folake4u:



Cook as you like.

I find the suggestion funny 🤣 😂 😂 😂 😂.

Bro will end up looking like half yam with misplaced muscles

Persephone1:
Very anyhow people. Now they have seen the reality.

They should keep making older women happy jare.

Persephone1:
I find the suggestion funny 🤣 😂 😂 😂 😂.

Bro will end up looking like half yam with misplaced muscles

folake4u:



Lmao. I just dey imagine am and e too funny.😂😂😂

From a distance, person go see muscles first before head appear

God go help am him go grow muscle for neck omoh 😂🤣🤣🤣

Persephone1:
Even guys that had never traveled out of their towns or seen an airport joined the bandwagon. LoL 😆 In fact the foreigners we had here back then felt like demi gods. . Them too dey overdo. You throw your people under the train for some illusion that you are "rushed" by foreign women. Imagine the little mindedness. Very pathetic lots .
When they get there they realize the people rushing them are senior citizens, societal rejects and ancient artifacts

That's what most of them end up doing, Op should do that too or link up with the aged

Tadadobe:

Even if it's $50k, how many people can afford that?

Persephone1:
Even guys that had never traveled out of their towns or seen an airport joined the bandwagon. LoL 😆 In fact the foreigners we had here back then felt like demi gods. . Them too dey overdo. You throw your people under the train for some illusion that you are "rushed" by foreign women. Imagine the little mindedness. Very pathetic lots .
When they get there they realize the people rushing them are senior citizens, societal rejects and ancient artifacts

That's what most of them end up doing, Op should do that too or link up with the aged

Persephone1:
From a distance, person go see muscles first before head appear

God go help am him go grow muscle for neck omoh 😂🤣🤣🤣

Kaycee54321:
Omo, by now, pillow go don soak with tears.

Mfs on Nairaland are joyless 😑

SenecaTheYonger:
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He’s literally 5’3 and obese. Is that what you think the average Nigerian man looks like? Be deceiving yourself. He would also struggle with that structure in Nigeria too.

SenecaTheYonger:
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He’s literally 5’3 and obese. Is that what you think the average Nigerian man looks like? Be deceiving yourself. He would also struggle with that structure in Nigeria too.

I had to go back to the original post if obesity was mentioned but it wasn't. Where did you get that from?
There are shorter men in Nigeria not only dating but married. No he won't,as there are shorter women too.

LoL, at deceiving myself, at least I'm not the one with the ideas that some people are rushing me.

Rdfactor:


You sound really smart. I must say that. Lol.

To say the truth, attraction is effortless. When you see what you're attracted to, you will know. It doesn't need to be forced.

While I can't talk about what the sexual market is like in Canada, I can say a little about what it is like in the US. What I can say is that it's not true that western women rush Nigerian men. It's all hype and I think that must have been debunked by now. Women are attracted to good looks just the way men are also attracted to what look good. Though attraction to women is also predicated on some other factors and not looks alone.

In the United States, the average height of these white guys is about 5"9. They're really tall (so common to see these guys around 6feet+ tall) muscular, and some of them have their finances in order. It's not entirely true that a beautiful white lady will leave white men only to be chasing a black immigrant. How does that sound? There are lot of reasons for this which I wouldn't want to discuss here.

And about the black fetishes, that is only a media hype. Yeah, not entirely true. And if there's even a thing like that, I'm sure I didn't notice it.

In short, if you're a black immigrant, tall, good looking (at least around or a little above average), lean or muscular, not fat, you'll easily get women. And that is only normal.

Also, some people aren't attracted sexually to men/women of other races. I mean they won't just date outside their races. I'm not also attracted to women of all races sexually as I have special soft spot for Nigerian women for a lot of reasons.

I often see here how these guys put Nigerian women down, degrade them and exemplify women of other races to high heavens, what sort of inferiority complex is that? These types of. People don't even have visa and probably don't know how the dating scene is structured here but

Thank you for your sincerity. .

folake4u:


Perse, I am not sure you'd make heaven like this. 😆😆

Persephone1:
Babe, I don laugh tire. Abeg lemme log out before I make person commit suicide.
😂😂😂

Persephone1:
This is the fourth thread within two weeks on Nigerian men being rejected for their marshed up potatoes face and amoebic structures. whatever happens to being rushed by women of other nations? Kikikikikiki

You all think you are in Nigeria where your women will take you for who you are. Shapeless, pot bellied, bad breaths, bad postures, body odour,uncouth, uncultured just name it. LoL 😆 😆 😆 😆 🤣

Rokiat:
Maybe the way you carry yourself is giving desperation vibes. Carry yourself with confidence and don’t be desperate for a relationship. Work on your self
Your confidence and self esteem and also try to look put together you will start attracting girls.

omotodun1:


Miss Rokiatu, abeg no lie to this man. He said that he is 5' 3"!!! Jesus Christ! Even in Naija, he will also struggle to find a woman unless he pays; there is no amount of confidence that will make a 5'3 man attractive to a woman. I pity short men sha. But that is life.

9182736455O1999:
Suddenly, this other gender has found thier voice.
Look at how they are happy for this thread.

1Sharon:


Just keep quiet abeg. Some of us tried telling them. You thought Nigerian women were jealous and trying to hold you back from your precious snowflakes that desire you so much.

Persephone1:
Oh I missed his height.

Baba is down to earth . Oh Lawd 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

omotodun1:


Miss Rokiatu, abeg no lie to this man. He said that he is 5' 3"!!! Jesus Christ! Even in Naija, he will also struggle to find a woman unless he pays; there is no amount of confidence that will make a 5'3 man attractive to a woman. I pity short men sha. But that is life.

randymirrors:


How short is 5'3? Like Wizkid's height?

alert01:
My story and I choose to share it on an anonymous forum to heal.

Shortly before COVID, I went to Canada on a student Visa for an Ms program. After my degree, I decided to stay. And here is my dating story

From 2019 to 2021, I wasn't in a serious relationship with anyone since I was a student and still trying to get my finances in order. My province, in fact, my school didn't really have Nigerians like that. BC seem to have decent concentration of Nigerians tho. However, within that year, I asked two ladies out who I know were also looking for serious relationship, but rejected me. One was Rwanda, and the other one from Eritrea. They were both working class ladies that time. I just recently only get to know I was rejected base on look and height.

Okay, last year I got a job and I seemed to be doing decently fairly. But I still didn't find a woman yet to date me. I put myself on Tinder, but didn't get match. The only match I got, she ghost me after our second meeting. I wasn't her taste and standard. She was looking for a 6ft ,good looking and heavily built guy.

I tried linking up with few Nigerian guys who introduced me to their circles. Somehow, I got to meet women. I met oyinbo women too. The two I told about love interests also didn't show interest.

Another Nigerian, just got here last year on a student Visa, also couldn't date me.

But the one that really pained me most was an Eritrean lady I got in contact with recently. She is a citizen already. She ghost me after seeing my pictures 😭.

I'm only a little around 5ft 3in. On the side of big, but not that overweight and I've been going to gym now trying to get a slim body. I'm not where I need to be financially but I'm not doing too bad.

Shokoloko:

I will have be honest with you. Over here anything below 5"10" is not acceptable.
You may decide to leave things to God to bring the right woman or you can fast track things and go get a leg lengthening surgery.
5'3" go worry. Women over here are very specific about physical looks. it will even affect if you get promoted in the workplace
This is tough. God help you.

Tadadobe:


A short man can't get ahead in the workplace? How toxic and ridiculous can that kind of country get where your look determined where you get to in life no matter how hard u work

Are you a man or woman