She was always sounding all philosophical and stuff on Facebook, so I thought to slide into her DM. Woman can't even string two sentences together in the DM. I realized that day that a lot of these ladies do copy&paste quite a lot, and lack an original thought.

Eyinju112:
True tho. men should know the right time to date. Men should work on themselves first before thinking of dating and in the process impregnating a promising lady. I can’t date a jobless man as he’s gon be a burden to me. How can I be working and he be sitting his ass in the house watching movies and roaming about the community with his corp uniform… I know myself very well, I’d be the one spending my hard earned money on him, after service gan work never sure for you, if work sure self him fit jilt you. This isn’t gold digging it’s just knowing what you want. I’m independent and I need an independent man too, i want to be convinced that we’re both ready if the unexpected happens (pregnancy) Not someone who doesn’t have a bustop.

come and date me na

IyaebeTheGreat:
OP, that lady has sense for saying she can't date a youth corper, what does a youth corper has to offer her apart from using her to practice all sort of fantasies and sex styles? I knew very early in life that I should never date an unemployed man that has nothing meaningful to offer. There are ages of men you don't date(18-29) these men in this age range are not settled, you'll end up miserable if you date them. God bless that sensible lady wherever she is.

U knew this and you're still single?

cassyrooy:
I support this, many baby mamas and papas will not exist if men don't sexually engage in active sexual relationships while broke.

I've seen too many cases and it's not palatable. Women getting broken and rendered almost unmarriageable.

Women also hold responsibility here but will never take it,and women like you will never admit to it.
I remember hearing a woman say she is attracted to unstable men,men that will do all the things you listed and more. Is it also a man's fault there??
Is it a man's fault if a female can't keep her legs closed? Is it a man's fault that a woman has no virtue??
Blaming men has always been a woman's favourite pastime
Y'all be tripping heavily

1. I saw signs of desperation from this lady, she needed a child badly while pretending she would be cool with it even if I don't get married to her. I outsmarted her by running for my dear life.......Nor be eye wey dem take dey swallow eba dem take dey share meat.


2. This second one can't do without alcohol, though very beautiful but her village people were untop her mata. Even me as a guy I drink occasionally unlike her who drinks alcohol like tea.


3. This one was too quiet for my liking, little things annoy her but she won't tell you. She can keep malice with you for 2days until she decides to forgive you. Her type can stab a man in his sleep. I ended the relationship......If I had met her younger sister earlier she would have been a far better choice. She's the opposite of her sister.

IyaebeTheGreat:
of course the men will tag it gold digging but it is what it is. Bitter Truth.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Lol.

You should have done yours back na. So, you both would’ve turned it into a competition. So fun. Lol.

Tah! Me I get home training

These stuffs killed my feelings for ladies

ThatCEO:


Independent woman wey no dey spend shishi of her money once she get bf. They are only independent when they are single.

Independent woman that instead make she pay for date night with her full chest, she go say she keep the money as "vex money."

In your relationships, how many times have u told a guy that "dude, I have booked n prepared everything, all I want u to do is show up, lemme pamper u small"

It is always transactional. if he doesn't do this, then, I wouldn't do that. Always over calculating, n never doing things cos it just flows from their heart. There is always something u want in return.

I thank God for d girls I hv met, naija girls for carry my head mop Atlantic ocean.

I Don laugh tire

GogetterMD:

Tah! Me I get home training

So, you broke up with her for that reason?

IyaebeTheGreat:
OP, that lady has sense for saying she can't date a youth corper, what does a youth corper has to offer her apart from using her to practice all sort of fantasies and sex styles? I knew very early in life that I should never date an unemployed man that has nothing meaningful to offer. There are ages of men you don't date(18-29) these men in this age range are not settled, you'll end up miserable if you date them. God bless that sensible lady wherever she is.

Girl calm down, not every youth Corper is unemployed and unsettled. Some already get their lives working before venturing into serving their father lands just for the sake of it. Imagine a medical doctor already with his license and practiced his profession before deciding to serve in the NYSC scheme and then you say he's not serious? Well-done. Just pray you don't become a victim of short-sightedness sha

sulakishop:
I hate when dey act card less, dataless, fatherless, motherless and cashless once dey give you their number.

Dating should be a mutual thing , not one totally dependent on the other

Exactly 💯,9ja girls don't know that, they will put all there miserable abject poverty on you.

Disrespectfulness, Lying religiously and being dirty/unclean for me...

Persephone1:
This should be a lyrics in the National Anthem

Tinubu will adopt it

ultimateprof:


Tinubu will adopt it

sulakishop:
I hate when dey act card less, dataless, fatherless, motherless and cashless once dey give you their number.

Dating should be a mutual thing , not one totally dependent on the other

folake4u come and see chomtin

otuomasirichi:
These stuffs killed my feelings for ladies

🤣😂

folake4u:


Good.

yay, ur not missed

Forming hard to get

UyaiIncomparabl:


So, you broke up with her for that reason?

Nah. We were still in the talking stage but my feelings just waned. We still talk sha, but she dey her dey and I dey my dey

SkengRay:
I was turned off because the girl was too religious don't get me wrong I came from a proper religious background. But this chick be worshipping different Pastors as if they are God

I hate that shii man

always checking my phone for any sign am cheating on her. when na she dey street

GogetterMD:

Nah. We were still in the talking stage but my feelings just waned. We still talk sha, but she dey her dey and I dey my dey

You should have communicated your grievances to her. Not everyone understands ethics. I just feel your feelings waning ONLY for that reason was overboard. My opinion anyway.

Eyinju112:
True tho. men should know the right time to date. Men should work on themselves first before thinking of dating and in the process impregnating a promising lady. I can’t date a jobless man as he’s gon be a burden to me. How can I be working and he be sitting his ass in the house watching movies and roaming about the community with his corp uniform… I know myself very well, I’d be the one spending my hard earned money on him, after service gan work never sure for you, if work sure self him fit jilt you. This isn’t gold digging it’s just knowing what you want. I’m independent and I need an independent man too, i want to be convinced that we’re both ready if the unexpected happens (pregnancy) Not someone who doesn’t have a bustop.

This same reason is why when a man is financially stable, he won't go for one woman. He dates as many as his money can carry, marry as many as his money can carry cos when the chips are down no one will stay with him. In summary when he gat nothing then there's no woman for him and when he has money he's entitled to many women he can afford.

backtovillage:
Forming hard to get

No woman is hard to get. You either aren’t her type, she doesn’t like you or she has her eyes on other men (that makes you her last choice).

All my life I’ve always believed in 50/50 but my current relationship is different, dude doesn’t like it 50/50. He doesn’t want me spending my dime. I always to spend on him but he’s always taking the lead. If I buy him stuffs he buys the female version for me, it’s more like me shopping for myself. And that makes me feel useless to him. You know the numbers of time we fighting over who to shoulder bills? You might have met women but trust me we’re different. Date good women bro.

ThatCEO:


Independent woman wey no dey spend shishi of her money once she get bf. They are only independent when they are single.

Independent woman that instead make she pay for date night with her full chest, she go say she keep the money as "vex money."

In your relationships, how many times have u told a guy that "dude, I have booked n prepared everything, all I want u to do is show up, lemme pamper u small"

It is always transactional. if he doesn't do this, then, I wouldn't do that. Always over calculating, n never doing things cos it just flows from their heart. There is always something u want in return.

I thank God for d girls I hv met, naija girls for carry my head mop Atlantic ocean.

Eyinju112:
True tho. men should know the right time to date. Men should work on themselves first before thinking of dating and in the process impregnating a promising lady. I can’t date a jobless man as he’s gon be a burden to me. How can I be working and he be sitting his ass in the house watching movies and roaming about the community with his corp uniform… I know myself very well, I’d be the one spending my hard earned money on him, after service gan work never sure for you, if work sure self him fit jilt you. This isn’t gold digging it’s just knowing what you want. I’m independent and I need an independent man too, i want to be convinced that we’re both ready if the unexpected happens (pregnancy) Not someone who doesn’t have a bustop.

You are pretty. Can I send you a DM? We can become an item God willing.

sulakishop:
I no loud am
Na airplane mode

Baba loud am abeg, if anybody wan vex make dem vex

"Dating a Nigerian girl is like raising an orphan" should be included in the Visa stamp that immigration service stamp on foreigners passports on arrival to the country, it should br circulated along with travel advisory and tourist guide booklets, given to New arrivals and tourists all over Nigerian airports

ggoldmine:
Did you remain friends with her after she said that?

No. But she sent me a love text message after couple of weeks. But then, I had already moved on.

Amayabor1:


You are pretty. Can I send you a DM? We can become an item God willing.

Hahaha. What are you doing? Hasn’t your mom ever warned you that fishing with dynamite is dangerous? Lol.

I'm just reading comments cos I can't figure out why ladies act the way they do.

The truth of the matter is that I'm not interested in any dating/relationship for now cos I'm scared of women.