Health › Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Abolajihowells2: 10:13am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Hope777: Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.
I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.
I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.
I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.
There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.
Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).
I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!
I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. If u don't mind contact me for cheap agbo (herb) |
Business › Re: Which Viable Business Can I Start With N150k To N200k? by Abolajihowells2: 8:22pm On Oct 17, 2019 |
BabaIbo: I graduated few years ago. I searched for job but I couldn't get one so I accepted a teaching job that pays 30k jus to keep myself busy whole working and praying toward a better one.
I have been able to raise 150k from my one year salary.
Now I'm above 30, thoughts and worries has been running through my mind recently.
Actually I have a plan of raising enough capital to start a viable business but as you can see from my present salary, it will take time to make enough saving that will be OK for my planned business
Nairalanders please which business can I do or start with 150k to 200k? Please advice a brother Start selling shirt and jeans or clothing materials |
Celebrities › Re: Regina Daniels And Husband Ned Nwoko Loved Up In Dubai by Abolajihowells2: 10:34pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
Husband or father? |
Romance › Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Abolajihowells2: 7:39am On Oct 10, 2019 |
Get marry soon he will back off after the marriage |
NYSC › Re: Lady Denied Her NYSC Certificate For Schooling In Benin Republic by Abolajihowells2: 10:40pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
PopeFlatino: Please who can lend me 2k to payback 6k next week ....I don't think I can survive til Thursday next week I swear
Please please my brothers  Borrow from ur bank it's easier. |
Celebrities › Re: 'Hips Don't Lie' - Mayorkun Commented On His Mother, Toyin Adewale's Photos by Abolajihowells2: 4:38pm On Oct 01, 2019 |
joseo: Is this guy........... his mother? or what is he trying to do?
Grandma self wan slay That's he's mum |
Events › Re: BBNaija’s Khafi & Temisan Emmanuel To Host This Year’s The Future Awards Africa by Abolajihowells2: 6:52am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Congrats khafi |
Politics › Re: Boko Haram Attacks Military Convoy At Azare-Kamuya, Carts Away Cash, Equipment by Abolajihowells2: 10:28pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Inside life |
Celebrities › Re: Mayoorkun Meets Atiku, Takes Pictures by Abolajihowells2: 9:03pm On Sep 06, 2019 |
olaolumuyiwa: Atiku our next coming president Criously wen is he coming? |
Romance › Re: Why Do Some Ladies Wear Beads On Their Waist And Chain On Their Legs? by Abolajihowells2: 4:10pm On Sep 04, 2019 |
Newbielearner: Go and fast and pray o. Repercussions aren't often immediate. Originally it was meant for beautification. But now, it's a symbol of identity, used for protection, enchantment and transfer of virtue. You'd have to hope hers was for beautification. I'm just surprised how you didn't see that thing before doing what you did. They sell it now a lot, teaching ladies how to use it to enchant a man, draw virtue and ensure protection from ritualists.
Oga, go and pray o. No intention to scare you or to emphasize too much on holiness. But these things affect people on a long term basis... Baba gbese ... leave that one na lie there's nothing wrong there bro |
Crime › Re: Nigerians React To Xenophobia Attacks By Looting South African Stores- CNN by Abolajihowells2: 3:54pm On Sep 04, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: Supreme Court Warns Buhari: Stop! Using Public Funds To Defend Yourself In Court by Abolajihowells2: 9:29pm On Sep 03, 2019 |
All na plan work |
Christianity Etc › Re: RCCG Church Built Under High Tension Mast In Lagos (Video, Photos) by Abolajihowells2: 10:15am On Sep 01, 2019 |
This church is at ayobo |
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu: Buhari Encircled And Trapped In His Yokohama Hotel Hideout by Abolajihowells2: 3:32pm On Aug 30, 2019 |
I swear kanu no well |
Celebrities › Re: Shan George Undergoes Spine Surgery (Pictured In Hospital) by Abolajihowells2: 3:30pm On Aug 30, 2019 |
Sorry sis God will lay his hand on u and grant u quick recovery |
Phones › Re: Samsung Galaxy A20 Vs Infinix S4 Comparison: This Fight Has A Clear Winner by Abolajihowells2: 8:31pm On Aug 29, 2019 |
They choose s4 bcoz it's 6k cheaper |
Crime › Re: Erestus Okpe Commits Suicide While Friends Assume He‘s Playing by Abolajihowells2: 9:09pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
Suicide? Wen pussy still dey, beer still dey how i go remember suicide. |
Politics › Re: Supreme Court To Rule On PDP, Atiku’s Request To Access INEC Server Published by Abolajihowells2: 1:18pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
Everyone should just know this...Atiku is not coming |
Crime › Re: Cynthia Amarachi: Missing Osun Corper's Whereabouts Unknown (Photo) by Abolajihowells2: 3:40pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
Arrest her best friend she knows where she is |
TV/Movies › Re: DJs Who Have Performed At Big Brother Naija Saturday Party by Abolajihowells2: 4:27pm On Jul 30, 2019 |
Lambo played it better on bbn |
Education › Re: Can I Study Medicine And Surgery With This Result. by Abolajihowells2: 10:04pm On Jul 29, 2019 |
Even if u want to study ifa or babalawo ur result is enough |
Celebrities › Re: Burna Boy Features Damian Marley, Angelique Kidjo In 'African Giant' Album by Abolajihowells2: 8:35am On Jul 25, 2019 |
2dice01: plus correct cowtail or ise iwu
Cloud 9 on Point  Cloud9 sango ota? |
Romance › Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Abolajihowells2: 5:29am On Jul 25, 2019 |
Unik3030: u self dey date ondo girls, they too like sex n money n they see no big deal about having multiple partners. the worst thing is if ondo girl born 10 children for u e no mean say she no go leave u Ondo girls and money I swear dem be 5&6 japa for ur life |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNAIJA: The Moment Seyi And Tacha Came Back To Big Brother Naija House (Video) by Abolajihowells2: 10:23pm On Jul 24, 2019 |
Actor no dey die |
Romance › Re: Lady In Tears As She Says No To Her Boyfriend In Public Despite The Cameras(Pics by Abolajihowells2: 7:58am On Jul 24, 2019 |
Later now she will start going to different church programs to sing.. do something new in my life |
Politics › Re: Buhari Plans To Register Illegal Migrants, Under Fire - Guardian by Abolajihowells2: 9:29am On Jul 17, 2019 |
Chisaedhor:

YOLOBA MUSLIMS ARE COWARDS
YOLUBAS ARE ASS LICKERS
YOLOBAS ARE TRAITORS
YOLOBAS ARE THE PROBLEM WE HAVE IN NIGERIA
YOLOBAS ARS FULANI SLAVES
YOLOBAS ,TINUBU ,OSINJAO WILL ALWAYS WORSHIP THEIR MASTER BUHARI ogun go kill u |
TV/Movies › Re: Bbnaija: See How Each Of The Housemates Nominated One Another For Eviction by Abolajihowells2: 10:31am On Jul 16, 2019 |
seyi my main man |
Music/Radio › Re: 'Shibinshi': Olamide Set To Release New Music by Abolajihowells2: 6:16pm On Jul 15, 2019 |
shibinshi agege ways |
Education › Re: Is It Right To Start All Over Again From 100 Level After Wasting 5 Years? by Abolajihowells2: 9:06am On Jul 13, 2019 |
computer science doesn't really need ur grade or degree all that matters most is to look for money to do different course. |
Romance › Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by Abolajihowells2: 9:00am On Jul 13, 2019 |
Bobo no marry her use her for side chick sebi u brain stool down ni. |
Education › Re: Ibadan Polytechnic Burnt Seized Phones Worth N15m (Photos) by Abolajihowells2: 2:38pm On Jul 11, 2019 |
Better fone no dey there joooor.. if them sell all d fones d money no reach buy iPhone 7 |
Car Talk › Re: The Production Of The Volkswagen Beetle Ends Today by Abolajihowells2: 10:02pm On Jul 10, 2019 |
Farewell to those who did money rituals to buy this car |