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MufasaLion: |
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Obaxxx:I believe she said those things because she wanted me to forget about the idea of marrying Igbo, but instead I should marry the woman from Kaduna. |
AcademicWriter:It is not that I asked her to "glance" for a wife for me. She said God put it into her heart to try and get me a wife. I told her I wanted a younger Igbo lady but she said the older woman from Kaduna was better. That was the bone of contention. |
KarinaLove:We marry Igbo and our own tribe also. |
sunshineV:I always try to keep cool in such situations because I believe I am carrying the light and love of Jesus Christ. Also because in my area, people know me as a gentle and kind person. But that doesn't mean I am always accepting of abuses and insult. It is only that I don't want to give the enemies of God an opportunity to speak reproachfully,as the Bible says. |
Iamagoodgirll:Thank you Ma. |
SmartPolician:Thank you Sir. |
Raymond0008:Should I connect you with that woman? But she is not doing better than you. |
Dreadshy:Ok. |
emae009:It is true. |
OG1BABY:No. |
missyojo:Ok. |
Matheusmartin: |
talk2hb1:God will help me. I can never be a sacrificial lamb. |
Dshocker: |
Matheusmartin:I believe she wants the woman to get married. But God will give her someone else who would love her. It is just that I want a woman who is my age mate or younger. |
Qatar2022: |
DaddyRochie1642: |
Darlingme:Alright. |
Ynix: |
emae009:They call people from Akwa Ibom and Cross river "Calabar people" At least that is what other tribes call us. |
At a certain point, she became angry over what she believed was my "inability to understand divine agenda". Everything the woman said to me was the most totally debasing thing someone has ever said to me, although it was certainly evident that she said those things to make me feel so unworthy to the extent of agreeing to marry the old woman from Kaduna. The truth in the matter is that even she herself did not believe what she was saying. I told her that before today, I had the opportunity and agency to have married an Igbo lady. But the only downside was the distance. She is a government employee also and it won't be reasonable for her to resign, leave her state and come to the North where I base. I remember another Igbo girl in Sokoto who, before she later got married, was urging me to go see her parents, but then, I was only a private school teacher who was also running a masters program. I didn't have money for such. Share your own experience if you have any. |
My experience is this: One Igbo woman saw me and asked to know whether I was married or not. I answered in the negative. She said as a lecturer, what is keeping me from marrying since federal government is paying us well? I told her I am praying to God about it. She said she is a pastor and she believed God was prompting her to find me a wife. She said she would introduce me to a very good lady whom I would really enjoy as wife. It was not quite 3 hours later when she sent someone to call me to see the lady. To my utter astonishment, she introduced me to one elderly woman who is from Kaduna. It was as much as I could do not to show my astonishment. After the old woman left, I told her I would prefer someone younger who is Igbo. She said age doesn't matter in marriage. I told her I am in my early thirties and how can I even marry someone who is 40, let alone someone who is above 50? It is my idea that the woman she introduced to me is her long time friend and age mate. She herself(ie the woman who introduced someone) has big children who are all in the University and polytechnic. She insisted that love, and not age, is what matters in matter. As for marrying an Igbo woman, she said no Igbo woman will ever condescend so low as to marry a Calabar man. She said she is an Igbo woman so she knows her tribe very well. I made her understand that my cousin is Calabar and is married to an Igbo beauty queen. I mentioned up to 6 Calabar men I personally know who are married to Igbo. She said an Igbo lady can only marry a Calabar man if maybe she has a problem(like mental problem) which makes people to reject her, to the extent that it is only a Calabar man that she would finally condescend to marry. She was just insulting my tribe. I told her that the former governor of Akwa Ibom, and the present minister of Niger Delta is a Calabar man married to Igbo woman. [Modified: Please note that people call those from Akwa Ibom and Cross river "Calabar". That is my observation.] My idea now is that I can never accept any woman brought by this woman, because she will never give me something good. Any woman she brings must be low because she believes that low women fit Calabar men. She said if I don't like that other Kaduna woman, she would introduce me to another woman. But I know on a high state of conviction that she will not bring someone good to me because of the way she looks down on my tribe. She doesn't believe my tribe can marry someone better. Please share your experience. |
Another person was a boy who liked insulting other children yet he didn't have any power. He could see a girl and start cursing her, standing at a distance. When the girl went towards him,he would be running. When the girl later caught him one day and started beating him, throwing him on the ground and sitting on top of him while beating him, he would say everything he was asked to say. The girl could ask him to say " I will always eat your shit, I will always obey you,I will always wash your clothes and do chores for you" He would say all these. But no sooner was he allowed to go than he began to curse the girl while running away from her. I don't know whether he is still alive. He wasn't normal afterall. |
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Another one was when I was an undergraduate. There was this old lecturer in Mathematics who was always very funny. When he wanted to choose an example to solve,he would say " Let me choose a simple example so that I will not fumble." I use to think that since he had a PhD,he should choose the toughest examples and solve them without fumbling while solving, since it is just an undergraduate Mathematics. He would say something like " So you want me to try this hard example, so that if I cannot solve it, you will laugh." Another thing is that if he wanted to apply a theorem to solve a problem,he would say " Let's invoke (so and so theorem)", as if it is evil spirit that is being invoked. Anytime he solved a problem and encountered a difficulty,he would ask " What is cooking?" Everyone would answer "Afang Melon" There were many other things he said and did that were funny. |
Vaughanlanrewaj:Ok. |
My own are these: When I was yet very small, there was a man whom people use to call Udiong. Always, you would see him driving bicycle and passing on the roads. Whenever children saw him,they would say " Udiong, please carry me(on your bicycle)" He would reply: "May rain water carry you." " Let ocean carry you. " " Let untimely death carry you." " Let wild animals carry you." He would get down from his bicycle and be pursuing , throwing stones and cursing the children who would be running and laughing. Another one was a woman whom people nicknamed "sweet voice". Whenever people had seen her and hailed her by the name "sweet voice", she had always answered: " May your goats have sweet voice,may your children have sweet voice,may all things that belong to you have sweet voice." Another one was a very huge boy called "Big Goat " by the people. If a child called him that,he would leave everything and be pursuing him/her. Please share your own experience with funny people. |
As a male, if you have much fat in your body, the body will move the fat to your stomach. As a female, it will move the fat to your buttocks. It doesn't move fat to the stomach for women because it could negatively affect the safety of the womb and the baby inside. That is why a woman has bigger buttocks when she eats too much and a man has bigger stomach if he eats too much. This happens against the backdrop of a natural/normal setting. But if a woman starts having protruding stomach,it is dangerous for her womb, and it could be her body mistakenly recognizes her as a man. Maybe her body thinks she is a man. Otherwise how do you explain a woman with flat buttocks and big stomach. |
Let me explain some mysteries: Whenever someone stays in a house or a place,he/she leaves behind some parts of himself/herself. Just like whenever you touch something, you leave your DNA on the thing. This is on the physical aspect of it. On the spiritual aspect, the same thing happens when you stay in a place, you leave part of your spiritual self behind. If the person is wicked,he may leave behind a wicked part of himself. This wicked part may start troubling another person who later occupies the place/room/house,etc. Some people may think it is demons disturbing them, not knowing it is the spiritual part of someone/people who occupied the place before. If 30 people occupied a place at one point or another,they would leave behind 30 personalities. So you need to pray and clean the place from every evil personalities left behind. This explains why so many places on Earth are haunted, because so many people are wicked and drop evil personalities wherever they go. |
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