| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Enumerator(m): 6:14pm On Dec 18, 2022 |
Confirm! Franzinni:
Hehe guy I know how you feel but to be honest you messed up big time, you know a woman loves to be chased but e get when she need to rest from all the running, alot of young men don't know and they keep chasing who nor dey run. ... You had her but now you have lost her forever becasue even if she takes you back and forgives you, you would not have the masculine frame and trust me in little or no time she will dump you patapata.
My advice is give her space ... Let her breath small, you can't choke another person and be asking them why they are choking goddammit!
You even went as far as calling her boss ...Omo you dey love puppy love ...wake up ! Wake your self the f up!! If you love her, you would be mature and apologize, then respect her decisions and give her space... Guy nah woman she be, if you play it right she will come back to you but if you think you can beg your way to her heart back you will only become repulsive and simply cheap.
Man up and shift your focus to your hustle even if your mind go her place ... Endure, resist and persist. After some days you will adjust and then you would be able to see clearly .
I have been in your shoes ... When I was in secondary school, I loved a girl so much ( I thought I did ) that I would wake up write a love letter, then walk like 30 miles to her school before she gets to school and wait to give her the letter, in my mind, that was the price to pay for love but in reality I was only being a pest, and a repulsive creature.
Let her breath... Your perception of love might not be her reality. |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Nobody: 6:41pm On Dec 18, 2022 |
BalogunIdowu:
For your last paragraph
Lies!!!
We say things to relieve ourselves of guilt! I mean girls not women |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Akemmi(m): 7:20pm On Dec 18, 2022 |
I wish you will read this. Try God. He has the solutions you need. With God all things are possible. What God cannot do does not exist. |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Alore: 8:48pm On Dec 18, 2022 |
Bimffo:
Brother are you well?
Someone is doing you like that and you are here crying and asking what to do because you love a girl?
Do you know the type of guys ladies love? Guys wey no send their papa.
As she block you everywhere, you sef do as if you no care. No call her for 3 weeks as she talk sey make you no call am.
No dey do like ode. You no be the first wey go love babe, and you no fit be last. Having control over your emotions like this no be love abeg.
The weyrey still dey use police threaten you, and you still dey talk love. Person wey dey look for way to discard you.
If you wan burst her bubble, you see that instagram, block her mama for there.
The only way you can save this relationship is if you show her sey you no care again.
You sha don beg am. She con still dey us popo threaten you. Person dey go station, come back as friends? I wish I can like this multiple times. My sentiments exactly. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by petrage(m): 9:15pm On Dec 18, 2022 |
Tonymario58:
Am I the only one not seeing anything the OP did wrong? Don't mind the ignorant bunch and sore loosers bashing op. It's clear that the bunch of people on Nairaland here lack sense of reasoning. |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by mandate12: 9:27pm On Dec 18, 2022 |
Mino1000:
Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.
We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.
On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.
She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.
I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.
We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.
I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.
Dear friend, This is not love, it is madness! Of all ppl to call, u chose to call her boss?? U should be more interested in ur mental health than relationship at this time. I am 100% sure u r insane. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by CaptainGo: 9:27pm On Dec 18, 2022 |
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| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Alore: 9:31pm On Dec 18, 2022 |
OP, please be a man and move on! Don't be a fool!
I was once in your shoes, I was always figuring out how I would not make this babe mad each time I was to meet her. And then I prayed to God to please show me if this is the right woman for my life. Then, she stopped talking to me for about 2 months. Me too I felt very bad at first, but after some weeks I picked up as a man and refused to call. She came back oh...but I had wised up and dumped her proud head. That was it! No regrets at all. |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by taikonet005(m): 9:34pm On Dec 18, 2022 |
It sounds like you are in a difficult and confusing situation. It's understandable that you would be worried and concerned when you couldn't reach your partner and were unable to confirm her safety. However, it's not appropriate to access someone's personal information or contacts without their permission, even if you are in a close relationship. It's important to respect each other's privacy and boundaries in a relationship.
It's clear that your partner is upset and hurt by your actions, and it's important to take her feelings seriously and try to understand where she is coming from. It sounds like she feels that you violated her trust and compromised the confidentiality of her work. It's important to listen to her perspective and try to understand how your actions have affected her.
It may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your concerns and apologize for your actions. It's important to be sincere and take responsibility for your actions, and to reassure your partner that you respect her boundaries and will not access her personal information again without her permission. It may also be helpful to discuss ways that you can support each other and address any trust issues that may have arisen as a result of this incident.
Ultimately, it will be up to your partner to decide whether she is willing to continue the relationship. It's important to respect her decision and give her the space and time she needs to process her feelings. If she is willing to work through this issue and move forward, it may be helpful to seek the guidance of a couples therapist or counselor who can help you both address any trust issues and communicate more effectively in the future |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Princesslee: 9:42pm On Dec 18, 2022 |
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| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Princesslee: 9:44pm On Dec 18, 2022 |
Uncle alll this English on top advice author=taikonet005 post=119257955]It sounds like you are in a difficult and confusing situation. It's understandable that you would be worried and concerned when you couldn't reach your partner and were unable to confirm her safety. However, it's not appropriate to access someone's personal information or contacts without their permission, even if you are in a close relationship. It's important to respect each other's privacy and boundaries in a relationship.
It's clear that your partner is upset and hurt by your actions, and it's important to take her feelings seriously and try to understand where she is coming from. It sounds like she feels that you violated her trust and compromised the confidentiality of her work. It's important to listen to her perspective and try to understand how your actions have affected her.
It may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your concerns and apologize for your actions. It's important to be sincere and take responsibility for your actions, and to reassure your partner that you respect her boundaries and will not access her personal information again without her permission. It may also be helpful to discuss ways that you can support each other and address any trust issues that may have arisen as a result of this incident.
Ultimately, it will be up to your partner to decide whether she is willing to continue the relationship. It's important to respect her decision and give her the space and time she needs to process her feelings. If she is willing to work through this issue and move forward, it may be helpful to seek the guidance of a couples therapist or counselor who can help you both address any trust issues and communicate more effectively in the future[/quote] |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Nobody: 9:44pm On Dec 18, 2022 |
Princesslee:
Uncle I don't cheat and I have never cheated in any of my relationship and I can beat my chest to that. Oya show me the 90 yrs virgin come to my room let me show you what you're looking for  |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Princesslee: 9:45pm On Dec 18, 2022 |
Send Location Antimarraige:
come to my room let me show you what you're looking for |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Nobody: 9:46pm On Dec 18, 2022 |
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| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Herbephe1(m): 9:48pm On Dec 18, 2022 |
osazsky:
wait o are u blaming the girl or this idiot who calls himself a man..abeg nor disgrce us most of us are men..wat is wrong is wrong..d lady did no wrong here rather the simp goat..i hate men way woman dey control..person go just love he nor go come get sense You seem to be wrong sir. so If your this man ,you would keep on begging her?? as far as I'm concerned.i will appologize for calling her boss if it seems wrong, but before we continue the relationship she needs to explain what she was doing at the hour that prevented her from picking my calls. I hardly take nonsense most especially from ladies |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Abdogood(m): 10:11pm On Dec 18, 2022 |
Mino1000:
Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.
We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.
On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.
She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.
I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.
We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.
I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.
Simply put you are possessive and obseses with her. You cross the line |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by dalass(f): 10:48pm On Dec 18, 2022 |
Mino1000:
I see a lot of people saying I was stalking her well, it might be useful to know that she gets pissed whenever I don’t check her location that she sent or when I sleep before ensuring she has reached home safely.
Also she is very big on security and whenever she is going out for work she gives the the colleague she is going withs number and asks me to call if I can’t get through after sometime if I don’t call and say her phone was not reachable she asks why I didn’t call her colleague.
Normally I don’t have time for all this and she complained that I was always coding instead of checking up so I adjusted.
As for finances we are both doing well in the tech industry so that is not the problem or why I am trying to save the relationship.
She is back but right now I am just observing. Also, I called her boss because that was the last person she was with. Leave her a cool voice note that you still love her, you made a mistake by calling her boss. Maybe her boss has queried her so she's currently angry that you almost destroyed all she's worked for. Stop worrying. Take a chill pill and stop calling, checking, visiting and let her feel your absence too Yes. If too much into a lady, wahala Pretend you don't care too much |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by naturefellow(m): 11:56pm On Dec 18, 2022 |
Antimarraige:
werey go ask your papa for house. Acrimonious ko, Tyler Perry ni obviously know the word Acrimony courtesy of Tyler Perry |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Tonymario58: 12:19am On Dec 19, 2022 |
petrage:
Don't mind the ignorant bunch and sore loosers bashing op. It's clear that the bunch of people on Nairaland here lack sense of reasoning. Many of them here really lack sense in the guise to sound woke. A fiance been disgusted because the man went extra mile to worry about her safety in this disturbed Nigeria 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Startupfactory: 3:19am On Dec 19, 2022 |
Mino1000:
Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.
We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.
On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.
She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.
I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.
We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.
I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.
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| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Lagosbrand44: 3:32am On Dec 19, 2022 |
The answer to your question is on this Nairaland thread: www.nairaland.com/7486068/relationship-book-works-like-magicMino1000:
Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.
We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.
On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.
She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.
I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.
We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.
I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.
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| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Mujinho4b(m): 6:47am On Dec 19, 2022 |
You don't trust her. That's simple and understandable. Dont be shy or proud to admit that.
Just give her a break or look for another woman that understands you.
We have millions of good women out there, that are beautiful, smart and will not get offended by this small thing, because this isn't supposed to be as serious as she took it, thats if she truly loves, respect, and sees a future with you.
Only the Guilty will over react like this.
I was in such relationship like this, we broke up.
But I met someone amazing and way better.
We are now happily married. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Stompie: 8:43am On Dec 19, 2022 |
I hope this story isn't true because I was shaking my head reading this. Anyway, aside from crying and begging a woman, the OP did nothing wrong with what he explained. He is not a stalker but only cared too much for someone who didn't care or respect him.
His main problem is not being aware of female nature. He needs this knowledge ASAP or he will suffer greatly at the hands of women in future. The issue here is elevating this career-minded girl who clearly doesn't love nor respect him to girlfriend status and then fiance within 6 months.
She has not earned any of these privileges and doesn't deserve them in my opinion. I don't know why guys do this. Let the girls ask for relationship and then you give your conditions. Don't hand it out freely like that. That is why this girl has the audacity to block a man who was genuinely worried about her safety and called her boss.
A woman must be more invested than the guy in any relationship dynamic for things to work. OP clearly loves her more and she is manipulating him for benefit.
The questions that have still not been answered are, where she at that time of night and why no contact? She more than likely was cheating and that is unacceptable.
The OP should have quickly realised that this girl was not relationship-material, kept her on the side for "chopping" and not take her seriously. But he probably saw big yansh and got carried away.
My advice: Put more focus on yourself and stop monitoring these women like that. They should see you as the catch and chase you. Also, do not share your password info with your girl even if she shares hers .
And, for heavens sake, stop this silly begging immediately. In fact, block her and do not contact her again - no calls, no texts, no liking her pics on IG. Take the lessons, forget her and move on. You showed so much weakness and lost leverage by this pathetic begging.
Focus on your job/ career/ business but go out and socialise in your spare time. If she tries to come back say no and don't budge.
Assert your manhood brothers! Stop being a simp! 1 Like |
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| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by peedeeasobie(m): 10:17am On Dec 19, 2022 |
Mino1000:
Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.
We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.
On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.
She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.
I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.
We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.
I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.
What on earth is happening to this generation of men... this consistent actions of stupid.ity is becoming worrisome. Why were you calling her like that? You even called her boss?? You have a strong sense of insecurity and inferiority complex. You don't need a relationship, you need help. She blocked you and you are begging her? That is why she will deal with you patapata. Here is what you should do (though I know that you won't). Send her a message telling her that " you have discovered she doesn't deserve your kind of love... that even though you made a mistake calling her boss, it is because you cared... but you have found out that she has been planning to end things since... so she should go ahead. You won't ever disturb her again. Take care and bye." Then, lock up. Don't call her, don't view her status. Pretend like she doesn't exist... if she truly cared for you, she will reach out. If not, forget about her. |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by tk4radi: 11:41am On Dec 19, 2022 |
Mino1000:
Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.
We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.
On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.
She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.
I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.
We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.
I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.
Move on sir, and Lear more about yourself. Your love is stressful. |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Nobody: 11:50am On Dec 19, 2022 |
naturefellow:
obviously know the word Acrimony courtesy of Tyler Perry obviously you inherited your stupidity from your parents. Your foolishness is hereditary. For you to even think acrimony as such a big word lol |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Tegabadguy(m): 1:15pm On Dec 19, 2022 |
Mino1000:
Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.
We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.
On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.
She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.
I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.
We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.
I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.
let her go |
| Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by skj1377(m): 4:09pm On Dec 19, 2022 |
Oga no business transaction outside sex happens with a single lady by 11.30pm. Her phone was not available because she was sexing. Anyways it's like you don't know what is the norm and as such your helpless with your cheating girlfriend. Wish you happy married life your not the first to marry such and you will never be the last. Mino1000:
I see a lot of people saying I was stalking her well, it might be useful to know that she gets pissed whenever I don’t check her location that she sent or when I sleep before ensuring she has reached home safely.
Also she is very big on security and whenever she is going out for work she gives the the colleague she is going withs number and asks me to call if I can’t get through after sometime if I don’t call and say her phone was not reachable she asks why I didn’t call her colleague.
Normally I don’t have time for all this and she complained that I was always coding instead of checking up so I adjusted.
As for finances we are both doing well in the tech industry so that is not the problem or why I am trying to save the relationship.
She is back but right now I am just observing. Also, I called her boss because that was the last person she was with. 2 Likes |
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skj1377:
Oga no business transaction outside sex happens with a single lady by 11.30pm. Her phone was not available because she was sexing. Anyways it's like you don't know what is the norm and as such your helpless with your cheating girlfriend. Wish you happy married life your not the first to marry such and you will never be the last. Gbam!!! OP na confirm mumu. |
