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ahnie:

I should walk with you?to where?
Polyandry is not practiced in Nigeria you know?

Interesting choice of words there. Amazing!

Bintdawood:
They live in a face me and face you compound, and they have misunderstanding like every other couple, and the husband beats his niqabite wife to the extent of stripping her naked in public, the co-tenants came to her rescue, but what the wife has been covering became a public debate, it's a pity.

There are good and bad brothers, just as we have for sisters too. A sister who is seeking marriage should be more selective than the brother, because a man is entitled to four wives at a time, but a woman is only permitted to have one husband at a time, that is enough reason to be more careful cum selective.

If anyone needs to be more concern with background check, it should be the woman, this is because correcting the errors made in any marital relationship is not easy on the part of the lady. When you come across red flags, treat them with all seriousness. Going emotional or falling in love remains the biggest mistake of most people seeking marriage.

If a man marries a woman he later discovers in marriage that he is not satisfied with, instead of divorcing her, he can decide to marry another wife, which a woman cannot do, if she marries a person that is not suitable in marriage, except she leaves that marriage and remarries, which is not that easy, or she stays put in the not too good marriage. If you observe, most women that are going through difficult marital problems find it difficult to leave the marriage especially when children are involved.

It is then important for the sisters to be smart about selecting their favourite male partners if they want to succeed in their marriages, especially if they do not want to be moving from one man to another, please select a man of character.

It will not be a bad idea if we include psychiatric evaluation in the lists of medical tests we are to conduct before marriage, some men are not fit to be husbands, they lack the charisma of leadership in the homefront, the problem is, they are not ready to learn new things because of self importance, ego and arrogance. Only men with good character succeed in marriage.

There is a brother in the neighbourhood, he changes women like clothes, he has four wives, any time he sees a new woman, he will go back home, and divorces one of his wives, to accommodate the new one. I wish our sisters well.

Do not be cheap, recharge card is enough to get some ladies, 'hello baby, have you eaten', will make some ladies to fall like pack of cards, marriage is not for a day. Please select men that value marriage.

We have men who believe beating is a corrective measure for a woman, such men will deal with their wives mercilessly, because they hold it that beating will make the woman to submit, some husbands say, 'I will beat you, take you to the hospital and spend my money on you'. There are men who believe women are many, infact, they are too many, so this mindset is making them to see women as commodities to toy it, such men will find it difficult to respect their wives, after all, they are many.

Sisters should not fall for appearance or money, but character, no responsible man should treat his wife like rag when he knows he has mother, sister, aunty and daughter, would he prefer they treat them the same way he is maltreating his wife?

Some men are full of self-doubt, ego, indiscipline and shameless acts, they respect nobody even in their direct families, if a woman marries one of them, your life will never remain the same, who will you report them to, such men deserve nothing close to a woman that is decent.

It is not as difficult as it looks in picking a partner, just be meticulous. The next time you are choosing a partner, please be careful, know the right reasons, select for the right reasons, the standard is this, if you are a good woman, marry a good man and not the other way round. Pay attention to details and invest in your relationship.

Abu Sheikh

I think this is a project topic

culf:
Being entitled to marry 4 wives doesn't mean he should abuse her and disgrace her in public, it already show he doesn't respect or value her and I wonder why will such woman not report such a grievous offence and have him punished because if left unpunished, it will be repeated again to either her or another.
I couldn't finish reading it because it was already getting to me.

#so many uncultured and unfortunate men everywhere these days

The bitter truth is that the problem is pandemically vice versal both men & women abuse the sacredness of marriage.
However the baby mama thing will only breed a generation of bastards that people will miss what is called bad marriage, for these children of a thousand father's will only destroy the little strings attaching mankind to some sanity called marriage.
You won't expect a bastard to Respect a married woman, for he knows nothing about it

HarlequinLekex:
Any man that beats his wife/gf in the name of making her submit to him is a MAD GOAT. Such type of man deserves to spent his remaining life in KUJE prison.
If it were in a sane society, the man would be charged for domestic violence then sentenced to jail. The over abuse/misuse of this DOMESTIC VIOLENCE law by women is just so ridiculous to the extent of sending an innocent man to jail.
Anybody that is passing through this difficult stage in marriage, MAY GOD BE WITH YOU.

so if my wife insult my mum i shd not beat her

You're right � �

Any man that beats a woman is a beast and I will never associate with such a man. However, if you are unfortunate and stupid enough to marry such a man, avoid what brings trouble or be ready to quit the marriage dead or alive.

is wrong to beat ur wife but women too shd be careful and not talk anyhow with insults.there is no man that will not react if his wife insult his mum

Never pity a woman who is married to an abusive man: she had many good men chasing her when she was younger and beautiful but she pushed them all away, she took some for granted, she thought some are mumu, she even ignored some JUST to be with the man she married.

She chose her fate. She made a choice. Let her face the consequences alone.


We all pay for the choices we make. Everyone pays eventually.

phemmyfour:
They turn good man to a bad one with the way they use their mouth

NO mate! Men need to learn the act of self control because sometimes women's words can be as dangerous as a nuclear bomb, their mouth is their weapon, but the man needs to build a bomb shelter through self control, is what I am saying easy, absolutely not, but is it possible? yeah!

Nonexisting1:
Any man that beats a woman is a beast and I will never associate with such a man. However, if you are unfortunate and stupid enough to marry such a man, avoid what brings trouble or be ready to quit the marriage dead or alive.

any woman that runs her mouth anyhow without control and disrespect her husband is a beast and I will never associate with such woman. However, if you are unfortunate and stupid enough to marry such a woman, avoid what brings trouble or be ready to collect series of beating or quit that marriage dead or alive.

Mtcheeew Nonsense & Shiiithole Poverty.

jaksmillioniar:
so if my wife insult my mum i shd not beat her

no sir! You should pet her and encourage her to insult your mum more!

Bintdawood:
They live in a face me and face you compound, .

Abu Sheikh

Your advice should end with "keep your Virginity for your husband and if you have lost it, well, prepare for a life of marital problems"

Entanglement:
no sir! You should pet her and encourage her to insult your mum more!

u must be very stupid for saying that

ahnie:
And after stripping them naked to the public such women would still foolishly open their legs for the men.

Spits

He paid for the legs Tobe forever opened for him. Dahhh!

LaconicINC:


NO mate! Men need to learn the act of self control because sometimes women's words can be as dangerous as a nuclear bomb, their mouth is their weapon, but the man needs to build a bomb shelter through self control, is what I am saying easy, absolutely not, but is it possible? yeah!

people like you give birth to weak men and useless simp!
So if your wife is emotionally blackmailing you! You will be there developing self control and bomb shelter until she cut of your penis and lost knife in your throat

Please guys! Don't fall for stupid ideology like this!
This is the type of ideology that make men commit sucide!

Instead divorce that bitchees or treat her fvckup! Don't stay in an abusing relationship or in the name of self control or bomb shelter

jeromestarks:

He paid for the legs Tobe forever opened for him. Dahhh!

Fvck off my mention,you this slowpoke.

jaksmillioniar:
u must be very stupid for saying that

lol you guys don't know sarcasm!
That's comments wasn't aim to insult you!
Go back and read it again and try to get the meaning!

See holes speaking as if they are responsible holes. After allowing yourself to be used as public toilet then you will come and advise me to be a good husband Una never see anything i swear.

sameoldguy:
With two indomie and one raw egg you can sleep with two different women.

Don’t you think it’s the women that needs psychiatric evaluation before getting into marriage?

Any woman that you slept with, with 2 noodles packs and an egg, is not worth a wife. A good lady will reject you and your advances, irrespective of your wealth. A good woman looks for character, prospect and attention, which bringforth love,,ok? Originally, every woman needs alpha male!

ahnie:

One spotted.

But thats the same thing u women say when a woman is behaving badly in a marriage.... "the man caused her to behave that way"

When a man has now dropped the same quote.. its now u realise its not good statement.... u women have a way supporting your gender's vices..

Even if its prostitution...y'all will still say the men forced or took advantage of the woman, yet she's the one that charged 50-200k per fvck....

CutSoap:
See holes speaking as if they are responsible holes. After allowing yourself to be used as public toilet then you will come and advise me to be a good husband Una never see anything i swear.

with Their panel beated puss.y

Wotoporiously speaking

There's a saying that goes "when you point one finger at someone the rest is pointed back at you, please do well to dish out this same advice to men on women who do the same things you're talking about here. I believe by so doing the message carry the weight of truth on both ends.

You gerrit, if you don't gerrit then fogerrit.

unclejb2:
Tinubu would never be president

Wetin concern Tinubu here, now. Please, leave Tinubu alone!

seun please which mod pushed this to the front page, t read this ost alone is giving me migraine.. The topic had nothing to do with the content at all.. Even tho it's incomprehensible.

Entanglement:
with Their panel beated puss.y

You don kee me with laugh

imadiyi:

Wetin concern Tinubu here, now. Please, leave Tinubu alone!

Wetin concern you for my comment? Are you one of Tinubu's paid online lackeys?