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Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by abanihenry(m): 3:26pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Congrats bro, your Mum really loves you and want you to be responsible |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by 1gbdata: 3:27pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
If you have a girlfriend then it is time to leave. 2 Likes |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by Fatherfamous: 3:28pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
You are not making enough money to move up. Don't listen to her still you are strong enough.why does she want you out of the home so young in Nigeria bad economy without a good paying job.i repeat stay with her. |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by adecz: 3:29pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Maybe you are eating her food and not contributing, also her boyfriend says if he continues seeing you around her house, he will leave her❗️❗️☹️☹️☹️ You could also tell her and her boyfriend to assist in paying the first year's rent to get started ☑️☑️☑️ 1 Like |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by Ventura1: 3:30pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Your mum is a good woman, she understands the meaning of liberty, and decision making. |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by Nobody: 3:30pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Desusi: I can feel you. May God help us 1 Like |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by valentineuwakwe(m): 3:31pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Maybe u r the one changing the narrative here....u want to go rent ur own house alone where u go see change follow women n *uck them but ur mum no gree u.... Which mama go allow him 20 years sonwey no dey earn much to go pay for house |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by BaddestQueen(f): 3:31pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Moh247:shatap stop talking nonsense 1 Like |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by Roseey0(f): 3:32pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
You are completely useless to her at home that's why she wants you to face life and see how it feels ,to go out there and work so hard to feed a family that can't be usefull to her. Make your presence count and she will never bring it up again |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by Advancedman(m): 3:33pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Greattestman: Praise God for your mum she want you a king unlike those that will bury you physically and spiritually. |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by nedekid: 3:34pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
If only you stayed abroad. At that age it is not strange to move out as you would have learned a trade be schooling and working, at worst get a student loan to support your studies. Nigeria has failed lots of youths. I think your mum should be more understanding. 1 Like |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by noskcid(m): 3:35pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
I sensed your mom lost your father to the cold hands of death and at the moment because you are still a small boy you won’t understand that your mom needs someone. She wants to have some time out with her man friend I guess 1 Like |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by Streetmovement(m): 3:36pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Wotoporiously speaking Lol, me wey don jazz out even before I was your age but your mum is the opposite of my mum |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by Kobicove(m): 3:36pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Incredible128: His mates in advanced countries leave home at 18! 1 Like |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by int0x80(m): 3:38pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
20yrs is too soon to push someone out considering the situation of things in Nigeria. If she's a single mom, then you are probably cock-blocking her. 2 Likes |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by Isabi4lov: 3:38pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
This your story no clear |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by Ara21(f): 3:39pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Greattestman: Which shoes Maybe you are very rud to her. I rented my first house at age 19, I was alone, working and training myself in school. I wonder why children these days want their parents to die for them. |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by olaeffect(m): 3:39pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Jovialjune1: On point. Me I started working after graduations/NYSC @24yrs, and even got married in my father's compound @29yrs , dad was late, compound had 4 flats. Few years after my wedding I was transferred to a faraway state so I had to leave the family house/compound. Now I live in my own personally built house/compound Op should tell us the whole story. No body should use a dysfunctional family setting as a standard/norm. It is not normal for a Mom to chase out her 20yr old male child. Note: I am not condemning her ooo, because Op has not told us the whole story. 3 Likes |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by Karleb(m): 3:39pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Adonkia: unfortunately, time has changed. Both kid and mum might live to regret this action. 1 Like |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by NigeriaIsGreat: 3:40pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Berankis:please how do you mean? I have done everything within my reach to secure job but all to no avail. I have businesses I'm willing to kickstart but capital is out of reach, I don't have anybody at the top who could help me as it is often done in our climes, I volunteered for a particular organisation but stopped since i couldn't afford transportation fare and i wasn't paid, I've done poultry (chicken and farming) but i couldn't continue due to finances, I got a transcribing job to work remotely but i couldn't continue with the job because i don't have a laptop, I hardly eat two square meal daily, I still live with my poor parents in my mids 20s and the landlord is already threatening us as usual for rent Please tell me what have i not done to help myself and family? Please tell me what I've done wrong or what i need to do to salvage my condition? I'd appreciate your sincere advice Thanks 1 Like |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by FavouredNK: 3:40pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Greattestman: Why are you wasting your time responding to comments that doesn't deserve your energy? Pray about it and make a move, the best way to start is to start and I bet you that's what your mum is teaching you. You may think she's being mean to you now but you will later realize what she did for you and thank her. If you sit down and plan very well, you will definitely put that your small salary to good use and have the opportunity of starting your life independently early. It's all about putting your head down and being focused to make it in life. 1 Like |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by Cde1: 3:41pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Really are you a pest at home or predators |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by DropsMic(m): 3:41pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Greattestman: It’s obvious your dad is no longer in the picture. Personally i think your mom just need the house to herself so she can do whatever it is she wants and also invite whomever she wants to invite into her home. Life is short. 1 Like |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by VULCAN(m): 3:42pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Correction: It's not the people here, it's Nigerians in general. Incredible128 post=118486940: |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by Sirchiboy: 3:42pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Greattestman:. Your mother is the best woman in the world |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by luscious5454: 3:43pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
VictorDivine:Then use the proceeds buy house for banana island :- |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by fixitbyjal(m): 3:47pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Greattestman: Where is your dad 1 Like |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by olaeffect(m): 3:50pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Richy4: Dj Cuppy is above 30yrs and she is yet to be chased out, infact she got a house as a birthday gift. We should not allow poverty and poverty mentality to make us start misquoting norms. It is wrong to chase out a young man of 20yrs old in this times, considering all things being equal. But we need to hear from the Mom too. She may have her valid reasons. 2 Likes |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by fixitbyjal(m): 3:50pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Greattestman: If you want advise answer our question tOo shey you no get papa again |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by mediclife1987(m): 3:50pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Greattestman: Jalingo? You mama just wan force you out cos you dey disturb the díck wey she dey collect on low-key before from one man. Now she wants to be collecting it with peace of mind and you're standing in her way... Leave her alone make she dey collect her tin wotoporiously. |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by Tinsim: 3:54pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Thank your mother for preparing you for the future. 1 Like |
Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by Everbryte: 3:56pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Your Salary cannot sustain you, if you have to move out. If you have a trusted friend who is also willing to start live, you can come together to rent a place, but you have to be very careful about this, If your Mum is bent on you leaving her place at 20yrs only, there is nothing you will do to please her, she loves you but perhaps not enough to protect you any more, she want you to go. Discuss with a close aunt or cousin who can accommodate you for an agreed specified time, so you can plan, save money & rent you own place. You also need to consider if your mum is single & has a relationship and especially if the person involved is married, the pressure is external. God favour you |
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