yagsidy: y do parents neglect last borns after training the odas.. because I've been at home for more than 2 years without dem saying anything about how I'm going to go to school.. rather the use u for their errands and later give excuses about not having funds.. It has made me lose interest in school.. Advise needed please

open a thread for this. Only then can you get your desired result plus the needed advice.
This thread is for request and complaints.

My story goes thus:

my problem started wen my Dad secured an admission 4 me about 4yrs ago, tinkin it was a predegree programme but later I get 2 knw dat it was a 2yrs Diploma programme.

Afta dat programme He tout I've bin given direct entry into 200lvl (because he 1cs asked me hw far about it whch I replied Him positively because I don't 1t 2 stay at home doin notin about my future plans). Fortunately 4 me dis yr, I'm among dos dat gain admission dis yr (inshort into 2 different skol).

I don't knw hw 2 start tellin him dat all dos yrs he tout I was in skol, dat I was jus stil waitin 4 admission. Thou, al dos yrs I rarely ask him 4 money, because I was jus run up & dyn jus 2 get dis admission because I knw dat its d step 2 my future.

Wil he ve d mind 2 4giv me, 4 lyin to him all dis tym, wil he undastand dat al dis yl its not my fault? (because even if I tel him I was not admitted den, al he wil say is dat "wel dat is ur kettle of tea" whch I don't 1t)

pls, hw should I approach him on dis mata, hw should I go about it.

Note: ur advice is essential n it might be helpin out anoda fellow lik me wo mayb in dsame hole lik mine

Is there still any mod in this section?

Istand: My story goes thus:

my problem started wen my Dad secured an admission 4 me about 4yrs ago, tinkin it was a predegree programme but later I get 2 knw dat it was a 2yrs Diploma programme.

Afta dat programme He tout I've bin given direct entry into 200lvl (because he 1cs asked me hw far about it whch I replied Him positively because I don't 1t 2 stay at home doin notin about my future plans). Fortunately 4 me dis yr, I'm among dos dat gain admission dis yr (inshort into 2 different skol).

I don't knw hw 2 start tellin him dat all dos yrs he tout I was in skol, dat I was jus stil waitin 4 admission. Thou, al dos yrs I rarely ask him 4 money, because I was jus run up & dyn jus 2 get dis admission because I knw dat its d step 2 my future.

Wil he ve d mind 2 4giv me, 4 lyin to him all dis tym, wil he undastand dat al dis yl its not my fault? (because even if I tel him I was not admitted den, al he wil say is dat "wel dat is ur kettle of tea" whch I don't 1t)

pls, hw should I approach him on dis mata, hw should I go about it.

Note: ur advice is essential n it might be helpin out anoda fellow lik me wo mayb in dsame hole lik mine

Please open a topic for your situation.
Am sure more people will be willing to advice you better.

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Hi mods,

Is it too late to recommend this for front page?

https://www.nairaland.com/1511808/whats-name-daughter-changed-name

Thanks.

tnature: Hi mods,

Is it too late to recommend this for front page?

https://www.nairaland.com/1511808/whats-name-daughter-changed-name

Thanks.

It's an old thread sir and it has been recommended before.

@Tgirl4real and Royal roy,

I am of the opinion that some posts should never make the front page where it will be bastardised.

Case in point is that of the lady asking for solution about her sexual experience. It is wrong to move it to front page. She is already getting reasonable advices.

Please disregard if she asked for it herself.

Thanks

bellong: @Tgirl4real and Royal roy,

I am of the opinion that some posts should never make the front page where it will be bastardised.

Case in point is that of the lady asking for solution about her sexual experience. It is wrong to move it to front page. She is already getting reasonable advices.

Please disregard if she asked for it herself.

Thanks

You are very right sir.

However the moderators don't put topics on the front page, we can only recommend topics that we believe are educational and that people can learn from . Sometimes it gets picked and a times it gets skipped.

There is a super mod who is responsible for putting most of the recommended topics on the front page.


However, there are times she also comes here to pick topics at random by herself and places it on the front page without our recommendations.

I for one have complained many times about this because not all topics in the family section is suitable for front page where kids and ignorant people jump on it and make nonsense of the topic.

I will present this view of yours again to the Admin. I hope they do something about it soon.

Thanks

Royal Roy:

You are very right sir.

However the moderators don't put topics on the front page, we can only recommend topics that we believe are educational and that people can learn from . Sometimes it gets picked and a times it gets skipped.

There is a super mod who is responsible for putting most of the recommended topics on the front page.


However, there are times she also comes here to pick topics at random by herself and places it on the front page without our recommendations.

I for one have complained many times about this because not all topics in the family section is suitable for front page where kids and ignorant people jump on it and make nonsense of the topic.

I will present this view of yours again to the Admin. I hope they do something about it soon.

Thanks

@mod, this thread is so educative and interesting, it has a lot of stuff to learn from, i therefore recommend it for FP. Thanks.


https://www.nairaland.com/1547351/no-one-seen-us-quarrel-tunde

greatgod2012:


@mod, this thread is so educative and interesting, it has a lot of stuff to learn from, i therefore recommend it for FP. Thanks.


https://www.nairaland.com/1547351/no-one-seen-us-quarrel-tunde

Good topic.

Done

@ mod Nike and roy, pls I'd like to knw where I have violated any posting/ thread creation rule as this wud help me the next time I'd be posting / creating a thread..cos av not been able to reply questions thrown @ me in d last thread I created...

ECSpee: @ mod Nike and roy, pls I'd like to knw where I have violated any posting/ thread creation rule as this wud help me the next time I'd be posting / creating a thread..cos av not been able to reply questions thrown @ me in d last thread I created...

I just checked your log and you have not been banned or blocked for any reason.

For you to be able to make the complain above means you are eligible to make posts and comments.

Probably your internet was acting up at the time.

Please try again now.

Regards

Mods,

Would you please recommend this post for FP? I'm sure Nairalanders would like it.

https://www.nairaland.com/1563647/girl-born-surrogate-moms-best

Thanks!

Hellow moderator, pls can u help and delect my post and all the comment? it has serve it purpose and am really grateful for all the advice.

Hi mod,pls can you recommend this for front page...https://www.nairaland.com/1564058/sperm-comes-out-wifes-womanliness

@mod, what happend? no reply and cant fine the complain here.

olubolove: Hellow moderator, pls can u help and delect my post and all the comment? it has serve it purpose and am really grateful for all the advice.

Sorry, we can't delete your post and all comment. However, we can lock a thread if you don't want comment on it anymore. Kindly provide a link to the thread.

stevejoy: Please,is it mandatory to call your in-law regularly?

Lol

Although you posted this on the wrong thread but let me indulge you.

Yes..... It is mandatory to call your in-laws..... At least once a month.

You don't "take" a whole human being from his/her source and not look back.

It's courtesy.... Let them know their son or daughter is doing well and good.

Pls hw can I get d notification of someone dat quote me on nairaland as alert on my fone? Tankx

oesnac: Pls hw can I get d notification of someone dat quote me on nairaland as alert on my fone? Tankx

Sorry boss. There is no such facilities on nairaland yet.
But Am sure the programmers will be willing to add such on.

Tgirl and RR why did you guys ban me na

Chillis: Tgirl and RR why did you guys ban me na

Maybe when you tell us your old username we can also tell you why you were banned.

Royal Roy:

Maybe when you tell us your old username we can also tell you why you were banned.

Chillisauce. Pls unban me. Tenk u

Chillis:

Chillisauce. Pls unban me. Tenk u

Ahhhh.

Just checked your log.

Mukina 2 banned you for constantly derailing threads .


Lol.

How do you plead?

%^^^^ they were fighting and cursing, so I decided to stop the fight by constantly pasting picture relating to the topic. Check the pics posted and see if it was not related.

Tell mukina to unban me abeg, or I dash her that username. See me the peace maker.

'How do you plead?' RR don turn lawyer

Still banned. Mukina and co, y'all should keep it. Keep the "auce" in the chillisauce, I got me a new one.

Chillis: Still banned. Mukina and co, y'all should keep it. Keep the "auce" in the chillisauce, I got me a new one.

Ahhhh.

I have unbanned you since morning joor.

Thanks .