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Romance › Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Was Introduced To You By Another Person?My Experience. by 7victor(op): 6:07pm On Oct 02, 2021
MufasaLion:
The dude was just being respectful but I wouldn't have had such patience to listen to her bullshit if it were me.
Romance › Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Was Introduced To You By Another Person?My Experience. by 7victor(op): 6:06pm On Oct 02, 2021
MufasaLion:
Had it been you married that woman, your thread today would have been about challenges you are facing in the marriage.

I'm happy for you, man.

Marriage is not what anyone should just jump into irrespective of the age. Stay smart!
Romance › Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Was Introduced To You By Another Person?My Experience. by 7victor(op): 6:06pm On Oct 02, 2021
Obaxxx:
lipsrsealed
Hell no..

But op, why'd she say those kind of rubbish about your tribe na? undecided.
I believe she said those things because she wanted me to forget about the idea of marrying Igbo,

but instead I should marry the woman from Kaduna.
Romance › Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Was Introduced To You By Another Person?My Experience. by 7victor(op): 6:02pm On Oct 02, 2021
AcademicWriter:
Lol. But knew you take her the deal of assisting you glance for a wife?
It is not that I asked her to "glance" for a wife for me.

She said God put it into her heart to try and get me a wife.


I told her I wanted a younger Igbo lady but she said the older woman from Kaduna was better.


That was the bone of contention.
Romance › Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Was Introduced To You By Another Person?My Experience. by 7victor(op): 5:58pm On Oct 02, 2021
KarinaLove:
But wait o....

Why do Calabar or Akwa Ibom Men love marrying Igbo?

I see this is a trend now. Why?

Asking for a friend.

But why can't you just marry from your tribe "Calabar" now. Simple.

Me that am even talking, I never even know when I will marry sef.
We marry Igbo and our own tribe also.
Romance › Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Was Introduced To You By Another Person?My Experience. by 7victor(op): 5:53pm On Oct 02, 2021
sunshineV:
its ur fault sha. pesin wey u go don tell say for her life make she no dey follow u talk laidat. na ur future we dey talk abt na
I always try to keep cool in such situations because I believe I am carrying the light and love of Jesus Christ.


Also because in my area, people know me as a gentle and kind person.



But that doesn't mean I am always accepting of abuses and insult.



It is only that I don't want to give the enemies of God an opportunity to speak reproachfully,as the Bible says.
Romance › Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Was Introduced To You By Another Person?My Experience. by 7victor(op): 5:45pm On Oct 02, 2021
Iamagoodgirll:
The woman knows nothing about marriage and choice, she just want to help her friend by all means. I'm an Igbo lady and I know many that married to calabar men
Thank you Ma.
Romance › Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Was Introduced To You By Another Person?My Experience. by 7victor(op): 5:44pm On Oct 02, 2021
SmartPolician:
Don't mind the munu woman. She is demoting your tribe just to promote her expired product friend). Keep searching....there are many single ladies in need of a good man to marry.
Thank you Sir.
Romance › Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Was Introduced To You By Another Person?My Experience. by 7victor(op): 5:43pm On Oct 02, 2021
Raymond0008:
Oga, give boys this link lol. Before my dad died, the only condition I put him when he’s lamenting of me been single is that if he can introduce a lady that’s doing better than me.

That’s the only condition I can consider whenever someone say he/she is introducing a lady to me.
Should I connect you with that woman?

But she is not doing better than you.
Romance › Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Was Introduced To You By Another Person?My Experience. by 7victor(op): 5:39pm On Oct 02, 2021
Dreadshy:
Oga find your wife yourself so to.orrow you no go blame that woman.
Them no put gun for your head.
Ok.
Romance › Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Was Introduced To You By Another Person?My Experience. by 7victor(op): 5:39pm On Oct 02, 2021
emae009:
Akwa Ibomites = Akwa Ibom

Cross Riverians = Cross River (where Calabar is).

The Europeans used to refer to the black race as monkeys. Would you prefer being called that because "that's what other tribes call you" huh no offense

I always do well to correct people when they make that mistake no matter how trivial it may seems. You never know what might happen tomorrow and something that was meant to go to Akwa Ibom gets channeled to Cross River and the reason might be "sheybi they are all Calabar people"
It is true.
Romance › Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Was Introduced To You By Another Person?My Experience. by 7victor(op): 5:38pm On Oct 02, 2021
OG1BABY:
Lol. But did you give her the contract of helping you look for a wife?
No.
Romance › Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Was Introduced To You By Another Person?My Experience. by 7victor(op): 5:37pm On Oct 02, 2021
missyojo:
Let me laugh small cheesy
OP, am not making jest of you oo, it's the old woman that got me laughing. I would have introduced your calabar Sister to you but she clocked 40 today. Sadly you are younger than her.
Best wishes in your search
Ok.
Romance › Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Was Introduced To You By Another Person?My Experience. by 7victor(op): 5:34pm On Oct 02, 2021
Matheusmartin:
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I get your point
All the best.
Romance › Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Was Introduced To You By Another Person?My Experience. by 7victor(op): 5:34pm On Oct 02, 2021
talk2hb1:
Take it or leave it, you are another sacrificial lamb
God will help me.

I can never be a sacrificial lamb.
Romance › Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Was Introduced To You By Another Person?My Experience. by 7victor(op): 5:33pm On Oct 02, 2021
Dshocker:
Laugh wan kill me with this your post grin grin grin
Romance › Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Was Introduced To You By Another Person?My Experience. by 7victor(op): 5:32pm On Oct 02, 2021
Matheusmartin:
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Which kain play u and the prophetess play reach that Kain extent that she's trying to hook you with a grannyhuh
angry
I believe she wants the woman to get married.

But God will give her someone else who would love her.

It is just that I want a woman who is my age mate or younger.
Romance › Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Was Introduced To You By Another Person?My Experience. by 7victor(op): 5:28pm On Oct 02, 2021
Qatar2022:
She should speak for herself, what a stupid woman she want to force old cargo on you, run oooo
Romance › Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Was Introduced To You By Another Person?My Experience. by 7victor(op): 2:59pm On Oct 02, 2021
DaddyRochie1642:
Better rebuke that woman and run as fast as your legs can carry you grin
NYSC › Re: PPA Advice Needed by 7victor(m): 2:54pm On Oct 02, 2021
Darlingme:
Even as at your time, people were selecting PPA by themselves. You were just not aware.
Nigeria has not been a serious country since independent.
Alright.
Romance › Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Was Introduced To You By Another Person?My Experience. by 7victor(op): 2:52pm On Oct 02, 2021
Ynix:
You are in for manipulation, bro run for your life.
In marriage there is nothing like referral, it is a matter of choice. By the time the heat begins she won't he there.
Avoid that woman by every means.
What you should be doing now is going on single dates and group dating, with that you will have opportunities to interact with younger ladies and will be able to make your choice.
Romance › Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Was Introduced To You By Another Person?My Experience. by 7victor(op): 2:51pm On Oct 02, 2021
emae009:
When did Senator Godswill Akpabio become a Calabar man?
Essien Udim in Akwa Ibom sounds like Calabar to you??
Please next time do the right thing and stop dragging people that are not from your tribe into it.
They call people from Akwa Ibom and Cross river "Calabar people"

At least that is what other tribes call us.
Romance › Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Was Introduced To You By Another Person?My Experience. by 7victor(op):
At a certain point, she became angry over what she believed was my "inability to understand divine agenda".


Everything the woman said to me was the most totally debasing thing someone has ever said to me,



although it was certainly evident that she said those things to make me feel so unworthy to the extent of agreeing to marry the old woman from Kaduna.


The truth in the matter is that even she herself did not believe what she was saying.


I told her that before today, I had the opportunity and agency to have married an Igbo lady.



But the only downside was the distance.


She is a government employee also and it won't be reasonable for her to resign, leave her state and come to the North where I base.


I remember another Igbo girl in Sokoto who, before she later got married, was urging me to go see her parents,


but then, I was only a private school teacher who was also running a masters program.


I didn't have money for such.



Share your own experience if you have any.
Romance › Can You Marry Someone Who Was Introduced To You By Another Person?My Experience. by 7victor(op):
My experience is this:

One Igbo woman saw me and asked to know whether I was married or not.

I answered in the negative.

She said as a lecturer, what is keeping me from marrying since federal government is paying us well?

I told her I am praying to God about it.


She said she is a pastor and she believed God was prompting her to find me a wife.


She said she would introduce me to a very good lady whom I would really enjoy as wife.

It was not quite 3 hours later when she sent someone to call me to see the lady.




To my utter astonishment, she introduced me to one elderly woman who is from Kaduna.



It was as much as I could do not to show my astonishment.



After the old woman left, I told her I would prefer someone younger who is Igbo.


She said age doesn't matter in marriage.


I told her I am in my early thirties and how can I even marry someone who is 40, let alone someone who is above 50?


It is my idea that the woman she introduced to me is her long time friend and age mate. She herself(ie the woman who introduced someone) has big children who are all in the University and polytechnic.


She insisted that love, and not age, is what matters in matter.


As for marrying an Igbo woman, she said no Igbo woman will ever condescend so low as to marry a Calabar man.


She said she is an Igbo woman so she knows her tribe very well.


I made her understand that my cousin is Calabar and is married to an Igbo beauty queen.

I mentioned up to 6 Calabar men I personally know who are married to Igbo.



She said an Igbo lady can only marry a Calabar man if maybe she has a problem(like mental problem) which makes people to reject her,


to the extent that it is only a Calabar man that she would finally condescend to marry.


She was just insulting my tribe.


I told her that the former governor of Akwa Ibom, and the present minister of Niger Delta is a Calabar man married to Igbo woman.

[Modified: Please note that people call those from Akwa Ibom and Cross river "Calabar". That is my observation.]


My idea now is that I can never accept any woman brought by this woman,


because she will never give me something good. Any woman she brings must be low because she believes that low women fit Calabar men.


She said if I don't like that other Kaduna woman, she would introduce me to another woman.


But I know on a high state of conviction that she will not bring someone good to me because of the way she looks down on my tribe.


She doesn't believe my tribe can marry someone better.



Please share your experience.
Education › Re: Share Your Experience With Funny People. by 7victor(op): 3:36pm On Oct 01, 2021
Another person was a boy who liked insulting other children yet he didn't have any power.

He could see a girl and start cursing her, standing at a distance.

When the girl went towards him,he would be running.

When the girl later caught him one day and started beating him, throwing him on the ground and sitting on top of him while beating him,

he would say everything he was asked to say.

The girl could ask him to say " I will always eat your shit, I will always obey you,I will always wash your clothes and do chores for you"


He would say all these.

But no sooner was he allowed to go than he began to curse the girl while running away from her.


I don't know whether he is still alive.


He wasn't normal afterall.
Education › Re: Share Your Experience With Funny People. by 7victor(op): 2:14pm On Oct 01, 2021
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Education › Re: Share Your Experience With Funny People. by 7victor(op):
Another one was when I was an undergraduate.

There was this old lecturer in Mathematics who was always very funny.

When he wanted to choose an example to solve,he would say " Let me choose a simple example so that I will not fumble."

I use to think that since he had a PhD,he should choose the toughest examples and solve them without fumbling while solving, since it is just an undergraduate Mathematics.

He would say something like " So you want me to try this hard example, so that if I cannot solve it, you will laugh."

Another thing is that if he wanted to apply a theorem to solve a problem,he would say " Let's invoke (so and so theorem)",

as if it is evil spirit that is being invoked.

Anytime he solved a problem and encountered a difficulty,he would ask " What is cooking?"

Everyone would answer "Afang Melon"

There were many other things he said and did that were funny.
Education › Re: Share Your Experience With Funny People. by 7victor(op): 1:33pm On Oct 01, 2021
Vaughanlanrewaj:
Hahaha....it was one narrated to me about a guy in the habit of changing his mates like his underwears until a night he came home with a possesed girl.
He was screaming and his neighbours who included the narrator went to his apartment and met him on his knees begging and screaming with tears all over his face. They looked up and saw the mystery girl lifted to the ceiling with nails popping out and asking the guy to follow her to her world.
They spent all right looking for biscuits, groundout and drinks to take to a junction and rub their faces with charcoal before the mystery girl could be sober and slept. When the day broke, she dressed up and left. It was the last day that guy will ever bring any girl home until he left the house to start his own family.
Incident happened in Surulere in the early 1980s.
Ok.
Education › Share Your Experience With Funny People. by 7victor(op): 1:23pm On Oct 01, 2021
My own are these:

When I was yet very small, there was a man whom people use to call Udiong.

Always, you would see him driving bicycle and passing on the roads.

Whenever children saw him,they would say " Udiong, please carry me(on your bicycle)"


He would reply:

"May rain water carry you."

" Let ocean carry you. "


" Let untimely death carry you."


" Let wild animals carry you."

He would get down from his bicycle and be pursuing , throwing stones and cursing the children who would be running and laughing.

Another one was a woman whom people nicknamed "sweet voice".


Whenever people had seen her and hailed her by the name "sweet voice",


she had always answered:

" May your goats have sweet voice,may your children have sweet voice,may all things that belong to you have sweet voice."


Another one was a very huge boy called "Big Goat " by the people.


If a child called him that,he would leave everything and be pursuing him/her.

Please share your own experience with funny people.
Romance › Re: What Do You Think Of Girls With Pot Belle? by 7victor(m):
As a male, if you have much fat in your body, the body will move the fat to your stomach.

As a female, it will move the fat to your buttocks.


It doesn't move fat to the stomach for women because it could negatively affect the safety of the womb and the baby inside.

That is why a woman has bigger buttocks when she eats too much and a man has bigger stomach if he eats too much.

This happens against the backdrop of a natural/normal setting.

But if a woman starts having protruding stomach,it is dangerous for her womb, and it could be her body mistakenly recognizes her as a man.


Maybe her body thinks she is a man.


Otherwise how do you explain a woman with flat buttocks and big stomach.


Education › Re: How I Woke Up Screaming by 7victor(m): 6:16pm On Sep 30, 2021
Let me explain some mysteries:

Whenever someone stays in a house or a place,he/she leaves behind some parts of himself/herself.

Just like whenever you touch something, you leave your DNA on the thing. This is on the physical aspect of it.


On the spiritual aspect, the same thing happens when you stay in a place, you leave part of your spiritual self behind.


If the person is wicked,he may leave behind a wicked part of himself.

This wicked part may start troubling another person who later occupies the place/room/house,etc.



Some people may think it is demons disturbing them, not knowing it is the spiritual part of someone/people who occupied the place before.


If 30 people occupied a place at one point or another,they would leave behind 30 personalities.


So you need to pray and clean the place from every evil personalities left behind.

This explains why so many places on Earth are haunted, because so many people are wicked and drop evil personalities wherever they go.
Education › Re: How I Woke Up Screaming by 7victor(m):
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