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ave4:
Some pastors were insulted in the past because they purchased private jets.Now it seems others are joining the trend.Gay or not he has a point.God help us.

Lol, I remember the years Oyedepo was ridiculed ... I'm pretty sure "redeemed" people joined me to throw stones at him but now you'll hear "it's not his jet" "he borrowed the money" "but redeem is a big church"

Hypocrites everywhere!!!

manny4life:
What is the truth? You know people who fly a lot a don't need private jets? LOL, is that because they couldn't afford it OR they refused to buy one? Your conjectures are too funny, I am laughing so hard because you thought you've made some sense but in reality, you're not making any sense. Why do you think Corporations, Mid-size business own private jets? I'll tell you why. It's a cost efficient measure for them. It makes sense. When the GO travels, he does with an entourage including AGO's, pastor assistants, media, etc. depending on the location, for instance when he came to the U.S. for the recently concluded RCCG NA Convention, he traveled with his crew and the 9 NA regional pastors. Given the crew size multiplied by the cost per head, multiplied by tens of trips in a year, give me a quote and tell me if it's worth it or not.

The dude you quoted actually made sense but you're not informed enough to appreciate it.

It costs ALLOT of money to maintain a private jet. It saves you no money. I'll understand if you say it's comfortable but not that it saves cost.

Just saying...

maxiflexi:
She kept to the rules: busy vs plain keeping her hair & makeup simple brought out the bold statement her clothes make. Remember she is a teenager. She is allowed to mix and match bold statements. We don old so we would have preferred pastel colours

But you just gotta admit, it's a weird combination to look at

She is indeed dressing her age tho.

Very bold indeed. She looks aiit I guess, having a plain black top on the skirt woulda been booring so I guess she just wanted to spice it up.

Not too good, not that bad.

MrsPhyno:
The show is coming back in about a week or two!

Can't wait ...

I think when he fails the exam, he will be able to concentrate for the next one...



Don't mention

makavel7:
This seems to be a growing problem. There is a caterer friend of mine in my estate who makes a handsome living by cooking for so called married women. The house wife's call and make orders as to the kind of soup they want and when they need it, when the food is ready, the women drive in one by one with they expensive SUV and pots to put the soups which they take home and keep in the fridge to dish to their husbands later in the day when he comes back from work believing they cooked it themselves. Im not making this up I swear

If they actually deceive the hubby that they cooked it, that's the only problem.

Man wants food, man gets food. What's the big deal with who cooked it?

hmm...

allanphash7:
If she break up would you date her?

My sister nobody holy pass o even u

Is dating someone certificate to heaven?

Or wealth?

What's wrong with staying single?

Orikinla:
We are not calling them devils, Adaeze.
We are saying they should maintain and remain beautiful, resourceful and wonderful in marriage as they were before marriage.
Marriage should bring out the best in our women and not the worst.

I get that but it's really not for women alone.

oreos:
I was being sarcastic. The experience was in brackets.

By experience, I was referring to their mothers, sisters and aunts.

My bad then...

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oreos:
You don't have wonder. They are talking from 'experience'

What experience? The one where you chase after a pretty girl, lay her and give her money? How shallow can you guys get?

Unless you were raised in a gutter(in which case, do accept my sympathy) you shouldn't ask such stupid questions.

softapples:
LOL i fell from the sky

Yo mama must be proud

Sometimes you just wonder who raised some of the dudes on here.

Oh well...

Snowangel4:
I am an introvert,but people say I am too proud and arrogant . It is so depressing

Lemme guess, you don't smile allot?

Women are the devils... Men are the angels...

What else is new

Mtcheew...

What's funny is, I have better verses to "cover up" for him. His attempt was just so so lame and he's the pastor

Smh.

If she has a good sense of self worth, is medically fertile(if you want kids), she loves you and isn't desperate.

If you truly love her and you're ready to be married to her.

If you guys are financially, physically, spiritually and psychologically ready for marriage.

You have no problem we can help you with.
Good luck with your decision making.

Hmm

He should go to the rural areas before development gets there.

haytripple:
Even though am yet to have a kid, bt when I was still young I love carrying male child n I knw I will love my male child than female....I don't knw how to change that perspective.

You better change it or not show it. A girl that wasn't shown love by her dad will end up searching the wrong places for it.

Empire is just the bomb! I love the fact that it's more drama than sex unlike what these oyibos are shoving out these days...

Fav characters in descending order...

Cookie
Jamal
Cookiez assistant
Hakeem
Tiana


Best scene must be the cookie-anika fight #boobookitty

Also when Anika was forming tough and wanted to go to that down town studio, I just love the way they all reacted to that. Played it over and over again.

I really don't like Naomi Campbell's role in the movie. Kinda sucks...

Another sucky thing? Gay love... lol.

I hate that Andre and his wife killed that man sha.

And Luscious is an a$$...

johnny1980:
ill informed? Why don't you bring your informed counter theories instead of the "polygamy is prostitution " and what not you were yapping about earlier instead of pointing to Google?

Let me enlighten you.

You as a woman would even cringe at earlier practices of polyandry. Small pockets of places in India and Himalayas that used to practice it in the past was even to the detriment of the woman.
She had no say.

Or how would imagine the Eldest brother in a family getting married to a woman and sharing the woman with his younger brothers, all of them taking turns to have sex with her? Such Incest and barbarism is what you would cite as equality for women?

Fact is, the cases of polyandry we had in the past was never in favour of the women and can never be, they were never the deciders just pawns in the scheme of things. Nature can't be cheated. They owned her like a family motor to be ridden by any of the male family members with a di.ck. Sounds progressive for women I guess as long as she does what a man can do.

Until you people realise the genders were created differently and each have their defined roles. Trying to find equality amongst them in virtually everything would be useless.

Pretty sure you pulled out those "facts" from your arse...

Polyandry was a thing of pride in some cultures. Women actually made moves to marry another man. Some even mocked others that didn't marry more.

So, before you come here and tell us about your "assifacts", do your research...

You now making the whole concept look ugly because deep down, you can't imagine sharing yo wife but somehow, gals should be okay sharing husbands afterall we are different, we have different roles, yadi yadi yadi, bla bla bla...

She will find out eventually... When you sleep on the same bed with someone almost everyday, it's difficult to cover your tracks...

Hopefully he won't bring any STI home.

I personally hate to be the bearer of bad news so, if I were in your shoes, I'll probably say nothing DIRECTLY...

Hmm... safety first.

RIP to the dead...

Like I said on another thread

Some guys think "man" is synonymous to "lil pig" or "slob" or "disabled"...

I do my best to stay away from such...

Ngokafor:
....My dear how do you 'try and talk' to a supposed adult to dish his food placed right in front of him instead of quarreling like a shrew and sulking like he apparantly loves to do.Is he a toddler?the man is sick upstairs and is tired of that marriage,trust me..

..And the woman too is a case,why she wont simply dish his own portion of food on his prefered plate,cover and place it in front and then proceeds to do other things beats me..if she is smart she should cut out any elaborate setting of table or whatever and just dish his portion straight from the pot into his plate from the get-go.

I think the woman doesn't want the food to get cold. That's y she puts it in dishing plates that don't conduct heat maybe??

I really wonder how she's with him. she should have noticed some traits while they courted or probably arranged marriage

About the tired of the marriage part, I thought so too or maybe he paid too much on her head and it's the only way to justify it.

All the same I just advised her in a way that it'll not cause more problems...

Timbuktou:
Are you better than any oyibo woman. Give instances in which you are superior so I can believe.

I'm not better and they ain't better.(period)

SmartMugu:
I never thought this would ever be an issue to any woman. OP, how were u raised? Did your mom dish out food for your dad? If she did, did she lose anything in the process? If she didnt, how is it a big deal for you? It all depends on how you were raised. Most likely, people like you would prefer if he actually did the cooking for u.
My wife is American and she has done that for the past 10 years we've been together. How is it a big deal for a Nigerian woman where the culture still thrives?

In other words, if oyibos have no problem doing do it why SHOULD the Nigerian girls. I have no problem with your opinion but the comparison makes it look like "una no even be oyibo and una dey form" like they're better off or something. I might have interpreted wrong but...

Truth be told, some blacks will always be slaves to white men...

Jahblessme:
Everyone's home is different.
If a woman feels like its just not her cup of tea to dish out food,it's who she is.Does that make her a bad person?NO.Does that make her home less happy than yours? No.
If the man grew up in a home where his mother dished the food and gazed adoringly at her husband while he ate every morsel,it's understandable that he'd expect to see the same replicated in his home.
If 2 people like this jam whats the solution? They must meet mid way or resentment will build up.
I'd be offended if i'm told 'I wont eat because service is not complete'..wtf? Some other person would laugh it off.I'm not also one to be bothered if food is rejected...I grew up seeing my dad doing this very often so i became immune to it so if i was the wife in this situation declining to eat would be wasted on me.
In our home we eat together most times,sometimes he dishes for me sometimes i dish for him..Depends on what's happening.I may just not be in the mood to fix anything and he takes over.Does it make his blokos shrivel?NO.Does it make me grow a blokos?NO.Point is we are serving each other happily.

Forcing someone to do something makes the person more resistant and resentful.We shouldn't force our expectations on others.That your father or ancestor did it doesn't mean your partner will want to do it.Happiness of a home is dependent on compromise and every member feeling included.
The fact that someone may view this as a form of slavery is up to that person affected,after all everyone comes from a different place and from different standards.If Ms A feels she's too busy to dish food or sit around chatting,i don't know her situation so cannot judge. However,meal times are a good time for a family to bond. If she feels she has to provide 'service' by forcefully dishing the food and waiting on him hand and food while he eats,its easy to see how she won't want to spend extra time in his company.. If such an act does not come from a loving place,its useless.

I grew up watching my dad served hand and foot in this kind of manner,it was a chore to my mother. Ofcourse I resented such an act and knew I wouldn't be forced into doing such a thing.However,I went and married a man who is so chilled and didn't make a big deal of serve me and watch me eat.It just flowed for us cos I know he'd do same for me and the kids without batting an eyelid.

Different strokes different folks.If a man lovingly leads by example,or kindly shows what he likes, his wife will turn into certified mugu for him.
Simple as ABC

Oh my goodness!!! This comment literally made my day. Couldn't have said it any better.

Even my father as old and as traditional as he is takes a dishing spoon, scoops his meal into his plate and eats it.

Chai! I think the problem is from his upbringing. He's either a brat or he's just looking for a way to be the grinch(thief of joy).

Serve him to avoid trouble. By trouble I don't mean cheating coz he who wants to cheat will cheat even if you are his slave. Trouble here refers to unhappiness and friction between the two of you.

Try to talk him into dishing his own food in a kind way. Attacking him will not work.

greatiyk4u:
U gat a beautiful name....I checked ur profile 2 see if ur pix will confirm it but was slightly disappointed

I was slightly appointed when I checked your own profile...