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AutosRe: SOLD!!!!Tokunbo 2012 Lexus RX350 For N6.8m by 9icetoo(op): 7:28am On May 24, 2021
Still available
AutosRe: SOLD SOLD SOLD TOKUNBO 2013 Lexus GS350 For Sale. N7.5m by 9icetoo(op): 11:39am On May 21, 2021
Available.
Executive sporty sedan with AWD and full options.
AutosRe: SOLD!!!!Tokunbo 2012 Lexus RX350 For N6.8m by 9icetoo(op): 11:38am On May 21, 2021
Advantages over the 2010/11 rx350.
1. Doesn't require premium fuel therefore no pinging and full engine power available even with Nigerian fuel.
2. Reduced carbon deposition on piston and rings.
3. Better fuel mileage since engine is tuned for regular fuel.

Full option. Available
AutosRe: SOLD SOLD SOLD TOKUNBO 2013 Lexus GS350 For Sale. N7.5m by 9icetoo(op): 11:56am On May 20, 2021
78k miles. Low miles. Airbags intact. No error messages. Luxurious Lexus with AWD. Call for inspection.
AutosRe: SOLD!!!!Tokunbo 2012 Lexus RX350 For N6.8m by 9icetoo(op): 11:54am On May 20, 2021
Available for sale. Low miles. Airbags intact.
AutosRe: SOLD SOLD SOLD TOKUNBO 2013 Lexus GS350 For Sale. N7.5m by 9icetoo(op): 9:08am On May 19, 2021
Still available
AutosRe: SOLD!!!!Tokunbo 2012 Lexus RX350 For N6.8m by 9icetoo(op): 9:07am On May 19, 2021
Still available.
AutosRe: SOLD!!!!Tokunbo 2012 Lexus RX350 For N6.8m by 9icetoo(op): 7:06am On May 19, 2021
Available for inspection. 102k true miles.
AutosRe: SOLD SOLD SOLD TOKUNBO 2013 Lexus GS350 For Sale. N7.5m by 9icetoo(op): 7:05am On May 19, 2021
Available for inspection. 78k true miles.
RomanceRe: Upcoming Wedding Palava by 9icetoo(m): 3:03pm On May 18, 2021
Annoms:
I'll try to make this short.

Yesterday I was having a conversation with my fiancée about my mum's suggestion about how to go about our wedding which is scheduled to take place Jan next year. My mum suggested that we do both trad and white wedding on the same day to cut cost. She opined that we do the white wedding in the morning and hold the traditional marriage as a reception in the afternoon. I pretty much see reasons from her perspective considering the harsh economic condition in Nigeria.

I was relating this to my fiancée yesterday in a phone call, when she flared up and said I should have consulted her to seek her opinion on this marriage arrangement before going to my family to seek theirs because I said my mum's advise seems okay.

What I deduce from her plight was that she wants the trad marriage at the village (south-east) while the white at the town where we base (South-West). That was what I initially wanted but due to high inflation in the land, I'm actually tilting towards my mum advise because I can't go bankruptcy just because I want to satisfy her. Why not use a stone to kill two birds?

She wants a cream-de-la-cream kind of wedding but she's not ready to assist financially to make that happen. (she's an awaiting corper)

I told her that the cost of transportation and lodging people from the village (hers and mine) to the city for our white marriage alone is gulping about 500/600k. That's transportation & lodging alone ooo.. I'll now spend if not x2 of what I spent on trad for white.. Why not just do everything in the village and move on with our lives? We can actually have it in the village and it will still be all nice and glamourous.

She said she wants to have a say in how her marriage will look like. Her imput is welcomed. But if she still insist on having the white wedding and not putting finances into consideration. I'm thinking that she want the white wedding on the city because of her friends who will attend which is not enough reason to go bankruptcy for.

It was a heated argument yesterday. We both went to bed angrily and not in talking terms till now

Pls advice accordingly. Thanks
There is much more to marriage than the wedding ceremony.
Been there.

Your wife to be is still naive about certain things in life. She will learn.
If you want her to learn at your expense, it is your choice.

Your mum is being considerate of your finances. She is in tune with the situation of things. Your wife to be is not. She has her head stuck in the clouds.

Your wife to be is thinking of here "friends".
They won't ride the waves with you when everyone goes home after the wedding. Be wise.

Let her blow off some steam. Invite her over. This is not a phone conversation. Sit her down and explain why you think this is the way to go. Change the narrative from "my mums idea" to "what we need to do". It's easier for her to buy into it than to convince her to buy your mum's idea.

Remember, she is coming to wrestle your affection from your mum (it is true. Trust me. It is balancing act most men have to deal with).
It is early birds, don't make her feel like she is losing the game already.

In all you do, make sure you take the most financially sound option.

The wedding is not an indication of how marriages turn out. It is a long journey full of highs and lows. Some baulk during the lows, some ride it out and enjoy the later years when all the kinks have been ironed out.

All the best.
AutosRe: SOLD SOLD SOLD TOKUNBO 2013 Lexus GS350 For Sale. N7.5m by 9icetoo(op): 8:05am On May 18, 2021
N7.3m available.
Avoid middle men wahalla.
AutosRe: SOLD!!!!Tokunbo 2012 Lexus RX350 For N6.8m by 9icetoo(op): 8:05am On May 18, 2021
N7m. Available.
Avoid middlemen wahalla
AutosRe: SOLD SOLD SOLD TOKUNBO 2013 Lexus GS350 For Sale. N7.5m by 9icetoo(op): 7:30am On May 17, 2021
78k miles. Available.
AutosRe: SOLD!!!!Tokunbo 2012 Lexus RX350 For N6.8m by 9icetoo(op): 7:30am On May 17, 2021
102k miles. Available.
AutosRe: SOLD SOLD SOLD TOKUNBO 2013 Lexus GS350 For Sale. N7.5m by 9icetoo(op): 9:29am On May 15, 2021
Available for inspection.
AutosRe: SOLD!!!!Tokunbo 2012 Lexus RX350 For N6.8m by 9icetoo(op): 9:29am On May 15, 2021
Available for inspection.
AutosRe: SOLD SOLD SOLD TOKUNBO 2013 Lexus GS350 For Sale. N7.5m by 9icetoo(op): 8:19am On May 12, 2021
Fresh. Low miles
AutosRe: SOLD!!!!Tokunbo 2012 Lexus RX350 For N6.8m by 9icetoo(op): 8:18am On May 12, 2021
Fresh. Low miles.
AutosRe: SOLD SOLD SOLD TOKUNBO 2013 Lexus GS350 For Sale. N7.5m by 9icetoo(op): 5:08pm On May 11, 2021
78k miles. Clean. Available for inspection.
AutosRe: SOLD!!!!Tokunbo 2012 Lexus RX350 For N6.8m by 9icetoo(op): 5:07pm On May 11, 2021
102k miles. Airbags intact. Clean. N7m.
Available
AutosRe: SOLD SOLD SOLD TOKUNBO 2013 Lexus GS350 For Sale. N7.5m by 9icetoo(op): 8:08am On May 11, 2021
Low miles. Airbags intact. Available.
AutosRe: SOLD!!!!Tokunbo 2012 Lexus RX350 For N6.8m by 9icetoo(op): 8:07am On May 11, 2021
Low miles. Available
AutosRe: SOLD!!!!Tokunbo 2012 Lexus RX350 For N6.8m by 9icetoo(op): 2:17pm On May 10, 2021
102k miles. Available for inspection
AutosRe: SOLD SOLD SOLD TOKUNBO 2013 Lexus GS350 For Sale. N7.5m by 9icetoo(op): 2:15pm On May 10, 2021
Available for sale
AutosRe: SOLD!!!!Tokunbo 2012 Lexus RX350 For N6.8m by 9icetoo(op): 2:14pm On May 10, 2021
Available for inspection
Car TalkRe: Where Can I Buy This Type Of Truck And How Much Should I Budget? by 9icetoo(m): 10:50am On May 09, 2021
SeaTrade:
Thanks bro,
But please where is owode market?
Call him. Owode market is in lagos. His number is in his signature. Na correct guy.
Or I go send you him number privately.
You can also get these trucks along oshodi apapa expressway. Them full there. Just take out one or two days and patrol that route. You will see different types and be able to make a choice. It shouldn't be more than 4m -5m for toks
AutosRe: SOLD SOLD SOLD TOKUNBO 2013 Lexus GS350 For Sale. N7.5m by 9icetoo(op): 10:39am On May 09, 2021
Available. Negotiable
AutosRe: SOLD!!!!Tokunbo 2012 Lexus RX350 For N6.8m by 9icetoo(op): 10:39am On May 09, 2021
Available for 7m
Car TalkRe: Maintenance Tips On Cars. by 9icetoo(m): 10:36am On May 08, 2021
Michael781:
Increase budget to like how much sir?
For the Camry, budget 2.5 and above
For the es 350, budget 3.5 and above.
These are budgets for toks.
AutosRe: SOLD SOLD SOLD TOKUNBO 2013 Lexus GS350 For Sale. N7.5m by 9icetoo(op): 10:13am On May 08, 2021
Available
AutosRe: SOLD!!!!Tokunbo 2012 Lexus RX350 For N6.8m by 9icetoo(op): 10:12am On May 08, 2021
Call for inspection
AutosRe: SOLD SOLD SOLD TOKUNBO 2013 Lexus GS350 For Sale. N7.5m by 9icetoo(op): 7:47am On May 07, 2021
Call or chat for inspection

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