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Miami11:
When did men start picking maids, end time husband

What would be his reason for him not wanting an elderly maid, why can't he make breakfast himself for the kids, some of this bushmen husband masquerades smh,

I only hire elderly women in my house, no young maids for hubby to abuse and impregnate, ( that hubby probably has hidden agenda)

How should she live her job, will he provide all the household needs, I thought the more income in the family the better

The wife is right

When I read this, the bold came to mind...

sickstars:
he doesnt kno anytin
cosmetic sales ke I hardly apply make up

If my husband gives me 15million i rada own a school or a technology firm

Tech firm it is for me and that is my dream white collar job too.

sickstars:
Establishing a business is almost like settin d collar job of ur dreams

You establish a business that suits u

I think the op would rather the woman set up a trade like cosmetic sales or something... you know, so she can have time for the home. He's forgetting that a some people can turn 15m to 150m or more, build a firm/company and be more busy than the average 9-5 woman.

If I use the money to set up the white collar job of my dreams nko

EgunMogaji:
Some actually do.

How many times have we read "just found out that my wife is doing runs or used to do runs" on here.

Google "numerous"...

I'd take clarity on my next career move. I mean, when the money starts rolling in, I can buy as many food processors, get a gym membership and all that other stuff.

Husband well... I believe that one just happens or not so...

"Make him end the affair"

You're mistaking the real world for lala land obviously.

If sin stops God from listening to us then it means He won't even forgive us when we ask forgiveness coz He's obviously not listening? Then we all are doomed then unless you are catholic and you go to confess your sin to a priest who will also commit sin at some point too?

I'm still open to learning but I think you're mistaking Judaism for Christianity.

The only reason I found in the new testament for unanswered prayers is not asking right and not having the right intentions for asking.

All I know is, as you're there wishing someone's mother dead, someone is also wishing yours dead.

Abi you no get brother or even father

I sooooo love this...


Truth is, it doesn't matter how long you date or court in the name of "preparing" for marriage, you can never be prepared. That's the reason you can graduate from relationship school but school of marriage? the only option is to drop out(divorce or death).

jadelyn007:
smh for you, stop acting like a fool. If you don't have any reasonable advice to give then shut up and learn quietly!

Blood of J! This early Sunday morning?


Happy Sunday to you too...

CaroLyner:
yes.. all mines

All "mines"? I see what you did there...(if you did it on purpose).

lonelydora:
Thye should continue to eat yam with dasuki and we will be collecting our own share with entrepreneurship. Keep making us proud Obi my brother.

So... even the first paragraph, you did not read

Btw, this is nice... I think.

Just destroy the battery...

Btw... this is hands down the most romantic thread of the year.

Have you asked for the password or you just rushed to come and whine

Acidosis:
This una marriage na wa


So your wife cannot stay a month or 2 without s e x? What if something comes up later in the future? Something like: travel, job, 'illness'?

Na only the wife wife you see ba?

I guess there's no "one size fits all" in such situations.

I've learned a lot from this thread.

Cutehector:
jeed am not gona explain myself ova and ova again.... Hw many times will i say this... The guy in question may be someone yu knw very well... Am not talkn abt a first date! And hey, if u were my sister, its ur life, not mine!

So lemme guess, you don't give anyone advise?

lifeisabitch:
then you lie and become a liar just because of sex? Is lying not a sin, don't u people fear God?
Smh

Ok... this got me laughing...

It's only lying that's the sin here? Chai...

lepasharon:
I am a non-virgin so what ?

So what? Is, you don't get to say what is overrated and what isn't.

Life is about individual choices. You don't get to choose your own path and at the same time say that the other path is overrated. You can only "rate" the path you're on...

#justsaying.

misspicy:
God bless we the Virgins for our reward is in heaven




#teamvirgintillimarry

Coulda sworn I saw this moniker talking about "doing it" on another thread...

Maybe she was talking of pounding yam or something...

As a good girl, your life is almost boring then, you'll now date a good guy who's life is almost boring again? Haba! Where's the fun in that

Disclaimer: this post or poster is and will not be responsible for your ill choices...

Cutehector:
i just the nigerian mentality of dates is so so whack! Its not bad for a guy to ask for a date at his place for christ sake!

Ha! In this day and age? I hope if I'm your sis you'll tell me to go meet up with a stranger in his home??

Those wack dates are meant to build a little familiarity and trust.

Easy for you guys to say because you can't be over powered, drugged and raped.

misspicy:
[size=19pt]oga Ade even if she gives him monkey in the moon shadow,cook all the delicacies in heaven and on earth....some men will still cheat,am not speaking for speaking sake,I have seen alot of pratical examples around me

i want you to see my replies boldly [/size]

Monkey in the what now?

umehmj:
i want you to see the bigger picture but you are narrowing it down to the guys. cheating is here to stay. don't try to understand it; learn to live with it.

again, don't say men cheat more than women if you don't have the data to prove it. both men and women cheat but men's case is more complicated. i will explain why. women are emotional while men are logical. a man can sleep with a woman with no attachment but women need to bond before they mate. what this means is a guy that cheats is likely going to be caught because his the woman he cheats with will likely not keep it on the low. but the women - a woman can sleep with a guy that is not her man and when the guy sees her with her man, he won't raise a dust cos he doesn't care so long he gets his share of the booty. so its more difficult to burst the women than it is to catch the guys

I believe you... all the oloshos and sluts "bond" with their numerous partners.

Preach!

If it's a marriage, by all means check. I mean, what's mine is yours.

If not? Just try snoop through your own phone. Respect my privacy n I'll do same.

Truckpusher:
You can deceive the people around you but you can't deceive yourself even while at it , the truth is as clear as a crystal.

You don't go for peniss enlargement to satisfy your woman as a man if you're ok with what you got.
Women in their quest to be acceptable because they have a negative competitive spirit would resort to fake hair, fake breasst, fake lips , fake eyes , fake skin color , fake ass and this is why they end up with fake guys too.

Deceive myself? And people too? Lol. I really don't know the real reasons behind all the enhancements but I try to use myself as an example when making assumptions.

Now if there's any plastic surgery I might want it's cheek implants and my reason might be really flimsy but it can never be to be acceptable to a man. I use makeup, lipstick majorly because I like the way it looks and so on.

For you to just assume that every woman out there is on a mission to please men is (in the most respectful terms) warped reasoning.

Who is to say they're doing it for men So everything a woman does is to make herself appealing to a man?

That's just absurd and warped reasoning.

Jennystyle:
Love is Love, as long as you're happy it doesn't matter who you fall in love with. Am a strong gay activist, no freedom till were equal. Stop with the hate, bullying, homophobic attitude towards Gays and lesbians, towards transgender, I want a Nigeria and Africa nation, when she will be able to marry the woman of her dreams, and he will be able to marry the man of his dream. I want Nigeria and Africa nation, that your son comes back from school and he says daddy there's this boy in school am in love with, and his dad will get to say when do I get to meet this awesome fellow that makes my son smiles. No hate towards lgbt, we're one created by one God, no homophobic hate. Let's show love and acceptance towards lgbt.

Don't hold your breath...

Santiago5:
my friend am not here to argue with u for failing to understand my take on this huh, it takes noti but wisdom to share reasons to others perspective. Ur point isn't odd either sighting it equally fine i got that buh i v my own view on that alright. The ladies gat pride and respect to keep...

You don't want to argue but you had to quote me to air your take When you're not the op in question?

No wahala... no be fight..

Santiago5:
lolz that's if it has to do with serious issues. Guys gat no problem with places but ladies do cos they gat so many pride and respect to protect

I don't care too much for the "lady pride" and what not.

As you point a finger at her three point back to you.

Just imagining someone thinking of me as without pride or self respect just because I went to a club. Ha! It's the 21st century yo...