Lax75:

@ Uju:

My Sis, don't take it personal. Too much bad belle in Naija. Haba! Once when all I did was post a question about naijas in diaspora getting a job back home and what to expect, I got so many hateful responses from naijas in corporate naija talking about how we naijas in diaspora have no brains. They got into this whole thing about how all we do is come back home and blow "fone" but don't know jack. There were only a few sensible folks who took the time to answer my question. The others were so emotional. And we wonder why there is no progress in naija, when people walk around with so much jealousy and hatred on the inside.

How was your second date?

violent:

Below is what Oxford says about the subject matter.  I think you are the one caught up in your own little knowledge world. It's the 21st century darling, we're sweating our [i]a[/i]rses off trying to improve current global literacy rates, coming up with arguments based on what you "think" is right without reference and hoping people could simply "learn and get with the program" is only going to make our efforts drag!
more at; http://oxforddictionaries.com/definition/further

NRI PRIEST:

@BABE, U dissapointed me today  
why ?
While I was thinking of making u my best friend here, Why nah ?

uju_1:

Me sef I tire oh,  

Any way my dear it was lovely and he's still in my house with my brother and dad chilling.  His dad and my dad are old friends.

It felt comfortable and safe like 2 old friends. So much to talk about. The food was lovely I had yam and egg and it was really delicious, especially since I was at church all day and hadn't had time to grab breakfast before I left.

He was a complete gentleman.  He didn't go overboard like pulling out my chair etc. but he opened doors (car, restaurant etc) and he let me pick the cd in the car but still made me feel like he was the man by sitting facing the door of the restaurant and putting a protective arm around me among other stuff.

It was just lovely and I have butterflies in my tummy.  He kissed me on my forehead when we got in the house, kinda like a friendly peck,  my mum initiated it she was teasing us and he's quite tall so he had to lean down it was sweet.

I will soon go down and join them but it was really fun.  The yoruba boy has been bbing me non stop all weekend but I'm just enjoying my space!

Please haters dont try and ruin my joy your plans have already failed xx

Lax75:

Oh lord ! The English teachers are back. Na wa!!!!! I'm glad you had a "compensated" date. I wonder what kind of comments will flow now that you had a good date. Anyways, I wouldn't give a flying porkchop if I were you. At least I know what to expect when I move back home. Yam and Egg?? Wow, na you biko! I miss that too. Over here na so so french fries, sausage and biscuits. Tired of it.

premechaz:

@ujukokoro fugly omoibo

What is bbing?

76Naira:

Madam Uju,

Go enjoy your date.
I am surprised he is downstairs & you have all these internet stunts.
Probably same issue on your BB like I said earlier when the Mr. wrong drove while on the phone.
If a friend calls me now, I will close this page. I wonder why you are still here.
Do make the right choice, at the end of the day, its about success in the relationship, not about him bending around his waist to kiss you near his knees.

Now, run along, go have fun sissy.

bhusayor:

Sorry,this post was directed to premechaz,

uju_1:

just got home to read all this rubbish,  bad belle is the reason why a lot of people do not prosper.

I am not stuck up or spoilt i call most people in my house uncle and aunty as i grew up with them working for us.  Our driver is a young guy who just started last year so no need for uncle. And small madam started from naija film and its a joke around my house.

If my life is paining anyone it should pain them well,  na baba God make am no be by my power.

at so called 'stunna' i do not blame you. stunna my back foot. bad belle fit kill oh better be transformed by the renewal of your mind.

My parents do not know Mr. D you need to learn to read or better yet piddle off and stop trying to piss on my parade.

as for your amateur psycho-analysis, what you think means absolutely nothing to me so not gonna bother with an in depth response to every meaningless comment you made.

Quick Rhetorical Quiz for you: "Further explanation" or "Farther explanation" , which is 'correct'?

Btw, if there isn't much difference as you said, shouldn't Oxford have written just that? Why the long story?

So we went to dinner.  I absolutely love chinese and there are a number of really good chinese restaurants in the town but he took me to the one i absolutely hate and its also the furthest away,

ljila:

ALL lol
76Naira, take note you don't know everything. Didn't i say it?
But OP, chill and don't let people's posts get to you. Anyone who has the power to change your mood sorta controls you.  
Glad this afternoon went well. So when's the next date? (no ameboism intended   ) x

Lax75:

Reading is fundamental. Uju please oooo, now I'm the bad guy all of a sudden. All of a sudden na me be the nasty one.

Lax75:

I suspect a timing issue you probably posted at the same time but urs went up first  

Yep, and I corrected. But come oo. Are you implying that from now you will favour ndigbo boys? Just asking.

hmm, its possible oh, seems they treat you well because you are one of their 'sisters' but then again, there are good and bad people in every tribe. All na nigerian to me, don't really discriminate as long as they are not muslim (sorry oh) uneven yoking and all that lol

uju_1:

hmm,  its possible oh,  seems they treat you well because you are one of their 'sisters' but then again,  there are good and bad people in every tribe. All na nigerian to me, don't really discriminate as long as they are not muslim (sorry oh) uneven yoking and all that lol

God is good

$tunna:

hahahaha!!! look young miss -  as hard as it is for you to believe, some of us do actually have as much money as you do or even more, and this is true!!
my response touched a nerve didn't it? and no, i was not doing any psycho-analysis of ya, just explaining the hostile responses u got from so many people! the truth hurts,

tell us about your actual boy meet girl story, and save the gateman and house help info for your BFF again because we do not need any of that to make informed comments or response to your request for opinion! are you used to being told u can never do wrong and find it hash to be told that if this man is a monster then there is a problem with your judgement since it was not a blind date??

many people made this observation, and do u think we r all poor and envy that you can go to a Chinese restaurant??

if God made your life the way it is, then i look out my window and see that im seating on top of the richest city in the most advanced and wealthy nation of the world and i ask, who made my life the way it is then?? you are not talking to people just next door to you in nigeria, so control your desire to give us room to room picture of your house because some of your again do as a matter of fact have more money than you do and it sound infantile when u make your irrelevant small madam talk as the centre piece of your date from hell story,

oh well, u just came from the church so calm down and may u have peace as i do not want to disturb the peace u brought from the church, no further comments, ki

76Naira:

@ BABE

Are you for real?
You really believe this topic is about that?
Well, have fun

leggoo:

Wow men are very ill-mannered these days. I would never dream of taking a kiss from a girl in public in front of her gate with the security there. Even when abroad I still act African. So this guy is a clown. Though the girl should ask herself why is she attracting such men.

uju_1:

Point of correction dear, such a man. unless you have more examples to add to show the necessity of pluralization.

Thanks for your comment

Grown men are crying in this house seems arsenal was slaughtered. Think I will give them space to grieve lol.