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Whatever happened to taking a call the moment those ladies stepped in. Me, I would keep a sheepish smile hug them all, get them to comfort and excuse my self. I would let the sexy female voice on MTN tell them my status just minutes after feigning a call.

remsonik:
You have to be careful with the way you approach the issue.
One: you don't have to make her think you are after her for sex/romance.
Two: you haven't told this forum if you plan using premarital sex as a way of helping her frigidity. Cos if you really want to sleep with her now just to test the waters before you tie the knot then I see you as a foolish man who wants to eat his cake and have it.
Three: what's the physical attraction like? Is she really attracted to you?

My advice is this,if you both want to seek help either from a therapist, doctor, counselor make sure its someone who isn't known to you both or your families. Also make sure the person is highly professional, not someone who will use her story as the next sermon or illustration for another couple.

Secondly, pls and pls in all you do don't initiate sex cos if you finally have to break up with her cos of sexual compatibility she might never heal

#2 is a very controversial term, but in complete assessment of the risks and further notes from older couples, my dear marital bliss is not a subject for such compromise. E no dey be sey e no dey! Final answer, walk away! That is if I were the OP

Aswear, I no dey take this kind risk. laye laye! Imagine what happens later on into the marriage. Noffin like late bloomers on this one

Helium balloons will see no greater deflation than what will happen to some readers' spouse in the weeks to come.. Its none of my business though

I must have read wrong, did you say the doctor is a veterinary specialist with 37 years in practise? What then can I make of his patient?

DollyParton1:
A woman who can justify the act of her cheating husband is not INDEPENDENT but SENSLESS.

The portion of our Lords prayer says "Lead us not into temptation but..." you don't need a taste of this to adequately furnish your curiosity, rather your lack, if you rightly read through that epistle you should have noticed the OP has seen the facets of life from another perspective. Don't be so keen with stuffs you see on movies, shits here happen real time.

She would be called clueless if she didn't realize her mistakes, I am neither of the opinion that he should have tasted the waters but damn this stuff had gone on for ten years (ie barely 10% probability of having lone time with your spouse through eternity- Olorun maje!). 80% of men I know would do same. Don't forget we equally need attention, trust me, we do.

Ramnon2:
Then APC folks called Jonathan a ''clueless fisherman''
Now PDP calls Buhari a ''clueless cattle rearer''
Saraki calls VP Osinbajo a ''mere commissioner''
So, from henceforth, while Buhari is a clueless cattle rearer, Osinbajo should be referred to as '' mere commissioner Osinbajo''.

APC began giving PDP folks nicknames. Now is pay back time, no?
Meanwhile how is Tinubu doing today?



See Mr. commissioner seated sheepishly on a cheap chair, lost in thought and mopping like a slowpoke at nothing in particular, while a serious discussion is ongoing between his masters.

Who told the man that ASO looks like the pulpit?

I can imagine Tinubu fall victim of his own plot. You never can estimate the contents of the mind especially for those whose speeches are numbered. Who plays this game more than a General turned politician? Tell me

When I heard people deflecting en masse to the APC I only could come up with what felt like a lame thought initially, there was a grand plot, there is also a bigger picture than the APC could ever phantom , there has been a compromise and in the long run, PDP still has power in proxy. One of my greatest suspicions have just been validated. The bitter truth here is the masses are the greater victims of what just transpired despite the pillars of equity it may bear. They came on with the "change vehicle" because truly, Nigerians were utterly dissatisfied with 16 years of ruthlessness in governance. The emissaries of the ousted party are still in the folds and corridors of power, they didn't change a thing order than their party cards, their allegiance remain firm but can never be with someone perceived to be a parochial merchant.

I still know this is politics, no permanent friend or foe, but I do hope the summation of their selfish interests will ultimately benefit the ordinary man.

Meanwhile the handwriting on my intuitive wall can be translated as saying "PMB must have had a hand in this", it only seems fair for one to put up a disclaimer aforetime absolving himself from the affairs of the NASS and coincidentally not attending the so called meeting.

olokfor:
The National Publicity of the All Progressives Congress (APC), Alhaji Lai Mohammed has described the present composition of the leadership of the nation’s National Assembly, the Senate headed by Senator Olusola Saraki, and the House of Representatives, led by Yakubu Dogara, as pro-Peoples Democratic Party.



Mohammed, while speaking on Sunrise Daily on Channels Television Wednesday, stated that the action of some of its members over what happened on Tuesday during the inauguration of the 8th National Assembly, deserves punishment.
Lai Mohammed




“What we have in the Senate now is a pro-PDP Senate which is not in the interest of our party. How do you expect us to sit with Ekweremadu and Mark and discuss matters of national importance?

“These are part of the old Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) order we struggled to defeat at the centre. So how can we then sit down with them to discuss issues of national importance with these people?” he querid.



When reminded that the APC still controls majority at the National Assembly, Mohammed stated that the National Assembly leadership as currently constituted is an ally of the PDP, “because it got its mandate through the block votes of the PDP. Remember, there were only eight APC Senators who voted for Saraki. The balance which is 49 are from PDP. In the House of Representatives, only 30 APC members voted for Yakubu Dogara. So you can see that the National Assembly is pro-PDP.

“They even overreached themselves by naming David Mark as the Senate Leader before they realised the illegality of their action and reverse themselves.”



Mohammed stated further that insamuch as the party will not want to lose its members, those involved will still be sanctioned because “the indiscipline should not be allowed to go just like that. If this is allowed to go, then it means any member can perpetrate bigger indiscipline and hope to get away with it.”

http://www.metronaija.com/2015/06/saraki-dogara-pro-pdp-lai-mohammed.html

Sentiments shroud this comments as it is obvious that the party has an agenda different from the interest of ordinary Nigerians. The matter should not be about who sits where but how effective the APC can prove a mettle disregarding their current misfortunes (so to say). This is just the beginning of what may seem a swing to the entire change campaign

But you enjoy am baa? Shikina! When next you are about taking D do good to send OP an invite via mail not just the fallout of one terrible s.3.x.

Anything for fame, even without pay some unfortunate random lady out there would walk the miles to get his seed in her.

Utchgirl:
Some people r now following 2face Idibia's step. Anna - baby mama NO 2. Wonder hw Sandra wil be feeling seeing all dis pix.

Boss, I beg to vary. Please, what criterions do we guys install subconsciously when seeking out a date? Prospects! The feminists and miss independents should have thrown the weight behind him and settled with his personality as we (guys) do.

Seriously, someone is currently in a similar dilemma, perplexed,worse off because he is biased, at least at the instant of replying this thread. It clearly means that ladies get married to wealth and not MEN. Its not a concern of security if she has got prospects too, trust me.

I have seen ex-CEOs turn homeless, particularly during the global economic melt down and in the years after. I have heard a few more taking up menial jobs to sustain a living, so what happens? She probably would desert I and our kids, yes of course. There is no hypocrisy in this other than the inability of most females on this thread to settle with the same guy considering his status.

As for choice, you were right, she had hers to make and indeed she made a hasty one. God bless our mothers whom found Men and made the most out of them for there are no such things as a permanent condition.

barcanista:
90% of people blaming the girl in this movie are hypocrite. Seriously, how many people/graduates will agree to get married to a bricklayer in mushin via a 3rd party? How many people will agree to marry an agbero in motor park? This is a very straightforward case. The babe never discriminated him but her choice of marriage wasn't a briklayer or capenter. It's her choice.

The friend and the dude were at fault here. I support the lady demand for apology.


But the film sha

You wish to steer a ship right, you would be needing clear navigation coordinates from those whom have had their turns in the turbulent waters called Nigeria. I believe if this holds any portion of truth, Buhari is actually on a course to change. This is where he applies the lessons learnt from previous regimes, therefore, there is nothing entirely wrong with such moves.

These are tale signs that you are at the verge of a breakthrough, if my story is anything to go by, my dear the very next mail you will be receiving would not only overwhelm your expectations but also bring unending joy to your folds. I have been there, three years would not seem a long time anymore but relentlessness paid off beyond my very imaginations. I have lost a picture that could embolden you further but find the attached and make meaning out of it. God see you these times

Sexychristeen:
I am tired of searching, whats the use? I have so much locked inside, but the world doesnt care!! I never thought it would be like this, i had it all planned out u see.... "finish school, get a job in the bank" none of my coursemates believe i am at home, whats the use of searching? Telling ur parents u going for an interview and coming back empty handed. Maybe my calling is biz, i dont know!! But one thing is sure i am no more applying, i cant take one more heartache.

The best we can do for ourselves as Nigerians is to shun antagonistic politics, in our own best interest. Otherwise, our dear poliTHIEFcians would not only seize the opportunity to spin fortune to themselves but also lay waste to the masses and our teeming expectations will be extinguished.

As for the post up there, the DPO is a Yoruba man, its rather too early and unsafe to say at this point that the Buhari regime would be marred by serious propaganda which if successful will issue in a Yoruba president within this first tenure. Hopefully, not.

xavier0327:
Na so dem dey "flag off"....only to abandon it later! I wish I wasn't from Abia sometimes!

Hun, this dude will work. He needs to save the NGWA mans face as well as develop the NGWA mans territory which has so far been neglected by previous governments.

For the sake of second tenure, I also believe he just has to.

By the way, what has happened to the debt owed retired civil servants, I hoped he would start of with that.

Remain blessed brother. I wouldn't have said it any better, when I told a lady that my spiritual life is parallel to my sexual life all she did was spring to her feet. Of course, our typical morality should exist everywhere else but not on my matrimonial bed or space or anywhere so chosen by madam. All I am saying is, employ all 5+1 senses in order to get her there, give no excuses.

mrdrizzy:
I believe the reason why most men cant satisfy their partner is not cus dey aint gud in bed,bt they just dont know how to fore-play

sharp sharp ya rod grows and u decide to borehole immediately,learn other means of pleasure..

When dem say watch beta MOjo ina no go gree,saying its a sin bla bla,now u don enter.



frontpage??

i dedicate it to all my niggas dat can fore-play well

DaBullIT:
Now that's what a president should say unlike the unwanted one who would still need to confirm from his chief of staff

SHurrrup my friend! This is the same response your so called unwanted one would have to give still. I expected he would jump into military full gears and go on a manhunt for these terrorists with every single attack. I am sorry to say this, the politicians are in a world of their own, you better understand this. Everything or anything that swings the judgments and policies in their favor is tenable not the wanton need of the populace, who cares

kreamidiva:
Poor minds o my dear... It's sad.

Its well, I'm contesting in 2027. Hope you will be there to join forces with progressives. Our people are our greater undoing anyway

The last pix no get full tank

kreamidiva:
Where is Abia State?

This is fake.

Bae that state ain't poor, we only got poor minds at the helm of affairs