Some Naija girls are finer than all these girls, Somali ko Ethiopian ni. I am even finer than these girls on my worst day.

OP, you have so much information about this couple that i believe that you are the wife, oya confess

sorry your wife no get sense sha, after the few slaps she don chop maybe she will staighten up. I dont think you should have beat her though cos men are so much stronger than women. There are other ways you can get your point across.

^^^25omega, he is already listening to her and has changed a lot for his wife according to his original post.  No sex since last October, some Nigerian girls know how to push men's buttons sha. Later they will be the first to complain that their husband is cheating on them, hiss.

@OP, its time to take a stand and be a man, this lady needs fear instilled in her, you need to start ignoring her, stop eating her meals, she needs to learn to submit to you. Eat outside before going home and when you get home and she serves you food, tell her that you are full, hang out with friends on the weekends till late, just get her mind rolling ( i am not asking you to cheat on her ohh) Just get her mind thinking that she is starting to lose you small small, before you know she will start asking you wats wrong and why are you behaving this way to her? Tell her since she has refused to perform her wifely duties, you have decided to take your mind off her and start hanging out with your friends who make you forget about your problems at home. Trust me, she will drop it like its hot because she will be sacred, you might be getting action from outside.

Do not submit to your wife, make her submit to you. That's the key buddy.

^^ a fellow brooklynite, Inked where are you??

Don't you have family? does he not have relatives? report him jare and let your families intervene before he kiss you in the house.

kissing a smoker is like kissing an ashtray.EWWW!

@OP all my brothers know their way around the kitchen, but like the Nigerian men that they are, they want a woman to cater for them. If i hear that my brothers did most of the cooking in their house, it would upset me. I guess i am a typical Nigerian woman. I am however not averse to one off romantic dinners and such cooked by our men.

When did cooking become a prerequisite in marriage?

@ inked: Babe in Nigeria, if you don't know how to cook and you want to marry, your own don finish be that ooh. Nigerian men are like children, they like to be catered to like babies. Once you marry a naija man, you have taken the position of mother, wife, sister and friend. For him to come home and not meet some hot food waiting for him or a wife that will give him bread and butter cos she does not know how to cook, my dear you will be out of his house very soon.

He or his in-laws will surely find another woman to take your place, cos they will say you are not treating their son well. What if your in-laws come visiting and they want to eat your food, once they learn you can't cook, you will be subjected to a lot of insults. Any Nigerian woman, living in Nigeria must know how to cook, or risk having an unhappy marriage. Nigerian women living in the diaspora can get away with not cooking, but in Nigeria, I believe its a must.

Chill pple, she is just announcing her frustration in the family section. kini big deal?? its not as if she posted her house address in naija for people to be concerned.

It's not by force to start a thread

@ Reality: My darling,  Thank you for leashing mama gee and her rabid rants.

Mamagee, Biko are you an i.d.Iot or what? Abeg go jump on somebody else's yansh who cares.

^^Man, your girl will love BDSM alot on bed flogging hell out of you body cos she sounds like a dominant in a relationship lol

Dominant ke? i am a total sub.

Reality, come to my house tonight and sample the juice, my dear, wa fe ku si be ni oo.

Roki baby: Thanks for the shout out. It is important that we naija women keep our fabulous god given figure 8's in shape and I am happy to be recognized for my efforts
Okay i am off to the gym,

Reality, lets go to Vegas and get married this weekend Dream man, i tell ya!

@Tosin: Toyota Camry ko, If Reality truly likes kitty juice, then you can stick your Toyota Camry where the sun don't shine

Reality, na me be that, come here for a kiss jare.
Don't mind this yeye Tosin, you a REAL man compared to him.

A all the way, besides we have the same body type, so why i gotta hate on myself. She is smoking hawt!

Abekeade08

If you try to give me your pant to wash, i'll pretend to collect them and go get it washed after some few minute i will light all your panties on fire immediately and u wil be thinkin they're on the line drying.

You wldn't dare, i would break your head with a big kondo if you try and burn my victoria secrets.

These folks just want some attention from me. No worries i'll promote your names here lol

Attention from who?? I laugh in Spanglish