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Your question has been better constructed here and well written too.

https://gist.am/question/as-a-young-guy-what-are-the-consequences-of-asking-a-girl-to-come-to-stay-with-

22o62021:


Men in this town are ready to spend on young girls.

It won't be hard for her .

Free kpekus is not my concern.

They are other girls that are willing to visit me anytime.

you're approaching it wrongly. I think if you're not ready to house someone (especially for a young lady of 19), you should not even agree to it in the first place so you won't be tagged a bad person. But if you wanna house her, have all the discussion with her and ensure that feeding and other expenses are either covered by you or by anyone of the several parties.

Have this clear understanding first before saying yes or no.

Don't harbor in your mind to throw someone out when the said person hasn't disrespected you or stole from you. Just do something that you're comfortable with for the sake of humanity or not if you're not comfortable. Nobody will beat you

Rozross:
We already know it’s free sex that has occupied your mind, you can deceive others but not me

Ross rose
U too like vawulence

I know what you mean, that is, if you ask her for it and she said NO, you will throw her out, abi.

Enjoy yourself

Lol. One of the Consequences is pregnancy, so use condoms

[quote author=22o62021 post=116615245][/quote]you never still tell us wetin dey your mind

Ak75:
I know what you mean, that is, if you ask her for it and she said NO, you will throw her out, abi.

22o62021:


It's she and my cousin that will talk about feeding.

I told them that I'm not ready to feed anyone.

One room nah

One room?
U never serious for life

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Congratulations, may God bless the union

1. The probability of zina ( illegal sexual intercourse) which leads to hell if you die without repentance

2. If she dies in your house mistakenly you can go in for it.

You live in a single room, it's not advisable to accept a lady, if it were to be a guy, it would have been easy.
You need to think of the uncertainties..... She will feel obliged to offer you sex in return for the favors, the moment you fall or give in, there will be many unknown consequences... pregnancy may set in, you are trapped, you may find it difficult to send her away if any need be, your fiancee or girlfriend will never understand this arrangement and a whole lots.
I personally turned down all these kind of offers when I was staying alone in a 3- bedroom flat before I got married, it's a temptation that's difficult to resist.
But you can try it if you think you are an extraordinary gentle man
Wish you all the best.

Just pray make she no carry belle dey come hang for your neck.. one night is all it takes.

Beta hear word. You have no business training someone that has a family of her own.

There is NO WAY it won't end in sex. And belle

[quote author=22o62021 post=116615245][/quote] na pregnant go end

BADLUCK

Carndidlaydee:
Poor girl don't know what she got herself into. This gender ain't to be trusted


The day you touch or even think of anything sinister that day you will lose your life OP regard







Dead gender

First class degree holder in bitterness.

Online threats for what? U know OP in real life?
Nah to
finally enter market remain for your case.

Rozross:
We already know it’s free sex that has occupied your mind, you can deceive others but not me

You harsh o o!

22o62021:


Why you dey ask me for money?

You wan say I dey help woman and leave man abi?

Please bro borrow me 20k
I go pay u back next month unfailingly
Make I send aza ?
Na faith I dey use ask u so

Carndidlaydee:
Poor girl don't know what she got herself into. This gender ain't to be trusted


The day you touch or even think of anything sinister that day you will lose your life OP




Same way your sister(ireject it tho cos she a lady like me) will need help and they will take advantage of her and ENJOY THE FREE KPEKUS



Dead gender

Please the admin should ban this person, you do not threaten someone's life. Do you have any decency?

Carndidlaydee:
Poor girl don't know what she got herself into. This gender ain't to be trusted


The day you touch or even think of anything sinister that day you will lose your life OP




Same way your sister(ireject it tho cos she a lady like me) will need help and they will take advantage of her and ENJOY THE FREE KPEKUS



Dead gender

At the bolded...Aspa Amadioha wey you be abi

22o62021:


It's she and my cousin that will talk about feeding.

I told them that I'm not ready to feed anyone.

One room nah

One room ke.

You self no just try. A Young girl should relocate to another state to work only when she has a relative she can stay with in that state. Would you allow your younger sister to move to another state to live with a strange guy for several months? What you would not allow your family to do, you should also advise others against doing it.

Dem no deh teli person.


To be a responsible father this days no be beans…ooo

Rozross:
We already know it’s free sex that has occupied your mind, you can deceive others but not me

Free to Air sex already occupied his thoughts...

my advice for u is to ask one of ur female friend around or ur female neigbour, she can stay with cos how can u and a girl at that age be staying together alone

Carndidlaydee:


Where in abuja does she stay you this perv.

This moniker will soon get banned, keep on creating different monikers like a kid and also keep your hate against the Male gender.

Stillrealhomee:
Staying with you does not mean you should/will have sex with her. I accomodated a girl in my house for more than 2 months and nothing happened between us, we sleep on the same bed.

Liar

Unwanted pregnancies and abortions

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I will advise you don't accommodate a young girl of that age, I did that mistake in 2018 when I accomodated a junior colleague in school and also got a job of house mistress for her, she went ahead and rape a 14 year old boy from Lagos, and the boy was diagnosed of being psychological trauma, I was arrested for standing as her guarantor, and not only that the girl is not different from dog, na almost everybody dey nak ham for my street, even the guy that introduce her to me will travel all the way from ile ife to come and knack her when I'm away..

It's very dangerous and this is flesh anything can happen, I will advice you reject it before you put yourself in trouble
Sign out..

I have done it before but it might be more difficult in your own case. It is safer if she has a room for herself. You may simply introduce her to your woman and get to know her boyfriend. This will help to caution each other not to go beyond the line.

Unwanted pregnancy and frustration