Islandlady:
Oh no that is actually unfair, Nah I can't have the money and watch my kid stay at home because of school fees, I will pay and collect the money from the father later on.

Collect the money from him and use it to feed your ancestors abi? What could be more fulfiling than spending your money, on your family ? Honestly most of you women are just worthless

Islandlady:
Actually most people are guilty of lying to their Lovers and partners about the actual amount they earn from their salary.

I believe most partners especially the Men have a reason for doing it, I think this can cause disunity and lack of trust if the other partner finds out about the actual amount you earn! What are the reasons behind this lie?

I came across the screenshot below from my IG story while scrolling about this lady asking for advice on this issue!
Experienced Nairalanders should share reason for this secret abeg!

think before u post
No dey post rubbish here

Islandlady:
Why won't I collect the money, it is my personal money!

And here is the reason, we shouldn't be having this discussion. It's your money, but you want to know how much he earns. Guys, do not share hiw much you earn, with leeches like op

4Humanity4All:


It's unreasonable to collect the money from the father later on

Ask me for the money, and trust me, no more gift or holidays for you.

anochuko01:


Wouldn't it be unwise to think that all women are the same?

Yes....very unwise for johnny Depp to think his father was a monster and his mother was an angel.....and vowed he would never behave like his father until he married Amber Heard........ eventually his court cases proceedings to savage his supposed gentleman reputation from Los Angeles down to the UK was a season movie and it cost him million of dollars.

Don't learn the hard way like Bill Gate, Johnny Depp and co.

advanceDNA:


Its like u dont know women...

My ex told me to buy her wig of 160k..i say i never collect salary say i nor get

..she told me to allow her lend me the money from her own pocket to buy the wig and pay her later.....it was that day i knew she was sent from hell....

..some women are not relationship material let alone marriage material...no team mentality.. they just see their man as an ATM...

Hope she is still single and On the street, were she belongs

Why will you ask someone you've met in less than 2 months and you're already asking how much he seems. He's better off freeing you too move.

Wawelexy:
The other gender are manipulative..... they want to know how you go about spending a dime and what you spend it on, as if they were there during the hustle and bustle..

Imagine you earning 150k, and you been faithful with her, trust me she will give you billing of 120k and still claim she's helping you to manage.... even to take care of yourself and siblings will be hard.

And these sets of creatures will have 2milli sitting in their account doing nothing and yet still spend your salary with you to the last penny claiming they re broke... but if God help you with a good one, she go just unexpectedly surprise you by lifting some of your burdens off your shoulder, might be kids school fee or rent, but only 10% of them can do that....

they are not even up to 10%

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Ignatiusprince:
Never a good idea to let Ur woman know how much u earn.....

Why? Did you marry a notorious armed robber?

He may be right! What if 250k is the gross while the net is 200k

Since the question is from woman, here is simple answer.
The same reason women apply make up, fix nail, fix artificial hair and sometimes change voice.

Islandlady:

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But I feel trust and honesty is Paramount in a relationship or marriage, you have to be plain and honest just like your @ bolded statement

To me not telling the exact salary I earn is not a breach of trust, especially when I do do not keep any other thing secret.

Never you tell a women what you really earn.

I told my girlfriend I earn 20% of what I really earn. It's safer that way.

Islandlady:
Oh no that is actually unfair, Nah I can't have the money and watch my kid stay at home because of school fees, I will pay and collect the money from the father later on.

why will you collect the money back? Is he not your son?

Islandlady:

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But I feel trust and honesty is Paramount in a relationship or marriage, you have to be plain and honest just like your @ bolded statement

Its mutual..... most times Ladies also hide their income from their men. Some will even refuse to help their men in times of need so their men dont know they have money.
Most Ladies will ensure you have spent more than 90% of your income with them before they stop billing....a lady once told me they do that so their men dont have spare to spend on other women outside.

Who are you to know my actual monthly salary in the first place? Like I gets my asss up every morning go straight into the cold world hustling and someone will be waiting for me at home to come back and give them details of what I have earned because they are my wife?

Yes, you can trust him, women have a thing with money, so its good not to tell them the truth about your earnings.

My wide doesn't know how much I make from my business

JJuanMiguel:

Why must you collect it back? Are they not also your kids?
When the man is down, the woman should step in and help, then the man can carry on when he's back up.

You don see am abi

Trust and openness is very important.
Payscale is online for whatever job a person is doing - so easy to find and ask questions.

Difrent:


Its mutual..... most times Ladies also hide their income from their men. Some will even refuse to help their men in times of need so their men dont know they have money.
Most Ladies will ensure you have spent more than 90% of your income with them before they stop billing....a lady once told me they do that so their men dont have spare to spend on other women outside.

Islandlady:
Whatever, as a woman I am entitled to have my personal money for upkeep and also to take care of my parents n siblings!

They will definitely be my kids but I need my personal money to take care of myself too! So that is why I will lend their father the money and collect it back! Simple

So the man wouldn’t take care of his own parents and siblings

Islandlady:
Oh no that is actually unfair, Nah I can't have the money and watch my kid stay at home because of school fees, I will pay and collect the money from the father later on.

why collect the money from the father later on, is he not your child to

Roozzaay:
Who are you to know my actual monthly salary in the first place? Like I gets my asss up every morning go straight into the cold world hustling and someone will be waiting for me at home to come back and give them details of what I have earned because they are my wife?

Ah swear bro,it's nonsense. Even my very own shadow doesn't know how much i earn nt to talk of a human being.

U r too selfish R u indirectly telling us ur children can not enjoy ur money kai men don suffer.

Islandlady:
Actually most people are guilty of lying to their Lovers and partners about the actual amount they earn from their salary.

I believe most partners especially the Men have a reason for doing it, I think this can cause disunity and lack of trust if the other partner finds out about the actual amount you earn! What are the reasons behind this lie?

I came across the screenshot below from my IG story while scrolling about this lady asking for advice on this issue!
Experienced Nairalanders should share reason for this secret abeg!

The dude even try, I for tell you say na 80k

As a man your income and your phone is the only privacy you have left, never let anyone have access to these. Like did you smoke to ask me about my finances, if you think your not comfortable you leave let someone else enter.

Rubbish
What does she want after knowing the truth? Break up?

Her post just dey make me vex like say na me be the guy.

Rubbish

Islandlady:
Why won't I collect the money, it is my personal money!

U r too selfish R u indirectly telling us ur children can not enjoy ur money men don suffer.

JJuanMiguel:

Lol
All the best, now that I'm angry with you, I'll do everything in my power to make you end up with an Urhobo man.

Stereotype

Scamupdates:
funny enough, the same man open a large store for her around ikeja. that why we all learn from our parent mistakes. that kid will grow up one day to join redpiller like those on this forum. that why i dont blame some

The woman is a selfish & foolish woman