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Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by Alexandersantos(m): 8:17pm On May 26, 2023

do what pleases u...it's ur choice bro

Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by braine(m): 8:17pm On May 26, 2023

Go, settle down, then come back.

You need to be create that option for yourself just incase.

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Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by easzypeaszy(m): 8:17pm On May 26, 2023

But abeg tell us why u dey tell us...Abeg pack well

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Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by luckedesiri(m): 8:17pm On May 26, 2023

Sleekcode:
You're destined to be somehow useless.

It's not your fault

bros u no go make heaven wallai grin

Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by Onyiiobi7735(m): 8:18pm On May 26, 2023

You are really fortunate to have the opportunity to travel overseas,but you must always follow your heart in all you do.Travelling overseas doesn't always guarantee unlimited success in one's life.A man here in Nigeria can break bounds in success unlimited, while someone in the US or Europe might be struggling to make ends meet.
Destiny plays a big role in this.

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Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by Gidigrav(m): 8:18pm On May 26, 2023

You that your mum surpose think say no be she born you ...they should stop giving you money... nonesense

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Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by xjiggy: 8:18pm On May 26, 2023

SultanOfAbia:
My mother is furious that I don't want to come over to the UK.
This month my younger sister left for UK and it's remaining me.
Documents and all papers are right and after couple family intervention I decided to go for interview.
I really didn't want to go to Uk
I love my life here in Nigeria tho things are hard.. it's still my home
I feel more connected to my father's land.
Going to abroad is not my plan. My mother thinks I'm possessed by spirit that want me to not succeed.
My uncles have pleaded with me to go and join my mum and sis in UK.

I was given UK visa last year, refused to join my sister that traveled this May

honestly I don't want to move to Uk.
I know how hard life can be in 9ja but i still love this country.
Mumsi says she is really dissapoinmented in me for staying back.
Did I do anything wrong?

if you don't feel like going, don't go. Going to the UK doesn't guarantee you success or happiness.

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Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by millionboi2: 8:18pm On May 26, 2023

GodWrites:

You just want to continue taking mkpurumiri with your yeye friends in uncompleted buildings.

You will surely regret this decision years from now, when your son will ask you what you did with your youth.

is it everybody in abroad dat is dangote now.abeg you are just hopeless naija is cool,all dat is needed is money.

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Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by tshtsh: 8:18pm On May 26, 2023

SultanOfAbia:
My mother is furious that I don't want to come over to the UK.
This month my younger sister left for UK and it's remaining me.
Documents and all papers are right and after couple family intervention I decided to go for interview.
I really didn't want to go to Uk
I love my life here in Nigeria tho things are hard.. it's still my home
I feel more connected to my father's land.
Going to abroad is not my plan. My mother thinks I'm possessed by spirit that want me to not succeed.
My uncles have pleaded with me to go and join my mum and sis in UK.

I was given UK visa last year, refused to join my sister that traveled this May

honestly I don't want to move to Uk.
What is your skillset like ? What kind of visa was issued to you ?
I know how hard life can be in 9ja but i still love this country.
Mumsi says she is really dissapoinmented in me for staying back.
Did I do anything wrong?

Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by luckedesiri(m): 8:18pm On May 26, 2023

marlow1962:

He stayed connected with his father's land during his youth.

people for this naira land no good at all

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Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by ikay00406(m): 8:19pm On May 26, 2023

tyinfinity:
Obasanjo ,tinubu ,Ngige ,dangote all make their money here.Someone in my area travelled since 1994 he was a banker in Lagos .nobody hears anything about him again

Tell them.. Speak louder.

Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by Jeezuzpick(m): 8:19pm On May 26, 2023

SultanOfAbia:
My mother is furious that I don't want to come over to the UK.
This month my younger sister left for UK and it's remaining me.
Documents and all papers are right and after couple family intervention I decided to go for interview.
I really didn't want to go to Uk
I love my life here in Nigeria tho things are hard.. it's still my home
I feel more connected to my father's land.
Going to abroad is not my plan. My mother thinks I'm possessed by spirit that want me to not succeed.
My uncles have pleaded with me to go and join my mum and sis in UK.

I was given UK visa last year, refused to join my sister that traveled this May

honestly I don't want to move to Uk.
I know how hard life can be in 9ja but i still love this country.
Mumsi says she is really dissapoinmented in me for staying back.
Did I do anything wrong?

No.

Not yet.

If it so develops that Nigeria "happens" to you one day (I hope not), you may feel you did.

Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by luckedesiri(m): 8:19pm On May 26, 2023

quisera:
You're not wrong my brother, you're just stupid

oh lawd....warris dis

Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by Tingotoe: 8:20pm On May 26, 2023

Slimzjoe:

The only Country I don ever Consider na this Germany bro, what's the way forward to get that side?

It depends on you. I came here in 2019 on a student visa. I've since rounded up my studies. What are you into?

Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by ipobarecriminals: 8:20pm On May 26, 2023

Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by bergs2: 8:21pm On May 26, 2023

Clout chasing has really become a very big business in Nigeria.
If at all you rejected UK visas, what have we to do with that; abi you dey seek our counsel for an action you already have taken?

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Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by Gidigrav(m): 8:21pm On May 26, 2023

You that your mum surpose think say no be she born you ...they should stop giving you money... nonesense u my kid sis nah d same tin dah one too dey say make she japa she refuse

Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by alyarmouk(m): 8:22pm On May 26, 2023

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Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by Bananapill: 8:23pm On May 26, 2023

SultanOfAbia:
My mother is furious that I don't want to come over to the UK.
This month my younger sister left for UK and it's remaining me.
Documents and all papers are right and after couple family intervention I decided to go for interview.
I really didn't want to go to Uk
I love my life here in Nigeria tho things are hard.. it's still my home
I feel more connected to my father's land.
Going to abroad is not my plan. My mother thinks I'm possessed by spirit that want me to not succeed.
My uncles have pleaded with me to go and join my mum and sis in UK.

I was given UK visa last year, refused to join my sister that traveled this May

honestly I don't want to move to Uk.
I know how hard life can be in 9ja but i still love this country.
Mumsi says she is really dissapoinmented in me for staying back.
Did I do anything wrong?

You should go. Spend few years there upgrading yourself with the right skills and experience and return back to Naija to establish yourself. Naija your country no dey run go anywhere, you can always return home.

Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by sslcrypt: 8:23pm On May 26, 2023

It's your fuxking luck. Why is this even a topic?

Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by batistutajulio: 8:24pm On May 26, 2023

SultanOfAbia:
My mother is furious that I don't want to come over to the UK.
This month my younger sister left for UK and it's remaining me.
Documents and all papers are right and after couple family intervention I decided to go for interview.
I really didn't want to go to Uk
I love my life here in Nigeria tho things are hard.. it's still my home
I feel more connected to my father's land.
Going to abroad is not my plan. My mother thinks I'm possessed by spirit that want me to not succeed.
My uncles have pleaded with me to go and join my mum and sis in UK.

I was given UK visa last year, refused to join my sister that traveled this May

honestly I don't want to move to Uk.
I know how hard life can be in 9ja but i still love this country.
Mumsi says she is really dissapoinmented in me for staying back.
Did I do anything wrong?

If you've no genuine plans for remaining in Nigeria, you're simply an idiot and you think life is one to play with.

Otherwise, tell the forum why you want to remain in Nigeria so that we can know if you're a serious or unserious human being.

Mumu

Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by JeffreyJunior: 8:25pm On May 26, 2023

You didn't say what you currently do in Nigeria or the plans your mum has for you in UK so I can't say if you made the right decision or not.

However, never follow the band wagon. That's all I can tell you for now.

Momma knows best sometimes though.

Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by Baatunde(m): 8:27pm On May 26, 2023

Which visa were you granted? Visiting or settlement? I am guessing it is visiting since it is most likely you are over 18 and can no longer depend on your mum. If that is the case, it is not worth throwing away whatever good stuffs you have going in Nigeria presently to become an illegal immigrant in the UK.

If on then other hand you got a settlement visa, you can still make good use of it by retraining and upskilling yourself to get a decent job whilst still having the opportunity to maintain your ties to Naija

SultanOfAbia:
My mother is furious that I don't want to come over to the UK.
This month my younger sister left for UK and it's remaining me.
Documents and all papers are right and after couple family intervention I decided to go for interview.
I really didn't want to go to Uk
I love my life here in Nigeria tho things are hard.. it's still my home
I feel more connected to my father's land.
Going to abroad is not my plan. My mother thinks I'm possessed by spirit that want me to not succeed.
My uncles have pleaded with me to go and join my mum and sis in UK.

I was given UK visa last year, refused to join my sister that traveled this May

honestly I don't want to move to Uk.
I know how hard life can be in 9ja but i still love this country.
Mumsi says she is really dissapoinmented in me for staying back.
Did I do anything wrong?

Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by boxypane(m): 8:29pm On May 26, 2023

You're not o. This one wey them wan start deportation so.

Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by EngGandalf: 8:29pm On May 26, 2023

SultanOfAbia:

Honestly, I rather make it big in Nigeria

Nigeria doesn't give a hoot about you.. Your choice anyway. Everyman lives with his choices and the result of it... It's because you didn't think critically.. Critical thinking is very important. You Mum went there, she suffered hard to give her kids the opportunity... But you threw it away. And you think she won't be disappointed? Well, I wish you the best and hope you make it in Nigeria. It'll always be our HOME

Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by hardbody: 8:30pm On May 26, 2023

SultanOfAbia:
My mother is furious that I don't want to come over to the UK.
This month my younger sister left for UK and it's remaining me.
Documents and all papers are right and after couple family intervention I decided to go for interview.
I really didn't want to go to Uk
I love my life here in Nigeria tho things are hard.. it's still my home
I feel more connected to my father's land.
Going to abroad is not my plan. My mother thinks I'm possessed by spirit that want me to not succeed.
My uncles have pleaded with me to go and join my mum and sis in UK.

I was given UK visa last year, refused to join my sister that traveled this May

honestly I don't want to move to Uk.
I know how hard life can be in 9ja but i still love this country.
Mumsi says she is really dissapoinmented in me for staying back.
Did I do anything wrong?

My cousin even has a right of abode but chose not to use it. It's no biggie. Most people don't give a rat's ass about relocating. I personally only go for trainings sponsored by my office and spend not more than an hour longer than the trainings end, sometimes I leave a day before like my last trip in December when I left on a Thursday while the training was to end on Friday. It's all about choices and no biggie

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Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by Somalino: 8:30pm On May 26, 2023

SultanOfAbia:
My mother is furious that I don't want to come over to the UK.
This month my younger sister left for UK and it's remaining me.
Documents and all papers are right and after couple family intervention I decided to go for interview.
I really didn't want to go to Uk
I love my life here in Nigeria tho things are hard.. it's still my home
I feel more connected to my father's land.
Going to abroad is not my plan. My mother thinks I'm possessed by spirit that want me to not succeed.
My uncles have pleaded with me to go and join my mum and sis in UK.

I was given UK visa last year, refused to join my sister that traveled this May

honestly I don't want to move to Uk.
I know how hard life can be in 9ja but i still love this country.
Mumsi says she is really dissapoinmented in me for staying back.
Did I do anything wrong?

She is right. You are possessed.
If not how else you wan take explain say life dey hard you here, you still wan dey here when you have an opportunity to go to the UK probably study, get a good job, earn in pounds . Na only Possessed person wey life dey hard go still get hope for this babablue country.

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Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by BigDawsNet: 8:31pm On May 26, 2023

SultanOfAbia:
My mother is furious that I don't want to come over to the UK.
This month my younger sister left for UK and it's remaining me.
Documents and all papers are right and after couple family intervention I decided to go for interview.
I really didn't want to go to Uk
I love my life here in Nigeria tho things are hard.. it's still my home
I feel more connected to my father's land.
Going to abroad is not my plan. My mother thinks I'm possessed by spirit that want me to not succeed.
My uncles have pleaded with me to go and join my mum and sis in UK.

I was given UK visa last year, refused to join my sister that traveled this May

honestly I don't want to move to Uk.
I know how hard life can be in 9ja but i still love this country.
Mumsi says she is really dissapoinmented in me for staying back.
Did I do anything wrong?

I think your deserved to be happy and you hav made the decision that best suits you...

The only thing I would advise you to do... if you have the finance... try and book a return ticket to the UK.. visit your family in the UK and let them know you only came for visit and you are not staying...

It's better that way... atleast you hav satisfy them by visit... it's better that way so they won't be upset with you for very wrong time..

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Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by BigDawsNet: 8:31pm On May 26, 2023

SultanOfAbia:
My mother is furious that I don't want to come over to the UK.
This month my younger sister left for UK and it's remaining me.
Documents and all papers are right and after couple family intervention I decided to go for interview.
I really didn't want to go to Uk
I love my life here in Nigeria tho things are hard.. it's still my home
I feel more connected to my father's land.
Going to abroad is not my plan. My mother thinks I'm possessed by spirit that want me to not succeed.
My uncles have pleaded with me to go and join my mum and sis in UK.

I was given UK visa last year, refused to join my sister that traveled this May

honestly I don't want to move to Uk.
I know how hard life can be in 9ja but i still love this country.
Mumsi says she is really dissapoinmented in me for staying back.
Did I do anything wrong?

I think your deserved to be happy and you hav made the decision that best suits you...

The only thing I would advise you to do... if you have the finance... try and book a return ticket to the UK.. visit your family in the UK and let them know you only came for visit and you are not staying...

It's better that way... atleast you hav satisfy them with visit... it's better that way so they won't be upset with you for very wrong time..

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Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by Dexy4yah(m): 8:31pm On May 26, 2023

Karleb:
Because she knows you will regret it in the future.

You are like that lady that chose a polytechnic over a university. Give it time, the regret will hit ya.

You guys keep making polytechnic students look like they are just wasting there time.

Oga who go succeed in life go succeed weda polytechnic or university.

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Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by hardbody: 8:32pm On May 26, 2023

Baatunde:
Which visa were you granted? Visiting or settlement? I am guessing it is visiting since it is most likely you are over 18 and can no longer depend on your mum. If that is the case, it is not worth throwing away whatever good stuffs you have going in Nigeria presently to become an illegal immigrant in the UK.

If on then other hand you got a settlement visa, you can still make good use of it by retraining and upskilling yourself to get a decent job whilst still having the opportunity to maintain your ties to Naija

Typically it's a visiting visa.

Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by EngGandalf: 8:32pm On May 26, 2023

Bananapill:

You should go. Spend few years there upgrading yourself with the right skills and experience and return back to Naija to establish yourself. Naija your country no dey run go anywhere, you can always return home.

Exactly, Nigeria is not going anywhere.... But we as humans will go someday. So why not work hard for yourself and your future kids.. As a man… whatever decision you take, you’ve got to take your offspring’s into consideration

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