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Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by 1TrippleCee: 6:25pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
GanagiBitrus: Truth 1 Like |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Nobody: 6:28pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Then go to your village to look for the wife you can easily manipulate just because you paid her bride price. Emotionss: |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by 1TrippleCee: 6:29pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Crafteck1: There are some things that ought not to be discussed, let alone publicized, this is where this Reno guy has failed. As men, not every topicsl issues should be broadcasted. No no |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by id4sho(m): 6:30pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Samantha124: If my family members visit, our kids won't eat |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Nobody: 6:31pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Love isn't supposed to be one sided. Gentlesoul2021: |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by 1TrippleCee: 6:35pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
ExudeLoveToAll: What he needs at this time is to financially deveop himself and have investments not love interest. It wont end well unless a miracle happens |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by mastermaestro(m): 6:37pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
sharone21: Social media presents every idiot as wise nowadays. These are the people destroying the joy and beauty of family support. Anyway we will keep knocking it into their dull brains till they realize that sound family values are the bedrock of stable and happy societies. The husband part made my heart skip o. 1 Like |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by 1TrippleCee: 6:37pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Samantha124: Dont mind your attackers. You are on track. A man should extend a hand to his inlaws because by interoretation of law, they are family-in-law. Also, because when most men become broke or fall, they turn to their wife to seek help from home. If this insurance avails itself, then ahead of such evil day, men should extend kindness as they can afford to their inlaws 1 Like |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by thatigboman: 6:39pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
That's how my wife asked me if I don't know that some men build house for their father in-law. And I replied that that's same way some women's family build house for their son inlaw (so their daughter will live in a comfortable atmosphere) and buy car for the as well for mobility. I should leave my family and start taking care of you and your family as u too get sense. Nonsense. |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by ExudeLoveToAll: 6:39pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
1TrippleCee: You are right....that was why I said investment before marriage. People make mistakes as lot , right decision making is the most important trait anyone can have. |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Nobody: 6:40pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Problem with you is that you want the love and respect to only favour you and your family while you don't reciprocate it just because you paid the bride price. I will give you your bride price back and maybe it'll cook for your family when they visit. Emotionss: |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Gentlesoul2021(m): 6:41pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Samantha124: It's not one sided. You cannot carry the burden of ur family together with ur in-laws for head. Na body go tell the man. U can assist once in a while. That's reasonably enough... |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Nobody: 6:42pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Since you're not married, then you shouldn't be telling me about marriage. Swahili is SA? OlawaleBammie: |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by 123yes(m): 6:43pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Mentality of poverty. Your mate build upstairs for their in-laws. Took them as his parents 2. I wonder how this man calls him self a pastor. Very selfish individual. God bless me so that I will take care of my in-laws. They suffer to train that diamond you are living as a wife today. |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Nobody: 6:46pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Why must I be selfless when the person would be selfish Connected1: |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Offpointng: 6:47pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
NwokoloOwa:Normal scam you'd always hear like say she's the only good girl in the universe |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Nobody: 6:51pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
The aspect does apply because a man is expected to be the provider while the woman is expected to be submissive. But if you're not going to provide for my family even if you have the means to do it ( especially during tough times ), then I won't be submissive to your family even if I can. tollyboy5: |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Nobody: 6:54pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
If you want it to be, then it will be. Remember the ball is in your court. omooba969: |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by OlawaleBammie: 6:55pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Samantha124:You...are u married?? i tot southie has little of swahili tho |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by NaughtyBrainiac: 6:56pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
mastermaestro:Do you read to understand or you read to respond? |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Nobody: 6:57pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
So you're kicking me out?ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ omooba969: |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Nobody: 6:59pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Nobody: 7:02pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
I can also only cook for my in-laws once in a while when they visit. Because I'd have work to go to. Gentlesoul2021: |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Dshocker(m): 7:04pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Samantha124: Probably South Africans are ok with that culture, here in Nigeria, courtesy demands you serve or offer your visitor food, particularly your family. |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Nobody: 7:04pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
I'll make a plan for the kids. id4sho: |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Nobody: 7:05pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
I'll make a plan for the kids. I can buy takeaways for them... id4sho: |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Emotionss: 7:13pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
[color=#006600][/color] Samantha124: Just look at you of the things one can try to use to threaten someone like me, cooking is definitely not one of those things.... Try that return of bride price nonsense with me and find yourself replace immediately... A replaceable nonentity forming irreplaceable and priceless... I honestly don't blame you south African men have proven time without numbers to be weaklings, lazy and below average in terms of masculinity. |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Niceessien(m): 7:16pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Person wey I know is taking care of her wife mum, five children of the wife late Sister, the wife daughter and they still dey small money for the wife papa for village..... They have been married for six years and the lady never born for am...... All this people inside one room and parlour. Wetin dey vex me be sey the children the disrespect the guy |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by GanagiBitrus: 7:17pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
ExudeLoveToAll:Yes, looking after inlaws is generally not a mans responsibility, but there are exceptions. If your wife is the only surviving child of her mother & her mother falls sick, it's her responsibility to take care of her, which indirectly becomes your responsibility too. |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Nobody: 7:21pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Okay, I'll pay for my own bride price for the wedding then... Because I'm an African and there won't be any traditional wedding without the bride price. ExudeLoveToAll: |
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Connected1: 7:21pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Samantha124:Because 2 wrongs don't make a right and for your own mental health you got to do better. Some of us have stingy siblings who we still help when they are in need, we just value our mental health, instead of seeing them suffer, we just help them and hope they realize their foolish attitude someday. |
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