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NobodyKnows:
Sai baba till 2023 inshaallah

Alejoc:
....... and our commander in chief of armed forces who swore to protect life and properties is still seeking reelection for a job well done?

JustAPhase:
Which one be "Thanks God" again?

jakandeola:
Sometimes it is the simplest things that can really amp up your marriage

sleeping naked is one of those simple thingsyou can do to improve your marriage.

For the first 14 years of our marriage we rarely slept naked except for the occasional time here and there after sex.
In the recent past we have made it a point to come to bed naked. It’s not every night that we are sleeping naked, but at least 2-3 times per week.

First off sleeping naked is quite freeing both physically and psychologically.

Baring yourself while you sleep with your spouse builds trust both physically (oxytocin is thanked for this) and psychologically.

The act of sleeping naked is simply sexy and appealing to your partner.

That skin to skin feeling also makes you feel sexy.

Skin on skin contact releases the hormone oxytocin whichincreases the feelings ofcomfort. This may put you in the mood for sex. Oxytocin has other benefits as well like making you feel more aroused, increasing feelings of trust, lowers heart rate, reduces blood pressure and simply makes you more ready for sexual interaction.

Sleeping Naked Will Do Wonders for Your MarriageHealth Benefits Of course healthy spouses are happy spouses.

Sleeping naked has been scientifically proven to improve health.

Being close to your spouse andcuddling while you sleepis actually beneficial your health.Your skin can absorb more nutrients.Your metabolism will also improve because your body will have to work while you sleep to maintain that healthy body temperature of 98.6. For both men and women sleeping naked allows their genitals to “air out”. Your genitals are covered up all day, everyday which makes itan ideal environment forthe overgrowth of yeast and bacteria which can lead to infection and discomfort. Sleep BenefitsMore sound sleep equals less overall stress.Feeling less stressed means less arguing and nit picking in marriages.You may not believe it, buthaving a lower body temperature while you sleep actually helps you to rest better.This is also an ideal environment for the anti-aging hormones to do their job. Sexual BenefitsSleeping naked is also fun. What better way to end the day than to be skin to skin with your spouse.It is an intimate way to sleep and will make you feel closer to your spouse.The skin to skin contact is a great way to get thatintimate alone time that you cannot get anywhere else.There have been nights when we go to bed exhausted and yet we are naked. Through out the night we are touching a feeling each other.As a new day arrives and the house is quiet we find the perfect time to enjoy one another sexual and start our day off on the right track.Free yourself from wearing clothes at night!Sleeping naked is a empowering situation for both

davodyguy:
RIP English

jakandeola:
1. It provides some much-needed couple time.“My husband and I have sex every night because it’s a moment in the day that is just about the two of us. We are parents to a toddler, so when we lay him down for bed each night, we can then spend the rest of the night expressing how we feel about each other physically. Having sex allows us to be passionate, to show affection and we enjoy pleasing each other.” -Christie M. of Arkansas; married 3 years

jakandeola:
2. It leads to more PDA outside of the bedroom. “We’re very physically expressive with one another, even when we’re not having sex. We hold hands a lot, he slaps my butt when I’m working in the kitchen, I nuzzle his neck when he’s working on research papers at the desk.” -Jesse N. of Ontario, Canada; married less than one year

jakandeola:
3. It can be a workout if you do it right.“When you have four kids and no time, sex is the best exercise.” -Tera M. of Oklahoma, married less thanone year4. It gets you out of your head for a little while.“Sex for me, and now for my husband since we’ve gotten together, is a complete escape from reality. We are both very much into role-playing and it’s such a wonderful feeling to not haveto be me for a while, to completely shut off from our crappy day-to-day existenceand strictly be about ourselves and our enjoyment.” -Sara C., of Panama City, Florida; married one year

jakandeola:
5. It builds trust.“New positions and sexual frontiers take a lot of trust in your partner to not screw it up, and that kind of trust is best earned after several years of personal and joint bodily exploration.” -Kristena M. of Richmond, Virginia; married 10 years

jakandeola:
6. It’s a way to connect without speaking. “Sex is a vital part of marriage. It brings couples together in a way that other things don’t. What I mean is that it promotes togetherness, snuggling and cuddling, and it’s a way to connect without words.” -Teresa F. of Nashville, Michigan; married 37 years

jakandeola:
7. You might end up arguing less. “We know when something is off with each other. And most importantly, we don’t fight, argue or bicker! We sit down and talk things out. Staying connected like that helps us communicate better outside of the bedroom.” -Libby S. of Indianapolis, Indiana; married 2 years

jakandeola:
8. It forces you to get creative. “Being intimate so often, and sharing what each person needs and wants allows the freedom of creativity. There is no position or situation either of us has ever denied the other. This makes us each feel more and more comfortable to share [fantasies] or point out a hot girl or guy, and say what we’d like to do with them in bed.”- Arlene B. of Monterey, California; engaged for 3 years

jakandeola:
9. It’s easier to schedule than a formal date night. “I think it’s the easiest way to have some romance since we really don’t do date nights or vacations alone. Plus, I know my husband enjoys it.” -Emily D. of Pleasanton, California; married 12 years

jakandeola:
10. One word: Orgasms.“The benefit for me is that it feels simply amazing. I also love to see how my husband gets lost in the moment. Being able to see that level of complete satisfaction on his face is so satisfying to me.” -Stacia L. of Texas; married 11 years

jakandeola:
11. It improves self-esteem. “It has brought a new level of happiness for me personally,and has helped my self-esteem knowing that after two kids, my husband still thinks I’m sexy.” -Karri H. of Alaska, married 6 years

jakandeola:
13. If you use it, you won’t lose it.“If sex is such a large part of your routine and a big priority, it never becomes low priority or gets weird or awkward. And you won’t have to worry about how to resume or reconnect. Just don’t ever stop doing it!” -Lara G. of Austin, Texas; married 24 years

jakandeola:
12. It’s a guaranteed mood booster.“He sings in the shower aftermorning sex, nearly every time. This is all the proof I need that sex is a mood enhancer for him. And I’d like to think that good mood carries over into other parts of his day. I love knowing that I’m the reason he’s smiling at work.” -Jesse N. of Ontario, Canada; married less than one year

Realname:
Wait and see Mimi wait and see

Realname:
Please what is your tribe?

I am Benin by the way, so you better say Yoruba or hausa because if you dare say you are from Edo state I will say you and your generation are cursed and will never ever ever amount to anything.

This young man killed himself over unemployment because of the lifeless bastard of a.president and you are.turning it to a joke?

It will.never ever be well with your family , no one in your family will ever see favor . I will find your real name.and bury a tortise shell for you.

I am going to go out of my way and destroy your destiny .

You don't know there are real powers in this life! You will know what the pain of loosing aloved one to suicide can be , before you end your own life this way

You shall watch everything good in your life fritter like dust , health, joy , success even water will turn.to the dust off the desert in your life.

You are not human , you will know sorrow till you end your own life with your hands ..

I will spend money and ensure I travel home with the name your mother spoke for you when you where born

You are a beast

Biglittlelois:
Chai, IVF is also not safe niyen, why not marry the man you love some most women sef, smh!!!

Kobomax:
My guy do some research before typing lobbish. Out military ranked higher in previous administrations

dasparrow:
Can you blame your women? In the past, our mothers and grandmothers married and stuck with our broke fathers and grandfathers. But guess what? The minute our fathers and grandfathers finally hit it big and became rich, they dumped the woman of their youth - our mothers and grandmothers who stuck with them in trying times - and went on to marry some twenty-two year old.


And what do you have to say about our women who dumped their men for sugar daddies? Men who stood by them, some even sponsored their education and yet the dumped them for a Malaysian based boy.

African men can never be trusted

BREAKING NEWS!!!

African women are the most trusted beings on earth.


and I will never advice any female related to me to settle with some broke Nigerian or African nigga.


And I will never advice even my worst male enemy to settle down with an Afriacan lady especially Nigerian ladies. They are all leeches and wh0res.

Go and make money first because it takes money to raise a family.


Is it a taboo if ladies also make money and stop being leeches?

This is why Africans can never seem to get out of poverty. You don't even have sufficient money to take care of yourself yet you are dreaming of bringing a woman and innocent children into your poverty stricken life to suffer with you. Nonsense!

dasparrow:
Many are single because the average Nigerian Bred male is a misogynist, a cheat, a scammer, a rapist and a pedophile.

An average Nigerian female is a wh0re, a leech, an unfaithful b!tch,

No woman in her sane mind will want to spend the rest of her life with such kind of individuals.

Same way no sane man will want to spend the rest of his life with a wh0re.

And a woman who got married to Evans the kidnapper is what? Insane I guess.

So Anni must be insane for getting married to 2Face who is known for his cheating spree

It is unhealthy to raise a family with such kind of human beings who have questionable character and depraved minds.

And young Nigerian ladies who dumpd their babies in gutters and pit toilets don't have depraved minds abl?

Besides, the entire world knows that the average Nigerian bred male treats his wife like a slave.

The entire world also knows that an average Nigerian female is a wh0re, a leech and has absolutely nothing to offer a man aside her rotten vagina

Now why would anyone with a functioning brain willingly go into slavery?

And why would anyone with a functioning brain willingly settles down with a leech and a wh0re?

Today, children can be gotten without being married. Most women want children, not misogynist husbands that will oppress, abuse and enslave them.

Same way men don't want leeches and prostitues as wivies. Timaya, Wizkid and the rest know this that's why they get children and say no to marriage

Life is too short for that!

generationz:
And the average Nigerian woman is holy and acceptable in all good things abi?

please give valid points not points that come from hatred because of what some men did to you or women around you


It would surprise you to know that men whom you described as such aren't single. In fact many have numerous girlfriends and sidechicks due to their wealth and influence.


look at dino melaye for example. He is loud ,uncoth and brash. His last two marriages ended based on domestic violence allegations

But do you think with the money and influence he has he goes to bed at night hugging his pillow?
the answer is no. He can get as many women and even beautiful ones if he wishes.


or have you seen femi fani kayode , he is also an uncoth wife beater .


you would be surprised how these runs babes and even independent working class women practically scheme and beg millionaires and billionaires to spend some time with them. You think if he popped the question they wouldn't jump at it.

like the poster above said many rich ,independent women are single because there are many unemployed or underemployed men today

unlike before when 95 percent of work force in large organizations where men and farming was still lucrative.

Kingwizzy16:
Here in Togo we don't know them

Who are they

WotzupNG:
Former Cross River State governor, Donald Duke has come out to clear the air on a statement he made concerning homosexuality in a recent interview with Falz and Laila on the show 'On The Couch'.

In the interview, Donald Duke while explaining his views on how he intends to lead the country, went on to bring up the issue of LGBT rights in Nigeria saying “I don’t understand the emotional feelings a gay person would have toward someone of their sexuality. I don’t understand it. But I would not criminalise them. I would ensure that they have the protection of the law. But if they want to exhibit their sexuality, then that’s an affront on the current norms of society.”

After much negative reactions to his words, the presidential aspirant has now released a statement saying the interview was taken out of context. Donald Duke now says, 'Homosexuality is a crime in Nigeria and ought to remain so'.

See the full statement below.

https://www.wotzup.ng/2018/09/donald-duke-homosexuality-crime/

Socialhalfcast:
6 months! That’s the time left before nigerians take to the polls to elect new leaders.

The declarations and consultations have begun in earnest with some notable Nigerians already throwing their hats into the mix including popular and hilarious comedian Basket Mouth.

The battle to occupy Aso Rock come 2019 will be fierce and tough given the fact that there are over 70+ currently registered political parties today.

In this post, we will review the three potential presidential candidates that we feel has the greastest chances of dislodging the incumbent – President Mohammed Buhari


1. Bukola Saraki

Ever since he connivingly snatched the post of the President of the 8th Senate ahead of party favourite Senator Ahmed Ibrahim Lawal on the 9th of june 2015, the tension has been hot and thick between him, his party and the executive.

Sen. Saraki frequently made claims of the executive trying to "punish" him for defying their wishes to emerge Senate President as frequent charges of misconduct and corruption were levelled against him.

Things finally blew over when on the 31st of July, 2018 sen. Saraki announced his much anticipated defection from the ruling All Progressive Congress (APC) to the main opposition party The People's Democratic Party (PDP) ending weeks of speculation.

The numerous "illegal impeachment attempts" and threats leveled against him, including an August invasion of the National Assembly complex by masked DSS men has endeared him to the hearts of Nigerians and helped him find some pity and sympathy among them.

Senator Bukola could be the man to unseat President Buhari as he weilds an enviable amount of infuence in the north as a two-time governor of Kwara state and given his rising fame and reputation among the populance.

2. Atiku Abubakar

A former Vice President of the nation under then president, General Olusegun Obasanjo -1999 - 2007.

Atiku first fell out with the PDP in 2007 when pres. Obasanjo would not support his bid to replace him as president instead preferring to find ways to contest for a third time.

Atiku would later run under the Action Democratic Congress (ADC) but fell short as now late PDP's candidate Gen. Musa Yaradua would emerge president.

Atiku would subsequently return to the PDP but would agin leave to join the APC in 2015, the party again failed to give him the presidential ticket, throwing it's weight behind then incumbent pres. Goodluck Jonathan who would later lose to the APC's candidate and current president, Gen. Buhari.

Atiku remained in the APC for 2 years but on the 24th of November, 2017, Atiku would via a Facebook live video announce his defection to the PDP a party he called. "Home".

Atiku gave poor governance and policy making and implementation as reasons for leaving the APC and has since remained vocal against the policies of the APC led Federal Government.

Atiku could be the right candidate to fly his party's flag come 2019 given his massive political experience and reputation as a successful business man and job creator now that unemployment is the order of the day.

3. Ayodele Peter Fayose

A two-time and current sitting governor of Ekiti State. Fayose first emerged governor of Ekiti State in 2003 but couldn't see out his 4-year tenure after he was impeached by the state assembly. Fayose returned to win back the governorship seat in 2014.

Fayose has been the most vocal of all opposition membes against the policies of the Buhari-led administration.

"A roged politician" as he loves to be called. Fayose has expressed his interest to contest in the 2019 presidential elections but may have his dreams hampered by the fact that his party would prefer a northern candidate. Fayose's popularity and fan base in the southwest could be enough to convince his party to give him the presidential ticket or at least a vice presidential ticket to a northern candidate.

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Source: https://postingday.com/2018/08/24/3-nigerians-who-could-unseat-buhari/

chubinwa:
Why?? Because he said the truth? Fvck you!!

chiommy123:
OK sir.

ojialo:
clap for yourself , he has Nigerians at heart yet he couldn't do anything to stop the herdsmen killings. God will judge all of you, if any of your siblings or relative is amount the people these guys killed you won't be here say this.

jyz200:
I wish she is any of ur family member

chiommy123:
and what makes you think I have and commit fornication.

chiommy123:
Both are responsible. And I wonder how they feel after the act.