jelel6:


At that moment, just like @Cave said, I became honestly speechless. I don't think somebody who'd say that can be 'reminded' about all that was done before. Atleast, not in that very moment.


So, you admit it's something you'd say yourself in the moment? It's not the nicest feeling for a guy to hear that, I'll tell you.

Sweetvie:
Marriage is not easy
Marry someone who's ready to stand with you. Someone who is ready to help you achieve ur dream. Marry a woman that see things in same view as you.
As the head of the house be ready for challenges. Yeah, no marriage is perfect... No person is perfect so don't be surprise if there's little changes in ur partner be mature enough to handle the situation.
Lastly, communication is the key to every relationship. It for better for worst so don't be ashame to share secret, don't keep things from each other it do cause a lot of misunderstanding in marriage. Let your wife/ husband be ur best pal

MufasaLion:
If you're not financially buoyant, you will regret it.

ibkayee:
Not being able to sleep diagonally on the bed anymore

jelel6:


This brought back memories and got me hysterical.

I was very recently close to a girl for about a year, not romantically but quite close and good friends. Naturally, we both did help each other out as our capacity permits.

We had a week-long quarrel once and as we both sat down to talk things through, she said with a straight face that I don't ever help her with a particular "issue". worse thing, she said that in passing without any prompt from me. I was so shocked I said goodnight and went to sleep. I just had to pretend that was never said so we could both move on.

Guess what cause our initial quarrel? At the course of me helping her with THAT same particular "issue". Something I've been helping with every now and then for over 8 months. Rude awakening!

I was shocked. I thought I was in cuckooland. I don't easily get flustered but she easily did got me that day. It'd much easier for you to convince me 2 + 2 = 0 than make me understand why she said what she said.

I can only imagine how a married man (woman? hardly) must feel if their loving wife just bloat out "what have you ever done for me?" in the middle of an argument.

Our sisters, and wifeys them, that are guilty of the above in the heat of the moment, why Una dey yarn that talk. I would truly like to know?

Miyachi:

It is more terrible when you hear it from your ward, someone you've nurtured and cared for.

searchlight:
Oga there is nothing like God. So all these marriages breaking are not founded on God? Stop deceiving people with God

cassyrooy:
I never marry but I don't like people that move with their Cartel/Parliament. Negative views can easily creep in.

jelel6:


This brought back memories and got me hysterical.

I was very recently close to a girl for about a year, not romantically but quite close and good friends. Naturally, we both did help each other out as our capacity permits.

We had a week-long quarrel once and as we both sat down to talk things through, she said with a straight face that I don't ever help her with a particular "issue". worse thing, she said that in passing without any prompt from me. I was so shocked I said goodnight and went to sleep. I just had to pretend that was never said so we could both move on.

Guess what cause our initial quarrel? At the course of me helping her with THAT same particular "issue". Something I've been helping with every now and then for over 8 months. Rude awakening!

I was shocked. I thought I was in cuckooland. I don't easily get flustered but she easily did got me that day. It'd much easier for you to convince me 2 + 2 = 0 than make me understand why she said what she said.

I can only imagine how a married man (woman? hardly) must feel if their loving wife just bloat out "what have you ever done for me?" in the middle of an argument.

Our sisters, and wifeys them, that are guilty of the above in the heat of the moment, why Una dey yarn that talk. I would truly like to know?

theophorus:
1. Your Wife is always right.

2. You will be the one to always apologize.

3. Sex reduces as Children comes in.

4. Outside you are a Lion but inside you are a Cat.

5. Money is good and important

6. Beauty without brain is a Curse.

7. Fine boy without Work is Endemic

8. You will sometimes feel you should never have married.

9. She seems not to want peace.

10. Verbal abuse is a norm

But still on still being married is Bae

Tradepunter2:


I think what the writer meant was that there should be honest feeling...

Take for example I knew a girl, she was seeing someone that guy was just managing...

I tried winning her over cuz I have what it takes to take care of her and she said she's sorry that she loves the guy and is willing to stick with him and help him achieve his goals...

I was Soo moved because I never knew girls like her still exist.... I ended up giving her some funds to help support her man...

So my standard now for a girl is there must be true love, I know how to bring out the pretense from women

When I say true love... Lady that will show some side to her and she will be like fk it, let's do it....

Because if she japa then she wasn't the one

SMJay:
What is the brutal truth about life after marriage?

faithfull18:
If you marry the right one who truly understands what marriage is about, truly loves God and keeps his commands, doesn't cheat or sleep around, is 100% honest and transparent about everything, is diligent and you both can work together to achieve common goals, you will enjoy heaven on earth

seanwilliam:


I’m not yet married but I really don’t like sharing my bed , 90% of time if my girl comes around, I’ll stylishly leave the bed when she’s fast asleep, except if we one do the do.


Another thing is I hate make women Dey wear my boxers on come over.
I also hate sharing same toilet .
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One night , I woke up in the middle of night , I looked up to my girl on the bed , if you see the way she take sleep and open mouth , I say shey na wetin I Dey kiss be this
True true I never ready for marriage

FashionCookie:
If you marry the wrong man/woman, the Devil will leave you alone because he knows you are finished!

theophorus:
1. Your Wife is always right.

2. You will be the one to always apologize.

3. Sex reduces as Children comes in.

4. Outside you are a Lion but inside you are a Cat.

5. Money is good and important

6. Beauty without brain is a Curse.

7. Fine boy without Work is Endemic

8. You will sometimes feel you should never have married.

9. She seems not to want peace.

10. Verbal abuse is a norm

But still on still being married is Bae

CaveAdullam:
1. The chances of achieving your goal become impossible or ultra slim.

2. As a father you will hardly have time for yourself because you are bothered about family bills.

3. Your only joy as a father is that your kids are healthy, intelligent, and becoming responsible.

4. As a father, the love your family has for you is predicated on the magnitude of your food storage and the depth of your pocket.

5. As a father when things go sour, the respect from nuclear and extended family plummets.

6. As a mother, you must serve your husband and children. You don't have time for vacations or rest.

7. As a father you will have at least one child that will behave in such a manner that it is as if he/she hates the family and wants to ruin the family name intentionally.

8. As a father only loyalty to your vows will keep you from infidelity because your wife will become boring by the day. Ditto for the mother.

9. The flames that run the marriage don't burn on their own. To keep the marriage fresh and the union alive the husband and wife must fan the flames.

10. As a father you'll one day be shocked and remain long-standing with mouth wide open, eyes gazing far when you are being asked "what have you done for me that you are using to boast".

11. As a mother you'll be expected to lead and provide even though it is not within your jurisdiction.

Marriage is a dreadful but enjoyable journey and must only be engaged by men and women who will be accountable and deliberate enough to hold to their specific marriage vows. Because marriage is the building block of civilization. The man and woman must be buoyant in the financial, physical, and spiritual angles (not religious) with no emotional baggage.

Thanks.

meetme01:


That's the main reason.

Women can easily change with their friends view on issues. Wrong advice et al

Azularis:
Marriage is over rated. It takes the Grace of God for it to last. Though married at times I wish I was single. If not for God, I for don run.

tete7000:


Ignorance is bliss. Unfortunately, that we deny reality does not stop reality from existing. One day we will know whether there is God or not. In the meantime, enjoy and wallow in your ignorance.

jelel6:


Like children or relatives? That'd be devastating.

cassyrooy:
Talk your own!

ravensckar:
When person wey never marry drop quote, e no dey hard to know.

Well done Marriage Counsellor!

frozen70:


Finance is not the major problem of marriage, the main problem is the attitude of the person you are married to

IyaTola:
It’s boring. Ish gets real and you see true colors. It’s a test to see if you can deal with a persons negative energy. Nobody is perfect but can you deal with THAT person’s negative seasons? Can you forgive easily? Or will you eventually get tired of the bs??

mariahAngel:


I would never say that intentionally, especially to spite. (I'm not that ungrateful/insensitive.)

I just would never stop asking/expecting.

Lastpharoah33:


wow, easy right there bro.

You guys are really scaring us with lines like this,