The only part of her story I don't believe is the: buying her stuffs, paying her fees, buying her jewellery e.t.c. You don't do so much for a child and then go behind her and make mockery of her weaknesses.

jennykadry:

The only part of her story I don't believe is the: buying her stuffs, paying her fees, buying her jewellery e.t.c. You don't do so much for a child and then go behind her and make mockery of her weaknesses.

Am not sure she meant any harm, she was just trying to see if other people had helps that do not just want to learn ( it was a harmless post). I believe to an extent that she did all those things, only because i can do that also for whoever.

^^Honey the fact say you fit do am does not mean say the other person fit do am. You can do it, but can you also come here and open up a thread like this?

I would like to know why people open threads and call it harmless when it does not involve their own kids. I bet you Ronke, this poster would not do this to her child.

See hypocrisy of the highest order !!!! all you women that condemned Owu Gal are bloody hypocrites !!!! how many of you don't have underaged kids as "omo-odo"? Infact how many of you would leave a fully grown, full breasted, plump girl/lady housegirl with your husbands? Some of your parents also have those "omo-odo" too so stop playing your holier than thou attitude here. Plueeeeesssssseeeee spare me !!!!!

@ poster, i get wat u re trying to tell us,disregard d haters and f**kin hypocites we have on NL,for u to provide her with all those luxuries,i salute u.

Mine isnt like dat but she sure does funny things,they can be appalling at times.

i think househelps are no slaves,i wonder if mine can fit back in her parents' world,having experienced cooking with a gas cooker,washing machine,microwave,air conditioner,water dispenser,name it.

OP, i also want u to know they are bloody liars,at a point, i was forced to think their memories are always wiped clean b4 being sent to us.

IT IS WELL.

I am sure you won't bring your siblings or your own daughter for discussion in NL if they are the ones. If you are doing all you said for her y wont be a change? U don't need to parade the good things you are doing for her, it should be between u and God. Correct her the way u will to your own daughter if she is involved. It is not the poor girls fault but that of her parents that are not ready to train a child yet will not stop giving birth.

Poster the insults too much for the help sha but i think majority of the posts here must be from internet people with the way they are suprised that a 14yr old is a househelp in Nigeria.

^^^^^^^^no mind them oooo, some of the men are sl, eeping with the ''said small girl'', that is too small for house work, but not too small to be toskposed.!!!

If anyone is in need of house maid,house keeper,drivers or a cook pls try this site WWW.DOMESTICCAREGIVER.COM is a nigerian site base in nigeria or call 018419179 or 08081755056 they don't do underage,

ronkebp:

^^^^^^^^no mind them oooo, some of the men are sl, eeping with the ''said small girl'', that is too small for house work, but not too small to be toskposed.!!!

I tire o, i just dey suprised.

Owu gal:

I was a little taken aback by many of the Comments on here.  but maybe I should make it clear.

Her mother has  7 kids and occasionally works in the sex trade

She abandoned her at the home of the friend of a relative

  I put her in private school

She has her own room which I am 100% sure is bigger and better than most people on heres master bedroom

She has more clothes and jewelry than most other 14 year old Her age

She goes on vacation with me abroad

She doesnt cook

she sweeps with a vacuum cleaner

  I still wash the bathrooms

She doesnt even wash her own clothes cos I wash them with the familys in our washing machine

She has more pocket money than most of you make in salary.

I help her with her Home work everyday and attend all her PTA Meetings

For her end of term party in school she had a big Bottom cake that she shared with all the pupils in her class and from what I hear the teachers and staff too

She has a better life with me than anyone of you here had in your childhoods and I know it.

If you think Your child is better cared for than mY  OMO ODO, , then PROVE IT

you are a disgrace to the nigerian women with this bucket of crap.
"omo odo" and "suegbe" - that's supposed to make you macho, isn't it.
sorry o - stepmother of "suegbe omo-odo"

you are so ignorant!
whatever attitude that little girl has got, you are fully responsible for it. she's a child.
if you keep a dog that's spiteful and bites people every time - then you are a wicked owner.
if your omo odo is still daft(after 9 months of staying with you) - then it's a no brainer you are also daft.

coogar:

you are a disgrace to the nigerian women with this bucket of crap.
"omo odo" and "suegbe" - that's supposed to make you macho, isn't it.
sorry o - stepmother of "suegbe omo-odo"

you are so ignorant!
whatever attitude that little girl has got, you are fully responsible for it. she's a child.
if you keep a dog that's spiteful and bites people every time - then you are a wicked owner.
if your omo odo is daft - then it's a no brainer you are also daft.

I am single and available

ronkebp:

, Oh yes i do, i snore in spanish. but should not come in between me and money.

roll me your phone number. that will be faster so i deal you my i-banking details. BIG BOIZZZZZ

one thing I learnt over time, "you dont criticize those you love in a public forum". why didn't the poster call her children more 'Su Ẹ̀gbẹ̀d'.

tlops:

one thing I learnt over time, "you dont criticize those you love in a public forum". why didn't the poster call her children more 'Su Ẹ̀gbẹ̀d'.

E DOOOOO!!!!!!!!!! WOMAN RIGHT ACTIVIST!!!! MWHERE U DEY WEN DEM KILL SARO WIWA? LOLLLLLLLLL

jennykadry:

I am single and available  

the last time i proposed, you said i was too poor because of my village bicycle and a bad year of cocoa production.
i can't let you break my heart again. i am an ordinary farmer and my most prized possession is my local dog(bingo)!

I wise Man once said that every child is your child and you are not a success until you have been able to make a success of somebody else who is not necessary related to you.
@ Poster-With the background above stated words, where do you stand?
Wish you the best because what goes around comes around.
@ NL-Really proud to see we have people who are objective to be able to differentiate wrong from right.
God Bless You All Who Said The Right thing.

I wise Man once said that every child is your child and you are not a success until you have been able to make a success of somebody else who is not necessary related to you.
@ Poster-With the background above stated words, where do you stand?
Wish you the best because what goes around comes around.
@ NL-Really proud to see we have people who are objective to be able to differentiate wrong from right.
God Bless You All Who Said The Right thing.

WHILE I PITY THAT CHILD, I WANT TO ADVISE THAT PEOPLE SHOULD ONLY GIVE BIRTH TO THE NUMBER OF CHILDREN THEY CAN TAKE CARE OF conveniently, BUT I WONDER WHETHER THOSE WHO NEED TO BE EDUCATED ABOUT GIVING BIRTH RESPONSIBLY ARE ON THIS FORUM.

Those supporting the OP do not get it.
She opened a thread to poke fun at her househelp as a SUEGBE-a derogatory term for some one who is a failure at her /his job.
She asked if others had househelps as dumb as hers.
However when she saw the responses were going against her she came back to tell us all the wonderful things she has been doing for the d.umb girl-This was an after thought as far as I am concerned.
You can have a house help but please treat her right and don't come on a public forum to poke fun at her-simple.

Not my life.

This is incredible. But it is also typically Nigerian.

Someone comes with an issue to discuss on what is essentially a fun internet medium. All that is reqd is that u give an opinion on the issue and move on. But others whether its a desperate bid to seek relevance or for some other obscure reason have left the message for the messenger. There may even be some resentment of the OP's social status. That too is in our nature.

For the diasporans who toil night and day thereby aging prematurely, what the OP has done is abominable, infact a capital crime. Nevermind a young girl has been given a chance for education and an opportunity to extricate her family and herself from the twin inevitable fate of prostitution and poverty. Nevermind that she has been saved from early death from readily treatable diseases the cost of which her parents cannot afford. In the UK and the US she is no body's business but the social welfare's. In Nigeria that is just another foreign concept.

Who talked abt slavery for someone who is free to get up and leave.

And why is it that some pple are prepared to undo their panties bc d girl is being made fun of like she is on NL?

OP you brought an interesting issue for discussion pls dont be discouraged by NL resident nonetities. Even though I have no contribution at this time

Kai, some of una too harsh, i bet if you get worked up over things like this, i wonder what you will do inface of real things', am not saying it is right that the 'poster was making fun of the girl, ''' but common on now, we are human and we make mistakes, no need to call her names.

Pennywise, they do not understand, pretenders of the highest level, as if, if the girl came at their door begging them for food and clothes, they would open their doors to her.

The only mistake she made is that this is a Nigerian forum. Our hypocrisy sometimes really embarasses

Richvkunt:

Those supporting the OP do not get it.
She opened a thread to poke fun at her househelp as a SUEGBE-a derogatory term for some one who is a failure at her /his job.
She asked if others had househelps as dumb as hers.
However when she saw the responses were going against her she came back to tell us all the wonderful things she has been doing for the d.umb girl-This was an after thought as far as I am concerned.
You can have a house help but please treat her right and don't come on a public forum to poke fun at her-simple.

You are the only one that understands.

No one cares if she has a "Maid", they only have a problem with her coming online and saying trash about this girl.

You don't come online and call someone else's kid dumb and expect others to clap for you or better still see the fun in your post. WTF

What will I not see on NLD

Pennywise:

This is incredible. But it is also typically Nigerian.

Someone comes with an issue to discuss on what is essentially a fun internet medium. All that is reqd is that u give an opinion on the issue and move on. But others whether its a desperate bid to seek relevance or for some other obscure reason have left the message for the messenger. There may even be some resentment of the OP's social status. That too is in our nature.

For the diasporans who toil night and day thereby aging prematurely, what the OP has done is abominable, infact a capital crime. Nevermind a young girl has been given a chance for education and an opportunity to extricate her family and herself from the twin inevitable fate of prostitution and poverty. Nevermind that she has been saved from early death from readily treatable diseases the cost of which her parents cannot afford. In the UK and the US she is no body's business but the social welfare's. In Nigeria that is just another foreign concept.

Who talked abt slavery for someone who is free to get up and leave.
And why is it that some pple are prepared to undo their panties bc d girl is being made fun of like she is on NL?
OP you brought an interesting issue for discussion pls dont be discouraged by NL resident nonetities. Even though I have no contribution at this time

so ridiculing her housemaid by calling her suegbe is the way to discuss issues?
how about wording the title of the thread more appropriately? if this little girl is your sister, would you let anyone refer to her as suegbe on a public forum? i don't care about the number of louis vuitton bags she has bought for the poor girl but calling a 14-yr old suegbe reeks of the slave-driver mentality.

i am afraid, the op is an utter mor[i]o[/i]n!

Owu gal:

jENNY YOU HAVE A LOT OF WORK TO DO ON YOURSELF. JEALOUSY NO GO KILL YOU

WTH. Just saw this. . What do you have that I should be jealous of? a husband that cheats on your sorry arse or the husband that beats the living daylight out of your already black skin? Seriously what do you have? a brother inlaw that eats like malu or a young girl you call omo odo?

I would really love to know what you've got that would make me jealous? and whilst you are at it let me sef go and chop my own portion of beating but in this case I call it Spanking from my oga

The worst thing is the title she gave the thread;IS YOUR OMO_ODO(HOUSE GIRL)MORE SU EGBE THAN MINE?PROVE IT![color=#990000][/color]

The" Prove it"- Shows she delibrately set out to run the girl down and only came back to tell us the wonderful things she is doing for the girl when she saw the trend of the replies.
The OP has serious personality issues.

The OP appears quite comfortable. You can only fool some pple abt your social background and standing on this forum, certainly not every one.

If the househelp leaves willingly there will be 100 others who will gladly take her place for the security and comfort her home provides. There is no reason she should feel bad bc she is doing humanity a lot of good.

There are threads on this forum where a lot of us discussed the awful thing we and siblings did as children. But this thread has taken on a special meaning bc the person in question is a house help. It seems to me that it is a very poor excuse to attack an innocent person. And bc there are so many 'malu' on NL it is easy for the herd mentality to take effect