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Romance › Re: (Opinion) Why Men Fall In Love With Actresses. Share Your Thoughts. by 7victor(op): 2:54pm On Dec 05, 2021
pussyphilia:
Nature never made any man dominant! It is all man-made ideas.

Some of those dominant ladies you talked about are simply confused! You'll see a lady who knows she is dominant instead of looking for a submissive guy, she go still dey look for trouble by looking for another dominant man. At the end it will be war between them until the marriage scatter. Let every one find who suit them. If you as lady know you're hotheaded, look for a coolheaded guy and versa versa.
Very true my brother.

There is a girl called Faith who was in love with a hot headed boy.She was also very hot headed.They used to fight till they broke up.

During her NYSC in my former school, someone suggested she should marry one gentle boy who really loved her. He loved her because she was hot headed.

The boy thought that as a meek person, he should marry a hot headed girl.

Do you know the girl refused by saying the boy is too gentle for her.

A girl who broke up with a hot headed boy still believed she could only accept a boy who is hot headed.


I have come to conclude that meek and hot headed girls prefer hot headed males. No girl ever want a meek boy.


Maybe there are very few meek girls who are attracted to meek men because they see their nature in those men, since some people like seeing another person with the same character as themselves.


But I doubt whether those meek girls would choose a meek boy over a hot headed boy if given an option.


They may love you but may not want marriage if they have other suitors to pick from.



Among matured women in their late forties upwards, you may find some who love meek or submissive men. Because such women have tasted the hot headed guys in their youths. They have finally come to realize that meek guys are not bad after all.

At that age, they are more assertive and they may appreciate meekness in men.
Romance › Re: (Opinion) Why Men Fall In Love With Actresses. Share Your Thoughts. by 7victor(op): 2:13pm On Dec 05, 2021
MrBrownJay1:
its called a FANTASY, and there is nothing wrong with that.....so long as you understand that its just in your head and completely different than real life. many will look up to these actors/singers etc but will marry their neighborhood bread seller and/or panel beater.
Alright.
Romance › Re: (Opinion) Why Men Fall In Love With Actresses. Share Your Thoughts. by 7victor(op): 2:10pm On Dec 05, 2021
AoifeNightfall:
Men love toxic ladies. I don't know why they pretend.

They lie that they love submissive women but deep down they know submissive women bore them.
It is true that men love women who have a mind of their own.

They love independent woman.


Particularly if such men are married to women who are dependent on them and who don't have a mind of their own.


Maybe initially they love submissive and dependent women, but after they have tasted such women, they realized they are in love with independent women who are not submissive.

It has to do with the changing nature of human desire.

Even if they divorced the submissive and dependent women and marry the independent and non submissive ones, they would soon begin to desire the submissive and dependent women.


That is why it is good to tame our desires, otherwise it will continue to turn us.

Taming the flesh as the Bible says boils down to taming our desires.

So it is not that men love toxic women. They just feel the desire to taste the toxic women, particularly if they have seen enough of submissive women.


I have seen a man who is the owner of a company. All her female staff are submissive and obedient.


But this man is dating one girl who would not hesitate to slap and insult him.She has an athletic hands and looks confident. She is not shy or submissive. That is the kind of girl the man loves.
Romance › Re: (Opinion) Why Men Fall In Love With Actresses. Share Your Thoughts. by 7victor(op): 1:44pm On Dec 05, 2021
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Guyman wey go fall in love with actress just be like who go plant mango tree for middle of road tongue.
Ok Sir.
Romance › (Opinion) Why Men Fall In Love With Actresses. Share Your Thoughts. by 7victor(op):
So many Nigerian men love Tonto because she is always acting crazy.

I remember one movie where Tonto Dike went to visit her friend whose father was the king.

She asked to see the king privately. During the private meeting, she spoke the king into having sex with her.

That was how the king ended up marrying her.

After watching the movie, my neighbor fell in love with Tonto.


He said he had never fallen in love with any girl before, except Tonto Dike.


I think it boils down to acting crazy.


Also most men would be attracted to a woman who acts in a movie such parts as:



(1) Going in to see a male stranger, removing his clothes and forcing him to have sex with her.



(2) A woman who loves a man so much that she kills people to keep/ protect the man.




(3) A woman who loves, respects and adores her husband or boyfriend.




(4) A queen.



(5) A serial killer who kills people with gun, particularly if she is young and beautiful.



(6) Etc.


Although it is only a movie, but it could make some men to fall in love with her secretly.



But it is unreasonable because she is only acting how she is asked to act.


She may not be like that in real life, so falling in love with her for what she acts in a movie, is not reasonable.


Some of what we find attractive in movies are not attractive in real life, for example, a person who kills/serial killer.

But why we love something in a movie but hate it in real life is still a mystery.




Also people secretly fall in love with people whom they see always on the television.It could be broadcasters, actors/actresses/footballers.

It is just an opinion.

Share your thoughts.
Celebrities › Re: Tonto Dikeh Is Not A Human Being By Birth – Female Preacher Claims (video) by 7victor(m):
So many Nigerian men love Tonto because she is always acting crazy.

I remember one movie where Tonto Dike went to visit her friend whose father was the king.

She asked to see the king privately. During the private meeting, she spoke the king into having sex with her.

That was how the king ended up marrying her.

After watching the movie, my neighbor fell in love with Tonto.


He said he has never fallen in love with any girl before, except Tonto Dike.


I think it boils down to acting crazy.


Also most men would be attracted to a woman who acts in a movie such parts as:

Going in to see a male stranger, removing his clothes and forcing him to have sex with her.


A woman who loves a man so much that she kills people to keep/ protect the man.


A woman who loves, respects and adores her husband or boyfriend.


Although it is only a movie, but it could make some men to fall in love with her secretly.



But it is unreasonable because she is only acting how she is asked to act.


She may not be like that in real life, so falling in love with her for what she acts in a movie, is not reasonable.
Romance › Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by 7victor(m): 9:06pm On Dec 02, 2021
KingDash:
that's what he did tho.
Romance › Re: "I Texted Him First" A Nigerian Lady Narrates HowShe Met Her Husband On Facebook by 7victor(m): 8:09pm On Dec 02, 2021
Such women are always the best.

I will marry her if I were the man.
Romance › Re: How I Am Able To Stay Without Sex And The Freedom I Enjoy Because Of That. by 7victor(op): 11:55am On Dec 02, 2021
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Career › Re: Has Any Federal Civil Servant Received The New Minimum Wage? by 7victor(m): 8:43pm On Dec 01, 2021
Nothing concerning new minimum wage arrears.
Career › Re: Has Any Federal Civil Servant Received The New Minimum Wage? by 7victor(m): 4:51pm On Nov 30, 2021
mustyy:
Yes, university alerted. Confirmed
They tried this time o.


They should be paying on the last day of each month. That will be better than paying any day they like.

If they can pay salaries on a fixed date, people would not be in much anxiety as they keep speculating when they would be paid.

You will plan your expenses with the fix date in focus.
Career › Re: Has Any Federal Civil Servant Received The New Minimum Wage? by 7victor(m): 4:38pm On Nov 30, 2021
Zagamandope:
Have faith mate. It's Fabregas oo
Ok.
Career › Re: Has Any Federal Civil Servant Received The New Minimum Wage? by 7victor(m): 4:32pm On Nov 30, 2021
Fabregas1109:
University salary confirmed
Is it true?
Travel › Re: Passengers Stranded At Rigasa Train Station Kaduna As Booking App Stops Working by 7victor(m): 5:44pm On Nov 29, 2021
Some people would come to you while you are standing there expecting a miracle to buy a ticket.


They will call you aside and ask you to pay certain amount of money so you could stay in the engine room of the train.

If you are so desperate to travel, you would pay them and travel by staying in the engine room.

I have traveled from Kaduna to Abuja inside the engine room of the train.

The crowd that day was more than the one in the picture.
Celebrities › Re: Drowning: DJ Michelle Recounts Near-Death Experience (Photo) by 7victor(m): 8:59am On Nov 29, 2021
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Romance › Re: How I Am Able To Stay Without Sex And The Freedom I Enjoy Because Of That. by 7victor(op): 8:53am On Nov 29, 2021
GitiDesign:
Na God go help you. Meanwhile, Get responsive website + Domain Registration + SEO for 20k. Check my signature for contact details
Welcome to Nairaland. I saw that you just registered in this forum.

I hope you enjoy your stay here.

As a new born baby in Nairaland, I pray for you.


Meanwhile, God has already helped me. Saying "Na God go help you" should not be directed at me because I have already told you how God helped me.

It is those men who are addicted to sex that need God's help to break free.
Romance › How I Am Able To Stay Without Sex And The Freedom I Enjoy Because Of That. by 7victor(op): 8:31am On Nov 29, 2021
If you don't like sex, you would not fall under the influence of women.

I speak from experience.

I made sure that I am not into sexual stuff.

I started undermining sex when I was still in secondary school. I can say it was God who helped me to make up my mind not to like or indulge in sex because it is a miracle how,as an SS3 student, my mates were bragging about sex but I just made up my mind that I would not indulge in sex.


Then I even told myself that I would not have sex till I die. grin


Although I had the urge as most young boys of my age, but I seriously refused to satisfy the urge, and as you all know,if you resist an urge,it would soon leave you, particularly if you are not yet addicted.



My school mates started indulging in it but I strongly ignored the urge to start experiencing it.


Now it is paying off because I am able to be focused and no woman can treat me anyhow.

There are many other advantages that comes if you are not addicted to sex.


As a teenager who is not yet addicted to sex, I will advise you not to start enjoying it because when once you are addicted once, you would not be able to dismiss the urge freely and you could be easily controlled by women.


Everyone who is addicted to wine/ strong drink/cigarettes/marijuana does not know the freedom that those who are not addicted are enjoying.

Even so, those who are addicted to sex do not know the freedom and power that you are enjoying if you are not addicted.
Romance › Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by 7victor(m): 8:06am On Nov 29, 2021
Ogbotobo77:
Men get into relationships for sexual access..if women didn't have Vjays men wouldn't deal with women....women control access to sex...so men in turn give commitment to gain access to sexual exclusivity...cos women don't treat sex as an equal value exchange... they've always leveraged sex since time immemorial for compliance, resources,commitment,attention etc
That is why if you don't like sex, you would not fall under the influence of women.

I speak from experience.

I made sure that I am not into sexual stuff.

I started undermining sex when I was still in secondary school.

Although I had the urge as most young boys of my age, but I seriously refused to satisfy the urge, and as you all know,if you resist an urge,it would soon leave you, particularly if you are not yet addicted.



My school mates started indulging in it but I strongly ignored the urge to start experiencing it.


Now it is paying off because I am able to be focused and no woman can treat me anyhow.

There are many other advantages that comes if you are not addicted to sex.
Crime › Re: Woman Kills Her Husband, Nasiru Dagana, In Edo State (Video, Photo) by 7victor(m): 11:00am On Nov 24, 2021
Although I use to love women who are physically stronger and more outspoken than me,


my mother disabused my mind about marrying such women.


She said the woman would not respect a man whom she is stronger than physically.

She said since marriages also witness fightings, It would be advisable to marry a woman whom you are physically stronger than.


I think my mom was right.


The woman must have been stronger than him.


And because of that, she would always be finding him trouble.

She would not respect him.
Romance › Re: Choosing Between A Girl Who Loves You And The Girl Whom You Love. by 7victor(op): 5:03pm On Nov 17, 2021
ogkrakkid:
It should be equal. But u gat to be smart.some of them go form to use u sort bills after that they dump ur ass with some silly excuse.and u loose it all..that's when dey tell u I have been living my life befor I met u...some re real.most of them only want to sniff ur pocket like k9 when u hold it tight they begin to show their true rainbow colours..
It's true.

Someone may be pretending just to get as much money from you as possible.

One needs to be smart.
Romance › Re: Choosing Between A Girl Who Loves You And The Girl Whom You Love. by 7victor(op): 5:01pm On Nov 17, 2021
mikigen:
yea that's the ideal not some boring one sided affair smiley
Romance › Re: Choosing Between A Girl Who Loves You And The Girl Whom You Love. by 7victor(op): 10:15am On Nov 17, 2021
mikigen:
For me I can't date or marry someone who only loves me sha have done it before d relationship never last forget all those marriage talk if I don't like you I won't allow u even touch my things nothing you can do to please me nothing you can do about it am not a SIMP though cox I still won't east time to throw you out the moment you start misbehaving cox u feel I like you it's just who I am I don't really care! cool

I nor get time sha cox if I don't like you I won even say hi to you if u do I might reply but u won't even get my attention not to talk of marrying you na so I just be oo shocked
I think the best is to find a woman who loves you and whom you also love dearly.
Romance › Re: Choosing Between A Girl Who Loves You And The Girl Whom You Love. by 7victor(op): 10:10am On Nov 17, 2021
ValCon888:
Don't marry any of them. They're both poor broke girls.
Let a woman have money and power and you'll know the extent of her true love.
Ok.

To find a rich woman or a woman with a good job who loves you is a great achievement.
Romance › Re: Choosing Between A Girl Who Loves You And The Girl Whom You Love. by 7victor(op): 10:04am On Nov 17, 2021
Abdul9025:
Choose Zainab and try to learn how to love her back
Ok.
Romance › Re: Choosing Between A Girl Who Loves You And The Girl Whom You Love. by 7victor(op): 10:04am On Nov 17, 2021
Kaymicheal852:
It can be very difficult to love her back the way she loves you but in marriage peace of mind is very important
It’s just better when your woman loves you more than you love her
Thanks.

I have heard this before.
Romance › Re: Choosing Between A Girl Who Loves You And The Girl Whom You Love. by 7victor(op): 10:00am On Nov 17, 2021
Bewiseedet:
You equally can't win without scoring a goal.
It is true.
Romance › Re: Choosing Between A Girl Who Loves You And The Girl Whom You Love. by 7victor(op): 5:55am On Nov 17, 2021
Brunosamel:
I rather choose a woman who has a burning desire for me than later
Romance › Re: Choosing Between A Girl Who Loves You And The Girl Whom You Love. by 7victor(op): 5:54am On Nov 17, 2021
Theophinio:
Perfect Answer

It shows you are a wise guy
Thank you Sir.
Romance › Re: Choosing Between A Girl Who Loves You And The Girl Whom You Love. by 7victor(op): 11:21pm On Nov 16, 2021
Daughterboard:
Choose Zainab. My wife was hand picked for me by my colleagues because they thought she was good. They informed me about it and I accepted. They arranged a meeting for us and I asked her if she's cool with the arrangement and she answered in the affirmative. It is been over fifteen years and she continues to love and serve me. Meanwhile I was admiring her younger sister who later turned out to be what I hated in a woman. It was the best decision of my life.
I am so happy for you Sir.15 years of blissful marriage,

unlike most marriages that are full of tension, quarrels and fightings.


Where I am living, there's a woman who would no sooner call her husband "my love" than shout at him for flimsy excuses like him not closing the window. The man would also shout back and they would be quarreling in the presence of the children.

They are not up to 10 years in marriage yet they quarrel daily.

Everywhere I go,I observe so much tension in marriages.

I thank God for you Sir.
Romance › Re: Choosing Between A Girl Who Loves You And The Girl Whom You Love. by 7victor(op): 10:56pm On Nov 16, 2021
Baawaa:
Is better to marry the one that love you,you will really enjoy her
Alright.
Romance › Re: Choosing Between A Girl Who Loves You And The Girl Whom You Love. by 7victor(op): 10:56pm On Nov 16, 2021
Bewiseedet:
Aisha is a goal
And Zainab is the win.

You can score a goal but still does not win.

Nigeria scored against Cape Verde today, but still didn't win.

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