Idowuogbo:
U goat! Fly away joor!

...thank God I be goat weh deh fly..but u be goat u deh 4 backyard of house deh shout mgbeeeee...mbgeeeee..

zone77: Searching for Mr perfect will cause you nothing but heartaches.

It is an endeavour in futility because no such creature exists.

Why do you seek perfection when you are not perfect yourself?

Why do you place such an insurmountable obstacle infront of you?

Why have you made your life and relationships difficult because of such an irrational demand?

Unless God sends down an angel to marry you, which is an impossibility, you have to choose a human being, like the rest of us

Any woman you see enjoying a great relationship worked on that relationship. There are no short cuts. Perfectionism may work well in a novel, movie or television show, but in real life it will frustrate you, and lead you to massive pain.

Are you compatible with this guy? Can you live with him in peace without going crazy? If your answer is yes, then you are in a very good place.
You can deal with the ‘minor’ details later. However, if your answer is no or if you had rather dip your hand in a pot of boiling oil than spend time with this guy, I will suggest you look for another guy. Not having lots of money is not a good reason to give up a great relationship.

A guy may have lots of money but be abusive and insensitive to your feelings.If this guy, who doesn’t have lots of money, makes you feel on top of the world emotionally, then you should think about how to work out the financial angle in your relationship. Think and pray through. But don’t throw it away. Not just yet.

Is he too short, too fat, too tall, too smart, too dark, too light, too hairy, too muscular, too skinny, bald? etc These are things you can work around. If you don’t want to get married to a short man who will do anything to make you happy, would you rather he was tall and mean to you? A man’s height or physique will not make you happy. Stop delaying your marital destiny by desiring the wrong things. The media sells us the picture of the perfect man with well formed, a perfect body, a perfect job, an IQ of 180, perfect teeth, a nice apartment, a great car,etc. If you want one of those men, you will have to find them in that magazine and no where else. The fact is that if you want a good man, you must be willing to work on the relationship. You should be vary suspicious of any man who looks too perfect. In fact, I will advise that you step back and watch him closely.

Good advice to the deluded Nigerian ladies here and in diasporer living in the world of illusions.Some of these ladies cannot cook for Mr perfect or handle home chores.

Most of these ladies have lost touch (via parental up bringing or acculturation) with that Quintessential African woman that is known for being homely,respectfull,God fearing,original,down to earth ,humble ,hard working,real etc

They are not Smart enough to ask why Nigerians in diasporer go back to Nigeria and sometimes further to their villages to look for a wife.Even those in Nigerian cities still look back to villages for a wife.

The reason is that there have been great changes in society but not the age long DNA of the African man that perpetualy searches for that typical African woman still with a modern polishing and "humble intelligence.

[quote author=2scorehigh]OP, I like the way you put it but I think you should know that seeking perfection is not the best thing when considering marriage not only for women but also for the men!



Also as a single and seriously searching dude, I am beginning to discover that in some cases, it is the guys that are preventing the ladies from getting married simply because many guys are still unable to understand women and discover how to attract a woman to and beyond the point where she start seeing the guy as pure gold and will no longer consider his height, his physique, his car, his apartment and even how much money he's got.

At this point I'm talking about, you will surprisingly though enjoyably find out that all a woman wants is just you!
(/quote)

@2scorehigh
Yes u ar right.Both parties are guilty of this.Most guys do not make efforts to attract the ladies beyond their material life.The reason is that our modern society is at the high point of materialism and hedonism.Guys now interprete the body languages of the ladies-that ofcourse size men's pocket up,to mean total yearning for material comfort.Thus guys that have that endowed personalities that ladies search are at the losing end while those with the money play with the ladies.Although its as ironical as it is natural because men are mearnt to be hunters and go getters while women are mearnt to nuture the home and be scarce on the bread-line ;the reason why sexuality of men depends-to a large extent on material possesions

This among d best write-up I've seen on nairaland.

Idowuogbo: Killz! Ctrl+alt+del plzzz....

no wonder you ARE NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP......You are not ready to learn something new

klaus3011:

no wonder you ARE NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP......You are not ready to learn something new

Yea! I b nun

NEXT!!!!

Super1759: ...thank God I be goat weh deh fly..but u be goat u deh 4 backyard of house deh shout mgbeeeee...mbgeeeee..

It doesn't change d fact dat u still a goat na!

the best post ever....alot of girls are regreting this already...
but so many will still not learn,infact they are what we call victims of ignorance
thanks again ...you are great

@op, on point!

Idowuogbo:

Yea! I b nun

NEXT!!!!

MUPPET!!!!!

Idowuogbo: Killz! Ctrl+alt+del plzzz....

that post has 60 Likes. Can you beat that?

vry gud

jackpot: that post has 60 Likes. Can you beat that?

Nope!

klaus3011:

MUPPET!!!!!

wuss!

jackpot: that post has 60 Likes. Can you beat that?

and u are?

maclatunji:

Nope!

u had to answer shee?

msteeeeew!!!

[quote author=Idowuogbo]
wuss!

NUMPTY DUMPTY

Idowuogbo:
u had to answer shee?

msteeeeew!!!

How are you doing my dear friend? I will talk about other things later.

[quote author=klaus3011][/quote]
Stop derailing

Dinosaur!

maclatunji:

How are you doing my dear friend? I will talk about other things later.

Tins like? Hmmm..... Dis might be interesting

Idowuogbo:
Who is u?

ask google...ibere(questn)

Idowuogbo:
Stop derailing

Dinosaur!

why must you call me a dinosaur......they that leave in glass house should not throw stones oooh!!!be warned

klaus3011:

why must you call me a dinosaur......they that leave in glass house should not throw stones oooh!!!be warned

warned? shyting myself!

Gen2jaynee: ask google...ibere(questn)

woeva!

Idowuogbo:



warned? shyting myself!

NO PROBS.....by the time am through with you,you would cry and cuddle yourself...
lobataan...

klaus3011:

NO PROBS.....by the time am through with you,you would cry and cuddle yourself...
lobataan...

u gat jokes!

fimile joor!

Idowuogbo:
u gat jokes!

fimile joor!

would it be okay,if i do the cuddling for you. while you just sit back,relax and enjoy the flow??

Idowuogbo:
woeva!

wet-fish

Gen2jaynee: wet-fish

Is dat wot u call ur woman?

She must stink!

klaus3011:

would it be okay,if i do the cuddling for you. while you just sit back,relax and enjoy the flow??

I will ban u for derailing

Get into ur naughty corner

Now!!!!!

Idowuogbo:
I will ban u for derailing

Get into ur naughty corner

Now!!!!!

*yimu*!!*yimu*

Idowuogbo:
Is dat wot u call ur woman?

She must stink!

LOL, now Idowu. I have a firm belief that you are a really smart and well-bred young lady. However, I cannot help but SMH in dismay at your embrace of hurling insults and foul language at people especially on threads in the romance section. You might explain it away that it is just fooling around on the internet. However, sooner or later, such foul language and the negative reaction of people to it will begin to manifest in the real world if you don't check yourself.

Yes, Nairaland is full of people that can make Kofi Annan want to strangle them. However, I find that most times you are the aggressor and we cannot honestly say that the people you attack deserve it. So my friend, I hope you will reflect on this and make the necessary amendments.

Thank you.

maclatunji:

LOL, now Idowu. I have a firm belief that you are a really smart and well-bred young lady. However, I cannot help but SMH in dismay at your embrace of hurling insults and foul language at people especially on threads in the romance section. You might explain it away that it is just fooling around on the internet. However, sooner or later, such foul language and the negative reaction of people to it will begin to manifest in the real world if you don't check yourself.

Yes, Nairaland is full of people that can make Kofi Annan want to strangle them. However, I find that most times you are the aggressor and we cannot honestly say that the people you attack deserve it. So my friend, I hope you will reflect on this and make the necessary amendments.

Thank you.

PLS PRINT AND POST THIS BULLSHIT TO ME SIR!

I WOULD LIKE A HARD-COPY

CHEERS!!!