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shadrach77: this thread is nice - initially it sounded like a nice joke, but then when it began to circulate everywhere it became somehow worrisome.People should not ruin the guy's career

190: me: Baby what are your digits

Yoruba girl : sero hate sero - tarty-five, sisty four, twenty hate, sisteen. Just boss me

I ran away!

MsDarkSkin: yeah i just got it.

Kingsleyinfo: @post
Simply give that partner the litmus test.
they will fail it most times.

Acid can never give a base like colour when tested.
Character is like pregnancy, u can only hide it for a short while.
and when judging character never trust ür feelings, they are most times very wrong.

~Killz~:
[color=#000030]How old do you think i am?[/color]

Mrs.Chima:
It sounds like some people are allergic to quality time hence many of them have failed relationships.

Quality time is about getting to know the person you are with and assessing whether you guys are compatible for long term relationship depending on your preference.

Some people want booty calls.
Some people want one night stands.

Not everyone get into relationships heading for marriage. That's what people who are not married should do before jumping the broom. However, you do have some people that are desperate to get into relationships that they will do anything to be in one hence date a killer or a rapist.

I agree with Pendo....quality time is imperative and before I got married...I didn't limit my ducks in one basket. I got to know the guys without having sex with them and the ones that only wanted sex didn't stay around long. It works if you aren't desperate.

Keep your legs closed and ears/eyes open and you will prevent future heartache.

Earlyjay: ids is not 1997 civic..this is yeye 1992 civic..why are u lying to nairalanders that its 1997...stop dis rubbish abeg!

moremi2008: Stop deceiving the poor chap! This is Nigeria we're talking about here. Part-time job where? As a bus-conductor? What fcking dream? Stop peddling foolishness please. If he doesn't have the drive to pass JAMB and go to school, then he doesn't heave the drive to succeed in this cut-throat world without an education. Please go take a quick survey of successful media/branding professionals and come back to tell me how many of them are school cert holders! He thinks he has a career because rent and food is free?! A re-think is in order.

190:

~Killz~:
[color=#000030]Mumu, was i talking to you? I did not even quote you, bird brain![/color]

mykejones: Why don't we hear a rich younger man goin for an older lady? Say a man who is 22 and very rich,goin 4 a lady who is 35 and poor?
Do u get now?

190: OP

Thanks for the update, but my advice to whoever is looking for these traits before getting married is to please keep waiting for JESUS

dont worry he would come soon so they can get married

~Killz~:
[color=#000030]Just say you are looking for perfection that does not exist. . . Anyone that exhibits ALL of those good traits before marriage is a LIAR. He/she is bound to change after marriage. It's because of posts like these that makes people mask their intentions. Not to say they are not good points, but expecting ALL these good points from an imperfect being is a recipe for divorce.[/color]

adasco: @Observer thanks,meanwhile a friend wants to sell the same Isuzu rodeo same model more clean and the usage not up to a year the asking price is N850,000 call 07080955187 for inspection.

~Killz~:
[color=#000030]Onila. You may not be proud and arrogant, but you are exhibiting traits of introverts. . . Social life is almost zero, not because you don't have friends or you don't socialize, but you don't deem them necessary. Maybe the people you call friends hurt you before, so you are more in touch with yourself and your imaginations, and you are quick to start a thread on whatever you think of, cos you'll have a chance of interacting with people from a safe distance, and from the safety and comfort of your room. . .

I know am 55% correct![/color]

onila: hmmmmmm yr the first person that has called me arrogant, u know

i see u got no time 2 chase hard 2 get girlss

onila: hey! I am NOT arrogant or proud i am a cool and sweet girl loool

but what if u reallly like her

Booty4me: Like seriously op are You not tayad of openin threads. Ar you unemployed? Go and slip jare

onila: Guys what do u do when a girl u really like is fronting 4 U or refusing 2 talk 2 you or just forming hard to get?

u just forget about her or keep chhasing

unbranded0029: House, please read my story and tell me if am wrong or right. I am an employee with a meager salary. I do my best to help my fiancee with her undergraduate fees. Sometimes, to meet up with her financial requirements is very challenging to me, considering how small my own means of income is. But she alwez fail to understand that my support to her is out of luv. Rather, by virtue of her attitude, she usually insinuates it's my responsibility because if i do not exist in her life someone else who would pay all her bills would hav come to marry her. This is to some extent true because suitors hv bn coming 4 her. She's very pretty, faithful and lovely. But i can't do more than is possible with my earnings. I met her 6 yrs ago during my 100 level and talked her into furthering her education up to d university level. Since then, i hav alwez encouraged and supported her. But each time i don't meet up with her financially expectation, she gets emotionally affected and sometimes take it out on me in a way that pisses me off. Her parents are still alive, but are completely handicapped to render any form of help. With this atitude i feel quitting sometimes. I lov her so much and hv come this far to quit. Just 3 semesters to go and she would be done with skul and we will get married. Just few weeks ago, her skul fees for 300 level came, standing at a little above 100k. I put together 50k to support her, but because i didn't come up with d money sooner than she expected (u know salary payment and delays), she became angry and even dropped a call while i was going to tell her d money was ready. Days later, she called and did not bother to apologise or tell me why she did that. Now am so furious that i have decided to keep my money. Let her go sort herself out with those she believe can pay promptly. I am quitting. Thought not easy 4 me. She has been in my head 2 weeks now. But i am sure i will survive it, perhaps take my lov and effort to somewhere it can be appreciated. She wil blame me b4 family and friends on why it crashed, but i don't care. Guys if u think my decision is out of line, please advise. Thanks