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No. 5.........those 80%.. .. .

@poster.....your links are bad#

My brother, I feel ur pain and I know that ur baby boy is the only reason why you are still in that marriage

.... but u have to still believe and try to work things out with your wife, after all, you have already decided to stay so there is no need giving up now.

Don't forget to always pray to God to help you change ur wife's heart.

#some women sha..

basonic2010@yahoo.com.. .. Mtn

If you have the means and you are sure you have the right girl beside you, then brother.... You should get married Now!

I have the means but don't have the right girl beside me, that's why I haven't married, else... what am I still waiting for??

27yrs is ripe enough joor.

@pister.....congrats, am happy for you.
How do you do it, am still trying to get a job from here but I cannot.

@poster

Why will a guy treat you like a goddess when you are not one? Why shouldn't he beat you when you have turned yourself to his punching bag? Why won't he keep on taking money from you when you have made ur purse his blank cheque and think giving him money will make him luv u more instead of advising him to do something for himself? Why should he tell you in the morning that he luvs you when you know deep down, he really doesn't?

My dear, you are the cause of your own problems because u choose the wrong man as your lover after turning down all those good guys who came your way and you expect to change him from "wrong" to "right" with time. Of course change is the only permanent thing in life as they say, but mind you, one can change from bad to worse, its still a change.

It's good to luv but you should mind whom you decide to give your heart to, thus, as you lay your bed, so you will lay on it.

#But for now, I advise you to move on and stop punishing yourself. The problem is not just with guys alone, it's general nowadays....

I may stay and I may leave her, it all depends on the conditions or circumstances which made her fucck him.

It can also depend on me myself, whether am fuccking around or if I've been faithful to her all the while...... Cos I see no reason why I should leave my girl because she sleeps outside if I myself am also guilty of such!

@op....you are very right, am a living example right now!!

And the truth is, it sucks#

400billionman:
Bros, the IQ really low..

Lol, don't get me wrong o, I didn't mean her IQ, I meant her "Q".... as in, Question.

Chaulay1:
And the bolded means what ?

The poster shouldn't be surprised by his wife's Q (Question). It is always normal for women to ask all sorts of questions from their man.

@poster...that's normal with women sha, they can't stand being shared with anyone else but in this case, it's quite surprising it's her daughter!!

Anyway, you just have to let her know she is the best thing that ever happened to you, make her feel secured and tell her u luv her more than you guy's daughter (even if it means lying about that for now)

At the end of the day, she is still just a woman, so don't be surprised by her Q!!

Hmmm.... This Jim Iyke goggles, I fit use am see sambisa right here from lagos o... I hail!

That's not fine... It's a "miss"

Ramsey noah

BackDatAssUp:
What most of you may not know is that Dogaro's emergence as Speaker was a political defeat for the northern cabal and Southwest confusionists.


Dogaro only got 40 APC members out of 200 to emerge winner.

The SW and Northern APC members voted for Femi

Dogaro being a christian from the north will never get the support of his moslem brothers who rather preferred to vote Femi than him.

And is it femi gbajabiamela that you think the reps from the north will vote for? U must be joking

My friend, it seems you don't understand politics yet, the days of religious politics has gone, it is about "personal interest" now.

Incase you don't know, both of them that contested are Christians.

My dear, stop acting all bitchy because there is actually nothing u can do about it. No matter how much you try, it seems ur man has feelings for that gal and the more you try to drive him away from her, you will only end up pushing him to her, trust me.

Why don't you try this, be ur humble self, ignore whatever is going on btw them, just act normal, give him some time and show a blind eye to their "runs". if he luvs you, he will soon realise his misbehaviours and come back to you but if he continues with her, then u need to start thinking of moving on...

#just keep ur cool and don't act batch cos u can't make someone stay in luv with you no matter how you try, that decision is for their heart to make

Now, that's what I call a real man. Tell the stupid Spanish embassy...

I will call my son Jamal.

Because beauty alone can't make me stay. U got to know one thing, when men decide to be caring and faithful to a particular woman, it is never because of her beauty.

A man normally will remain Faithfull to his woman for other reasons apart from beauty and sex. Take note, beauty attracts us to you bt it won't make us stay and good sex always makes us come for more but that doesn't mean we shall stay!!

So rather, you should be asking beautiful women what do they have to offer to a man to make him stay because their beauty alone just isn't what makes us stay...

1stCitizen:
Women are programmed to like bad boys. Ever heard the saying that " Nice boys get no pushie"

Well, then let her Live her life with her "bad boy"

So, your friend rejected the good guy in her life and even fought her parents to marry this "chronic-immatured-womanizer" as her husband, and now she is not happy right...??

What do you really want us to advise ur friend?

Why do women leave the best man for the job for monsters....??

I am short of advice for this ur friend, she too annoy me sef....

Summarise this your piece pls, it's too long and I can't really get your reasons why you said Dangote is trying get to create disharmony between these communities...

He is a handsome dude but maybe slightly over-hyped.....that's because of Nigerian ladies poor mentality of always wanting to date/marry men from rich or prosperous political families.

thesame applies for Nigerian guys/men and how they hover around Zahra buhari!

#forgodsake.....don't we see people daily that are far more handsome and beautiful than yusuf and zahra buhari? but we ignore them right, just because their dad ain't the president abi....

#Naija mentality...

women are really crazy#

Lesson: neva you Bleep ur neighbour into pregnancy!!

Ur coursin should give the gal a time frame to make up her mind whether it is him or the guy, bt from my own personal experience in these kind of cases, the gal is likely down for the other guy than ur cousin for now, so let him cut his loss and move on...

@poster, btw are u really into booze...? as I, ella-"booz"....? Lolz

@Poster

Some of this your advice are capable let of driving some women from their matrimonial homes o.... Atimes, women will have to be flexible in matrimony and not rigid all in the name of these ur principles.

But why all this unnecessary forming from ladies like this... It just doesn't make sense. For a guy like me, if u form as a lady, then I have no option than to free you... and even if am in luv with you, wetin I go do since u dey for for me??

No big deal o, I wakkaa commot, na who nor fine... !