Vinnie2000:


Maybe you mean American or European Feminism.

because Nigerian feminism says that Men should cook for themselves, sometimes.
That a Woman should NOT cooking Everytime.😒😕

When in reality, Cooking should be what a Woman does naturally with pride and Joy. 😏🙂🙂

Cooking is what anyone should do with pride and joy. Why must it be a woman?

ericmor:


Lol. Na there way. Anything for the money. Make she go continue with her work since she wasn't patience enough to live a descent
Life and get such gift from the people

This one wey she done involve God, God sef go avoid her. You don't misyarn when it comes to things of God.

Balistic4:
You will never see women come out like this to do anything for a man. That said, all the contributors are men.

This one is a big shame to feminists, worst still, the e rats nairaland feminist, all Grammer, no action.

In real sense, "real" feminism is here to make life a bit easier for men. But the feminism practiced in naija is made in China, fake.

Naija feminism is simply been disobedient to the man not been independent

Na so

sgtponzihater1:
Feminist and humanist will say "why doesn't he pack his own lunch, cooking is a survival skill" .

Cooking is actually a survival skill everyone should learn irrespective of gender. If you can't cook, how did you cope in the university? That's when I learnt how to cook through trials and errors. How did you survive after school?

When there's a woman living with you, she'd take on it naturally as women are better cooks by default; but what happens she's not around for days or weeks?

Don't you just like to prepare something different from what she cooked at home before heading for work or church or somewhere more distant? Egg sauce and yam? Pepper soup rice?

Cooking is a survival skill.

We4all:


If chores ain't stress, then what is it? Who wouldn't want to have maids do the chores?

Anyone who sees Chores as Stress is LAZY!😕😕

If you are staying ALONE in a Self contained for instance,
won't you wash or Clean your Dishes, clothes, Bathroom, Kitchen, etc by yourself? 😒

Angelfrost:
Sigh... Everything is for clout these days.

Basic wife duties have now become topics of controversy and cash endorsements.


Una go dey alright las las.

It's a way of encouraging her because feminist made it look as if she was being dumb or a slave to her hubby due to her actions!
If you also notice....there has been of recent some sort of scarcity in decent ladies due to the influx of feminist!
Hence in a bid to pepper the feminist who flooded her post with insults,X users esp guys filled up her account with enough cash!
Just confirming that her account kuda is about doubling the 2milluon she currently has in her account!
Her year has been made all because of one noble and voluntary action!

saphiere:
WOMEN ARE HEROS.....

I'm disappointed in you, you are supposed to call her fuulish for cooking for her husband.

saphiere:
WOMEN ARE HEROS.....

If you followed the story..... It was a feminist woman that was broke shaming her hardworking and supportive husband that inspired this

lexy2014:


it is also a big shame to the men because it is a misplacement of priority. many Nigerians are fond of supporting nonsense and they will be shouting that the country is hard. from the look of things, the country is not hard. some people have money they dont need

You sef go make money wey u no need and after doing that go to the street and share it to people that really needs it. Doesn't sound difficult right? Now get to work

AchrafHakimi:
Pocohantas
Ishilove
Jeon
Siofra
Saphiere
MariahAngel
All Nairaland feminists appear on this thread right now!!

No hiding place for you.

I like who you put as number 1

But please remove the last name abeg. I no dey use am play abeg.

Vinnie2000:


Anyone who sees Chores as Stress is LAZY!😕😕

If you are staying ALONE in a Self contained for instance,
won't you wash or Clean your Dishes, clothes, Bathroom, Kitchen, etc by yourself? 😒

Don't try to twist things. If you stay alone, you can either choose to do your chores yourself or have someone do it for you. Some people are not the cleaning type, but are hardworking executives. Does that make them lazy?

The woman you quoted said waking up VERY EARLY to do these chores is stressful, but she does it anyways, so, how is she lazy?

Men who work on a daily basis also complain of stress, does that make them lazy? Even God was stressed and rested on the 7th day.

Thinktwicemybro:
Oserheimen Osunbor, the next governor of Edo State

Honestly I don't know why he's not the front runner

We4all:


Cooking is what anyone should do with pride and joy. Why must it be a woman?

It should be a Woman.

Dat's where Feminist get it Wrong and Argue unnecessarily.😕

No matter how you view it, Cooking is a Female oriented role/chore. just like House cleaning, Hair plaiting, etc.🙂

If you are a Hotel or School owner and you want to Employ a Cleaner, b/w a Man and Woman,
Who would you Employ?😏😏
If it's a Security guard, who would you Employ?😒😒

DesChyko:


Thanks for your insight. Can you please help us with the true version of things so we will not be misled?

You're a wicked psychologist.

I'll tell God not to allow you enter Heaven because you're good at using silent violence to make people run from an argument after realizing how stxpid their comment is.

lexy2014:


what is good about what these donors have done?

Oga it was the woman's effort to protect her marriage that brought the people's good will to her...it is an encouragement to others out there doing good...

Congrats Mrs Deborah, keep loving your husband.

Vinnie2000:


It should be a Woman.

Dat's where Feminist get it Wrong and Argue unnecessarily.😕

No matter how you view it, Cooking is a Female oriented role/chore. just like House cleaning, Hair plaiting, etc.🙂

If you are a Hotel or School owner and you want to Employ a Cleaner, b/w a Man and Woman,
Who would you Employ?😏😏
If it's a Security guard, who would you Employ?😒😒

Cooking is a female oriented chore assigned to women by men just to feel superior. Cooking is done by both hands and what stops a man from cooking if he isn't disabled?

nofindome:
Una d believe fake tweet.. She never post her husband or even post proof say na her recorded video

it's easy to spot ppl wey dey use free nairaland mode or 50mb daily data

Flash fame. As fast as it comes, it goes. Enjoy the moment. When it disappears, she’ll continuously chase clout — trying to reignite the situation. God help her by then.

Alexlalax1:
Oga it was the woman's effort to protect her marriage that brought the people's good will to her...it is an encouragement to others out there doing good...

That is not what I asked you.

what is good about what these donors have done?

LalastiklaIa:


You sef go make money wey u no need and after doing that go to the street and share it to people that really needs it. Doesn't sound difficult right? Now get to work

What is the relationship between the above and the following:

it is also a big shame to the men because it is a misplacement of priority. many Nigerians are fond of supporting nonsense and they will be shouting that the country is hard. from the look of things, the country is not hard. some people have money they dont need

I don search up and down this post to see jeon comment.
Men and women can never be equals.
A man is a man
And a woman should be a woman.

It pays to know your stand and status.

Humbleness pays.

How much are you selling?

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DesChyko:
A woman, Debbie OA, has been on the spotlight for the better part of over 24 hours and counting.

This fame and recognition came after she reacted to a post made by another social media user, supposedly having pity on a lady who had to wake up at 5 AM to cook lunch which her husband takes to work. In response, Debbie said "I've always been too lazy to wake up and get his lunch ready. But the day he told me a colleague brought two spoons so he'll eat with her, was the day I set my alarm for 4:50am." as a way of enlightening fellow women that it is a call to duty.

While this attracted praise from a lot of people, and smart remarks from others who sees it as if she is defending her territory, a number of feminists came hard on her for seemingly being a slave to the husband, insisting that he should be able to make his own meals himself. This resulted in a furore on social media with Debbie smartly and consistently defending her view point, insisting that she will keep doing that, even if she gets a job (she currently isn't working), much to the admiration of most people on social media.

A social media user who went through her profile shared one post she made on social media, saying her Christmas wish was to own a fridge, and her newfound admirers, took it upon themselves to fund that dream. Her account was requested for and when she provided it, social media users took it upon themselves to send in different sums. Within 12 hours, she came online to share her account balance in shock, which according to her, is more than she had ever gotten.

Precious thread: https://www.nairaland.com/7959501/woman-brought-2-spoons-husband

solsticey2k3:
Blessings don full cup dey troway, she say “it’s okay, I’m scared”

Blessed is she among women!

And she has also given out to a widow

Who will remember the colleague that brings food for the husband now.


Na she be the bad person now.


Hehehe

Annahh:
She's doing her work though, not a new thing, our mothers did more. Feminism has made it look as if it's a sin to perform wifely duties.

Joyce of Nigeria info has misled a lot of women with her feminist programmes, I told my wife she will eventually move in with Joyce the day she started acting like the man in my house, if you want to be like Joyce , pack your load to Nigeria info, not asking for anything from you apart from peace of mind

It is the weakness in modern men that gave rise to masculine women (feminists) in our society.

Any point in time male masculinity gets stronger, it produces real feminine females. (check conservative Muslim countries for confirmation). And whenever the male masculinity get weakened it produces masculine females (feminists).

We men are the reason why feminists are rising in number due to our weakness, our ancestors never experienced this rubbish. We copied everything and allowed Western culture, education and lifestyle to influence our society because we are weak.

We should blame ourselves.

Thinktwicemybro:
Oserheimen Osunbor, the next governor of Edo State

Honestly, nothing for him. Tell him not to waste his money.

Is going to be a tight race. But PDP will WIN with a slim margin.....