Puss360:
Infact sef... While dating, we will do till we get tired...
I need to know the man I'm getting married to....
If it's too big or too small...
If na who go kill me with sex ...
I'll know all these before marriage...
I must make sure we are compatible before marriage...

Wedding day, I'll wear white and stand on alter like virgin...
After all only God and the man besides me know I'm not "Pure"... But who cares...
Las las pastor will wish us "Happy Married life"...
That's all that matters..

...and your exes!

Maybe is know sex before marriage not no sex before marriage

I do believe before but I realized men can't wait

cutecommend:
I support No-Sex till marriage, but there are concerns about this ideology in this present dispensation..
What No-Sex in Marriage means especially in this generation..

(1) It means No-Sex with my partner because I want to marry him or her, but I will be having sex with other people or my EX.

(2) It may mean No-Sex with you, so that I can benefit certain nice things from you, and because if you sleep with me, you may stop doing the nice stuffs..

(3) It may mean No-Sex with you because I don't like you nor see a future with you, and will dump you when the right person comes.

(4) It may mean no-sex with you, and no sex with anyone else because I don't want sex with anyone at all; whether I love them or not.

(5) It means, no sex with you and no sex with anyone else, because I love you, and I want to make the relationship clean before I marry you.

My hear, which can law be that? How do I know if she's clean or sassy like I want in the other room? No no no

I still believe in it and i work for me, my marriage will ne 10yrs next year. It help to build trust.

You cant choose what others do. You can only select what you do. I am very antisex before marriage. I have great respect for people that keep themselves for their partners. However is this the only factor I will look at? No.

KIDfurniture:
Oh sorry e enter ur body Abi. You better don’t end up like ur dad. I know u well well.

Yawn, try harder with your insults. You don't have to leave so many spaces in a quote.

If na brand new test running not needed, if na tokunbo test am from Abuja reach delta to be sure if is not accidental 1

helinues:
Would you buy a brand new car without test running?

jmoore:
Yes, I believe I believe.

And she must be a virgin bride

Yes Bro..
We are in this together..

But the question is, how do we identify a virgin girl..?

on the certainty that both intending couple or one is a virgin

How person go buy car without test driving it? Especially with all these Nigerian girls. How I go know whether her ringtones dey sweet and loud enough?

Nazgul:
As long as I won't be playing husband roles by shouldering all her financial burdens, it's totally fine by me.

Would you do otherwise if sex was in the picture?

Puss360:
Infact sef... While dating, we will do till we get tired...
I need to know the man I'm getting married to....
If it's too big or too small...
If na who go kill me with sex ...
I'll know all these before marriage...
I must make sure we are compatible before marriage...

Wedding day, I'll wear white and stand on alter like virgin...
After all only God and the man besides me know I'm not "Pure"... But who cares...
Las las pastor will wish us "Happy Married life"...
That's all that matters..

The big question here is:
Are you proud of your bodycount?
Can you be honest about it when asked?
And for your mentality about sex before marriage, Will you be proud to pass on this mentality to your daughters?
Will you be happy if your daughters are engaging their partners in sex before marriage?
Are you a true Muslim or Christian?

No insults intended o. Na u take am personal ….
But don’t make that mistake with any niaja girl. The hunger & hardship is high

Anny69:
Yawn, try harder with your insults. You don't have to leave so many spaces in a quote.

ukaface:

Can you hear yourself atall?
So if it’s nothing special then why are you specific about a virgin?

If I’m to think like the society, men ain’t to cry over loss of virginity, no one has ever placed pride on male virginity , male sexuality even animals is characterised by dominance, to lead the female ( according to the society) now won’t it be absurd for males to cry over virginity?

Do you know the hype the society once gave female virginity??

Dey play

Be a virgin or forget abt marriage.

Simple

Savedday2:
Don't allow any 9ja girl scam you with that nonsense.

They know that after sex most guys will start thinking with their brains hence, they brought that condition so you won't think with your brain.

They are fully aware that they are not worth being married to.

The bottom line is all 9ja girls are ashawo both the ones forming GF or church girl. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not an ashawo

I hate it when guys like you generalize. From where did you get your statistics from? If you say "all" 9ja girls are ashawo, that includes your sisters and probably your girlfriend if you have.

You sound like a teenager tho. Learn not to reason with your d.ick

Jewessgratitud3:
That's my mantra. If anyone can't take it, let him make use of the door because premarital sex does not guarantee marriage neither does it determine a good and successful marriage.

Anyways, the world is so rotten these days that you hardly hear or see people having such principles. Everyone is just diving into one another without caution hence making this moral standards slowly dissipate into thin air so much that when you mention it, you sound achaic.

Even some so-called "christian' brethren are not left out as they give in to this immoral acts when the pressure becomes too much.

Safe to say it's one of the reasons I'm still single today because everyone just wants to taste the forbidden fruit before commiting and I am not available for such rubbish. I don't regret it one bit! As far as I still got myself in one piece.

Eee go soon clear

No insults intended o. Na u take am personal ….
But don’t make that mistake with any niaja girl. The hunger & hardship is high

Anny69:
Yawn, try harder with your insults. You don't have to leave so many spaces in a quote.

My own bi say: if you no bi virgin as a man, it is uncalled for to be wanting a virgin lady.



So your plan is to be unlocking every virgin until, not only will you abuse many and dump, but look for the one that matches your fantasy.

You must meet your match! You must meet the kinds of person you dump for others!

cutecommend:
I support No-Sex till marriage, but there are concerns about this ideology in this present dispensation..
What No-Sex in Marriage means especially in this generation..

(1) It means No-Sex with my partner because I want to marry him or her, but I will be having sex with other people or my EX.

(2) It may mean No-Sex with you, so that I can benefit certain nice things from you, and because if you sleep with me, you may stop doing the nice stuffs..

(3) It may mean No-Sex with you because I don't like you nor see a future with you, and will dump you when the right person comes.

(4) It may mean no-sex with you, and no sex with anyone else because I don't want sex with anyone at all; whether I love them or not.

(5) It means, no sex with you and no sex with anyone else, because I love you, and I want to make the relationship clean before I marry you.

Yes o. My Bible tells me to flee fornication. Marriage is to be held with honor, and the bed undefiled.

My girlfriend of 6 yrs (first girlfriend) was lashed by another person while in school... She told me out of judged conscience.

I then lashed her hot hot and dump her...

The plan was initially marriage... Susanqueen, if you see this, you bleeped up

[/color]b[color=#006600]g but women like sex too much but pretend why?

Savedday2:
Don't allow any 9ja girl scam you with that nonsense.

They know that after sex most guys will start thinking with their brains hence, they brought that condition so you won't think with your brain.

They are fully aware that they are not worth being married to.

The bottom line is all 9ja girls are ashawo both the ones forming GF or church girl. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not an ashawo

Quit spewing this stale old trash on this forum. You can speak of your family members, mother, sisters and in-laws. Stop being a disgrace. Mtchew

Your type will lump decent struggling/hardworking girls in the same category, demonizing even the good ones.

May good ladies elude you and your kind. Let the ashawos, known and unknown follow you and your kind.

Well it depends on the level of your spirituality and the kind of mentorship you have but for me and my beautiful wife to be, we have been in a relationship for one year now and God has been helping us without defining ourselves in anyway. Very soon, we strongly believe God will take us to Jerusalem.

If you follow God standard in your relationship to the marriage, you will definitely enjoy heaven on Earth in your marriage.

You to can try it

BoboNogoDie:

The big question here is:
Are you proud of your bodycount?
Can you be honest about it when asked?
And for your mentality about sex before marriage, Will you be proud to pass on this mentality to your daughters?
Will you be happy if your daughters are engaging their partners in sex before marriage?
Are you a true Muslim or Christian?

Carry religion go one side.. who e help??
Who wants to ask me about my body count?? A man? Never...
As for my daughter, I'll boldly tell them to know their man inside and outside before marriage...

Oya rest

omooba969:


...and your exes!

Yes... After all I have gone to marriage of two of my exes.. world no end...

Yes

5 years of courtship without it.

She was 29 and met her as a virgin after our wedding.
She attended Poly and furthered in university also. Has worked in accounting firm in Lagos (Before you start thinking I picked up a lady from the village)
She's damn beautiful

I'm so proud of her.
She's a shinning light for her generation.

I have so much in mind to do for her.
She deserves every gift in this world.

God bless me to spoil her.

Holluwhakemmy:
he knows about it already I'm going to keep it God help me

you cant be a tinubu supporter and claim youre a virgin as a lady..biko getat with that lie

cutecommend:
I support No-Sex till marriage, but there are concerns about this ideology in this present dispensation..
What No-Sex in Marriage means especially in this generation..

(1) It means No-Sex with my partner because I want to marry him or her, but I will be having sex with other people or my EX.

(2) It may mean No-Sex with you, so that I can benefit certain nice things from you, and because if you sleep with me, you may stop doing the nice stuffs..

(3) It may mean No-Sex with you because I don't like you nor see a future with you, and will dump you when the right person comes.

(4) It may mean no-sex with you, and no sex with anyone else because I don't want sex with anyone at all; whether I love them or not.

(5) It means, no sex with you and no sex with anyone else, because I love you, and I want to make the relationship clean before I marry you.

Nonsense

cutecommend:
I support No-Sex till marriage, but there are concerns about this ideology in this present dispensation..
What No-Sex in Marriage means especially in this generation..

(1) It means No-Sex with my partner because I want to marry him or her, but I will be having sex with other people or my EX.

(2) It may mean No-Sex with you, so that I can benefit certain nice things from you, and because if you sleep with me, you may stop doing the nice stuffs..

(3) It may mean No-Sex with you because I don't like you nor see a future with you, and will dump you when the right person comes.

(4) It may mean no-sex with you, and no sex with anyone else because I don't want sex with anyone at all; whether I love them or not.

(5) It means, no sex with you and no sex with anyone else, because I love you, and I want to make the relationship clean before I marry you.

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"Now concerning the things of which you wrote to me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband." - 1 Corinthians 7:1

Why should I believe in no sex before marriage?