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Foreign Affairs › Israel Refuses Turkish Offerto Supply Gaza Withelectricity by abdulkayus(op): 7:54pm On Dec 06, 2014
Israel has refused a Turkish offer to send a
floating power-generating ship to the Gaza
coast to supply the coastal enclave with
electricity, Arabs48 reported yesterday.
In the wake of the recent Israeli war on the
Gaza Strip, Israel targeted the sole
electricity plant in the Strip and massively
damaged electricity infrastructure, Turkey
offered to cover the electricity shortage.
According to Israeli reports, Turkey has
officially asked Israel to issue a permit for
a Turkish ship carrying huge electricity
generators to be stationed off the Gaza
coast.
Arabs48 reported Israeli security sources
saying that specialists had found that the
infrastructure in the Gaza Strip is not
suitable for such a connection and that is
why the Turkish offer was refused.
The same sources said that other ideas to
solve the electricity crisis in Gaza were
proposed, including mobile generators
carried by trucks, but all were refused.

https://www.middleeastmonitor.com/news/middle-east/15625-israel-refuses-turkish-offer-to-supply-gaza-with-electricity
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Stoke Vs Arsenal (3 - 2) On 6th December 2014 by abdulkayus(m): 4:46pm On Dec 06, 2014
3 goallllllssssss now
Romance › Re: Is Virginity Due To Lack Of Opportunity? by abdulkayus(m): 9:15am On Dec 04, 2014
AwesomeRims:
The guy must b a bloody gay and he's too stupid to accept that fact. At 32 he's meant to b married and done wiv child bearing. Oloshi
See this guy abeg, y d abuse? is it that you are jealous or what? or u are regretting for losing urs
Romance › Re: Former Escort Who Slept With 10,000 Men Is Ready To Settle Down by abdulkayus(op): 10:06pm On Dec 01, 2014
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Romance › Former Escort Who Slept With 10,000 Men Is Ready To Settle Down by abdulkayus(op): 10:00pm On Dec 01, 2014
After sleeping with 10,091 men over 12 years in a drug and alcohol induced haze, former escort Gwyneth Montenegro is finally ready to settle down and experience true love for the first time.

The 36-year-old received an astounding 80 marriage proposals after the last time the Melbourne resident spoke to Daily Mail Australia in July about the launch of her book, 10,000 Men and Counting.

The overwhelming response to the insight into her former seedy lifestyle got Gwyneth thinking that maybe she was ready to meet a good man - something she never felt comfortable doing when being paid $500 to $1000 an hour to have sex with well-known lawyers, politicians and musicians.

'It awoke something within me when the article was published - not that I'm in a rush to be married,' she said.

'There were some working in the industry who were dating people and married but for me personally I didn't find it appropriate.'

'I found it easier to avoid relationships during my time in the industry. The two just don't mix. I tried it once, it was an utter disaster.'

Since leaving her old life behind three years ago, Ms Montenegro wears many hats as a commercial pilot, an NLP Master Practitioner and, of course, now an author.

'I was a little over men at that point in time of my life and found my businesses infinitely more stimulating,' she said.

But Gwyneth is now ready and raring to give the dating game a go. 'My parents didn't get married until their late 30s and they have been married for 33 years,' she said.

Despite growing up in a contrast world being raised by devout Christians, her parents are her number one supporters.

'Mum joked that she thought I would have had enough of men by now,' she laughed.

Ms Montenegro said the years of men paying her for sex gave her a good insight into what men want from a woman.

'Clients would confide in me about the good and bad parts of their relationship,' she said.

'I feel I have a deeper understanding of men than ever before.'

Writing the book was a therapeutic experience that helped her to discover her true self and become comfortable with it - as she describes herself as the 'girl next door'.

'I'm fairly introverted and conservative,' she said. 'I'm the last person my friends ever expected to have lived that kind of life.'

Gwyneth fell into the escort world after she was gang-raped during a night-out at a club at just 18 years-old when her low self- esteem and lust for money led her to table top dancing before heading into sex work.

After dabbling in the online dating game and deciding it wasn't for her, she believes that relationships should evolve organically. 'I believe in the energy I put out there I will get back,' she explains.

Gwyneth has only ever been in two relationships before that only lasted about a year.

'I’m contemplating it, I’d love to. I’ve never really experienced what you’d consider true love or what it’s like to be totally in love.'

She is now a woman who well and truly knows what she is looking for.

'I can be a handful, I am headstrong and determined. I like a man who is calmly confident, in charge, but not bombastically so,' she said.

'I’ve spent a lifetime looking after my body and I respect that in any potential partner.

'He certainly doesn’t have to be a model or a muscle bound fireman, I’d give preference to a fun personality any day.'

Gwyneth's former life, which involved blowing tens of thousands of dollars on a new car, clothes and cocaine, has sparked interest from Hollywood with Gywneth in secret negotiations with a famous producer.

'I can't say at the moment but everyone would know who she is - it is most likely going to happen,' she said.

'It's quite a long process but we should know this month or the next.'

source: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2855463/I-m-ready-love-Former-escort-turned-girl-door-slept-10-000-men-ready-settle-down.html

Romance › Re: Why Do Girls React When Asked"are You A Virgin? by abdulkayus(m): 8:18am On Nov 16, 2014
iamchiddy:
well, i have done that a couple of times, and like i wrote somewhere earlier, it was not a good experience. moreover, some become uncontrollable sexually once they have eaten the forbidden fruit. please learn from the masters.
That is y its advisable to remain intact till marriage.
Romance › Re: Why Do Girls React When Asked"are You A Virgin? by abdulkayus(m): 8:02am On Nov 16, 2014
F117AA:
Why do guys even bother?
There are no more virgins of marriageable age in Nigeria.
Just hope and pray, the lady you want to get to married to has slept with at most only 10 men.
There are still lot of virgins around. Come to the core north, u will see them.
A female friend of mine got married last week as a virgin at d age of 26
Romance › Re: Why Do Girls React When Asked"are You A Virgin? by abdulkayus(m): 7:59am On Nov 16, 2014
nnekamezor:
No, E/Ukwu.
Enugwu Ukwu before Abagana in Njikoka LG of Anambra state.
I served in Anambra state, Nawfia precisely more than two years ago.
First time of coming to the East . Still has good of Anambra, wish to visit there again one day
Romance › Re: Why Do Girls React When Asked"are You A Virgin? by abdulkayus(m): 7:56am On Nov 16, 2014
iamchiddy:
have you bleeped a virgin before?
Nope, y shld I?
But will love to marry one
Romance › Re: Why Do Girls React When Asked"are You A Virgin? by abdulkayus(m): 7:55am On Nov 16, 2014
mirabell23:
To remain a virgin a decision we all hav to make our selves am 17 and still a virgin.and i dont see my self loosin it to any guy in da nxt 6 years.....its difficult for most guys to believe and i dont knw y...probably cos dey hav never been with a virgin...dosent mean u shld also say dere r no more virgins.....my frnds sometimes make me feel bad weneva dey say ' babe u r missin out....just look for a guy daz worth it..nd giv it to him...u r nt yet a woman'.......mornin y'all
Girl, don't mind those one that tells you that u are missing out. Sex is only an enjoyment of few minutes bt can cause a problem of lifetime and regret.
Devil always find a way of calling people to his path.
Those your non virgin friends wish they are virgin as you bt nope their cherry has been pop and the d virginity has been lost forever. But mon virgin can still abstain and have pride in them.
Your friends will nt tel u d consequences of it (sex) vis a vis pregnancy, diseases, pain during d abortion and being label after one when they giv birth out of wedlock, or even their plan of life disrupt due to unwanted pregnancy. We jav seen it happen.

Gal pls don't succumb to their pressure, and stop telling everyone that you are a virgin, just keep it to your self.
And also avoid going to a guy house or being in a seclud place wit a guy cos when a man and a woman are alone or secluded in a place, the third of them is d devil that will incite them to immorality.
Romance › Re: Why Do Girls React When Asked"are You A Virgin? by abdulkayus(m): 7:43am On Nov 16, 2014
iamchiddy:
thanks but as for me, this virginity of a thing for girls is highly over-rated. in my life i have bleeped a couple of virgins, and trust me, it was not worth the effort. a level of experience is very important in anything you do.
Virginity is never overrated but underrated. Dos gal that become experience in sex today were once virgins, so every virgins has d tendency to bexome experience at d right time.
I will prefer to marry a virgin and we become experience in sex together wit each other legally than marru someone who has sex ip and down wit every di..ck and harry all in d name of experience.
Romance › Re: Why Do Girls React When Asked"are You A Virgin? by abdulkayus(m): 7:11am On Nov 16, 2014
iamchiddy:
what is my business with a virgin man, he can stay stay as long as he wants. my interest is in virginias. finding a virgin in Nigeria is like finding a boko boy in my room.
That is a lie, despite the immorality around, there are still lot of virgins around.
Come to the core, u will still get a lot of virgins, trust me
Romance › Re: Why Do Girls React When Asked"are You A Virgin? by abdulkayus(m): 6:55am On Nov 16, 2014
iamchiddy:
ADONBILIVIT. or maybe you are so ugly that you became a virgin because guys don't find you attractive and not by choice. So park well.
See this one abeg. So u think everyone is like you. If u don't know there are many beautiful gals amd handsomeen out there who are still virgin. It's a matter of self control and fear of God
Romance › Re: What Was The Duration Of Your Shortest Relationship? How Was It? by abdulkayus(m): 10:29pm On Nov 14, 2014
You guy start a relationship and already start havin mad sex within 3 days and u claim it's all fun. Na wa oooooo.

This is not issue of being a saint or hypocrite bt mehnnnn hmmmmmm, and wit ur pic on d dp, the guy wil be bragging that he shag yoy crazy within 3 days
Romance › Re: Surprisingly They Are Still Virgins Everywhere by abdulkayus(m): 10:15pm On Nov 14, 2014
midasbliss:
Virginity isnt purity... plus Ritualists are everywhere o .. grin
Virginity is dignity and show that they have more self control
Romance › The Unbiased Truth About Cheating... by abdulkayus(op): 10:07pm On Nov 14, 2014
The issue of cheating on a loved one is
at its peak, hurting people is just
criminal and kills them slowly, this
time of the year is usually what I call
cheating time because, one we are in a
season of showoff all you have
accomplished for the year, be you
married, single or what ever class you
belong.
The truth is that everyone must blame
someone for the wrongs happening to
them, but are we really looking at the
right source? I would try and break it
down as much as I can. The first
gender I wanna tackle is the male
gender, single and married.
The truth about cheating is that is a
habit, and everyone knows habits are
things you have done often over a long
time, as a young single man, you found
pleasure in going in and out of
relationships because getting out was a
cool way of avoiding the problems you
encountered in your relationship, this
ultimately meant you also kept sleeping
with different women and hence you
already picked up a habit,
unknowingly!
Soon you began to do two or more
relationships at once, instead of learning
how to groom a relationship and cherish it,
you schooled yourself on finding joy in
screwing different women, soon you grew
into a man who wanted a wife and kids
which ultimately meant you wanted a home,
but you have never succeeded in being with
one woman or surviving hard times in a
relationship, you didn't learn how effective
communication could fix issues before they
become serious problems, your way of
getting over issues was being with someone
else.
Getting married doesn't automatically
change your habits. You should mould
your character before Marriage. Now
you are married, with a wife and kids,
of course you have been cheating on
her the minute she got pregnant or as
soon she started to have stretch marks
and added weight, she can't do all she
used to do to rock your bed, because
your focus as always been on sex, you
no longer see any reason to
communicate with her and tell her
what u fink, BOTH OF YOU, can do to
better your sex life.
You will rather resort to your usual way of
doing things, "get on the next available
flight leading to no where"
Your problem dear married randy men
isn't your wife, your problem has been
you, you have lacked character from a
young age, you never had time to know
what was required of you in a
relationship, there is a thousand
things to learn in a relationship, that's
why you are allowed to date before you
get married, you don't learn
communication by jumping around,
you don't learn how to be satisfied
with what you have by not adding value
to it, you don't learn to adapt to the
changes that comes with what you
have, if you never really spend time
understanding how to adapt to the
changes and maximize it, if you never
been through a good change before,
how do you find strength in going
through a new one?
Forget the single girl out there, you made a
vow to your wife! Fear God, be a man and
keep it. if you are in a relationship, stay
there! Make it work, learn, grow, don't
jump around looking for the easy way out,
because you will discover that over time you
have not grown in intra-personal
relationships. so when you get married
tomorrow when your wife no longer has all
the energy for your always eager manhood,
you would give her your company rather
than your absence, because the reason she
lost her shape, her firm breast, the reason
she is no longer as good as she used to be is
all because of YOU.
Secondly young men you must strive to
fear God, no one likes to hear this
part, there is a popular saying, it is
hard to change from what you are
used to doing, thou shall not commit
fornication! It sounds difficult and
silly but check out the adverse effect
it would have on your tomorrow! If the
woman you will get married to
tomorrow is your first sexual encounter
how would u then learn cheating at old
age? How would you know that if your
wife who is no longer a little girl who
has sex with you all the time just to
keep you, doesn't have such time
anymore because she now has ALOT to
take care of, that when she doesn't
give it to you, there is a lazy girl out
there waiting for a few thousands in
exchange for her pride?
Men and young boys we seriously need to
work on our character and relationship with
God. We make women fight and hate
themselves, because we are a not grown
character wise, we make it look like these
women are not good enough! You enjoy
watching them fight over you? It isn't
because you are special its because they
don't really know who you are and what
they should want!
Fornication creates the habit of always
wanting sex, sex creates the urge to always
want to blind give so as to avoid any
resistance from the woman, that habit gives
birth to not having enough....that habit has
given birth to who you are now! A RANDY
SERIAL CHEATING GROWN KID!

source: http://www.lindaikeji..com.es/2014/11/the-unbiased-truth-about-cheating.html?m=1
Romance › Re: Georgette Monnou: Co- Habitation – Necessary Or Pointless? by abdulkayus(op): 4:59pm On Nov 09, 2014
To me its nt necessary. U can live wit someone for dozen years and still nt kbow him/her wholly
Romance › Re: Georgette Monnou: Co- Habitation – Necessary Or Pointless? by abdulkayus(op): 4:56pm On Nov 09, 2014
To me its nt necessary.
Romance › Georgette Monnou: Co- Habitation – Necessary Or Pointless? by abdulkayus(op): 4:18pm On Nov 09, 2014
It is really important to spend time with
your partner before you decide to marry
them. I mean really spend time with them,
i.e. co-habitiate. To clarify what I mean by
co-habitation, I mean frequent and
periodic “sleepovers”.
I was speaking to a friend about this over
the weekend. She was surprised by the idea,
and I reminded her that this concept is not
new. Couples these days spend time at each
other’s houses, especially if they both live
abroad. In Nigeria however, things might be
a little more complicated. If the girl still
lives with her parents, it might be much
harder for her to justify her absence from
home. To her parents, there are probably no
circumstances that would allow her new
friend to spend the night at hers or vice
versa. However, should this ban on sleepovers
change?
A lot of the time women speak excitedly
about getting married and what they would
do in their marital home. They get pressured
to find a man, however what happens once
they get married? Women everywhere talk
about how there is no guidance for them
once married; they are just expected to
wing it. One way to find out how things might
be when you are married to the love of your
life is by sleeping over periodically. You will
find out his daily routine, his habits and
what he expects from you on a daily basis.
Call me naïve but things aren’t supposed to
change too drastically in terms of how you
both relate with one another once married.
Working on that premise, then co-habitation
is a perfect way to figure out what will
happen before the wedding day. As I am
writing this, I can already see Mama
Funke’s disapproving eyes.
You may then argue, but these are things she
will eventually have to get used to once she
is married, so what’s the point? Yes that
may be so, but there might be certain traits
she dislikes and can either choose to get
used to earlier, work with her partner to
change, or it might be a deal breaker and
she can promptly exit the building before it
is too late. Co-habitation eases the
transition for both people once married and
allows them to make more informed choices.
Why make the early years of marriage more
difficult than it need be? Co-habitate!
What do you think?
source: http://www.bellanaija.com/2014/11/07/georgette-monnou-co-habitation-necessary-or-pointless/
Romance › Re: Things Men Consider Before Committing To A Relationship by abdulkayus(m): 9:12pm On Nov 02, 2014
FLAWLES:
abeg shut uP(advice)
LOL did I stroke a nerve? what is your problem wit my opinion? Or u don use urs get experience up and down ni?
Romance › Re: Things Men Consider Before Committing To A Relationship by abdulkayus(m): 6:26am On Nov 02, 2014
I will prefer to marry a virgin than an experienced woman. The experienced woman was once a virgin also, so ur virgin wife will also become experience later.

The guys who claimed that they prefer experience woman, wil u advice ur sisters or daughters to start having sex before marriage?
Education › University Of Zimbabwe Condemned Forkissing Ban by abdulkayus(op): 7:38pm On Oct 23, 2014
A student kissing ban imposed by the
University of Zimbabwe is "nonsensical", a
student representative has told the BBC.
A circular from the university authorities
said those "caught in an intimate position"
on the Harare campus would be disciplined.
"In this age to say I'm no longer allowed to
kiss or hug someone... is unreasonable,"
Tsitsi Mazikana said.
The university has not commented on the
students' objections to the ruling.
It was issued at the beginning of the new
academic year as part of a list of
"misconducts that attract immediate
eviction from halls of residence".
The University of Zimbabwe circular list 11
"misconducts" that will result in eviction
The list of 11 points also includes bans on
squatters and cooking in bedrooms.
Fourth on the list of behaviour that will
result in eviction says: "Caught in intimate
position (kissing or having sex in public
places)".
Ms Mazikana, who is the students' gender
representative, said that the campus
already had strict rules for those
fraternising with the opposite sex.
In single-sex hostels, for example, residents
were only permitted visitors in the foyer
and no visits were permitted after 22:00,
she said.
Ms Mazikana said the ban had less to do
with morality and more to do with controlling
students who were "not happy about the way
they are running the university".
"If they were talking about anything moral
they wouldn't be placing condoms in the
hostels and in the clinic, but... kissing and
hugging - there's nothing immoral about
that," she told the BBC's Newsday
programme.
The Zimbabwe National Students Union
(Zinasu) said the university administration
had a habit of instituting arbitrary rules
without consulting student bodies.
The union was organising a petition against
the campus kissing ban, Zinasu's Gift Maposa
told the BBC's Focus on Africa programme.
There were already strict regulations
infringing the students' rights to
demonstrate - introduced in 1997 - which
instilled a fear of being expelled, he said.
The BBC's Brian Hungwe in the capital,
Harare, says the students often accuse the
university authorities of being out of touch
with the young.
Beer was banned on campus about seven
years ago, which proved very unpopular, he
says.


source; http://m.bbc.com/news/world-africa-29722678?ocid=socialflow_facebook
Romance › Re: Ask A Retired Womanizer Any Question On Love, Sex & Marriage. by abdulkayus(m): 5:24pm On Oct 22, 2014
This guy, I mean the OP still cheat on his wife, that y he said he is a responsible husband and a loving father bt nt a saint, we all grab it nah.

A promiscuous person is alway a promiscuous person. They hardly stop cheating.

U even seem confuse, asking God to forgive u bt still advocating and advising peeps to continue sinning.

Na wa ooooi
Family › Re: 3,000 Applicant Screened For Gombe Mass Wedding by abdulkayus(m): 2:01pm On Oct 21, 2014
See lot of viewers, waiting for abuses to start rainin frm d viewers
Christianity Etc › Re: Hilarious Church Crusade Poster (pics) by abdulkayus(m): 8:14am On Oct 21, 2014
Just laffing here like mad.
I saw a lot of this in Anambra when I was doin my NYSC there. The SE and SS are more gullible of this. And despite all this churches, peeps are still very corrupt. Religion has been relegated to a superficial thing
Education › Mass Failure At Nigerian Law School As Over3,000 Students Fail Bar Exam by abdulkayus(op): 8:28pm On Oct 18, 2014
Apparently there was mass failure at the
Nigerian Law School this year. The Nigerian
Law School recently released the 2013/2014
August result, and it was a Tsunami. Out of
the 5,000 candidates who registered, only
about 2,000 passed. Meaning that about
3,000 students failed the bar exam, the
highest failure the Nigerian Law School has
witnessed since its 50 years of existence.
Many of the students are angry and
frustrated. They say they don't believe the
mass failure is the fault of the students
and are now asking for a review of their
results. An affected student who reached
out to LIB said; Continue...
"People have worked their butt off for
this exam, people have ran literally
mad for this exam, these same people
have invested their life savings for this
exam, people who lost their parents
prior to this exam had to muster the
strength to write this exam and the
Director general of the Nigerian law
school who is responsible for the this
mass failure doesn't see reasons with
these people. He said he's raising a
standard but all we see is a high
standard of failure!"
Another student said
"Do we say 3000 students payed
N300,000 not counting expenses for a
year, feeding,books, then prepared to
fail? We are calling for a review"


source: http://www.lindaikeji..com.es/2014/10/mass-failure-at-nigerian-law-school-as.html?m=1
Celebrities › Re: Bikini Pictures Of Nigerian Female Celebrities by abdulkayus(m): 6:23pm On Oct 18, 2014
Misogynist2014:
Women and slûtty clothes are two jolly friends. cheesy cheesy Men would tell them they are beautiful but sees them as näked, unintelligent beings. Their story is like that of the föölish king and his invisible clothes. Women are stüpid!!! cheesy
They say it's freedom. If someone cover up all her sensitive part pf d body, dey call them archaic.
Wat a world.
The female folks are being deceive that exposing their body make dem beautiful bt dem nt knowing that they are being ise as sex objects
Education › Re: Court Upholds Ban On Use Of Hijab In Lagos Public Schools by abdulkayus(m): 3:36pm On Oct 18, 2014
akinsadeez:
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IRK and CRK being taught in schools because they are required subjects for you to read some courses in the university. for example, you can't read Islamic education, or Islamic law without having at least a credit in IRK in waec and IRK being part of ur jamb combination. So also, some universities request a combination of english, govt, literature, CRK for u to read some courses like Law, Mass com. e.t.c So IRK and CRK being offered in schools is not purely for religious purposes or sentiments....they are required subjects.
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As for the issue of fellowship, I can tell you from personal experience that there are public schools which alternate their fellowships. i.e Christians lead the morning fellowship on designated days like Mondays n Thursdays while Muslims lead on Tuesdays and Thursdays and both groups have seperate fellowships on Fridays.
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Wearing of Hijab has not been outlawed in the state, it has only been outlawed within the four walls of a public school. wearing hijab creates a form of segregation/ distinction. If you enter a classroom you can immediately differentiate between the Muslim and the christian girls through the hijab they are wearing which should not be so. This breeds a situation where a class is divided along religious lines.
Section 10 of our constitution was placed there for a reason. let's keep it that way.
Guy u can keep on skirting around the point bt u hav no point. So muslim students puting on hijab constitute to segregation according to ur ideology abi?
Why did u advocate for banning of hijab in all government public buildings then since it constitute segregation?
Guy u hav no point, just agree. Lady tym I remember, its nt force on non muslim, so wat are non muslims wahala over muslims issue?
Education › Re: Court Upholds Ban On Use Of Hijab In Lagos Public Schools by abdulkayus(m): 8:22am On Oct 18, 2014
And all the noise abt Nigeria being a secular nation is jus on paper. Nigeria is a religious countries that religion play a role in their daily life.
If Nigeria is truly a secular nation, government would nt be sponsoring both religion pilgrimage, prayers would nt be offered before meeting, government would hav nothing to do wit religion. Does the president even govern or rule Nigeria wit secularity mindset?
U guys only bring d issue of secularism when it favour u.

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