Her For Sex by techgen(m): 12:24am On Aug 21, 2022
Spirit04:
na girlfriend you wan dey use that secondary school level with? Abi you na secondary school you dey sef?
The guy you quoted is 100% correct

I still dey secondary school senior man... Hope you dey aiit now.
Re: I'm Scared To Ask Her For Sex by luizpippo(m): 7:17am On Aug 21, 2022
Where is this baga?

You no go update us?
Re: I'm Scared To Ask Her For Sex by Uchesis: 9:40am On Aug 21, 2022
Jolene201:

Not really..
I'm just remembering my school people, doesn't mean I like some of their activities
what department? i was in maths dept, physical science
Re: I'm Scared To Ask Her For Sex by Jolene201(f): 3:04pm On Aug 21, 2022
Uchesis:

what department? i was in maths dept, physical science
Nsc.. BMS.
Re: I'm Scared To Ask Her For Sex by Uchesis: 4:51pm On Aug 21, 2022
Jolene201:
Nsc.. BMS.
which one is BMS abeg?
Re: I'm Scared To Ask Her For Sex by Jolene201(f): 5:06pm On Aug 21, 2022
Uchesis:

which one is BMS abeg?
Don't stress me jare..seems like it's been eons u left uniben.its basic medical science.
Re: I'm Scared To Ask Her For Sex by Uchesis: 9:24am On Aug 22, 2022
Jolene201:

Don't stress me jare..seems like it's been eons u left uniben.its basic medical science.
grin no vex naa

put your picture. maybe i fit know you oo
Re: I'm Scared To Ask Her For Sex by 99thEnemy(m): 11:25am On Aug 22, 2022
jospepper:
Guys make una carry okada come this side https://www.nairaland.com/7289880/experience-after-got-advice-nairaland the guy don drop the update.
grin

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Re: I'm Scared To Ask Her For Sex by Jolene201(f): 2:31pm On Aug 23, 2022
Uchesis:

grin no vex naa

put your picture. maybe i fit know you oo
Lol.. don't worry,uniben is not UDSS lipsrsealed
Re: I'm Scared To Ask Her For Sex by EmyGod(m): 4:16pm On Aug 24, 2022
Stay away from fornication, i am talking out of experience my brother it is better to marry early than to wait living in fornication it very risky please hell is real and do no harm to your soul forever. The best thing since you are a weak man is to tell her to go and stop inviting girls in your house please go and marry to avoid hard I know forever in hellfire.
Re: I'm Scared To Ask Her For Sex by Tegabadguy(m): 4:20pm On Aug 24, 2022
yemite100:
I want you to advise me on what to do, I'm finding it hard to ask this girl for sex, she has been with me for the past three days now, we sleep together on the same bed but I'm always scared to touch her in the night, even as i type this message she is beside me watching Korean fil
It's really giving me sleepless night, I don't know how to ask her for sex I cant even touch her body..
I need your advice guys..
Guy get your self high...go drink 2 black bullet and take one viagra...you we tank me lata cool cool cool cool
Re: I'm Scared To Ask Her For Sex by FREDCLSSICO7(m): 5:26pm On Aug 25, 2022
paradiseVirgin:

My guy, just time any time she visits you and wears a dress. Just lift the dress up and pull her pant... Push her to lie on the bed in a sexy way ... Wear condom inside before you even start so that you can then quickly insert your d!ck without having to stress about wearing condom.
Thrust and in and out and enjoy how she moans for you grin grin grin


*I no say go rape person pikin oh! shocked
If she says no.. stop* grin

They no dey tell person na
if him go rape na him and prison get scores to settle
Re: I'm Scared To Ask Her For Sex by FREDCLSSICO7(m): 5:29pm On Aug 25, 2022
Stevo35:


*Heaven is real' Hell is real'* choose wisely.
Lol the comrade already choose hell on earth shey heaven sure for you
Re: I'm Scared To Ask Her For Sex by chimaize01: 5:34pm On Aug 25, 2022
Bros pls gimme her contact let me help u ask her ....

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