Change2011:

You are right. Virginity does not equal virtue but there is a BIG virtue in being a virgin before marriage.

batuta:

This advice is for Men!
please i beg you, don't marry any lady because she is a virgin.
if you most marry a virgin make sure you are a virgin too,
because sex plays a major role in marriage.

there is a big difference between Being Intimate and making love.,
virgins have the knowledge of only Being Intimate while non virgins have the knowledge
of Being Intimate and skills of making love.

the major difference in Being Intimate and making love is that Being Intimate requires knowledge(theory)
while making love involves both knowledge and skills(technical Know how)
so please if you have ever  been sexually active , a Virgin wife will make your marriage doll, (from experience)
you may try to teach her, but you know the saying  "if is not panadol e no fit be ,

yes Virgin wife is a gift from GOD, virgin husband is also gift from GOD.
to cut the long story short. Virgins shld marry virgins.
non virgins marry non virgins to avoid early separation
virgin + non virgin = cheating,

Karmanje:

Virginity is Pride, I pray to Almighty Allah to bless me with a Virgin Wife as I',m, to me for one to said he prefer a lady dat slept with different men out is a Moral Decadence, that person lacks Conscience, and You should remember dat the experienced one was once a Virgin

RuuDie:

The puzzling thing is almost all the people supporting virginity are NOT virgins. . . . . .

RuuDie:

Well, my feeling is the concept is so, so outdated now. . . . . because, really, if you are well and truely in love with someone, the last thing in your mind is how many girls or guys he or she has had intercourse with. In your eyes, the person is always new. . . . .they'll always 'feel' like your first. In your mind, the both of you are like 'virgins'.

RuuDie:

Well, my feeling is the concept is so, so outdated now. . . . . because, really, if you are well and truely in love with someone, the last thing in your mind is how many girls or guys he or she has had intercourse with. In your eyes, the person is always new. . . . .they'll always 'feel' like your first. In your mind, the both of you are like 'virgins'.

SmileGirl:

Virginity is a choice for pple who chose it 2 honor God. It's not a force 4 anybody. I love bn a virgin. I dnt need dirty & contaminatd Joysticks 2 prove my worth as a woman. So if u dnt lik dem, get lost. because many guys are selfish, some women use sex 2 exploit dem dry

SmileGirl:

Virginity is a choice for pple who chose it 2 honor God. It's not a force 4 anybody. I love bn a virgin. I dnt need dirty & contaminatd Joysticks 2 prove my worth as a woman. So if u dnt lik dem, get lost. because many guys are selfish, some women use sex 2 exploit dem dry

jmaine:

The OP was talking about me  . . . i won't say it's outdated but marrying a virgin does not tick it for most guyz especially me . . . I need experience and not the hassle of having turorial classes when we are supposed to be pounding the shyte out of each other with zest, gusto and verve . . . and thank God the lady in my life is a sex goddess . . .i never have to long for any other cos she is a razzler and a sheer pounder and twister on the sheets . . . damn . .when she is on service . . the fire of excitement never ceases . .

Iron sharpeneth iron . . . nuff said . .

Mekozoral:

If d reason why pple are against waiting till marriage is for d fear of what if she dosen't satisfy me when we eventually get married, i don't wana start teaching her, then i'll say they're all insufficient reasons cos d fact dat som1 has neva done it b4 dosn't mean she dosn't know hw 2do it, i'm a typical example, i'm 28yrs hot lady a career woman nd virgin will be getin married later dis yr, fine i've neva done it b4 but afta my baby pops d cherry, i'll give it 2him everywhere in d house exactly d way he wants it,afterall i watch american films nd can neva be a novice 2it nt after watching BEFORE I SELF DESTRUCT by 50cent. My baby will nt only b happy wif me, God will also be happy 4keeping d marriage bed undefiled