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tatacherie:
I greet you all mamas
Congratulations to the new moms and I wish those still pushing successful delivery

Please I'm soliciting for advice on this sensitive case pls no insult please I have cried enough for been such a careless mother

I just noticed this evening that my 3 years old daughter's vagina hole is totally closed like a healed wound after her caregiver told me in school today that she has been scratching the place lately and suggested I check her. How come I didn't notice at home and she never complained is astonishing

I didn't give birth to her with a closed vagina ooo I'm totally scattered as I type. I've never heard of such all my life. I'm taking her to the clinic but I need ideas pls. Has anyone heard of this before? How was it managed?

Ejoor nor Waka pass mamas I just need information on the name of such a condition and how it can be managed so I can confidently follow the doctors up make Dem nor go damage the place. My head is spinning


Go on Google and browse about it. It's a medical condition, I have read about it before but can't remember the name. I don't think it's a big problem since it wasn't like that before. Don't be sacred
Godbless you all

whyworryPH:
My sister, the thing fail me like person wey no read for exams. And my husband was over careful cos we both know how the two we already have without house help can be challenging. I could have bet that nothing like pregnancy will occur for the next one year. It is what it is. Please if there is a safe FP, go for it to avoid stories that touch.

spaq:
B.A! B.A!! B.A!!!

I gave birth to my little princess yesterday
EDD: 04/07
DOB: 04/07
BS loading soon

Thanks to everyone who has contributed to this thread, I’m a ftm and I learnt a lot from this group.
Safe delivery to the remaining July mamas
I love you all

Cc Ayauche


Congratulations

trevolady:
Hello mamas,pls i'll like to know if the colour of Flemming oral suspension change from white to yellow when water is been added to it,I can't reach my doctor and i'm just scared to give my baby since i noticed the change in colour.

Keeky08:
This happened to me too on 2 different occasions after pooping. I was scared to death but I later read about it online that I was normal for some stitches to come off.

chocome:
I hope PecAbby, Tessyj4, Jogurl, Rosh83, AbbynHummy, Anisef, Orangb, Bibbzz, are all doing great. Pls respond to this so we know you are all ok

Tinudesi:
Did u have swollen feet and face while pregnant if yes its possible u still experiencing it,i can't remember fathers day date again o but if it's more than a week u delivered it should have gone down please visit your doctor asap .
For the tear sit bath of two weeks should heal the tear although body differs

Alennsar:
BS BS BS

My two scans was just 3days apart, one gave me may 28 while the other gave me 1st of june. But the two dates passed without any sign of labor. When I discussed with the matron about it she checked my file and said everything is normal so, she will not induce me that I should allow labor to come naturally.

I was so worried about the whole thing but my husband won't agree with my suggestions. I even suggest that I should take my file to big hospitals like Asokoro or Wuse but no he was ready to wait.

At exactly two weeks which is 14th June I started feeling somehow but I was not taking it seriously but as I went to pee I saw mucus plug, I just said Alhamdulilah the waiting will be over today but no I was in labor for complete five days before I finally delivered. It was not easy since Tuesday 14th till 16th of June my labor was stagnant at 4cm no progress at all.

I trekked like my life depend on it but still nothing. The worst part is that if the contraction is 3mins apart before leaving the house once I entered the hospital the contraction will disappear and I won't feel any pain again.

I told my husband that maybe God didn't want me to deliver in this hospital because I delivered my first two at home without any complications and their labor was very fast, so I don't understand this one but my husband won't have any of that. The strangest of it all is that he update his mother with everything that is happening and that has never happened before.

My mother in law kept assuring him that the baby is still swimming that is why he's not out yet, that when the time comes I will deliver.

She even said some labor take as long as five days and whatever she said is what sticks to my husband mind. I became depressed and seriously worried because I had nobody but God. I am an orphan and my elder sister is inexperienced she kept asking me to keep praying and she's supporting me with prayer as well.

Since there's nothing I can do on my own I started praying both night and day. I will be praying and weeping at the same time.

Reaching on Saturday morning again I started feeling pain again but I noticed the color of the mucus has changed to dark yellow. I quickly ran to phc and complain about the changes, when the matron checked me, he shook his head and said he wants to check baby's heartbeat. After all the checking he said my baby was already weak that he's going to refer me to Asokoro.

He said I should agree with any decisions they make because as it is my baby is already in distress. I just told him that Allah is my only hope and I depend on him alone.

When I got home I didn't want to inform my husband at first because he has been behaving like someone under a spell but I can't do it alone, I had no money nor family members around me so I finally told him but I was surprised when he didn't call his mother to update her or maybe he later called her when I was not there. I don't know

We headed to asokoro that morning. Immediately I stepped down from the car I noticed that my contractions were coming back to back non stop even before they attend to us. One of the three doctors that attended to me said they should book me for emergency cs base on the information in the referrer letter but the other two said they should check me first and the baby as well since it's not my first time.
I was checked and my baby heart beat was checked as well. They said the baby's breathing was very good and that I will be allowed to labor for 4 hours if the labor is still not progressing then i will be operated on but I was already contracting seriously.

When I was checked 3 hours later I was already 6cm. Then now fixed drip for me to hasten the labor Kai I nearly died from the effect. After every ups and down I finally delivered at 7:57pm. Alhamdulilah Robil alahmeen.

I pray to God that no pregnant woman will experience any difficulties or delays in their delivery by God grace. May Allah put all our enemies to shame and may we be full of praise and Thanksgiving all the days of our life. Aameen.
Alhamdulillah once again.

Cc: Chocome

MumDuke:
Thanks Mama. The contractions stopped yesterday. I'm perfectly okay now. Guess twas Braxton

MumDuke:
Help! URGENT!!

Good Evening Mummies.
Team late July EDD I am.
However I've been having these slight contractions since 2 days ago.
The contractions has gotten more serious even as I type.
Or am I getting it wrong...(I feel like sumtyn is pulling or sucking me in my pelvic..is that what contraction is?)
I am however waiting for other signs (like bloody show, mucus plug, water breaking)to be sure of whether I need to go to the hospital.

Please who has experienced this. Any advice for me?

Missfree:
BS BS
I met my husband six years ago at the final day in our three weeks orientation camp.
Since we have been dating i have never for once’s gotten pregnant. Am based in ondo and he is in Lagos. I purposely use to come to meet him during my ovulation because am so scared have never gotten pregnant before my guy is secretly worried too but he never told me. So after the lockdown i came to Lagos around first week in September. At tired week am supposed to see my period but the thing dnt come. I told him am going to get pt and he discouraged me that the woman self will be making jest of me and he is tired of seeing negative results. I sneak out to get it and i did it. The result came out positive. I told my husband that am pregnant but he dnt believe. We where together till November when am to resume back for a course i started before lockdown down. Along the line my husband is got emergency training at work too from December to January. So We couldn’t see did i tell you the guy never believe i was pregnant. After the training he came to meet my family in immediately he saw me he begin to smile that it’s true o am actually pregnant. My pregnant journey was so easy i registered at health center around 5 month baby was doing fine until my husband told me to go and register in gbagada. At 34 weeks went to register in gbagada in my baby presentation was Breech I was told am going to do Cs and i ran away. My husband had to pet me to go back at 37 weeks they booked for elective Cs for me and am asked to come for admission on June and the Cs will be 2nd of June which is Wednesday. On getting their on Tuesday we made some payments and did some test. After doing all that the senior surgeon came and told us we are too much for Wednesday Cs and he will reschedule us based on how serious our condition is he took all our files and came back after one hour that he will reschedule me for Wednesday and the two people for Thursday. I cried that day because am already preparing to see my baby on Wednesday. I begged the surgeon to allow me go home he refused. And have bought everything i needed my Cs pack is ready payment done. Because of the stress of payment i could just eat once that day. I called my husband to explain situations of things for him i told him am seriously hungry he should get amala for me that was around 5pm on Tuesday . Instead of him to get the amala he sat down alone and was begging God to do miracle maybe i should just give birth by myself on that Tuesday. When i dnt see him around i asked the nurse on duty where i can get snacks she told me the ward maid sells i went to the woman she told me it has finished that she is just going down to get another on this time around my body is shaking because the last time i ate was 11am.
Around 6pm he went to the lab to take my test result. He was at the lab when two doctors walked in and called my name that am having my Cs today. Me Cs ke and if you know gbagada very well they have operation days Tuesday is not even part of those days. I quickly called my husband not to buy amala again that we are having our baby today. While taking me to the theater the guy willing me was discouraging me not to allow the doctors do it that they are young their oga no dey Incase of any complication. God came down himself to deliver me he just came in form of those doctors. My Cs was two weeks yesterday and my wound is healed completely. Things are prayed for while pregnant God answers.to every soul expecting the fruit of the womb may God visit your home soon. Your testimony will come very soon ijn. Thank you nairaland this is a good place to be but on a more serious note you dnt tell me fourth trimester is going to be tough like this o have been awake since 2pm my baby Mofetoluwa Gerald is saying thank you mummies for putting my mum through. See you again in 2024.
Cappo chocome

Congratulations ma'am

Best1708:
I guess so,seems it's done to force the cervix to open.

Best1708:
Good evening lovely people, please this is urgent.
Who has done cervical ripening before, please help share your experience biko.

chocome:
Yes o she is a girl, I was actually hoping for a boy because I have two girls already so I wanted it to be a surprise to me thereby asking them not to disclose the sex during scan. But all the same am super happy and grateful to God Almighty, for some people are actually having sleepless nights, spending money, moving from place to place looking for a child but I did non of that and God blessed me

chocome:
B.A alert, B. A alert
My princess arrived on June 10 @6:20pm through emergency C. S

dunnybaby:
At last,I have an edd mate. We the Christmas Mama's but I don't know how giving birth close to Christmas or on Christmas day will be. Happy and stress-free journey to us sis.

EbyFloxy:
BA BA BA!!!
To the glory of God, I welcomed my handsome prince on Monday 07/06/21.
Birth weight: 3.2kg without tear.
Mother, hubby and baby doing just fine.
Wishing all my teamies all the best.

CC: Chocome

Senorita222:
Good morning mami
App says EED is 1jan 2022
But scan said 29 Dec 2021
Where do I belong now...Kai

Go with 29dec. The difference is not much.

tyhgfrdeswscbhf:
BA BA BA

Welcome my princess this morning through ELCS

EDD 21june 2021
DOB 7 June 2021

Baby weigh 3.7kg

Thanks to all June Mama's and Hebrewaim delivery to u all...and to all tcc fruit women this month won't pass u by., God will bless ur womb in Jesus name amen

opera260:
my wife one breast is bigger than the other side. what can cause this or is this normal

chocome:
Good morning ma'ams am here again,I pray for save delivery to all of us in this group. Amen

Rollcall for the second week of June.

1. chocome ___June 15. team surprise

2. Anisef ___June 10. team pink

3. MissFree ___June 18 team blue delivered June 1st 11pm √

4. Orangb ___June 7 team blue

5. Goldie50 ___June 7 team pink delivered June 1st √
6. Bibbzz ___June 29

7. best1708 ___June 8 team XY

8. Sexymum1 ___June24 team XX

9. Wetsmoke ___June1 team pink delivered June 7 √

10. EbyFloxy ____June 10 team blue

11. AbbynHummy___ June 11 team surprise

12. AbleGodDidIt ____ June 30 sex unknown

13. Alennsar ____ June 1 team unknown

14. Rosh83_____ June

15. Jogurl_____ June 28 team XX

16. Tessyj4______ June 12 team?

17. Tyhgfrdeswscbhf ____ June 21 team xx delivered June 7√

Congratulations to all the Nursing mothers for you have been promoted, Pls try and give us your BS so that we can learn from it and celebrate with you.
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Ayauche:
TEAM JULY 2021
ROLL CALL FOR 2ND WEEK Of JUNE

My dear beloved teamies, Team July the vibrant team, team with strong men and women and the cutest babies you can ever see.

Kindly say present and update us about everything.

NAME .................. EDD ......................SEX
Spakuls .............. 01/07/21 ............. XX
justifiedcoyy ....... 03/07/21 ............. XY
LeProfessor ........ 07/07/21 ............. XX & XY
tifelola .................. 17/07/21 ............. XY
Rukkington ........... 18/07/21 .............XX & XY
sexymomiyo ......... 19/07/21 ............. SURPRISE
Slimbae.................. 19/07/21.............. XY
Ayauche ................. 21/07/21 ............. XY
UnApologeTic1 ..... 25/07/21............. unknown
enque .................... 29/07/21 ............. XX
Iyamefa ................. 30/07/21 ............ XY
Goldengold2.......... 27/07/21............. XX
claseek................... 31/07/21............. unknown
spaq........................ 4/07/21............... unknown
twoMcfemad
thoseen21 .............. 3/07/21 .............. XY
Betgal ..................... 12/07/21 ............ XX
MumDuke ............... 25/07/21 ............ XY
Hazeleyezzzz1........ 10/07/21............. XX
Meggitto21.............. 17/07/21............ XY

Good evening my wonderful teamies, hope our day went well.
Ngwanu the count down has started oo. I hope we are done with shopping and our bags fully packed especially the front benchers. You know you can port right?

As for me am OK but the braxton hicks no be here, to turn or get up from the bed is something else and then the trip to the rest room is tiring.
I went for scan 2weeks ago and baby is already in cephalic position.

Fruit4me:
Good afternoon mummies, pls is it safe to use any lightning cream and soap during pregnancy? Cos I was told I shouldn’t use any cream at all and that it’s dangerous.

Omakraid:
Amen ma, thank you so much. I can't sit and allow negative thoughts ooo, infact I went to work the next day though I didn't do much. Instead of sitting and brooding over what is not, I'd rather arise and give glory to God.

Omakraid:
Amen ma, thank you so much. I can't sit and allow negative thoughts ooo, infact I went to work the next day though I didn't do much. Instead of sitting and brooding over what is not, I'd rather arise and give glory to God.

WetSmoke:
BA! BA!! BA!!!

To God be all the glory, my child of destiny, miracle princess arrived this afternoon. She weighed 3.1kg.

Mother and daughter are doing fine.

If I no serve God, wetin I gain oooo.

BS soon.

Cappo, take note.

Victoriouswoman:
I am Four months gone, got pregnant through ivf. I completed 29 this march. Been married since 2019 December. I just didnt want to wait as my husband was putting pressure on me. One thing i noticed from my husband was that even during ttc time he only makes love to me on my ovulation days, and we always quarrel because while we were dating he wasn't this way. He keeps on saying that he is saving the sperm all that. Then i notice he flirts with women on whatsapp and mostly ladies around us after quarrel he will delete their numbers. Yesterday friday he asked me to go visit his sister that had a failed iui transfer. Initially i accepted but i noticed i was sleeping all through the day, so i couldnt make it he kept on calling ask me if i have left for his sister's place? I lied to him that i am on my way there, this was past 7pm already, knowing fully well that the road is bad and the husband i know would had said it was too late to leave the house as at that time. I called him past 8pm that i am there. He told me that he was on his way home from work, and i told him that i was bored that we should be on the phone till he gets home, because his work place isnt far to our home. He kept on insisting that he wants to talk to his sister, and that he called her to confirm if i have gotten there already? I lied that his sister went to get fuel, just to distract him. Then i realised he was close to the house after i noticed his car headlight. Then i told him that i should help him open the gate, next thing i saw a girl ran out of his car, i told her not to bother because i have seen her. All to my surprise she is my husband's worker's younger sister. I just went inside and told them they can both come finish what they started in my matrimonial bed. The most painful part is that my husband makes love to me 3 times in a month and it was during my ovu period. Since i got pregnant we have only made love 3 times now after the first 3 months of my pregnancy! He doesn't touch me and to even think that friday morning i literally knelt down to beg him of sex but he refused all for him to send me to his sister and then brought a girl home. I have born so devastated. This pregnant is still early . Just need advice on what to do cause i am so confused

Best1708:
I learnt scans won't be accurate after 37,38 weeks, just stick to the EDD you were given at the first scan you did at the early stage of the pregnancy.

Omakraid:
It's a miscarriage. It is well. I wish everyone in the journey well. I'll be back soon by the grace of God. Thanks to everyone