If you aren't the one who disvirgined her, you have nothing to lose.
Double your hustle (if you can) and move on.

The problem here is that, Op, since you didn't disvirgin her, she might have stolen your glory too. Girls used by Yahoo boys are usually so empty that the steal the glory of men they slept with.

If this is your case,you can't make it in this life Op.
You're doomed!

Blessedpalms:
for a woman to intend getting married she is supposed to have a job. If she has a job, she will be willing to support you the man
when the two of you combine funds, to get a 2 bed room flat will not be hard...

Since when do Nigerian marry women? Nigerian men marry girls pls and girls typically do not have jobs!

scholarshipbaze:
I work and trade crypto and forex, my girlfriend knows how much i earn, but because i have plans, i still live in a modern selfcon in an estate.

So tonight i asked my girlfriend whom i wish to marry, if she would be willing to marry me as i stay in this selfcon, even if i don't have money to rent 1bed room.

She said she can't, please what does this
mean? Possibly not my class? Possibly might leave when things go bad?

You would have asked her to explain further after she said she can't because she is in the best position to explain to you what she means. If she insists, then you break up with her and move forward.

Nairaland and it's useless fake romance stories.

Some people go still take am serious sha.

Something you can sort out yourself is what you have decided to bring online..

Nonsense.

Your head should tell you the correct thing to do as a man.

viyon02:
And when you eventually marry her, she will tell you she wouldn't like to see your siblings or parents visiting right?. You must be a fool if you yield to her feeling.

Dint blame the girl

Life is hard for men she might still be in her parents house ..

scholarshipbaze:
I work and trade crypto and forex, my girlfriend knows how much i earn, but because i have plans, i still live in a modern selfcon in an estate.

So tonight i asked my girlfriend whom i wish to marry, if she would be willing to marry me as i stay in this selfcon, even if i don't have money to rent 1bed room.

She said she can't, please what does this mean? Possibly not my class? Possibly might leave when things go bad?

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It has nothing to do with the selfcon.
She likes you but she ain't feeling you the way you think.
Life is about choices. You made a choice in her but she's waiting for a better option. It is now your choice to decide what you want away from her. Isn't life simple? Box your emotions. There is no successful man out there who doesn't have a story about being rejected by a woman. Heck! Some ladies toughened it up, hung around yet it turned out worse.

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Kid

scholarshipbaze:
I work and trade crypto and forex, my girlfriend knows how much i earn, but because i have plans, i still live in a modern selfcon in an estate.

So tonight i asked my girlfriend whom i wish to marry, if she would be willing to marry me as i stay in this selfcon, even if i don't have money to rent 1bed room.

She said she can't, please what does this mean? Possibly not my class? Possibly might leave when things go bad?

I can't marry a girl into one bed talk more of a self-con please, she's not a bad person. Double your hustle.

Leave her now and go for who can take you the way you are

Leave her bro..Obi cubana started in a single room with his wife now they sleep in a mansion..get a futuristic woman to build with.

Please I'm interested in knowing Crypto and Forex trading.. please show me way Boss!

She has set her standards, she knows what she wants so its left for you to meet up to her level or go for your level.

Atleast she let you know why, others will just leave you and jump ship..... If she isnt already, behind your back!

You av plans and you want to marry? I don't understand

scholarshipbaze:
I work and trade crypto and forex, my girlfriend knows how much i earn, but because i have plans, i still live in a modern selfcon in an estate.

So tonight i asked my girlfriend whom i wish to marry, if she would be willing to marry me as i stay in this selfcon, even if i don't have money to rent 1bed room.

She said she can't, please what does this mean? Possibly not my class? Possibly might leave when things go bad?

God just saved you from a destiny killer.

Blessedpalms:
for a woman to intend getting married she is supposed to have a job. If she has a job, she will be willing to support you the man
when the two of you combine funds, to get a 2 bed room flat will not be hard...

most naija girls dont reason this way bro


very self-centered being

Aproko .. Wetin concern you with wetin e use d crypto income do ... Nah star radler n a bowl ponmo he use chop

ZIMDRILL:


she sees no future in your crypto and forex thing

so far what have you done with the money u earned from it

Why would you even think any sensible Nigerian woman would take a marriage proposal from you serious when you haven’t even started acting responsibly yourself?? Firstly, your small change from the crypto business makes you think you’re a price catch for all women, and nothing is farther from the truth! I have previously in times past said this, that the foundation of a happy marriage is not love but understanding! Your girl understands that you can be a lot more presentable to her family if you show a little more stability. Bold of you to even assume it’s okay to ask someone who was not born into a one room tenement to consent to be married into one! Dude real life is not a Disney movie, grow up!

scholarshipbaze:
I work and trade crypto and forex, my girlfriend knows how much i earn, but because i have plans, i still live in a modern selfcon in an estate.

So tonight i asked my girlfriend whom i wish to marry, if she would be willing to marry me as i stay in this selfcon, even if i don't have money to rent 1bed room.

She said she can't, please what does this mean? Possibly not my class? Possibly might leave when things go bad?

When there are people raising graduates while living in a batcher,one room or two rooms.
A lot of people who are married live in batcher, one room or two rooms and here you are renting a self con and she can't start life with you.
Even if you make money don't marry her again.
She is not worth it .
Be very careful you might be dating an olosho .
Such girls could sleep with men inside motor parks and be forming for you who take them serious"Very wicked souls" .

let her give me bj

scholarshipbaze:
I work and trade crypto and forex, my girlfriend knows how much i earn, but because i have plans, i still live in a modern selfcon in an estate.

So tonight i asked my girlfriend whom i wish to marry, if she would be willing to marry me as i stay in this selfcon, even if i don't have money to rent 1bed room.

She said she can't, please what does this mean? Possibly not my class? Possibly might leave when things go bad?

I know this must be heartbroken.But please run for your life.It is better to remain single than to marry a fool.I am sure that girl would marry a gorilla as far as he lives in a duplex.

IN THIS BHARI CASHLESS HARDSHIP? SHE IS WICKED,LET HER RENT A DUPLEX FOR BOTH OF YoU IF SHE LoVES YOU TRULY.

Marry a woman that wants a partner to do life with and not someone that's seeing you as a means to an end i.e escaping responsibility for herself as an adult or wanting to live a life she cannot afford for herself through you.
If along the line her expectations are not met, you'll start seeing a bitter woman. Rather than give you support in difficult moments and help you in finding ways out of such difficulties , she'll grow resentment towards you.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Is crypto and forex enough to start planning marriage? What other investments do you have? Don’t be deceived sir, love is not enough in a marriage, a woman will always think ahead, the future of her unborn kids, the kind of environment she’ll want her kids to grow up and the rest. Women are love mathematician, you must calculate and get it right to some extent . So it means in her calculations she didn’t get you as the answer. It’s not that deep, these are some of the reasons why women shouldn’t date men in their age range, it mostly doesn’t t work out.

Such wisdom!

slimjohn2k5:
Move on

That's harsh

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ABEG WETIN MANCHESTER UNITED PLAY?

folake4u:
Do you truthfully like yourself as you're staying in modern self con?

Would you want your own blood sister to marry someone who stays in a self con?

Here lies your answer.

If I can't even marry into a one bedroom apartment, how many heads those the guy who wants to marry my sister into a self-con have?

Instead, if he really wants to marry her, he should plan with her and see how he can upgrade himself.

scholarshipbaze:
I work and trade crypto and forex, my girlfriend knows how much i earn, but because i have plans, i still live in a modern selfcon in an estate.

So tonight i asked my girlfriend whom i wish to marry, if she would be willing to marry me as i stay in this selfcon, even if i don't have money to rent 1bed room.

She said she can't, please what does this mean? Possibly not my class? Possibly might leave when things go bad?

let her go very fast because she will kill u wen u don't have to pls her anymore, run, I mean run for ur life if u don't want to die young.

let her go, you keep striving.
All will end well

She's not ready for commitment 🤧
She ain't wrong tho'. You can't live in a self con and be thinking of marriage. Love is not enough. Marriage comes with responsibilities.

She has given you an honest answer and u still go ahead to stupid question...... Mchteeeeeew!!!

Free her and have your peace

Sometimes its as if some of these people commenting
Are under the influence of weed