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Well since u don't know my parents you obviously cannot tell me if they are really happy or not. The point is that you totally believe your own statement that marriage is the end of life that's why you don't want to hear any other fact that puts doubts on your own story. I know my parents, I know the sacrifices they have made to be together. They are utterly devoted to each other and I know for a fact that they are really happy.

You stated earlier that men are expected to give their whole life to their wife and kids and I countered your point telling you that marriage is an equal sharing of both lives. Both men and women are supposed to devote their lives to each other and striveto build a happy home. My own mother who is not Nigerian  left her country to follow my father to Nigeria and didn't see her family for 18 years straight. If that is not love and devotion, I don't know what is.  Incase you are thinking my mom didn't see parents because of lack of money, let me just tell you that my father sent all 5 of his kids overseas  for college.

My darling, I am fine ooh, just been really busy with work. How have u been?

Abi ooh ebony, was just abt to ask him the same thing.

@ krissy, i still think you are wrong and your arugment is very one sided. Men and women have to tolerate each other and and marriage is a equal sharing of lives. Just as the man has to live his life for wife, so will the wife live her life for her husband. Maybe I am jaded cos I have wonderful role models in my parents, they spend all of their time together, my father neva does anything without talking to my mother first, this tells me he respects and values her opinion. Till today, they still run around the house playing with each other, it's common place for  me and my siblings to enter my parents room early in the morning and see my father holding my mom while they sleep and my father is in his sixties.  The last time I went home on vacation, I remember coming home from hanging out wih friends, my father was sitting on a couch and my mom was on the carpet in between his legs. , his fingers was playing in her hair and they were just sitting like that watching tv. This is after 35 years of marriage. I am not trying to paint a cinderella story here as they have thier arguments like any other couple, but there is deep respect, trust and abiding love between my parents. I am sure if you asked my father if his marriage was the end of his life, I am sure he would tell you it was the beginning of his life. Just my 2 cents.

Umm ssscuse me, in my experience, Naija boys come last when it comes to kissing.

Lol googles, you don crase finish, *death at beckylese*

Krissy and harikiri got it wrong, the situation u just decribed will happen if u get married to the wrong person. This is why marrying your best friend is so important, someone who understands you, someone who is willing to give as well as receive, someone who will love and stand by you in good and bad times. Guys and Girls take the time to know your chosen partners before committing your whole life to them. It's not by force to get married ooh.

^^^becky ko, yekini ni

@ pweety, this story don pass moonlight ooh, that's why I called it tales by moonshine lol.
@ ayettybaby, my dear, I dey ooh. Just so busy these days.

Lol na wah for ur tales by moonshine ooh. Sounds like a script out of an Indian movie

@ ebony: you and ur pictures ehn, so fuuny
@ poster, it is not easy to lose weight, it takes a lot of dedication and motivation. First of all you have to encourage her and support her in a positive way, she needs to get a job or some activity out of the house, so she will not spend her day watching movies, sleeping and stuffing her face. You also need to go to the gym with her and work out with her. Naijas as a whole don't like to workout. If you want her to lose weight, buy and eat healthy foods in your house and go to the gym with her. Good luck!

lol KGdavid, you are mean.

I am sure the problem they have with ur girl is her ibo heritage. A lot of Yoruba and ibo parents are tribalistic dunno why sha. My own father has told his children that he will only accept Yoruba spouses for his children. I have not even bothered dating an ibo guy cos I know my father will say hell no if I take him home. Besides, I like my Yoruba men so nothing do me. If u love your ibo girl, stick with her, but it's always better to listen to ur parents sha cos at the end of the day, when everybody abandons u, ur immediate family will always be there for you. Not true in all cases, but true in most cases.

I started drinking socially when I became part of the American workforce. My coworkers would usually go out for after work drinks on Fridays. Till today, when I am out with friends on the weekends ill have a cocktail or 2. I find girls who drink heavily and smoke very unladylike. When I left home, only women of easy virtues smoked, when I visited in 2008 I was amazed at the number of women smoking openly. I will never date a heavy drinker or a smoker and I think it is very unladylike for women to smoke. My 2 cents.

Yea right, for all who don't know whitelexi is a female posing as a male.

Kenny, he probably has a huge insurance policy on her huge backside. Once she kaputs, he is heading to the bank. I give her five years tops and she will topple over like a lard ass off that couch dead as can be.

The crazy ass mofo must have a hell of an insurance policy on her ass. Once she dies, he will be replacing her with a slim chick. But how can any man hit that, can you imagine the smell from all the sweat and what not. Major ewww. Wow, how would any woman allow herself to get so big

Ahhh ebony what the hell is that, gazby, it looks like an elephant. How can any man be attracted to this thing. Na wah ooh. Some guys willl stick thier pee pees in anyhing sha. Mega eww

Honeric I feel you jare. A fat woman will only get fatter when children come, so stick to ur preference of slim women. Nothing do you. Lmao at contours on their bed sha, that means u must have tried fat girls out, ehn honeric

Badmofo, u need to stop spreading ur sexcapades on Nl. It's not a good look for u. I take particular offense to it cos u are a Yoruba boy. You need to seriously start respecting urself for real.

Mamaken, abeg leave honeric. He wants a slim and fit girl , That's his preference. Not every guy wants a fatso huffing and puffing beside him. If a bobo marries a fatso, after she gives birth na hippo the bobo go get for in house oh. At least, when a bobo marries a slim girl, after she gives birth, she will either remain slim or get thicker but not fat. Always better to chose a slim girl in my opinion.

You and your tales by moonlight. I feel sorry for all the ladies that open their legs to you, you this lost Akata person.

Niggah please. What a joker.

Ahhh finally, Plat welcome back.

Seun, abeg unban platinum, she contributes a lot to Nl and we miss her already. 190 is a nuisance sometimes but he contributes in his own way. I take god beg you please unban them joh, Biko, please.

Ayetty cold is our bouncer, sauron are u scared now? Ur ass is toast.

Desert eagles ko, golden eagles ni, abeg cold throw this troublemaker out the door, Tryna feeel on my ass and s.hit