TooResilient:
She'd be 31 soon.

Looking for a life partner 31 to 35 years.

She's settling up her business.

She doesn't want yoruba and igbo men because somehow she's not been fortunate with them in the past.

She has big dreams and big life goals like becoming a CEO and also a citizen of a first world country, also promised that her children will be first world citizens to give them a good future.

She's already working towards achieving that.

She's a bit stubborn in terms of pursuing and achieving life goals which some men don't like about her.

She's quite ambitious.

Not an introvert but loves staying indoors.

She's tall/dark/averagely thick/on low cut because she doesn't like making her hair(maybe if cajoled by her lover she'd make hair).

Resides between Lagos/Ogun.

The email attached to this account has been deactivated but you can reach her on lovey.dovey93@protonmail.com for a serious relationship.

No jokes or play, she wants a man that really wants to get married.

I stopped reading for a while when I got to "she is a bit stubborn".
There is nothing like "a bit" in a woman's stubbornness in my view.
To me, in the context of marriage, once a woman is stubborn, she is a no go area.

In another note, how come a tall woman is stubborn?
Stubbornness is usually short women's thing.
What they can't make up in height, they use stubbornness to make up.
Which is why they turn off more men ...
A vicious cycle of sorts...

onumadu:


I stopped reading for a while when I got to "she is a bit stubborn".
There is nothing like "a bit" in a woman's stubbornness in my view.
To me, in the context of marriage, once a woman is stubborn, she is a no go area.

In another note, how come a tall woman is stubborn?
Stubbornness is usually short women's thing.
What they can't make up in height, they use stubbornness to make up.
Which is why they turn off more men ...
A vicious cycle of sorts...

Both shortmen and women are equally stubborn expecially short men.

Hashabiah:
I read your post but what you just told the male populace doesn't benefit us in anyway. Rather , you should be telling us what you can bring to the table ...not your ambition

She's looking for who will fund her stubborn ambitions. She's already bringing her physical attributes and stubborn ambitions nah.

She's the type you'll take abroad and she'll divorce you and marry a white man to achieve her citizenship.

Don't play, you'll learn.

obinna58:
Does she have big yansh, men need to cum first

You are a simp if this is all you care about.

TooResilient:
She'd be 31 soon.

Looking for a life partner 31 to 35 years.

She's settling up her business.

She doesn't want yoruba and igbo men because somehow she's not been fortunate with them in the past.

She has big dreams and big life goals like becoming a CEO and also a citizen of a first world country, also promised that her children will be first world citizens to give them a good future.

She's already working towards achieving that.

She's a bit stubborn in terms of pursuing and achieving life goals which some men don't like about her.

She's quite ambitious.

Not an introvert but loves staying indoors.

She's tall/dark/averagely thick/on low cut because she doesn't like making her hair(maybe if cajoled by her lover she'd make hair).

Resides between Lagos/Ogun.

The email attached to this account has been deactivated but you can reach her on lovey.dovey93@protonmail.com for a serious relationship.

No jokes or play, she wants a man that really wants to get married.

I guess you rarely come on nairaland, thats why you are advertising here, lol and behold. This place is wrong place for such advert.

INSTEAD OF THIS YOU CAN JOIN SEVERAL FACEBOOK SINGLE FORUMS, I THINK THOSE PLACES ARE MUCH MORE BETTER THAN HERE IN WHICH MEMBERS ARE FULL OF HATRED, NOT ONLY FOR FEMALE GENDER BUT ALSO MARRIAGE INSTITUTION.

TooResilient:


I don’t like taking pictures

Pictures will help them access your asset or liability stance too.

Nobody wants to manage a smeagol looking woman.

onumadu:


I stopped reading for a while when I got to "she is a bit stubborn".
There is nothing like "a bit" in a woman's stubbornness in my view.
To me, in the context of marriage, once a woman is stubborn, she is a no go area.

In another note, how come a tall woman is stubborn?
Stubbornness is usually short women's thing.
What they can't make up in height, they use stubbornness to make up.
Which is why they turn off more men ...
A vicious cycle of sorts...

Zonefree said, ”A short Nigerian girls is a recipe for disaster”.
🤣

TooResilient:
She'd be 31 soon.

Looking for a life partner 31 to 35 years.

She's settling up her business.

She doesn't want yoruba and igbo men because somehow she's not been fortunate with them in the past.

She has big dreams and big life goals like becoming a CEO and also a citizen of a first world country, also promised that her children will be first world citizens to give them a good future.

She's already working towards achieving that.

She's a bit stubborn in terms of pursuing and achieving life goals which some men don't like about her.

She's quite ambitious.

Not an introvert but loves staying indoors.

She's tall/dark/averagely thick/on low cut because she doesn't like making her hair(maybe if cajoled by her lover she'd make hair).

Resides between Lagos/Ogun.

The email attached to this account has been deactivated but you can reach her on lovey.dovey93@protonmail.com for a serious relationship.

No jokes or play, she wants a man that really wants to get married.

Do not take offence for what I want to say.
Women are always thinking they deserve everything without having to offer anything.
Women are always over estimating their values.

Look deep down, you'll realize women are always over estimating their values. They think they deserve the world without having to give any real thing back

Everything you wrote and claim to be an achievement up in your posts are not yet achieved. Infact, you are still struggling in life, but you decide to deceive yourself and present it all as real.


If you want kids out of Nigeria, find a job, save money and buy plane tickets (if it were that easy). I put it to you that you are barely surviving but luring men to settle down with you. If you were good enough, you would have gotten a man by 24 years old.


The solution.... Consider a man you can grow with. Don't look out for a man that has cars and all that goodies. Look for a man you both can struggle and build each other through thick and thin.

ukaface:
Like 75% of NL men no get sense, this post would it.

They won’t fail to yab the woman in the narration

Nairaland men understands what age and Sexual-sweetness means.
The older a lady gets, the less sexually sweet she becomes. That's exactly why men chase after much younger women.
Men aren't dumb

TooResilient:


Now preparing to set up my business, taking some business management training courses at the moment and learning a foreign language.

You see exactly what I told you?
Initially, you presented it like it's already a thriving goal.

Nigeria isn't that easy and smooth

TooResilient:


Yes I'm Aries.

March Aries or April Aries?

Your initial post depicted an April Aries.


You better look for a Leo ♌, Sagittarius ♐ or Gemini ♊ that'll complement your energy.

Else, you might be setting a ticking timebomb for yourself.

She will not see what she's looking for.

A lady needing a man and posting it online is such a red carpet not just a red flag.

I mean if men who see you daily are not attracted to you. Why should people who haven't be?
So her excuse for being single at 31 is because she wants to achieve her goal of moving for a first world country and birthing there as well?

Lol😂😂😂. Has she been able to achieve that? No? Then she suddenly remembers there are men who are foolish enough to wanna finance such lifestyle.

Head dey pepper her.

If at all men go marry, it gats be with a girl between 19-23. Anyother girl na roughly used material.

TooResilient:


How am I damaged?
All I listed is about who I am, not what I want the man to be.

Please read to comprehension.

You're right. But the restriction on Igbo and Yoruba men, isn't that too much of a generalisation?
And, don't you think you can be deceived too by the aforementioned while claiming to be from where you desires? I think wanting just a good man from anywhere should suffice or from a particular or more regions but don't judge the rest of the men from a region because of an unfortunate experience with few from their region.

TooResilient:


I always say I'm not an introvert but I don't enjoy hang outs. I only go out for shopping & work.

Educational background?

weslay:


Reading through your post, I can readily see why you are still single. A successful man that knows his stuff will not want to mess with you. All your lofty dreams will only attract unambitious blokes who would want to take advantage of you.
I pray you get what you are searching for. But I suggest your priority needs to change.

You get.... That was why asked why she needs a man. She will be the man in her relationship.

naturalwaves:

Educational background?

Lol. Bsc Elect/Elect

Fiscus105:



I guess you rarely come on nairaland, thats why you are advertising here, lol and behold. This place is wrong place for such advert.

INSTEAD OF THIS YOU CAN JOIN SEVERAL FACEBOOK SINGLE FORUMS, I THINK THOSE PLACES ARE MUCH MORE BETTER THAN HERE IN WHICH MEMBERS ARE FULL OF HATRED, NOT ONLY FOR FEMALE GENDER BUT ALSO MARRIAGE INSTITUTION.

Lol 😂 the truth is always a bitter pill 💊 to swallow

TooResilient:


At the bolden, yes! And that's me.

And I have a very good camera phone but go through my gallery, you'd hardly see pictures of myself. 🙂

Now that looks like me .

I appreciate this move, but please calm down. You are not old! Just be more visible. Go to church, I have assumed that you are a Christian, join a department and just get busy there.

The advice above is drawn from various experiences.
"..none shall lack her mate." There is a great man for you and he will come at the right time. Avoid all these timings.. have all my children before 40... It doesn't always work that way. Many married at 23 but didn't have their first child until the wife turned 45. Life is not a straight line. But when Christ is in your boat, though storms beats it, you are assured of safe landing.

All will be well.

Sureplug123:
Lol 😂 the truth is always a bitter pill 💊 to swallow

Abi ooo, why would sane man engages argument with children of hate, a frustrated and hopeless guys.

You can do urself justice by reading all the comments and see how , hopeless republic are conderming and attacking a lady that comes openly, believing she is in right place to see good & hardworking man.

When did it become an abomination for a lady to identify what she wants in her partner? If you are in that category you apply and if you aren't, you move on. Instead, it's attackings and lamentations as ever.

Those that are crying wolve over her choices, dnt they have choices of particular partners they want as well?

Only death is satisfying we human beings.

Karlifate:


March Aries or April Aries?

Your initial post depicted an April Aries.


You better look for a Leo ♌, Sagittarius ♐ or Gemini ♊ that'll complement your energy.

Else, you might be setting a ticking timebomb for yourself.

How the mighty redpiller has fallen, I thought you guys hate women and advise yourselves to stay away from women. Mtchewwwwwwwww

GreatAchiever1:


Nope, Spouse is different from partner. Infact it's better to use the term as it is; husband or wife, but in some cases the word Spouse is allowed but never partner.
Your husband is not your partner neither is your husband to see you as his partner, contrary to what you've been led to believe by the culture, marriage is not a partnership but rather a relationship involving a hierarchy with the husband as the head and the wife as his helper.

You hit the nail on the very head. Thank you. The consistent thing(s) she has mentioned are Partner, procreation (having children), her career, imparting her self on her (not we) children. It seems it's all about herself only.
Besides, I went to check for the meaning of who Aries are, it's not good.
Please, OP, I am sorry, I don't mean to discourage you, but you need to better your attitude. Lasting relationship is sustained by values (good morals). That is how the inventor of marriage made it. You may need to get some advise from my friend here on NL who goes by the moniker pansophist. Just check for his comments and post - a great guy I must say.

TheGoodFellow:



The solution.... Consider a man you can grow with. Don't look out for a man that has cars and all that goodies. Look for a man you both can struggle and build each other through thick and thin.

She's 31 with "achievement in starting"...why should she be looking for a man that has not arrived to build with
She does not even have "block or cement" ...how does she want to build anything....

advanceDNA:
k

abobi wetin sup?

At this your age, you still get this high ambition, sense still never enter till you found yourself at 38 to 40.

TooResilient:


I'd like to procreate, to have children to pass on my knowledge and my wealth and to have them within the confines of a blessed marriage.😎

Thoughtful of you and weldone.
At least, you are among the few who wants to be under the tutelage if a man with a blessed home.

advanceDNA:


Na cruise jàré......

She even say she no dey snap....

U don see woman wey nor dey snap pics at all??

Only mentally ill girls don't snap pics and hate taking pics

Post your pics, you can blur your face

TooResilient:

You'd hardly see pictures of myself.

But at least we'd see one or two from daht same gallery of urs? pls post pics who knows @zonefree or @AdvanceDNA might be interested

deltateam:


She's looking for who will fund her stubborn ambitions. She's already bringing her physical attributes and stubborn ambitions nah.

She's the type you'll take abroad and she'll divorce you and marry a white man to achieve her citizenship.
Don't play, you'll learn.

Mathew 16-17

Hashabiah:
I read your post but what you just told the male populace doesn't benefit us in anyway. Rather , you should be telling us what you can bring to the table ...not your ambition

There's no virtuous homely girl that will pass 21 years old without getting a proposal from a serious guy⚠️

It's now crystal clear on why she's still single at 31years🙄

Over to SIMPS, una food don Land😁😁

LeeSmart:

But at least we'd see one or two from daht same gallery of urs? pls post pics who knows I might be interested....

Why do u want be unfortunate this early Monday morning

TooResilient:
She'd be 31 soon.

Looking for a life partner 31 to 35 years.

She's settling up her business.

She doesn't want yoruba and igbo men because somehow she's not been fortunate with them in the past.

She has big dreams and big life goals like becoming a CEO and also a citizen of a first world country, also promised that her children will be first world citizens to give them a good future.

She's already working towards achieving that.

She's a bit stubborn in terms of pursuing and achieving life goals which some men don't like about her.

She's quite ambitious.

Not an introvert but loves staying indoors.

She's tall/dark/averagely thick/on low cut because she doesn't like making her hair(maybe if cajoled by her lover she'd make hair).

Resides between Lagos/Ogun.

The email attached to this account has been deactivated but you can reach her on lovey.dovey93@protonmail.com for a serious relationship.

No jokes or play, she wants a man that really wants to get married.

she should make Clay and Mould him herself