Magnoliaa:


Fira, Fira.

How far? How have you been? It's been a minute.


You know I've been wondering how long you were going to last, and give in to the urge to engage me. I never knew it wouldn't be long coming!

Been seeing you everywhere. Like a peeping rat. Lmao.

This must be so ... freeing, right? Or soothing. I don't know. Whatever pleasure you're getting is your ish.

Anyway, good looking out to you for indulging your desire or whatever.

Adeola, I don't give a walking fvck about your brief-soft-epistle above, I only stated a fact of you running to the mods.

The girl be like: 'urge', 'pleasure', 'desire'.
I honestly don't what this girl thinks she is(a fly? an ant? or a weevil) lmao.

Fira09:
I honestly don't what this girl thinks she is(a fly? an ant? or a weevil) lmao.

A queen bee .

(I hope you're intelligent enough to catch the pun).

Offpointng:


Normal scam you'd always hear like say she's the only good girl in the universe

Not a scam.

Yours is yours if you believe. If not, you settle whatever is available along you belief. It's in the mind

Yes, I'm still with him.

OlawaleBammie:


But a never gave u an advice na, I just dished out an opinion..

Anyways, are u still with ur man??

Samantha124:
Yes, I'm still with him.

And when are you guys going to make it official??
It's getting late na

Late for what?

OlawaleBammie:
And when are you guys going to make it official??
It's getting late na

Samantha124:
Late for what?

When are u tying the knot mama alaye?

Answer my question first.

OlawaleBammie:
When are u tying the knot mama alaye?

Samantha124:
Answer my question first.

what questions sef

Late for what

OlawaleBammie:
what questions sef

Samantha124:
Late for what

I have answered na, by getting late I mean the d-day....

Make una tie the knot na

Don't worry, soon enough I'll be Mrs Somebody...

OlawaleBammie:


I have answered na, by getting late I mean the d-day....

Make una tie the knot na

jaxxy:


yes some do if they are capable. I have friends who have been lucky to have loving inlaws.

Gave him a huge business loan which he paid back at his convenience.

Business loan is a loan

Is the son inlaw going to be giving them loans that must be paid back too?

1TrippleCee:



There are some things that ought not to be discussed, let alone publicized, this is where this Reno guy has failed. As men, not every topicsl issues should be broadcasted. No no

But aren't yhese the reasons men are dying in silence?

Procashtips:


Business loan is a loan

Is the son inlaw going to be giving them loans that must be paid back too?

a huge business loan without interest to pay at ur convenience isn't a good thing or u want them to dash u more than their power?

Give what us within ur power. demanding anything else is self entitlement.

Samantha124:
Where did it states that the topic is strictly for Nigerians only

It doesn't state that but
This is a cultural issue and the context is Nigeria
Certainly with your attitude you will not find any man to marry you and if you do it won't last.
Many folk like to pick and choose what suits them from western traditions whilst shunning responsibility.

Micheal obi once cried out after his sisters husband threatened to report to the press that his family member and inlaws were living in poorverty, na only the Jews fit do such

At bolded, who are you to decide my fate? God's PA?

This has nothing to do with my nationality... And what does requiring love and respect from a man has to do with Western traditions?

Gajagojo:

It doesn't state that but
This is a cultural issue and the context is Nigeria
Certainly with your attitude you will not find any man to marry you and if you do it won't last.
Many folk like to pick and choose what suits them from western traditions whilst shunning responsibility.

Samantha124:
At bolded, who are you to decide my fate? God's PA?

This has nothing to do with my nationality... And what does requiring love and respect from a man has to do with Western traditions?

It has everything to do with Nationality
The way we operate marriage in Nigeria is different from other places where they have no sense of ancestry or identity and want to act like white people
That may be your issue
What is love? What does that mean?
We do not marry for love that is a Western idea
We marry out of a sense of responsibility to community and ancestors.You won't understand
We are not responsible To just ourselves
we have a duty To make babies and keep life going in harmony
All this nonsense you are saying is not for us in Nigeria

Just do according to your capacity has the lord have given you strength to do

NwokoloOwa:


940k is nothing to a loving wife and a happy home

After sponsoring her to school? That's so unfair! Do we know his ability to pay the 940K? Abi na every man get money?

jaxxy:


a huge business loan without interest to pay at ur convenience isn't a good thing or u want them to dash u more than their power?

Give what us within ur power. demanding anything else is self entitlement.

He's not obliged to give them anything just as they're not obliged to do same.

If he does, it's simply an act of charity, vice versa.

Enough of this financial pressure on young people.

Procashtips:


He's not obliged to give them anything just as they're not obliged to do same.

If he does, it's simply an act of charity, vice versa.

Enough of this financial pressure on young people.

don't know if u guys lack comprehension or ure just upset at the topic? That is exactly what is said. it's not hos job bt if he's capable there's nothing wrong in helping family or inlaws.

jaxxy:


don't know if u guys lack comprehension or ure just upset at the topic? That is exactly what is said. it's not hos job bt if he's capable there's nothing wrong in helping family or inlaws.

It has nothing to do with capacity.

Saying if he's capable is a subtle way of pushing the responsibility to him.

Capable or not, it's not his duty to help any inlaw.

Charity has nothing to do with capacity, even poor people give aims.

Good day.

Procashtips:


It has nothing to do with capacity.

Saying if he's capable is a subtle way of pushing the responsibility to him.

Capable or not, it's not his duty to help any inlaw.

Charity has nothing to do with capacity, even poor people give aims.

Good day.

Charity has to do with capacity because u can't give more than u have or borrow money just to give people.

However Capacity doesn't automatically mean or translate to Charity.

2ndly capacity or not nobody is forcing u to give anybody. some people don't even give their wives or kids that's also their choice and business.

jaxxy:


Charity has to do with capacity because u can't give more than u have or borrow money just to give people.

However Capacity doesn't automatically mean or translate to Charity.

2ndly capacity or not nobody is forcing u to give anybody. some people don't even give their wives or kids that's also their choice and business.

You have no point
There is a difference between an obligation and generosity.
A man can help his in-laws,friends,relative or neighbours. It is NOT a responsibility
It is voluntary

Gajagojo:


You have no point
There is a difference between an obligation and generosity.
A man can help his in-laws,friends,relative or neighbours. It is NOT a responsibility
It is voluntary

I don't know if u know who or what u are replying too? or u are just in a hurry to jump into an argument cos Ur in the mood.

i never said its an obligation

if I can help strangers and friends why can't I help my inlaw if I can and want to?


Some of u hear inlaws and ur blood boils for no reason.

Is supporting his own parents his responsibility?

ednut1:
any lady that is the first daughter with struggling parents and siblings. I no dey near there

So men know this format...🤣🤣🤣

Samantha124:
I don't disagree with what everyone is saying, in fact I agree that the groom shouldn't be burdened with the responsibility of financially supporting his in-laws, but the wife should also not be expected to perform certain responsibilities towards her in-laws.

When they visit, they should cook for themselves whenever the wife is busy, for she's not their chef... And if one of the groom's parents gets sick and needs 24/7 care, the groom should care for his parent to good health, for his wife wouldn't have signed up to be a nurse when she agreed to get married to him.

What do you think guys?

I think you women just like wahala

Samantha124:
What if i have my own money and I don't ask the husband for money before I buy the grocery?

I'd be busy working for my money and not having the time to cook for people who can cook for themselves, I'm not their chef.

Trust me, when the time comes, you’ll beg to cook for them.