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Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Pjelafe(m): 5:35pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
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Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by lenghtinny(m): 5:39pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Integrafamoo:Its not a wrong school of thought oga…. No one is disputing the fact that you can help your in-laws if you are capable… But then, have you met entitled in-laws that feel it is your responsibility to shoulder their burden |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by lenghtinny(m): 5:39pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Samantha124:You obviously don’t know the essence of the bride price |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Integrafamoo: 5:40pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
babyfaceafrica:This is a wrong school of thought. It all depends on your capacity and how useful your wife and her families are. Some in-laws can stand with you in time of crises than your so called relatives |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by ExudeLoveToAll: 5:44pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Why won't men die you? you marry a lady and then carry the problem of her family on your head, if you do this you are own your own. Your financial success is a long way shot. The thing that is so annoying is that the family will leave their biological children alone when they have financial issues and starts putting pressure on an inlaw who comes second fiddle in ranking. When properties are shared in the family nobody calls the inlaw to come and collect his share that time they remember he is not their biological son but when problems are shared he becomes the first son if the family. That's for those who wants to remain in the rat race of life Oy help when you can help and not as a duty, that is left for the children to cater. A friend of mine was sharing his expenses and income with me and our was shocked the percentage he spent on his girlfriend and his her family , some one that is a middle income eaner in Nigeria. Because of this his income was slightly lower than his expenditure and that was baffling to me. He has no single savings , no investment then I asked him if you want to marry this girl what will you use in marrying her? His reply was that you are there, you will cover 59 percent expenses for me leading to a big laughter. This is how people run their life with expenditure greater than income because of the load they carry, I just told my friend the truth that he needs to cuff off a lot of people if he can save for investment and wedding. That he expects me to fund his wedding when he earns over ten times the minimum wage in in Nigeria without a single savings to his name, that he must be joking. My guy is adjusting and making amends. Most ladies will never do this for a guy and his. Men just like carrying unnecessary pressure on their head... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by ExudeLoveToAll: 5:45pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Offpointng: If your family is same like mine truly the bride price will Abe 100 naira. |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by vickydevoka(m): 5:46pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Chibuzoripob:It's not easy as you think. If you are a salary earner you can foot bills on your own |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by vickydevoka(m): 5:48pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Offpointng:It all depend on the lady. Just be a fine boy and get her pregnant. Her family will be begging you self |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by vickydevoka(m): 5:49pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Onyiiobi7735:I have not seen such. It depends on you, don't impress anybody from the beginning. Don't act nice. Talking from experience 1 Like |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by ExudeLoveToAll: 5:49pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
HeadNigga: Says the inlaws |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by LordBillionz: 5:49pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Samantha124:I agree with you. Mumu Reno |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by vickydevoka(m): 5:50pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Samantha124:So what ever works for you my love. I can't ask my won brother for money. But I'm comfortable to ask his wife. Infact the wife gave me 2 million laste year. I dash her money like mad. She always say I'm a good person, but she doesn't know he is the best |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by ExudeLoveToAll: 5:51pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
GanagiBitrus: They will drain you to the core. If you know how many business men have gone down through this route with this mindset of catering for all expenditures in the wife family you will marvel. It is never your responsibility as a man, you can only help where you can else you get crushed economically. Interestingly, those who benefited will be the ones to taunt you when you go down, that you don't know how to handle money. This scenario has played out a million times. |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by ExudeLoveToAll: 5:54pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Armaggedon: That guy is making money via those impressions on social media, you should know that by now. |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by civilserva: 5:56pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
He don tire of Igbos |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Okpollo: 5:59pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
babyfaceafrica:People still listen to this fool called reno omokri? There is no law stopping anybody from helping anybody. there is no law mandating son in-laws anywhere to take care of the father inlaw or mother inlaw. |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by ExudeLoveToAll: 6:01pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
pocohantas: Is it only the man's parents that gets sick alone? Even you, you will also get sick likewise your parents., How many of you women have taken care of your husband's or boyfriend's parents financially as a duty but you will expect same from the man. Men just out themselves in financial troubles by carrying things heavier than them. It is not compulsory, he can help only when he has extra to give. |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by crossbreedwears(m): 6:01pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
But in Nigeria it's compulsory for the man to twke care of his wife family. Very backward mentality....A man can send gifts but not a must all the time Chibuzoripob: |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Nobody: 6:04pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
You can't expect me to love and respect you and your family while you don't do the same to me and my family just because you paid the bride price. I'll give it to you and maybe we'll live in peace in the house. lenghtinny: 1 Like |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by ExudeLoveToAll: 6:05pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
sharone21: Allow the man to grow and not stifle his development. It's not his duty , he can step in onky when he has extra. You guys are even talking as if the men here are not inlaws too. We don't disturb our inlaws , their responsibility is the new nuclear family they are creating, allow them to progress. If they tell you now to financially take care of your boyfriend's or husbands parents you will kick against it but want same for your parents isn't it? Hypocritical world we live In. 1 Like |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Gajagojo: 6:05pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Samantha124: Are you Nigerian? Are you married? I guess you are neither and just seeking attention |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by ExudeLoveToAll: 6:06pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Samantha124: You don't need to wait till athen, ensure its zero rand during the wedding. |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by ExudeLoveToAll: 6:10pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
NwokoloOwa: How many people have 1million in their account in Nigeria according to NBS? 1percent, as small as that money is it's big for 99 percent of the population. |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Nobody: 6:12pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
It's my duty to perform the domestic roles for my man only and not his family... Since he wouldn't want anything with assisting my family financially when they're in need of financial assistance, I'll also want nothing to do with assisting his family domestically. I'll give his family their bride price back if they're going to use it against me. NECO1998: 1 Like |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by ExudeLoveToAll: 6:15pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
id4sho: At bolded, she was doing division of labour for you What happens to children birthed by the woman contributing her upkeep allowance? This is ridiculous, she did you a big favour. 1 Like |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by LARRYOBRAIN(m): 6:17pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
I support Reno on this one. He is right. |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Onuoha1234(m): 6:17pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
You do not know your culture and tradition. |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by LegacyB: 6:17pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Foodqueen:U should learn to talk less . Or close your eyes mate! 1 Like |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Nobody: 6:19pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
The same reason my husband wouldn't see his in-laws as his responsibility whenever they're in need of financial assistance. I'll assist my family myself and I'll expect him to do the same thing with his family. Dshocker: 1 Like |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by id4sho(m): 6:23pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Acidosis:My brother, she's always talking about her mom. That she will make sure her mum enjoys. Her aunt will be telling her to tell me to buy roasted fish. The father is a great man but the women ehhhhhh |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Nobody: 6:24pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Why expect me to cook for your family if you want nothing to do with my family? Isn't that selfishness? id4sho: |
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