TenQ:

Can you quote me properly?

I am no expert in barrier methods!

TenQ:

A married friend of mine did family planning (medical) just after her first child unfortunately till today, her procedure was irreversible. Her first child is about 15 years old now.

It is a dumb decision as she doesn't know if she would react to the family planning drugs. Even for married people, I advise them to use fp drugs only after their second child

Wittyglam:
is she supposed to be having sex at that age? There are lots of diseases more serious than pregnancy. I’m just creating awareness for parents.

Wisfem:





Am not ignorant of that said protocols, but the thing is this!! The country she did this kind of thing should be in question, are they advanced in health care practice?? 2. The physician in quote! did he consult to his best abilities before this action?? 3. Is there possibility of compromise by the said physician may be on monetary inducement or by sympathy or Negligence??

4. The girl is she up to 18 years so that she can be considered as one who can make critical decisions on her own??

5. Are you also aware of the suppression of some health Related hazards to some certain countries even By who?? Due to the personalities in health sectors, and political gain!!
6. Do you also believe that all the health practices championed by experts are the best to humanity and does not need further Improvement world wide??
7. Practitioner who did this!! did not act to his or her best knowledge or interest of humanity and the girl in quote because,if complications occur he can vindicate him self, there are public knowledge out there on the risks of what she did!! Which were possibly revealed to her and she choose to sign for the procedure, so the physician will win the case.

Ay04z:
and 190 people like diz post..... Dis generation is Lost already....

yahmohy27:

Rubbish none is better

Edusouls:
May My daughter do the same at that age claim it by saying amen? Generation of lost souls everywhere

gshsj:

There are temporary contraceptive....use Google ..don't stress me with the ignorance of one Aunt...young gals do reversible contraceptive in abroad like normal

Kobojunkie:
You mentioned in a previous post that you suggest the use of barrier methods over hormonal drug methods to your clients.

laluski:


Really so what solution would you have proffered...tell me

Kobojunkie:
Before now, parents have somehow always believed it was their place to force their will on their wards. But I believe that way has always been wrong since in reality that never always goes well anyways. These kids are naturally like us and they can fail and change the way the grown ones can. So the best approach to dealing with even this is while we provide them with wisdom from our own experiences, we also understand that should they choose to ply different paths from that which we did, it is not wrong to ensure they are at least protected from as many pitfalls as possible. Giving our kids sex education that is based on facts, along with tips on the use of family planning methods is not wrong.

TenQ:

I mentioned calender method, symto-thermal method, barrier methods. You focused on just one as if that was what I said.

Knowledge is powerful:

If I flip this over, my conclusion will be that you recommend exclusively only hormonal methods for birth control.

Taigaban:
"These kids are naturally like us and they can fail and change the way the grown ones can" The fact is often these kids failed and come back with HIV and other deadly STD's including unwanted pregnancy. So it's appropriate that we advocate abstinence.

Kobojunkie:
How effective has advocating abstinence alone been?

Taigaban:
It's been very effective, I know of many girls and boys who abstain from premarital sex. And today they are happily married and with children. No guilty conscience no STD's.

Kobojunkie:
So only a handful of individuals who you claim abstained, so for the others who didn't abstain, did you consider their fate lost then?

Taigaban:
Some have been fortunate and some lucky. Many have failed, but as nature favors them they are happy with their husbands and wives and children. However, many more are not lucky or fortunate.

Kobojunkie:
So, it is nature that favors those who you side with, and condemns those who you refuse to consider and aide? WOW!

Wittyglam:
thank you for getting my point cause a lot of people are praising the act.

Kobojunkie:
Teenagers are allowed to date other teenagers.

cedricksly:
I have already said it on line 4 to 6 that talking about what is wrong is she being Sexually active at that age as a minor.. But if she is active already and can't stop it, what better way is it to protect herself?