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Vision4God:
A result of wat is called "FORCED MARRIAGE"

SMH

From reading the article, I didn't see any sign of force marriage there.

Yes, the OP is very very correct. Its unislamic to change ur surname to ur husband own just cos u got married. Changing of surname after marriage is a western culture and not even Africa culture. Even when I get married In sha Allah in future, I will tel my wife to retain her father's name cos that is d right thing to do. Although some ppl do combine both sha.

Until the age of 28, Marie Calvert had only
ever had sex with one man, her husband
Barry. Then she took up swinging and
everything changed. The body count went
from 1 to 3,000. In fact, she claims that
one night, she slept with 14 men. Marie, now
63, tells her epic story below...
It was the night I slept with 14 men
that I first started to try to work out
how many partners I’ve been with. The
truth is, I’m not sure. My conservative
estimate is about 100 guys a year for
more than three decades. I’m 63 now
and I’ve slowed down a little – but
only a little. Why do I do it? Having
sex isn’t something I do for a living,
but it is my passion. It’s the most
enjoyable, exhilarating, satisfying way
to spend your time. Some women like
yoga, some like badminton. I like
carnality.
I am actually married. Barry and I
have been together since I was 15 – we
wed when I was 19, have two
grandchildren, and he’s my world. But
neither of us puts sex on a pedestal.
We see it for what it is: separate from
love. It’s not natural to stick with one
sexual partner for 60 years. Life is
about experimenting and experiencing,
and that’s what we do. Barry goes with
other women. I don’t get jealous
because I know he loves me. Until the
age of 28, I’d only been with him and
we had a terrific sex life, but one day
he brought home a swingers’ magazine
he’d picked up from a workmate. He
sort of joked we should try it; I told
him not to be daft, and he never
mentioned it again.
But I kept looking at the mag and
imagining how fun it might be.
Eventually I told him we should give it
a go. He looked like a kid at Christmas.
The first couple we met – through the
listings in that magazine – were
university lecturers in their 40s, and I
still remember driving to their home
that Friday. Barry stopped the car
and said, “Are we sure about this?” We
were so nervous, but we were also
insanely excited. I said we’d try it
once and see how it went. And it went…
joyously.
As soon as we met them I was flirting
with the guy. John was sophisticated
and handsome, and over dinner there
was this intense chemistry. Afterwards,
there were a few minutes when just he
and I were in the living room, and I
thought it was now or never so I kissed
him, and that was that. By the time
Barry came in with John’s wife, we
were otherwise engaged. I remember
looking at Barry’s face and seeing a
big smile come over it; I knew
everything would be fine, and that
life had changed for ever.
We became committed swingers,
spending weekends meeting up with
couples or going to parties to swap
partners. Suddenly everything was
exciting. You’d be at work, and you’d
think about what you were up to that
evening and it sent a shiver down your
spine. Some couples – like John and his
wife – would become close friends,
even when the sex stopped. Others
you’d see only once. The night I slept
with 14 men was at a swingers’ party in
Manchester. I remember driving there
feeling almost uncontrollably lustful.
The next day I felt achy, in that lovely
way, like when you’ve been to the gym.
In 1997, we decided to open a
swingers’ club in Sheffield. We were
fed up with work and wanted to do
something we were passionate about.
It’s still thriving today. We never have
sex during opening hours – it’s our
business and we’re professional about
it. But, of course, when the place
shuts, we’ve got an entire club full of
facilities – and an ever-growing circle
of open-minded couples – to play with.
It’s not all been perfect, of course.
Not every lover is attentive. I
remember in my 40s going with an 18-
year-old, just to see what it would be
like. Quick was the answer.
We’re safety-conscious and I’ve never
felt in any danger. Barry is normally
in the same room or not far away. I’ve
recently had a knee operation, which
means I’m walking with a stick, so I’m
taking it easy. I had only three lovers
last year. I still have the same sex
drive but I’m more relaxed now. I’m
not someone who’s ever going to dress
like a woman half her age just to get
attention. But if guys still find me
attractive – well, why not? People ask
if we have any regrets and we do – we
wish we’d found that mag five or six
years earlier.

Culled from UK Guardian

http://www.lindaikeji..de/2015/02/i-am-63-and-i-have-slept-with-3000-men.html?m=1
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1toRtoiSe1:
Shameless protest

Pls what is shameless in demanding for your right?

BlackPeni5:
Guy...I've lived in Kano before. the city is populated, no doubt but it's only half of the population on paper.

It is more than that pls. Do u know that the northerners has more birth rate than the south? So that add to their population.

BlackPeni5:
The project (Fly over) is totally unnecessary because the vehicular traffic in Kano is low. Looks more like wasted cash to me.

Eeehhhh, wat did u just say, do u know how that fly overs has realy help in reducing the traffic that motorists encounters around that side? Do u know the population of Kano at all?
Pls try to get knowledge of something before spewing out trash so that u will nt be laugh at.

Etetejake:
this nearly happen to a jss 3 girl that always come o my house for further learning. I help her in explaining some subjects she finds difficult like maths, economics, literature and also in her assignments. Then came a copper to their school who started using their innocency to gain sexual pleasure. she with other of her classmates started visiting the guy in the name of washing for him and fetching him water. I quickly realised wot the guy was up to and had to date her just to keep her from the wolves in sheep clothings for some years and it worked. Though she was too small to b my girl and that I never lov her, o am glad she now know y I did what I did. Mind u, I didn't touch her. I know some foul minds out here will start thinking I did.

Kudos to u guy, u hav a mature and responsible mind. If its another guy now, he will misuse it thinking he is enjoying. We need more people like u in the society that can differentiate between good and bad

UnimkeAk:
Menh I no even see nylon, come to talk condom for my camp.. Every morning my duty na 2 chk if I go c used cd 4 ground, I no see.

And I b sure guy, my eyes and ears d always dey ground.

I kno say pple must def. knack tins buh it wasn't as most of u guys always portray it to be.

Even after camp we had different couples yes.. But it wasn't indiscriminate sex as also u guys like to paint it.

The one I was a witness 2 but which I strongly condemn was the piaksing of female students.. I have junior sisters 4 crying out loud. But the blame is 50:50 u need 2 see the way female students throw themselves at male corpers.

The students are naive and young with little or no experience, so the corp members shld nt take that as an advantage to be having sex wit the female students.
For God, they are teacher and shld ask as teacher and role model, the students are entrusted to them to mentor and teach. They shld all remember they hav sisters and will hav daughters too in future.

Alot of youths incurred curses and diseases during the service year, and then dey will be suprise why is their life spiral down after service.
All wat OP quoted happens and its very bad and should be condemned in it entirely. Imagine someone here saying he see nothing bad in it, depraved mind, will he allowed or wish such to happen to his sister, wife or daughter?

JayTeeA:
nope.. but I schooled in d north

Ok thought u schooled in BUK.

more .....

I don't know which section to post, so I decided to post this funny scenario on the general section.

According to someone who spotted
this, it happened in a village called Amia in
the Ukuwani LGA of Delta state.



Kinda funny

JayTeeA:
move this to joke section...
even BUK sef

Gal, do u schooled in BUK?

This is allegedly the new notice posted
around Lagos State University concerning
student dress code..


Source: http://www.lindaikeji..de/2015/02/dress-code-for-lasu-students.html?m=1

so to u tosyne2much and ur advocates, its ok for ppl that are nt virgin to be bragging abt their sexual prowess and their sex experience and its a crime to a non virgin to brag or even proudly say openly that he orshe is a virgin.
That is a hypocritical assertion.
Virgins should be hailed and encourage to hold on nt bash while mon virgin shld also be encourage to become secondary virgin and protect their private parts till marriage.
Let live life according to Hod standard.

urchbarbie:
All dese traumatized dudes! I wonder wat kind of training uld give ur children when u av dis kind of warped mentality. Smh

Don't mind that hypocrite, they will be talking as if they don't have sisters at home or will nt have female children in future?
Will he agree for someone to tel his sisters or female children wat he just spew out? Its ppl like him that has make women to be like a sexual object.

kelish:
son r u sure jesus dnt hv 2 cum nd do d deliverance 4 u

Deliverance for who Hahahahaha. Maybe u shld come and do deliverance for me since u are nt far away

okoyemike:
When I remember Sanusi, all I could think of is wasted tuition fee.

See his life despite his Education.

Rather I will say its on you that tuition fees was wasted. Ignorant intolerant bigot.

A mortuary employee has admitted to
having sex with corpses ‘many, many times’
– but says his boss forced him to have sex
with a dead woman as ‘training’.

Sharkur Lucas alleged that bosses at the
Korle Bu Teaching Hospital in Ghana
‘taught’ him how to have sex with the dead.
Lucas told Adom TV, ‘That is one part of
the training when you start with the
mortuary job. They ask you to sleep with
dead bodies.
‘Once you have sex with them, you will not
be afraid of them again.’
Lucas says that he has now been fired by
the mortuary, and is wanted by police.
‘They called policemen to come and arrest
me. They told me I didn’t have access to
the mortuary,’ he said.
After his ‘training’, Lucas admitted that he
resorted to necrophilia because women
wouldn’t go out with a ‘mortuary man’.
Mortuary work is my talent,’ he says
‘Something that God put in you.
‘Because I am a mortuary man, women
think they can’t be friends with me.
‘I can’t be rushing up and down trying to
find women,’ he said. ‘So, yes, I do that.’
When asked if he had mental problems,
Lucas laughed and said, ‘No sir, I am OK.’-
culled
http://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2015/02/mortuary-worker-admits-sleeping-with.html?m=1
source:

I can see alot of intolerants ignoramus ignorants that has allow hatred to becloud their pea sized brain spewing thrash as usual.

Humphrey Khoza, 25, used his laptop to
film himself having sex with his 17-year-
old girlfriend without her knowledge, with
the video later finding its way onto social
media.
But after the video went viral, the furious
teenager confronted Khoza in a pub,
calling him a ‘dog’ before throwing battery
acid over his lap.
Everything happened in a blink of an eye
because I saw her when she was coming with
a bottle but I didn’t realise that she was
carrying acid,’ Khoza, from Mpumalanga,
South Africa, told Citi FM Online.
‘She just angrily called me a dog. She
asked how in the world I could have done
such an evil thing to her. It was only then
that I realised that she was talking about
the video that I took while we were having
sex.’
Khoza, who said he doesn’t know how the
video ended up on social media, has been
told his penis will never work again and he
has to urinate through a tube.
‘Even if I press charges it is useless because
it won’t bring back my manhood. Her being
in jail will just ruin her future because she
is still young and I do not have the energy
to attend courts,’ he said.culled

source: http://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2015/02/girl-pours-acid-on-boos-pens-after.html?m=1

suxes2005:
I think you need to cut em some slack. What works for you might not work for everybody. Must you go thru the white men's way before you know you're married?

So have dey gone thru African way before havin a child out of wedlock?

MaziOmenuko:
Relationship comes with the entire package; love, sex, trust, commitment, respect etc.

If you're not ready for love, or commitment, or sex...just stay away from relatnships and be on your own: that way, no one will ask you of sex.

Btw, let me deviate too, if he had waited for 6months before asking, would it have made a difference?

So to u now, anybody un a relationship should give in to sex? What about knowing eachother well before marriage devoid of sex. I don't believe with the notion that anybody in a relationship must have sex, that is a low thinking. Relationship is nt about sex bt abt understanding eachother in preparation to getting to the aisle.

uncjay:
How aggressive...lol..dy no born una make una no respond...chai! Ignored!

Where is the aggressiveness? He asked a question and he was properly replied. Shikenan

agoadiv:
so dis gurl na Muslim
..chai

Don't you know before. She is a proud muslim from Ikorodu in Lagos State. Is there anything wrong in her being a muslim?

konny1:
This is not true, min amount for prof. is 1m per month.

Where did u get that lie from?

A mild drama occurred on Tuesday at the
political debate organised by the Committee
for Defence of Human Rights, CDHR, Ogun
State Chapter, for governorship candidates,
as one of the contenders found it difficult
to boldly face the public and attend to
questions.

The debate which took place at DLK hall in
Abeokuta, exposed the shy side of the
governorship Candidate of Mega Progressive
Peoples Party, Iyabo Ogunmefun, who
found it difficult to face the audience.
Ms. Ogunmefun became apparently jittery
when given a question and handed a
microphone, resulting into uncontrollable
laughter from the public, with many of
them describing her as a clown.
When the organisers noticed she was not
fluent in her English presentation, the
MPPP candidate was given the opportunity
to address the audience in her mother
tongue, Yoruba.
Ironically, she faced the same challenge of
not being able to face the crowd.
Meanwhile, the governorship candidates who
appeared for the debate include: Gboyega
Isiaka(PDP)
Abolaji Sunmola(LP)
Benjamin Onafadeji(NCP)
Eyiowuawi Razaq(PPN)
Olufowobi Adebayo(KOWA)
Olawoyin Solomon(CPP)
Iyabode Ogunmefun(MPPP)-
-premiumtimes reportage.

source: http://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2015/01/ogun-governorship-candidate-becomes.html?m=1

sojiboy:
I stop arguing with people like you since the day Jonathan said "stealing is not corruption"

Go sit down for one side abeg, patriotism is nt blindness.