Yes I surely would cos she is a home keeper... But would have delayed a yr or two... Cos I married without finances and it's affecting me till now... But I have the best wife... Even in my next life will still marry her... She has endured alot and is still enduring the hardships and struggle... Very supportive person

Nice2023:
I would have married her earlier.

She has added so much value to me.

People don't say this often. What kind of value has she added to you?

She is not a perfect being, but I will marry her again and again

Skyview01:


Thanks for your kind response and insight. I moved past it already and just reflecting when i saw the topic. I was married 17 years ago.

Great to hear. From your responses, you seem to be an amiable godly soul. I'm happy about your family even if I don't know you folks.

I pray that the Lord will grant you seasons of breakthroughs and refreshing joy in Jesus name.

mariahAngel:


Tani n ba e r'erin?
K'osi lo jo!

Be calming down na, wetin dey worry you sef?

Kini motún se báyí, kílo fa àrífín?

I dey CRAZE!!!

Capernum:
No. Simply put. She doesn't believe in my dreams and aspirations and she doesn't support it one bit.

One honest fella spotted

svuicccteosrs:
She is not a perfect being, but I will marry her again and again

Congratulations 👏

pappy4real:
I swear to God I wouldn't. She's totally changed and become a burden to my life. She's lost the life and vibrance and the romance in her, she's just pale, clueless and unwilling

Another honest fella

Anfieldboss:
Certainly No. She loves keeping malice, never initiates reconciliation even when she caused the issue. Simply put she doesn't respect me. I thought I was in love when I got married, but the love has fast diminished. If I am to marry now, I will go for a very calm and respectful woman. Choleric women are very difficult to manage as wives, and I fully got to know my wife is one after marriage.

I want to believe your wife's traits were evidential during courtship but you chose to carry on with her regardless.

As you lay your bed so you lie on it.

BabaCommander:

Great to hear. From your responses, you seem to be an amiable godly soul. I'm happy about your family even if I don't know you folks.

I pray that the Lord will grant you seasons of breakthroughs and refreshing joy in Jesus name.

Thank you!

abobote:
Noo, then I was broke, now I have a higher taste.

Don't settle for less, so that you don't regret tomorrow

This is what you get when a lady refuses to work hard, become independent and settle for broke man.

Team *i go build with my man* una well done.

Untube:


Same here too. I got tired of apologizing in 2020, I made up my mind that I will never apologize to her again untill she come back to her senses and apologize.

In early 2022, I advised my wife to travel to Dubai to study a nursing course, she disagree with me. It's a long story. Some women deserve bad boys honestly. Some of us are too soft for them I swear.

Na mad person fit control another mad person.

omooba969:


I want to believe your wife's traits were evidential during courtship but you chose to carry on with her regardless.

As you lay your bed so you lie on it.

💯

Epicji:


All d xtian brothers in my church gathered me that l should not bring disgrace to d church when l wanted to cancel d wedding just a week remaining. D marriage lasted only 5yrs.am on my own now.

You suppose flog those useless Christian brothers.

Jus finished cooking for her, taking care of the house and going to buy fuel so she chill....while she's still out there......
I'll marry her again

Skyview01:


I japa 4 years after marriage. I was fed up under uncle Jona and no time to wait for Tinubu! lol

I still dey plan sha..in no distant time...

I would have married her earlier

iamL:


This is what you get when a lady refuses to work hard, become independent and settle for broke man.

Team *i go build with my man* una well done.

There's a very wide difference between "being there with a man" and "being there for a man"

mikkyjay:
The answer is no, I would have insisted on not marrying her, because I saw all the red flags, but eventually bowed to pressure now I'm suffering it alone.

Hahahaha 😂 sense don locate you las las.

Capernum:


It's a very hard decision. I would have betrayed the same dream and aspiration. I would be betraying my two lovely kids. I have decided to fire on without her.

Why you dey fear to talk the dream? Not all dreams should be supported!

I*would*have*married*her*6years*earlier.

I will never agree to date him not to talk of marrying him

No matter what no regrets. Shit they say happens

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After all these yes and yes they still go to cheat on their spouses. Wicked souls

Lai lai

Karlifate:


There's a very wide difference between "being there with a man" and "being there for a man"

Ehya.........pele to those women for the sorry excuse.

Better to be there for them when they already have the tickets to set their standard. There is no worst thing as a spouse remaining with you out of pity.

dinosquard:
I will never agree to date him not to talk of marrying him

Maybe he's saying the same thing about you.

Yes, over and over, the only issue is child raising, cos of her profession, child raising is damn stressful. She's very open, truthful, transparent, and possess every quality of a good wife.

https://www.nairaland.com/7747564/enjoying-marriage-how-did-get#124130819

I decided to create this thread in order not to derail this.
Those that are happy with their choice of spouse, can you please share how you got to meet your spouse and what was your conviction in making the choice.
I anticipate your responses so we can learn from you. Thanks

iamL:


Ehya.........pele to those women for the sorry excuse.

Better to be there for them when they already have the tickets to set their standard. There is no worst thing as a spouse remaining with you out of pity.

Solipsism is typical for your kind.

I'm not surprised.

absoluteSuccess:


If she's been your sister or mother, would you have changed her during the windfall?

How long you think the wealth will last? What assurance do you have that the fine woman will not bring your downfall?

You get the woman destiny assigned to you. Like Yoruba would say, marriage is a place of education, a school that is.

If your wife is bad, make her good.
If she's good, make her better.
If she's better, make her the best.

Don't stop improving the women in your life. Whatever you do through them will come back in folds to you. Never mind their weaknesses.

Stick to the topic, and stop taking everything personal.
Moreover its not every woman you can change to better