Crime › Re: We Monitor Withdrawers From The Bank, Then Rob Them - Suspect by Abimbola29(m): 6:23am On Sep 11, 2022 |
How do they have access to bank records |
Politics › Re: I Have Created More Jobs Than Everyone In Government Combined - Adebayo by Abimbola29(m): 6:22am On Sep 11, 2022 |
I don't know him |
Politics › Re: See Castle Where Queen Elizabeth Spent A Night In Ijebu Ode 1956 (photos) by Abimbola29(m): 5:41pm On Sep 10, 2022 |
I visited this place one time with a friend of mine who wanted to collect ugu leave from a resident of this place, according to what I heard pa adetola who happens to be the owner said all does who worked for him,then should not be chased put of the house ,that his children should leave everyone in their different quarters.his children did exactly what he said non of his kids I think are currently in naija but the quarters is still occupied by does workers till today... |
Family › Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Abimbola29(m): 12:00pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Soulflai: just be careful with words you use with me,you don't know what I am passing through Sherrap jare Dem dey advice you,you still dey get mouth ,you just dey disgrace men anyhow.how can a pregnant woman do such and you came out boldly to tell us you have forgiven her? I wonder how you guys look into the eyes of a cheating partner and still find her attractive.be a man,call her family members,table the matter,secondly call the guy dig up his family member call them, thirdly if you still find your wife attractive you can keep her,but me I will make sure I disgrace the hell out of her,call your pastor just make sure you do werey for them well well,make sure anything she do,does not attract you, lastly make carry her go swear for sherine that k me latter..na joke o.anyways to tell you the truth you messed up from the unset |
Health › Re: What Disease Could This Be? by Abimbola29(m): 1:09pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
Sorry get well soon |
TV/Movies › Re: Profile Of Allysyn, Bbnaija Season 7 Housemate by Abimbola29(m): 9:48am On Jul 25, 2022 |
All this show is to distract the masses of what impact is this show? |
Politics › Re: Aregbesola Bags Businessday Award Of Excellence In Service As Interior Minister by Abimbola29(m): 11:58am On Jul 22, 2022 |
ThatFairGuy1: He deserves the award because of all the reforms that graced the ministry under his watch. ..
Ease of procuring passport is one of them (E.passport).
As Governor, he's the reason Osun is progressing today. He turned Osun around Bros pls tell me the truth which ministry reform are you talking about,have you not been reading the news lately? |
Politics › Re: Aregbesola Bags Businessday Award Of Excellence In Service As Interior Minister by Abimbola29(m): 9:06am On Jul 22, 2022 |
ThatFairGuy1: A well deserved award.
Aregbesola has always been a trailblazer I never wanted to quote you,but can you pls tell me how he aregbesola reserved the said award,and what made him a trailblazer? |
Politics › Re: Fact Check: Are Bishops, Pastors Who Attended Shettima's Unveiling Fake? by Abimbola29(m): 8:58am On Jul 22, 2022 |
Who wrote this episode write up,he or she is working for APC,damage control in process .. |
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Chinwo's Wedding Introduction (Photos And Video) by Abimbola29(m): 11:59am On Jul 20, 2022 |
[quote author=AfricanBard post=114877589]Her mother is Akwa Ibom, she speaks Akw Ibom language fluently [/quote Okay now I know |
Politics › Re: Seyi Tinubu’s N340 Million Richard Mille Wristwatch Stuns Nigerians by Abimbola29(m): 11:43am On Jul 20, 2022 |
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Celebrities › Re: Mercy Chinwo's Wedding Introduction (Photos And Video) by Abimbola29(m): 9:24am On Jul 19, 2022 |
Pls this mercy of a girl is she from akwa ibom or has a linage there ,most of her songs are in akwa ibom,and it takes someone from that part to be able to flow in such manner.... |
Properties › Re: 3D Wall Panel by Abimbola29(m): 7:58pm On Jun 29, 2022 |
How much is it ? |
Properties › Re: EFCC To Jail Landlords Housing Yahoo Boys For 15 Years by Abimbola29(m): 11:56am On Jun 28, 2022 |
This looks somehow,how on Earth will the landlord supposed to know what kind of job a tenant is doing?what if he lies... |
Politics › Re: Smuggling Booms At Seme Border 18 Months After Reopening by Abimbola29(m): 9:45am On Jun 11, 2022 |
Most of this story is false,how can you smuggle in something when you have multiple police checkpoint.seeing is believing |
Crime › Re: Okada Ban: We Are After Foreigners Operating Okada In Lagos — Lagos CP by Abimbola29(m): 6:54am On May 21, 2022 |
Authoreety: It's Those foreigners from Niger and Benin Republic that carry out most criminal activities and criminal informations! Benin republic? Are you kidding me? What Happened to chard rep? |
Politics › Re: Traditional Marriage Of Peter Obi's Daughter, Gabriella Nwamaka Frances Obi by Abimbola29(m): 12:36am On Apr 18, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: House Of Reps To Ban Cross-Dressing, Offenders To Face 6 Months Imprisonment by Abimbola29(m): 7:47am On Apr 06, 2022 |
Among all the important issues we have at hand I guess this should be the last time for now |
Career › Re: Chicken Republic Sacks Staff For Dancing On Duty by Abimbola29(m): 4:19pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
What a pity |
Family › Re: What Happens To Orphanage Kids That Weren't Adopted and grew to adulthood? by Abimbola29(m): 4:16pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
There are some people who are orphans who did not end up in an orphanage home,but are striving hard in real life... |
Politics › Re: Governors Wike, Seyi Makinde, Ortom, Ishaku Are All Muslim-Haters - MURIC by Abimbola29(m): 9:33am On Feb 10, 2022 |
just imagine say this man becomes president omo we don't die finish be that o |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Bank Cleaner Or Petrol Attendant , Which One Is Better? by Abimbola29(m): 10:31am On Nov 23, 2021 |
Petrol attendant,you will make more money |
Politics › Re: Travellers Abducted In Fresh Kaduna Attack by Abimbola29(m): 6:22am On Nov 22, 2021 |
gift2xl: There are things that gets me angry, they know the danger of traveling Along that road but they will still transport through that path? Sorry pls what route is that ? |
Education › Re: Cow Goes On The Loose In Covenant University, Attacks Passers-by (VIDEO) by Abimbola29(m): 9:16am On Nov 19, 2021 |
It is an old story naaa |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Twin Bomb Explosions Hit Kampala, Uganda In Suspected Terrorist Attack by Abimbola29(m): 1:10pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Just imagine idiamin was still alive |
Education › Re: Guess The Subject by Abimbola29(m): 11:29pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Mr sewege,Cdss ojo very mean man |
Family › Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Abimbola29(m): 8:01pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
My wife moved in with me after intro,I just did her trade thank God family no get problem |
Politics › Re: Gunmen Launch House-To-House Raid In Katsina, Many Feared Killed by Abimbola29(m): 5:11pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
What happened to the security men over there? |
Family › Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Abimbola29(m): 3:46pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
LiegeMan: Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
hello nairalanders,
Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.
Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.
Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country, I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.
Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice. Bro just lock up,you see this life no balance,what is good for A might not be good for B,let me give you a picture of my self,I grew up all by my self,I lost my both parents when I was very young,my dad died when I was 2,mum when I was 7,but I am a graduate and my wife ,who still has her both parents only attended secondary school.you should be happy that life gave you the best,and as for your wife l,I guess she's not that kind of person anymore.learn to forgive and forget,let me help you when ever you feel this anger,try to remember the good times you both had together it helps....have a great day. |
Celebrities › Re: BBNaija's Maria: If I Can't Have You, Nobody Can (Old post) by Abimbola29(m): 7:10am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Iyaebe: Why are they trying so hard to tarnish her image,why? her old post could mean anything, what if she was referring to Jesus (like giving her life to Him).Nigerians and their subtle hate for biracial and light skin women. When last you don tell Jesus this kind thing before ?. |
Politics › Re: EFCC Questions Pius Anyim Over ₦750 Million Fraud by Abimbola29(m): 7:01am On Oct 25, 2021 |
I was wondering why Stella oduah was saying buhari has done great thing for Nigeria,I come surprise |
Career › Re: How Genuine Is This Job Invitation by Abimbola29(m): 12:33pm On Oct 22, 2021 |
Google is your friend |