Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by johnwell(m): 12:36pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
Fineman2: So I met this lady 2 weeks ago in school, she came for her project work.
She showed a lot of interest during our conversation which made me to collect her number, thereafter we continued chatting on WhatsApp and calling
She later said she will be coming to school and I told her to let me know so that I will meet her in school because I live very close to our school, infact I invited her to my place but she later postponed it and said she won't be coming again and said I should visit her instead.
I wasn't prepared for such outing that day so I told her to wait till Sunday and she agreed, we continued chatting on WhatsApp till yesterday Sunday morning, she called me early in the morning to inquire if I will still visit her and I said yes, she said by 12pm because she will first go to church.
When it was 11:30, I called her and she asked if I had left home and I told her very soon, she now said I should call her once I get to a particular location and give the phone to bike man so that she will give us the direction to her place.
I left home 12:10 pm, got to the location, negotiated with okada man, called her number but she didn't pick, I called the second time, she didn't answer so I thought maybe she wasn't with her phone.
I waited for her to call back but she didn't, after waiting for awhile without reaching her, I told the bike man to carry another passenger.
The last time I called her, she switched off her phone, I returned back to my house.
She hasn't called to offer any explanation after 20 hours and I'm just surprised.
Here is my question for ladies on this forum, is what she did okay? What do you think made her to behave that way?
I'm not the type that run after ladies up and down, I hardly do such thing, I've avoided women for most part of my life and such ugly experience will surely affect the way I relate with them anywhere I find myself
She was busy with another client, don't intrude! 2 Likes |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Hassanmaye(m): 12:37pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
adler777: Sorry bro. She probably had another "guest".
One thing I must tell you as a guy is: never visit ladies, let them do the visiting, there's more respect for you as a guy that way... No matter how compelling she sounds, always let her be the one to visit you.✌🏾 Thank you sir 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Hassanmaye(m): 12:38pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
success1smyn: It happened to me sometime ago, I called this lady severally, she didn't answer the phone and switched off the phone after a while so I stopped calling her and went back. She sent a voice message the following day that she lost her mum and has been crying since.
Lesson: Wait till you hear from her Noted sir 2 Likes |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Hassanmaye(m): 12:39pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
padi94: Avoid women house next time Haha |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by McDiplomat777(m): 12:40pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
Lauhing my ass out. MUMU+FOOL=MUFU 1 Like |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by qtx(m): 12:40pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
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Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Babara1994(m): 12:41pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
Fineman2: Please nobody should call me a simp
We are not of the same tribe, so could that be the reason she changed her mind? She must be a Yoruba girl. That's how they do 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by BABYBULLETIN: 12:42pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
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Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Hassanmaye(m): 12:42pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
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Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by WelcomeToBiafra: 12:43pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
Ladies are no where to be found here. Ladies know thy selves Nigerian ladies are like Nigerian corrupt politicians, beware of dem o. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by TheChameleon: 12:45pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
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Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by anyilalaz: 12:45pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
In a space or two weeks or so you don the invite baby or later the baby invites you!!! Haba, it was too early for both of you. Next time, first thing, invite a lady to a public space-Cafe, cinema, cool restaurant, any fun environment. Next you invite her to your house. Visiting her house is the last on the process line.
Nevertheless, just ghost her, if she reach out ok but if not ok too. Never you show signs of disappointment over for what happened. 5 Likes |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by BABYBULLETIN: 12:45pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
greggng:
I.am not a lady but I believe every disappointment is a blessing in disguise . God most have saved you from untimely death. That lady could ve lured you into wrong hands and your head used for ritual ...you made a mistake by going to her ...she most be the first person to come to you ...then you study her ..atleast know one or two about her b4 you started paying her a visit ... but if it wae the lady that try to visit him,she wouldnt hqve be use for ritual ba..truely common sense is not common...no be everything be ritual ritual..why them neva used you for ritual 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by samonak(m): 12:48pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
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Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by OlawaleBammie: 12:52pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
Fineman2: So I met this lady 2 weeks ago in school, she came for her project work.
She showed a lot of interest during our conversation which made me to collect her number, thereafter we continued chatting on WhatsApp and calling
She later said she will be coming to school and I told her to let me know so that I will meet her in school because I live very close to our school, infact I invited her to my place but she later postponed it and said she won't be coming again and said I should visit her instead.
I wasn't prepared for such outing that day so I told her to wait till Sunday and she agreed, we continued chatting on WhatsApp till yesterday Sunday morning, she called me early in the morning to inquire if I will still visit her and I said yes, she said by 12pm because she will first go to church.
When it was 11:30, I called her and she asked if I had left home and I told her very soon, she now said I should call her once I get to a particular location and give the phone to bike man so that she will give us the direction to her place.
I left home 12:10 pm, got to the location, negotiated with okada man, called her number but she didn't pick, I called the second time, she didn't answer so I thought maybe she wasn't with her phone.
I waited for her to call back but she didn't, after waiting for awhile without reaching her, I told the bike man to carry another passenger.
The last time I called her, she switched off her phone, I returned back to my house.
She hasn't called to offer any explanation after 20 hours and I'm just surprised.
Here is my question for ladies on this forum, is what she did okay? What do you think made her to behave that way?
I'm not the type that run after ladies up and down, I hardly do such thing, I've avoided women for most part of my life and such ugly experience will surely affect the way I relate with them anywhere I find myself
U don't even know if her fon got lost why going home from the church. |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by PeterObi4LP: 12:54pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
Years back, I invited this good looking girl I met on fcbk. We got talking and checking up on each other. She's from Enugu State, so I invited her to my place in Anambra State where I was serving as corper then.
Behold she showed up to my street as directed and was calling me to come pick her up! Unknowing to her I have already position in one of the shop located there to check her out. Menh what I ordered on fcbk is different from what was delivered to me. I just keep telling her I'm coming until I switch my phone iff. Later she called someone who spoke with a bike man to bring her. Around 8:30pm I called her to give her excuses that I forgot my phone inside the keke I entered to come pick her, I had to go back to look for the keke guy. She promise to come back in the morning I ignore her calls till today.
Though I felt bad about it. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by BeardedmeatR(m): 12:56pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
Sniper101: Her boyfriend must have showed up at her house unannounced
It's a Sunday ... remember?
Your one consolation is the fact that... I see her calling you on phone or coming to school to find you and apologize about yesterday. I see her asking you to try visiting her again or she asking you when you'll like her to come visit you. I see her allowing you deep your stick inside her canal. I see her steadily cheating on her boyfriend with you; if you were a great fvcka the first time
This I have seen
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Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by BeardedmeatR(m): 12:57pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
Kingsean:
Truth is you didn't do anything bad as far as she gave you her consent to visit. she likely had another guy with her that's why she behaved that way. I would advise that you cut the friendship as she isn't a straightforward person. don't bother calling her anymore and don't invite her over again. just be plain with her even after she apologize over her actions Fineman2 you don hear? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Vietnaminfo(m): 12:58pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
Fineman2: So I met this lady 2 weeks ago in school, she came for her project work.
She showed a lot of interest during our conversation which made me to collect her number, thereafter we continued chatting on WhatsApp and calling
She later said she will be coming to school and I told her to let me know so that I will meet her in school because I live very close to our school, infact I invited her to my place but she later postponed it and said she won't be coming again and said I should visit her instead.
I wasn't prepared for such outing that day so I told her to wait till Sunday and she agreed, we continued chatting on WhatsApp till yesterday Sunday morning, she called me early in the morning to inquire if I will still visit her and I said yes, she said by 12pm because she will first go to church.
When it was 11:30, I called her and she asked if I had left home and I told her very soon, she now said I should call her once I get to a particular location and give the phone to bike man so that she will give us the direction to her place.
I left home 12:10 pm, got to the location, negotiated with okada man, called her number but she didn't pick, I called the second time, she didn't answer so I thought maybe she wasn't with her phone.
I waited for her to call back but she didn't, after waiting for awhile without reaching her, I told the bike man to carry another passenger.
The last time I called her, she switched off her phone, I returned back to my house.
She hasn't called to offer any explanation after 20 hours and I'm just surprised.
Here is my question for ladies on this forum, is what she did okay? What do you think made her to behave that way?
I'm not the type that run after ladies up and down, I hardly do such thing, I've avoided women for most part of my life and such ugly experience will surely affect the way I relate with them anywhere I find myself
All I see here is "Time Management ". Try to keep to time and know that not everyone has time to waste. You guys agreed by 12:00pm and at 12:10pm, you are living your home not even at her house. She got something serious to do with her life jaree. Learn to be punctual in your dealings and always keep to time. I know you pocketed 1 or 2 condoms incase miracle happens. 😆 🤣 😂 1 Like |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Zonefree(m): 12:59pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
seanwilliam: Well, you should not jump into conclusion yet. Many things could have happened then. There was a time a girl left my place , I was calling her to make sure she’s got to her place. I called up to 20 times ( reasons is I always have this fear if a woman visits me , until she gets to her place safely , my heart won’t be at rest, especially if she sleeps over ).
I had to call her friend , she didn’t pick too.
She left my place around 11am, throughout the day she didn’t pick .
She called me with a strange number the following evening that she lost her bag( which contained her phone , key , charger and other stuff) and she didn’t sleep at home cos the key was inside the bag too.
And I already jumped into conclusion that she went to see another man.
Even though it’s possible she slept in another man’s arm that night too
Wait till you hear from her. But whatever she says, take it like a pinch of salt.
Next time , don’t visit woman, as a man, doing that will bruise my ego. Invite her over, make a move to touch her, fhuck her and let her do the chasing. So, you believed the lamba she gave you that day 2 Likes |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by TheOldGods: 1:01pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
Fineman2: So I met this lady 2 weeks ago in school, she came for her project work.
She showed a lot of interest during our conversation which made me to collect her number, thereafter we continued chatting on WhatsApp and calling
She later said she will be coming to school and I told her to let me know so that I will meet her in school because I live very close to our school, infact I invited her to my place but she later postponed it and said she won't be coming again and said I should visit her instead.
I wasn't prepared for such outing that day so I told her to wait till Sunday and she agreed, we continued chatting on WhatsApp till yesterday Sunday morning, she called me early in the morning to inquire if I will still visit her and I said yes, she said by 12pm because she will first go to church.
When it was 11:30, I called her and she asked if I had left home and I told her very soon, she now said I should call her once I get to a particular location and give the phone to bike man so that she will give us the direction to her place.
I left home 12:10 pm, got to the location, negotiated with okada man, called her number but she didn't pick, I called the second time, she didn't answer so I thought maybe she wasn't with her phone.
I waited for her to call back but she didn't, after waiting for awhile without reaching her, I told the bike man to carry another passenger.
The last time I called her, she switched off her phone, I returned back to my house.
She hasn't called to offer any explanation after 20 hours and I'm just surprised.
Here is my question for ladies on this forum, is what she did okay? What do you think made her to behave that way?
I'm not the type that run after ladies up and down, I hardly do such thing, I've avoided women for most part of my life and such ugly experience will surely affect the way I relate with them anywhere I find myself
that was a dumb shitty move. How did you even associate yourself with such classless rags? |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by peretei2024(m): 1:07pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
Fineman2: So I met this lady 2 weeks ago in school, she came for her project work.
She showed a lot of interest during our conversation which made me to collect her number, thereafter we continued chatting on WhatsApp and calling
She later said she will be coming to school and I told her to let me know so that I will meet her in school because I live very close to our school, infact I invited her to my place but she later postponed it and said she won't be coming again and said I should visit her instead.
I wasn't prepared for such outing that day so I told her to wait till Sunday and she agreed, we continued chatting on WhatsApp till yesterday Sunday morning, she called me early in the morning to inquire if I will still visit her and I said yes, she said by 12pm because she will first go to church.
When it was 11:30, I called her and she asked if I had left home and I told her very soon, she now said I should call her once I get to a particular location and give the phone to bike man so that she will give us the direction to her place.
I left home 12:10 pm, got to the location, negotiated with okada man, called her number but she didn't pick, I called the second time, she didn't answer so I thought maybe she wasn't with her phone.
I waited for her to call back but she didn't, after waiting for awhile without reaching her, I told the bike man to carry another passenger.
The last time I called her, she switched off her phone, I returned back to my house.
She hasn't called to offer any explanation after 20 hours and I'm just surprised.
Here is my question for ladies on this forum, is what she did okay? What do you think made her to behave that way?
I'm not the type that run after ladies up and down, I hardly do such thing, I've avoided women for most part of my life and such ugly experience will surely affect the way I relate with them anywhere I find myself
Oga your own is a child-play compare to mine. A lady I met on Facebook, after chatting and called for over 4 months, finally invited me to Abuja( Lagos to Abuja), that her Parents are curious to meet with me. Infact I even spoken with her mummy on different occasions. On the day I agreed to visit her in Abuja, she was just calling, and calling. She told me to call her once am close to Jabi in Abuja, so I called as instructed immediately I got to Jabi, and she was like no problem, call me again once you get to Abuja finally bus stop, when I got to the finally bus stop, I tried calling, but her phone was switched off. I called and called, but still not going, later in the night she picked and told me to look for where to sleep that she will see me the second day. The second day , she switched off her phone again till midnight. Do you know what she told me when she picked""" sorry, you can't see me again, I will come to Lagos and see you. I left Abuja in years, I waste all the money on hotel bills and came back home empty. I 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Noaim: 1:10pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
[quote author=Fineman2 post=120866895]So I met this lady 2 weeks ago in school, she came for her project work.
She showed a lot of interest during our conversation which made me to collect her number, thereafter we continued chatting on WhatsApp and calling
She later said she will be coming to school and I told her to let me know so that I will meet her in school because I live very close to our school, infact I invited her to my place but she later postponed it and said she won't be coming again and said I should visit her instead.
I wasn't prepared for such outing that day so I told her to wait till Sunday and she agreed, we continued chatting on WhatsApp till yesterday Sunday morning, she called me early in the morning to inquire if I will still visit her and I said yes, she said by 12pm because she will first go to church.
When it was 11:30, I called her and she asked if I had left home and I told her very soon, she now said I should call her once I get to a particular location and give the phone to bike man so that she will give us the direction to her place.
I left home 12:10 pm, got to the location, negotiated with okada man, called her number but she didn't pick, I called the second time, she didn't answer so I thought maybe she wasn't with her phone.
I waited for her to call back but she didn't, after waiting for awhile without reaching her, I told the bike man to carry another passenger.
The last time I called her, she switched off her phone, I returned back to my house.
She hasn't called to offer any explanation after 20 hours and I'm just surprised.
Here is my question for ladies on this forum, is what she did okay? What do you think made her to behave that way?
I'm not the type that run after ladies up and down, I hardly do such thing, I've avoided women for most part of my life and such ugly experience will surely affect the way I relate with them anywhere I find myself.
You are new in the game lol. When we tell you guys to date around and Bleep as many as possible to get the required experience, you opt for celibacy. Now, you see how your brain has been twisted and turned into a confusion mode. You ain’t seen nothing yet. Only fools take these ones to heart . Two can play that mind game tho. 1 Like |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by GVTAsiwaju(m): 1:11pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
Fineman2: So I met this lady 2 weeks ago in school, she came for her project work.
She showed a lot of interest during our conversation which made me to collect her number, thereafter we continued chatting on WhatsApp and calling
She later said she will be coming to school and I told her to let me know so that I will meet her in school because I live very close to our school, infact I invited her to my place but she later postponed it and said she won't be coming again and said I should visit her instead.
I wasn't prepared for such outing that day so I told her to wait till Sunday and she agreed, we continued chatting on WhatsApp till yesterday Sunday morning, she called me early in the morning to inquire if I will still visit her and I said yes, she said by 12pm because she will first go to church.
When it was 11:30, I called her and she asked if I had left home and I told her very soon, she now said I should call her once I get to a particular location and give the phone to bike man so that she will give us the direction to her place.
I left home 12:10 pm, got to the location, negotiated with okada man, called her number but she didn't pick, I called the second time, she didn't answer so I thought maybe she wasn't with her phone.
I waited for her to call back but she didn't, after waiting for awhile without reaching her, I told the bike man to carry another passenger.
The last time I called her, she switched off her phone, I returned back to my house.
She hasn't called to offer any explanation after 20 hours and I'm just surprised.
Here is my question for ladies on this forum, is what she did okay? What do you think made her to behave that way?
I'm not the type that run after ladies up and down, I hardly do such thing, I've avoided women for most part of my life and such ugly experience will surely affect the way I relate with them anywhere I find myself
I dont know why ladies do this 1 Like 1 Share |
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Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by farem: 1:14pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
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Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by FireUpNow(m): 1:16pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
Fineman2: So I met this lady 2 weeks ago in school, she came for her project work.
She showed a lot of interest during our conversation which made me to collect her number, thereafter we continued chatting on WhatsApp and calling
She later said she will be coming to school and I told her to let me know so that I will meet her in school because I live very close to our school, infact I invited her to my place but she later postponed it and said she won't be coming again and said I should visit her instead.
I wasn't prepared for such outing that day so I told her to wait till Sunday and she agreed, we continued chatting on WhatsApp till yesterday Sunday morning, she called me early in the morning to inquire if I will still visit her and I said yes, she said by 12pm because she will first go to church.
When it was 11:30, I called her and she asked if I had left home and I told her very soon, she now said I should call her once I get to a particular location and give the phone to bike man so that she will give us the direction to her place.
I left home 12:10 pm, got to the location, negotiated with okada man, called her number but she didn't pick, I called the second time, she didn't answer so I thought maybe she wasn't with her phone.
I waited for her to call back but she didn't, after waiting for awhile without reaching her, I told the bike man to carry another passenger.
The last time I called her, she switched off her phone, I returned back to my house.
She hasn't called to offer any explanation after 20 hours and I'm just surprised.
Here is my question for ladies on this forum, is what she did okay? What do you think made her to behave that way?
I'm not the type that run after ladies up and down, I hardly do such thing, I've avoided women for most part of my life and such ugly experience will surely affect the way I relate with them anywhere I find myself
What level are you? Is the girl question is, is she a final year student who came for her project or what? To be honest the girl doesn't like you but you can still try oo but I am afraid for you |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by adeniran22890: 1:18pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
Wait there she's coming backWait there she's coming back... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by greggng: 1:20pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
BABYBULLETIN: but if it wae the lady that try to visit him,she wouldnt hqve be use for ritual ba..truely common sense is not common...no be everything be ritual ritual..why them neva used you for ritual I am talking from.the angle of the guy...when somethings happen one should focus on the brighter side of it ...if the opposite is the case I will still advice the same . Infact is not adviceable visiting someone you don't know very well in his house . You guys can meet in open place ..ie eatery or hotel...etc...try to know what the person do for a living ...only runs girls or olosho doesn't ask questions cos they also visit babalawo for protection ...don't ask me how I know...my friend caught one spreading something that look like powder in his bed...the lady claimed she had to do that cos humans are terrible this days ...in a nutshell she is protecting herself ...on the other hand she might equally use same method to charm the person and the rest could be history ...infact one has to becateful with both men and women .. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by djseanjohn77: 1:22pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
Fineman2: So I met this lady 2 weeks ago in school, she came for her project work.
She showed a lot of interest during our conversation which made me to collect her number, thereafter we continued chatting on WhatsApp and calling
She later said she will be coming to school and I told her to let me know so that I will meet her in school because I live very close to our school, infact I invited her to my place but she later postponed it and said she won't be coming again and said I should visit her instead.
I wasn't prepared for such outing that day so I told her to wait till Sunday and she agreed, we continued chatting on WhatsApp till yesterday Sunday morning, she called me early in the morning to inquire if I will still visit her and I said yes, she said by 12pm because she will first go to church.
When it was 11:30, I called her and she asked if I had left home and I told her very soon, she now said I should call her once I get to a particular location and give the phone to bike man so that she will give us the direction to her place.
I left home 12:10 pm, got to the location, negotiated with okada man, called her number but she didn't pick, I called the second time, she didn't answer so I thought maybe she wasn't with her phone.
I waited for her to call back but she didn't, after waiting for awhile without reaching her, I told the bike man to carry another passenger.
The last time I called her, she switched off her phone, I returned back to my house.
She hasn't called to offer any explanation after 20 hours and I'm just surprised.
Here is my question for ladies on this forum, is what she did okay? What do you think made her to behave that way?
I'm not the type that run after ladies up and down, I hardly do such thing, I've avoided women for most part of my life and such ugly experience will surely affect the way I relate with them anywhere I find myself
Firstly, you should be the one making the arrangement. You don't know if she stays alone, or if she is the owner of the house. She probably was somewhere and saw how you are dressed, and she made up her mind. Lastly, always be the one to initiate the meeting, and do it in a public. This goes for both genders. 1 Like |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by aktolly54(m): 1:22pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
@op You no call her what can you buy for her? Like coldstone or pizza, woman don't joke with those 2. She know you are coming empty hand and don't like such. Or maybe you don't have a car is the reason |