Only fools trust their lovers. I have never trusted anyone. Trust Nobody, is my life policy. When a girlfriend sent me a text message and said "I trust you", I warned her never to trust anybody, except our maker GOD. Many lovers get upset when you tell them you do not trust them. They will swear and vow, but don't be fooled. Even as a child I told my parents that I did not trust them. Humans are very weak creatures when it comes to FAITH and TRUTH, the two things you need most to have TRUST. Most of the problems people post and whine about here would have been prevented if they never trusted their lovers. Spare us all the whining and face the facts of the realities of life on earth. ed if they never trusted their lovers. Spare us all the whining and face the facts of the realities of life on earth.

@ Orikinla

True talk gbam

You have trust issues hmmmm. When did you make this amazing discovery?

@op,tanxs for posting dis kind mesag here.i learn not to trust enybody except God wen som1 i neva expect betrail me wch almost lead to heart attack.Since den,neva neva again

You can trust your lover depending on his or her personality.

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I over trust my boo and I'm not a fool. Just that she gave me reasons to over trust her. Trust is underrated

it's sad that so many have trust issues in their lives. i certainly understand that you can't trust everybody BUT trusting no one is a sure way to fail in LIFE!

^^^^ Placing all your trust in someone is part of the "freefall "of loving . If you always have a backup plan,then youre not really in it totally. The fear of getting hurt is holding you back. It doesnt have to be logical.

@ poster, life is dynamic and if full  of twists and turns, but is it enough to say to the one you love " You can trust that I will always be honest and upfront with you?"

claremont:

^^
On the contrary, failing to have a back-up plan is what has made many people embrace thorns which they thought were roses!

Thorns are a part of the deal sometimes. A backup plan can be simply " I have no backup plan. I will be fine no matter what" Then just give it your all.

I beg to differ, i trust my chick but it depends tho not that i trust her in every aspect of life.

the important question IS:
- why shouldn't i trust someone who gave me all the reasons (I needed) to TRUST her?
- how can anyone fully enjoy being in a r/ship if they have no trust in their partner?!

beats me!

MRbrownJAY:

the important question IS:
- why shouldn't i trust someone who gave me all the reasons (I needed) to TRUST her?
- how can anyone fully enjoy being in a r/ship if they have no trust in their partner?!

beats me!

MRbrownJAY:

the important question IS:
- why shouldn't i trust someone who gave me all the reasons (I needed) to TRUST her?
- how can anyone fully enjoy being in a r/ship if they have no trust in their partner?!

beats me!

Yes, and if someone doeasnt trust you when you deserve it, when you are giving them yourself, then doesnt it show something lacking from the person who cant trust?

I am a hardcore realist and the fact is you can't trust people. At least not in all facets of life. We are dynamic. We change. We break our word.

@op

The difference between me and you however is that I'll look at whoever it may concern in the face and tell her that I trust her.

Life is easier that way.

Anyhoo, my belief is my belief. Trust no one. At least, not completely.

#ayafspoken

The thing is the more time you spend with your lover,you tend to trust them unknowingly to you,
and that doesn't make one a fool.
.

I trust Goldieluks does that make me a fool?

REALITY101:

I trust Goldieluks does that make me a fool?

Lmao,not at all.

Lool

true talk

So you are a fool as well

@OP
Na u sabi I TRUST MY WIFE & I know I'm not a fool or is my wife not qualified to be my lover?

@OP.
U r right. Lets call a spade a spade.
In my opinion, i have little or no trust for anyone.

a lil trust is okay but have a backup plan. don't be a fool

talina:

Yes, and if someone doeasnt trust you when you deserve it, when you are giving them yourself, then doesnt it show something lacking from the person who cant trust?

yes it shows that this person has issues and that they shouldn't be in a r/ship until they solve these issues.
sadly, many will rather have their r/ship suffer due to their insecurities instead of accepting that they have a problem.

lagcity:

a lil trust is okay but have a backup plan. don't be a fool

are you saying that a partner should never be FULLY trusted?!

A lot of Nigerians are paranoid schizophrenics.

MRbrownJAY:

the important question IS:
- why shouldn't i trust someone who gave me all the reasons (I needed) to TRUST her?
- how can anyone fully enjoy being in a r/ship if they have no trust in their partner?!

beats me!

May your days be long.

claremont:

I perfectly agree with the OP, no one is 100% trust-worthy. I don't think it makes any sense to place 100% of your trust on anyone/anything, it's totally irrational and insane. Human beings are designed in such a way as to be motivated to have contingency plans, just in case the initial plan doesn't work; failure to do so, due to an irrational 100% trust in someone/something, is totally defeatist and makes no logical sense.

Are you an automaton?

Orikinla, Do u at least trust urself? If u do then going by ur word u must be a fool cos d fact remains ''u have trusted sombody and dt person is orikinla personified! Lol.

LOVE does not equal TRUST. I love bought cannot trust completely. Humans are limited and will dissappoint one way or another.

steeze:

I am a hardcore realist and the fact is you can't trust people. At least not in all facets of life. We are dynamic. We change. We break our word.

@op

The difference between me and you however is that I'll look at whoever it may concern in the face and tell her that I trust her.

Life is easier that way.

Anyhoo, my belief is my belief. Trust no one. At least, not completely.

#ayafspoken

seconde!